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There are a lot of girls out there who are just in it for the validation. This is something very common in North America. She is basically a narcissistic girl who likes, well….likes on her Instagram and social media. She loves showing herself off, carefully selecting pictures. When in reality, she isn’t even that hot. She could be photogenic and suffer from narcissistic personality disorder if one of her parents genetically have it.

The first type of validation whore, the prettier enough type

No idea who she is, just an example of a random picture. I have no idea who she is. Usually, it is just a selfie, but a carefully crafted one. She only enables a certain amount of pictures in a less is more format. This girl is quite attractive and sort of my type. She has a very feminine personality. But she got a big fucking nose. She tends to wear a ton of makeup looking nothing like she does without it. She might look like a 8.5/10 in real life, but close to a 7 without makeup. Then a bunch of guys would like her post. She starts to feel validation from it. Hence the term validation whores. You have to watch out for these type of girls. They tend to be very flaky and won’t come out on dates. They are in it for the validation. Just by having a lot of likes, they don’t even need to go out on dates anymore. She just enjoys the ego or validation it gives her. These types of girls have very low self-esteem. They are rarely 9/10, but close to 8.5/10 or less. My point is she enjoys the validation but is flaky and won’t come out on a date with you. Unless you show excessive preselection or lifestyle in your social media. They are the type of girls who are dating others guys and has a lot of options to choose from. They often pick a guy who doesn’t give a shit about her, a psychopath much like her personality trait. He would be emotionally detached and will most likely cheat on her.

You only fit into three categories. For this type of girl. She tends to be shallow where you can be penalized by your race. She always pics someone who is her race or above, hypergamy style. Second, she will try to have you as an option on the back burner. You would try to contact you occasionally and never comes out when you make plans. She is just in it for the validation. Just give a short reply and if she doesn’t make plans, don’t even bother. Say you are busy and you will keep in touch. Sometimes all she wants is the validation. Nothing more, she just has low self-esteem and is a remorseless, no empathy, no self-esteem girl. She might be pretty, but she has no self-esteem whatsoever. The point is, if you act as an orbiter, she will put you in the gay best friend category so she can have you as an option. Girls like these don’t realize as they get older, they lose their looks, no guys like them anymore. If she doesn’t get married before her looks dry up. You want to know how a girl will turn out, just look at her mom. You see her future. Even when she gets older, she falls for you as she runs out of options. She will bang another guy and cheat on you. Or it’s likely because you are her man and you don’t turn her on.

Second type of validation whore, the ugly friend

For every hot girl on instagram who is a validation whore. She always has an ugly friend who thinks she is hot. I know that sounds like a paradox. But this type of girl is often delusional. They have masculine features and huge deformities like a hook eagle nose or squared jawline. She would often claim she is hot because the hotter friend will tell her so. She might also be extremely short and insist she is not adorable or whatever, but is hot. Of course, no guys think so. Of course, this is the most extreme example for this pic above. But you get the idea. Since her friend has way more likes on instagram than her. She keeps telling her friend she is hot, but in reality she isn’t. So she gets narcissistic too, then you say bitch plz, seriously? We are talking about a 6/10 level. A type of girl you wouldn’t want to be caught dead having as a girlfriend. A type of girl who demands you be in a relationship and she isn’t dtf otherwise. Even if she has no preselection whatsoever. Most of these girls are delusional, often are the dark triad, sociopaths, narcissistic and Machiavelli manipulators. They have no empathy and doesn’t act feminine. But extremely masculine. Her personality is just as bad or non-existent as the first girl. But in a bad way. She has personality issues that tend to repel guys away. Along with her lack of preselection.

Solution

1. Mostly the politically correct answer is to just avoid them and don’t waste your time unless you don’t mind being on the back burner. Just keep saying great hearing from you, keep in touch, over and over again. She just wants to know if you are still an orbiter. Unless she ask you to meet her, don’t bother. Even if you meet her, but your game isn’t tight, you would of fucked it up even though you knew her for years.
2. The politically incorrect answer is to call her out on text. First, you call her out, then you reverse the frame. It’s funny how you are playing hard to get, but you are losing points with me. I am with much hotter girls etc. I want to thank my friend for this field-tested advice. You know who you are. He field tested it, so it is a solid solution. Unethical, but she will eventually come out since you flip the script. You want to do this fast and get her out. Too much delays is game over. Remember, who has the strongest frame wins. It’s not just calling her out on her shit, or giving value offering text. But really reversing the entire frame where she has to chase you to keep you interested. Qualification is important in the game to make her chase. This takes practice, but you need a strong frame and no neediness whatsoever in your texting. Its not being butthurt. Being butthurt is just calling her out without actually getting her to qualify.
3. The other is DHV though your own Instagram. Fighting fire with fire. If your Instagram isn’t creepy but shows you are cool and have women, lifestyle, preselection. You can flip the script you are with other women hotter than her. That flips the preselection script and gets her to chase you. Of course, a bunch of selfies by yourself is a no, no. It is a demonstration of lower value. This might take time, but this is something you can strive for, a lifestyle game. I know every game style and I know how to do these stuff. I just don’t utilize it. I come from an old school pickup mentality. I like things harder and at nightmare difficulty. I’m used to it, but someday I will consider this type of game. But it is something you can look into. It makes a lot of sense and I’m sure one day this setup game or whatever it is called will be more popular.

But for now, I am still going to try to perfect the escalation ladder and squeeze every last drop of water out of the stone, or game. Deepak already approved of the brand new escalation ladder. It’s raining like crazy but the bootcamps will have to start soon eventually. Most are booked anyways. You might be able to train with me in March if you are lucky.

Regardless I hope this post enlightens you if you ever been in this situation. Also, it helps explain why it is happening. You’re stuck in a logical frame. Women are logical and emotional. You are dealing with the logical side of her brain. But, you ask yourself if a girl says I know what I deserve and all this nonsense. You ask, what does she bring to the table beside looks? Its not an easy question to answer is it? There is an entitlement that is created with social media. This makes daygame or pickup a lot harder. You have to compete against the validation she gets from instagram likes.

-John Wayne

 

 

 

 

 

This is something I noticed with some of my 3MP students and bootcamp students. When a student gets needy, he has a sexual vampire kind of vibe. They don’t connect well with women and only thinks about sex. She doesn’t feel a connection and often will flake on my students. This stems from mental illnesses sometimes. Or a real lack of emotional depth. They really aren’t in touch with their emotions.

Personally, I am not needy. I already banged 9/10 and 8.5/10 and women way taller than 6’0 tall, like 6’2 is the highest. I really am not that needy. I really don’t give a fuck anymore. I don’t even know how to top myself anymore. Hell I even banged girls who are younger too than what most PUA coaches can ever get. I do look young already. I have accomplished quite a lot already. I’m okay, I don’t care anymore.

However, for some of my students, they do feel like they are needy. Usually, you can tell in their text game. Their sexual vampire nature.

It’s really a paradox. For me I don’t put women on the pedastal unlike other local dating coaches. I literally treat women as if they are trash. You know the saying, men are trash? Seems like a lot of men shaming lately. I really think women haven’t created anything in society that is good besides babies. Also, there seems to be a lot of entitlement. Women has an instagram where a 6.5/10 feels like a 10/10 due to her friends giving compliments to her. Now she feels her ego inflated. This is part of the reason why daygame becomes harder as women gets more and more value. This whole me too movement, well, if they keep abusing it, then there will be a backlash. MGTOW (angry virgins) with their sex robots or waiting for it. Lol, you guys are fucking weird. Regardless, men are made to feel they are trash.

My mentality is the opposite, she is 6’2. Or is 9/10, or a model. Who gives a shit. I don’t go around putting women on the pedastal. Like Jan Lifestyle and his HB 7.9/10 GF or other white women. I don’t say, an Asian guy hitting on a white girl, must be weird. Of course, you might be calling out the elephant in the room. But if a nerdy Asian guy tried to do that without looks or muscles, height. It would end in a disaster. Deepak and I think unless the girl is sucking our dick, she has no value to us. We don’t compliment or give any validation like I love Russian girls, cool, cool, cool, cool, cool. How can we give validation or value away when we are a 5’7 Chinese guy and an unattractive East Indian guy. So we have no choice but not to put women on the pedestal.

Not putting women on a pedastal, doesn’t mean like white dating coaches not giving a shit what the girl thinks and thinking they are the most important in the relationship mentality. These guys are so beta, they have no balls, they want to retain some balls or feel like they have some. Even an alpha male has a tender side outside of the dominance.

We all have women we hate. Whether fatties, or for me Asian women.

This does absolutely nothing for me.

Not this either, I feel nothing. I hope these two are not the same girls. I can’t tell Asian girls apart. They all look the same to me to be honest.i I feel dead on the inside, I feel nothing.

Identify what you dislike

I did had an Asian fuck buddy before from daygame. I was attracted to only one Asian girl. I didn’t know why, but the rest are dumb as white privledged worshipping hypergamy whores. I just wanted to bang one I was attracted to just to see what it feels like. But of course I’m still attracted to that one Asian girl still. I admit I told her to fuck off when she tried to make me into a boyfriend. I mean, i’m sure we will will get tired of bad breath and hairy pussies with beige skin once in a while. I’m glad I told her to fuck off because I had some epic lays that you see in infields. Having said that the solution is to identify what you dislike. I dislike Asian girls. Most of them will come up to me walking in Metrotown with a bragging voice around me with their creepy tall white boyfriend. Maybe because I’m a well dressed Asian. Whom she told the creepy tall white guy that she hates all Asian guys and we are all ugly to her or something. I just say white privilege out loud to neg them both. None has ever fought back because that guy is so beta.

So now you know what you dislike, whether fat girls or in my case Asian girls. Have you ever noticed that if you like a girl a lot, you have needy behaviors that repels her. But you always have girls that likes you but they are below your looks scale. When you treat her like shit, she gets even more attracted. Luckily my game grants me access to women way hotter than my looks scale. I know how to create conversions from same day lays.

Solution

The solution is very simple. Treat the girl that is better looking as if you treat the lesser attractive girl. Treat the girl who is unattractive like the attractive girl to repel her. Problem solved. So I treat Asian girls like shit. Even if some gawks at me on the skytrain, I have nothing but indifference and disgust. I get pretty Korean girls staring at me all the time hoping I will approach them. Nope, i’m John Wayne, tell them to go fuck themselves, i’m too good for them. I don’t even approach them because they are socially retarded. But however treat the hot white girl the same way. A lot of my 3MP student treats the hot girls as an angel. I treat her like she is sub human. Of course you talk about equality and shit. I’m not here to get in politics. I am only saying women actually likes a guy who doesn’t put them on the pedestal. They find it needy. So for your mindset, do the opposite. Then for once, you will start to get hotter women. Too bad Jan Lifestyle can’t do this without giving endless compliments. His daygame is so weak, getting girls half his looks scale and censoring their faces in daygame. Or uncensoring if she is decent looking. He can only get what you call hot enough from night game. He does claim he treats all women the same regardless of scale. No wonder he gets his equal. If his girlfriend is HB 7.9/10, he is 8.5/10, he is still above her. I do something different, I don’t treat all women the same. I treat them like shit. The hotter she is, the shittier I treat her and she loves it. You stand out from other light weight PUA guys. Female psychology in a nutshell. Also, if you don’t listen to my advice, I bet your text game is needy. It shows, its an abstract concept that women can read into.

People might say wow she is a 10. I think she is a 8.4/10 at best. She is too old, I’d rather bang her 18 year old sister. Who is skinnier, hotter and more fresh faced. If I had a nickle for how many times I banged a 18 year old girl. But I won’t put them on the pedastal either. That’s why they like me. Well, you get a glimpse into my mindset. So stop uptalking, rapport seeking like a bitch. No wonder Asians can’t do daygame. They are too easily impressed by white women. I’m not. I like any women regardless of race, except Asians. I know what I said is negative sounding. But I have banged hotter women than you. It works. So who cares what you think. Maybe try to adopt a bit of my mindset. Sometimes a behavior is attractive too. The way you behave to women. You will find it works super well. I’m all about results and student results. Transferability. I do what works. I’m sorry I don’t have a sugar coated half truth RSD politically correct version for a solution. Everything I do works. Watch Jan Lifestyle steal this concept and try to apply it. He will take notes, don’t treat all women the same. Treat the hotter ones like the girls you don’t find attractive. Lol, my camera man told me not to give too much advice or Jan will steal it and apply it. My second camera man hang out with me later in the night. It is his last day here. He filmed a few same day lays. He called one of the girls 9.5/10. I think she was a 9/10. I don’t know, who cares. I am not easily impressed. The whole industry is infactuated with banging 7/10. Not sure what you guys see in that. Quantity vs quality I guess. I’d rather bang nothing but 8+ or that area, then a ton of 6/10. I wouldn’t feel satisfied. Just because a girl is 8+ and higher doesn’t mean I will treat her good at all. That gets her wet. I always have ugly girls who says, well with that attitude you wouldn’t get girls. She doesn’t know I banged girls like 3 points above her or more. Ugly women has ugly personalities. I hope you gained some insight into my mindset. People might say I am an asshole. But i’m happy because I can say whatever I want on my blog. I have no fear of saying it. I feel more free.

 

Deepak Wayne also made a video just now. He talks about masculinity too. He gives tips to white guys who are getting cucked by their own women. Or other white guys.

As an Asian, the odds are so stacked against you, you know even our Asian women, the majority are going for white guys. You are too passive and too beta. I even assume Asian women automatically likes white guys if they don’t look in my direction. I’m just saying, I am onto something big here. I don’t behave like you. I don’t think like you, its why I am better with women than you. Learn from it, start adapting to it. Be dominant, be a man again. I hate the term toxic masculinity or whatever. But be masculine again. The more masculine you are the more feminine she will be. If you act feminine, she takes the lead and acts more masculine. The polarity is off. So she steers the interaction. In most cases if not all, women can’t lead an interaction in dating. Except into the ground every single time. So lead and start acting like a man again. Don’t feel ashamed because there is no other way to get her wet. She will dry up. I am watching this video, the concepts are extremely powerful. He is giving a gold bar away not a gold coin.

-John Wayne