Namaste.
The biggest reason Indian guys in the West quit daygame right when they’re about to succeed isn’t approach anxiety.
It’s having an arranged marriage waiting for them as Plan B.
So burn the boats behind you and focus only on daygame instead in the West.
They’re about to get their dicks wet, and they start to half-ass it, cock-blocking themselves.
Or, in other words, they start to self-sabotage for no reason at all.
You always gotta get rid of your Plan B.
So you should never have a backup plan if you genuinely wanna succeed in daygame and choose your own partner… a white girl.
But as I was saying, they just don’t actually marry Indian women, and I think that’s a good thing because you wanna have some genetic diversity in the future.
That’s always good because you don’t want to have the same type of genes all the time.
But they want to maintain a better image in front of their friends and family.
Your parents are always like…
“Oh, what would other people think about us if you don’t get married?”
“Oh my God, what would they think about us? They’ll judge us.”
Do you think it’s easier just to give up and let your parents choose your partner?
It’s like…
“Oh, beta, your mother and I have chosen a bunch of women for you. You can choose from this group of women and decide which one you like the most and which one you’re compatible with.”
And every single fucking day they’ll be on the phone…
“Hey, beta, why are you not married yet? Have you found a wife?”
It’s like, fuck. Every single day, that’s what you hear.
What I’m gonna share with you are three secrets today that are gonna revolutionize the way you think about appeasing your Indian parents.
The second thing I’ll talk about is that you should not care about your controlling parents’ narcissistic image or social standing among their groups.
You shouldn’t care about that, and I’ll talk about why.
I’ll explain why genetic diversity is important… not to pass on more of this Indian-washed mindset of narcissism.
Because in order for you to be a pickup artist, a daygamer, you need to have the genes of a daygamer. The DNA of one.
A bit of Cluster B personality.
One or both of your parents might have these traits.
They have the narcissism.
They have the histrionic show-off behavior, where they care about their image.
They have the borderline-triggered behavior.
They have the antisocial traits.
Okay? It’s genetics.
If you assimilate and become more whitewashed, that’s how you’ll get white girls.
My Indian students have gotten more Indian women laid… they don’t know what they’re talking about.
You don’t wanna have that sort of mindset.
So you need to realize that appeasing controlling, Dark Tetrad parents who are narcissistic and controlling does not necessarily create a happier future.
You can end up repeating the same patterns of control and pressure in the next generation, especially if you’re going to pass on the same severe ADHD.
I’m John Elite.
I’m the world’s best daygame coach who still gets students laid in 2026, unlike other daygame coaches in the Game Global platform scammer network who just post recycled old shit over and over.
Call off all arranged marriage talk from your brain.
You’re doing my daygame and training, right?
When you’re doing that, there is no backup plan.
You have to burn all the boats behind you and march forward.
And you should choose who you wanna marry in the future.
Your parents should not be the ones choosing.
However, you still need to assimilate because all the Indian men who’ve gotten married to white women in North America are wearing blazers and stuff.
Every single one of them has a whitewashed hairstyle.
Every single one of those Indian guys talks like a white guy.
My Pakistani mentor says…
“John, one of my secret magic tricks… I have dark skin and stuff, yes, of course. But whenever I start speaking like this…”
He demonstrates a whitewashed speaking style.
“…my skin color disappears. It’s like a magic trick.”
Narcissistic parents do not treat you like a human being.
They treat you like an object… something to send them money and something to control.
So you’re in their control grid.
Just like some Chinese parents, you’re their future retirement plan.
They want money, and when they get older, they want you to take care of them.
This is all part of a narcissistic control grid.
I can’t make this shit up.
But that’s control, right?
They’re putting you in a cage like a lion, and then they’re saying…
“This is what you’re supposed to do.”
And you feel like you can be on your own, but they’re like…
“Nope, you gotta get back in the cage. We’re gonna give you a little bit of food here.”
The reason why you’re always stuck and too Indian-washed, bench-holding, is because you have a fucking Plan B.
The Plan B is leeching all the motivation away from Plan A.
That’s the wrong mindset.
That’s the wrong mindset.
Seriously.
But again, I don’t believe there’s Indian hate.
I only believe there is xenophobia.
When he started approaching women in Australia, they started running away, saying…
“Get away from me.”
You’re like, “What the fuck?”
White women were literally saying, “Get away from me.”
Then he got the right fashion… the right dress shirt, the right blazer, everything.
The right pants, the right shoes.
He got zero rejections.
They could not stop talking to him.
But that’s the wrong mindset.
That’s absolutely the wrong mindset.
Because if you have this mindset, you’re always gonna be stuck.
You cannot…
The best Indian students are the ones with the most resilience.
They all have some type of ADHD, at least among my students, but the more resilient ones will get better results.
They’re the ones who show up.
So you should stop worshipping Indian dating coaches as your only option, assuming that everything comes down to game.
That’s why you’re gonna get stuck.
So focus on the few, not the many.
Laser-beam focus and absolute 1,000% total commitment, with a willingness to make personal sacrifices.
I don’t believe in Plan B because if you have a Plan B, you’ll use it.
Okay?
You really cannot have a Plan B.
If Plan B becomes Plan A, you’re fucked.
Do not go for Plan B.
It’s the worst fucking thing you can do.
It’s like setting yourself up for failure.
You need to burn the boats behind you so you cannot escape, and then you fight forward.
But now, as AI is taking over jobs, I know because some of my Indian students, believe it or not, work for Amazon’s AI division.
They program Alexa and stuff, and then they’re fucking fired afterwards.
They program the program, and they still lose their fucking jobs.
But my point is that this mindset is the wrong mindset, because you need to burn those boats behind you and ditch any backup plans that are dragging you away from your goals.
You cannot let the narcissistic control grid stop you.
But I’m just talking about some of these students.
When they’re so close, digging sideways, and the gold is right over here, they dig and dig…
Then they just fucking turn around.
Sometimes it’s all about the fear of disappointing their parents.
And look, I love helping my Indian students find success, get them laid, and also get them girlfriends, engaged, married, and having children.
But somebody’s gotta say this shit.
It’s really important that you gotta say…
“Fuck arranged marriages.”
It’s not good for you.
There’s no such thing as women not liking you because of your Indian accent.
If you dress whitewashed, they can’t even tell that you’re Indian.
If you’re whitewashed, they don’t know where the accent comes from because they cannot place it into a negative stereotype.
Look at Kash Patel.
Look at other Indians who are married in North America.
All of them are whitewashed.
All of them dress whitewashed.
They have a blazer, good hair, and they talk like a white man.
They’ll all marry a white girl.
Look, I love helping my Indian students succeed, but somebody needed to say some of these things.
These are the stories you see.
A lack of focus is your undoing, and so is giving up so easily because you have a backup plan.
Because backup plans, like Dan Pena says, Plan B, Plan C, and Plan D become Plan A every single time.
She’s Ukrainian.
She’s probably going to school or university in Vancouver.
Okay?
So he approached her, and everything went well.
She liked him a lot.
She liked him so much more than he liked her.
She was totally into him, which was very surprising, especially considering he was Indian.
But guess what?
He ended up going back to an Indian woman instead afterwards.
I was like, “What the fuck?”
I was like, “Why her?”
It’s like, “Oh, because of your parents.”
He would rather focus on Indian women or something.
I was like, “Dude, this Megan Fox-looking woman wants to bang you and marry you because you’re an engineer. You program fucking Alexa AI. You helped create that program. What the fuck?”
Most women cannot place a stereotype unless you dress and talk like the stereotype.
He missed a real opportunity because if they were still together, that Ukrainian woman and him, and they were in a long-term relationship, then one day, if he wanted to get married, their kids would have better genetic diversity… rather than repeating narcissistic patterns and a lack of tenacity.
Tenacity means going for the knockout and finishing the fight.
He didn’t finish it.
Yes, all Indian students will stonewall like that if they don’t get their way.
But this guy has taken Israeli Krav Maga, the IDF version, just like me.
I’m taking that right now.
Before that, I was taking a civilian version.
We both learned the Israeli military version of Krav Maga, so we have very similar fighting skills.
And when it comes to stonewalling, people always say…
“Not all stonewallers are sociopaths.”
I’m not calling him a sociopath.
I’m just saying that all sociopaths are stonewallers.
If you don’t believe me, I can always look at Google Gemini.
Is this statement true?
Stonewalling is sometimes used as a calculated power move, punishment, or mind game to make the other person feel worthless or anxious.
When someone stonewalls while simultaneously displaying indifference, a lack of remorse, or smug contempt towards a partner’s emotional pain, it can point to deeper personality pathology.
You shouldn’t prioritize your controlling parents’ image or social status over your future.
Seriously.
It’s wild because in some families you’re not just their kid.
They also see you as their ticket to retirement, especially some Asian parents.
If you want to be happy, you can’t let your Indian parents call all the shots.
You should be the one in control.
I’m telling him that one day he might have kids.
One day he’s gonna have kids, and they’re not gonna be entirely Indian anymore.
Get the fucking thing done.
You know what?
Indian guys can be like that.
They’ll procrastinate so much that they’ll be late to their own funeral.
Seriously.
This guy procrastinates that much.
But the system is gonna fail you if you’re stuck in your narcissistic parents’ control grid.
They’re gonna put you in an arranged marriage.
You’re gonna send money back home.
You’re gonna be completely controlled.
That’s the wrong mindset.
If Indians could get women from other ethnicities, they might not even go for Indian women.
But anyways, I was saying, it’s a win-win situation.
You get better genetic diversity for your family in the future.
Plus, if you come from a family background where there’s been controlling behavior, it gives you a chance to break that cycle.
You can create a family environment that’s different from what you’ve experienced.
So I have a lot of Indian students who’ve gotten laid and married too.
I actually know this topic.
It’s not like I’m just talking out my asshole and Googling these things.
I know these things because I teach Indian students.
I get so many of them laid.
It’s ridiculous.
“I got married on November ninth, and I’m happily married. I’ve been dating my wife for two years. I use a lot of the techniques that John has taught me, like the confidence stuff and how to deal with women. That was helpful in continuing to date my wife and getting a second and third date, and eventually getting into a relationship with her.”
“He eliminated all the BS advice out in the dating game for tall, good-looking white guys, rather than guys like himself.”
“Yeah, he lost his virginity through daygame and started doing more social-circle game too.”
“I am not white. I am bald. I stutter. John tailored that advice to guys like me.”
“And the important thing is to do what he says and trust the process. You will get there.”
“I’m Indian, I’m 5’4″, and I keep my hair shaved because I’m balding. Yet with John’s help, I’ve had two lays and nine total dates alone. One of those lays was a girl I met while actively daygaming. Because of my genetics and my race, at one point I thought I would never have any serious success.”
What I’m saying is, fuck arranged marriages.
You don’t need arranged marriages to get married.
Be like my students.
Go for other ethnicities.
Be whitewashed.
Assimilate.
Don’t be like…
“Oh, I don’t wanna assimilate. It’s Indian domination or Indian supremacy. You’re better than everyone.”
You’re like…
“You’re 35 years old right now, but you’re not married. You’re making us very unhappy, and you’re hurting our image among your uncles and aunts. You’re the only one that’s not married. How about this? Let me pick a couple of women for you so you can marry one of them.”
But fuck arranged marriages.
If you have even 1% of your mind thinking…
“Oh, I have this arranged marriage option in mind. That could happen later.”
You’re fucked.
Forget about daygame.
You’re not gonna be motivated.
That should be Plan A.
You either get this shit done, or you don’t.
You don’t have a Plan B that replaces Plan A, like Dan Pena said earlier in that video.
There is no fucking Plan B.
Do daygame.
Fuck everything else.
Does that make sense?
I’m the world’s best daygame coach.
I get students laid in 2026 tariff years.
Fuck the earlier years.
Stop looking at old shit that’s being recycled over and over again, then recycled again, and then just recut and recycled.
You keep falling for it.
It’s like other Indian dating coaches and their Game Global platform scamming network.
It’s an infinite money-printing glitch.
But you can’t procrastinate so much that you’ll be late to your own funeral.
That’s the kind of procrastination I’m talking about.
You don’t need $8,000 boot camps or bhenchod camps.
You have to invest in yourself rather than being cheap and trying to do everything yourself like a self-proclaimed expert who has no idea what the fuck he’s talking about.
Never have a fucking Plan B.
Fuck arranged marriages.
Sometimes students will stonewall just when they’re about to make major progress because they still have the option of an arranged marriage.
I think it’s better to choose who you wanna marry.
Fuck arranged marriages.
The worst thing in the world is to be part of an arranged marriage.
You should never, ever be part of an arranged marriage.
My Indian students get Indian love when they’re dressed whitewashed, not Indian hate.
Do not get into an arranged marriage.
But it’s like…
“John, what if you can’t do daygame?”
No.
Just burn the boats behind you.
Really, burn the boats behind you.
Do daygame.
Do it properly.
What I’m saying is, join my coaching.
But you cannot come here, be a bad student, procrastinate, disappear, and expect to get laid like my other students.
They showed up.
They did their homework.
If you want to stop bhenchoding… join Elite Bundle Resurrections.
Sorry nobody from India can join, just if you live outside of India, if you are Indian.
-John Elite
P.S, hope you enjoyed the recut video.
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