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Why age is not the real barrier. He is 48 years old and still got laid for daygame with my coaching.

A lot of people think that if you are older, it is automatically harder.

But even younger people are not getting laid right now.

I went over to Reddit just to see what people were talking about.

Only one younger person got laid twice.

Nobody else was getting laid.

Yet my student is 48 years old and still got laid during the inflation.

He was also divorced.

In fact, the divorce actually raised his results because he was separated from his wife and he is a father.

He improved because he was totally immersed in the coaching.

He went through all my courses over and over.

Even though he did not do the drills very well.

Usually overweight men do not do drills very well when they are full of cortisol and carrying a lot of stress.

This guy is over 350 pounds.

But once he could pull, he could get laid.

Who did he get laid with.

He met a woman and then realized she was actually his wife’s best friend.

He still pulled her back home.

He had sex with her.

The crazy part is what happened after that.

His wife later became his fuck buddy.

I know that sounds unlikely.

But she really did start respecting him again.

They still co-parented the family.

But now he had a fuck buddy and another lay on the side.

What more can you ask for when you are older, desperate for results, and actually follow through with the instructions.

This is unlike the bad students.

They do not have the memory.

They do not compress the material.

They procrastinate.

They cannot adapt.

If you do not have those three traits, it is game over.

You are a loser.

But this is a guy who can still win.

Yes, he is white.

So in terms of perceived natural status, that gives him 10 out of 10.

But in terms of looks, he is more like 2 out of 10.

So come on now.

The reason he got laid was because his memory allowed him to adapt.

Even though he was not good at the drills.

He remembered everything.

And because he remembered it, he was able to apply it.

FOR BEGINNERS WHO HAS NO IDEA WHAT TO DO. OR NEVER GOT A DATE.

Why your memory is important and gets you laid.

When you go through a tariff, now it is like tariff 2.0.

The cortisol stress will wipe out your memory.

For some people, it affects them by receding their hairline.

For others, they get a double chin.

For others, they lose muscle mass.

And the worst type is when you lose your memory.

It does not matter how hard you try to do your homework assignments or the drills if you forget everything and go back to the starting line.

When you are the starting line type and you forget what I said in 20 minutes because your hippocampus has physically shrunk from cortisol, your short term memory never becomes long term memory.

It is like having a bunch of browser tabs open in your RAM but nothing gets saved to your hard drive.

Except we are talking about your brain.

That is why his memory mattered so much.

Because he remembered every single thing I taught in the course, he was able to get results.

Who is to say he did not go through a lot of cortisol himself.

He is over 350 pounds anyway, probably even more.

He probably has a triple chin.

He is losing his hair too, which you can see, and that is another cortisol effect.

He has all the signs.

But the difference is that he still remembered what I taught and he was able to adapt.

That is why he got laid and you did not.

You have to understand winner and loser effect.

The more you win, the more testosterone you get.

The more you lose, the more cortisol you get.

That is your body punishing you hormonally.

There are supplements you can take to reduce some of these effects.

But most people do not even understand what the real issue is.

They think maybe they just did not know how to escalate.

Or maybe they think they just do not know what to say.

Or maybe they think they just need more numbers.

Or maybe they just feel like a loser.

But it is very important that you do the drills.

You are supposed to build muscle memory.

If you do not build muscle memory, that is why you have to listen to every video six times.

If you do not do it, you are going to forget.

And when you forget everything, you start to look like a zombie.

I know you do not want to hear that.

And I know people get offended very easily now.

This is the snowflake syndrome that has been happening more recently.

You offend them once and they stop listening, especially when they are so deregulated from tariff 2.0.

That is what people are facing right now.

They are living quiet lives of desperation.

Yet I have the solution and they still do not like me.

And yet I have the receipts to back it up with student results.

Every other day game coach can brag all they want about how great they are.

But when was the last time you saw a real video testimonial from their bootcamp stuff in the last few years.

You have not.

FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE AUTISTIC WHO CAN’T READ SOCIAL CUES.

Why the second generation of daygame coaches has failed you.

I actually started in 2001.

So technically I am part of generation one.

Back then there was the layguide.

They called it a news group.

There was no such thing as forums yet.

It was the very first pickup guide.

I used it in university.

Even though it was a nightgame guide, I used it for daygame because I did not know what nightgame even was.

Obviously it did not work for me at all.

That first generation was full of NLP type shit.

Then came the second generation.

These were the great marketers with almost no proof.

They talked a very good game.

They sounded impressive on paper.

These are people like David DeAngelo.

People like Corey Wayne.

People like Mehow.

There are many systems like this that started showing up.

They are really good copywriters and marketers.

It sounds like it works.

It sounds logical.

It sounds like the answer.

But there is only a minimal amount of proof.

A lot of pickup artists started with this generation.

I know all of this stuff very well because I field tested every one of these systems.

I have been doing daygame for a very long time.

I tried every system for at least two months each.

Most of them are not very effective.

Only my system has produced 675 laid and pulled testimonials for coaching.

I literally have more than every daygame coach in the world combined.

Every single one of them.

They talk tough.

They talk like they are such great coaches.

But I think many of them are stupid autistic people who used to be engineers with some kind of Asperger syndrome.

They do not get what I am trying to teach them.

What I teach comes from naturals.

The naturals all had perfect social skills.

They had perfect body language.

Their emotional control was very good.

Not just emotional impact, which the zombie coaches do not understand.

I am trying to teach you these things.

Yet you keep falling for all this stuff that sounds good because it is written in a book.

These are authors.

These are not real dating coaches.

That is exactly what people like Corey Wayne and David DeAngelo are.

They are theory people.

There are so many people with good theories that are just not effective for daygame.

Generation two coaches are the worst.

What I teach is from the naturals.

That is why my system is going to continue to work.

But I do need more students.

I do not think the smear campaign was the main thing that hurt my business.

I am sure it turned some people off.

But I do not think that was the main objection.

I think most people do not realize that their nervous system is deregulated.

They are under so much stress in fight, flight, or freeze that they are turning women off.

In the past they could still get laid.

Now they cannot.

A lot of guys do not even know how to escalate women.

They keep asking how do you escalate her.

How do you move things forward.

But they do not know how to maneuver, sexualize, and deal with sexual objections while backfilling with flirts.

That kind of stuff is in Elite Bundle Resurrections.

Some of them do not even know how to make their first approach.

They are total losers.

That is what Elite Daygame First Steps is for.

Now I am going to update that sales letter.

It is going to be five videos for five dollars.

The booklet will be the bonus.

Elite 30 is good for the autistic guys.

There are so many people recently diagnosed with autism.

They are socially uncalibrated.

They cannot read social cues.

That also makes Elite 30 good for them.

Inner Circle Basics is perfect for beginners.

There are so many beginners out there who do not even know that they are beginners.

You do not know what you do not know.

That is the whole problem.

You think it is a numbers game.

You keep failing.

You do not know how to escalate.

You cannot even get your first date.

That is exactly who Inner Circle Basics is for.

I already have the solutions here.

You just have to stop being so fucking cheap.

Invest in yourself.

Have some self esteem.

Do not treat this like an expense the way poor people with low self esteem do.

Treat this like an investment in yourself.

Unless you try new ideas and do them properly, you are going to keep getting the same results.

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.

I get it.

There is a big war right now and tariff 2.0.

Everybody is scared and deregulated.

But I am still mentally here.

I just need to build an army that can get laid.

When I introduce these other Inner Circle Basics courses, this is not some kind of grift.

This is a long term play.

If I can get most people into Inner Circle Basics, then they can graduate to Elite Bundle Resurrections and get laid.

The ones who have already gotten laid before but cannot anymore can start with Elite Bundle Resurrections.

I am literally going to filter people on the phone.

I am not going to let total newbies into Elite Bundle Resurrections anymore.

And the low SMV losers, please kindly fuck off.

If you are a total loser, you are not going to win.

I cannot help you.

There are too many double chinned total losers that I cannot help.

That is my rant.

And stop ignoring the video testimonials here.

I can post as many as I want, but you still have to regulate yourself enough to pay attention.

What other daygame coaches are posting nonstop laid testimonials.

I am posting stuff from multiple years.

They do not even have anything from the last few years.

Come on now.

And fuck your stupid PUA books.

They are all bullshit.

They are all for nightgame or some numbers game direct game nonsense.

You have to invest in yourself.

Stop treating everything like it should all be free and that you can learn it all from books.

No.

Fuck that.

And other Asian dating coaches, just because they are Asian does not mean they actually got anyone laid for daygame.

Maybe they got one guy laid in some Latin country or some shithole country.

Maybe once for one particular guy women already found attractive.

That is about it.

It is pathetic.

I have the solution.

I just have to make sure you understand it.

I have already calculated everything from first principles.

I cannot think of any better solution than Inner Circle Basics for most of you.

Or if you are a veteran who can no longer get laid because you do not know how to escalate, then join Elite Bundle Resurrections.

But if you are a newbie and you never approached before, then obviously take Elite Daygame First Steps for five dollars for five videos.

Come on now.

It is not rocket science.

You just have to do exactly what is in these courses and actually have a memory for once.

And I do not want to train anyone who does not have a memory.

IF YOU CAN GET DATES, BUT DON’T KNOW HOW TO ESCALATE AND GET FRIENDZONED EVERY SINGLE TIME.

-John Elite

P.S, invest in yourself. high self esteem will invest in yourselves. and see it as an investment. Poor mindset people will see it as an expense. If you are tired of being a loser.

Why Krav Maga Training Transfers to Daygame Skills

I, John Elite, trained in Krav Maga for five years.

Krav Maga is the martial art used by the IDF.

This student was also connected to that world because he served in the IDF and saw real combat.

He told me stories about the horrors of war, including seeing a friend getting blown up.

Because of that experience, he already had a level of resilience and mental toughness that most students do not have.

One thing we both understood immediately was the importance of repetition.

Military training and Krav Maga are built around drills.

You repeat the same movements over and over until they become automatic.

That is exactly how I, John Elite, built my daygame training system.

After years of Krav Maga training, I, John Elite, realized that drills could be applied to social skills the same way they are applied to combat skills.

If you repeat the correct movements enough times, your nervous system adapts.

Your neural pathways change.

That is why most of my students go through the training videos at least six times while repeating the drills.

For Inner Circle Basics students, the drills are practiced in a more supportive environment because many beginners are intimidated by tough love coaching.

But this student actually liked the drill based approach because it reminded him of military training.

The core drills focused on three areas.

The first was the 45 degree body language.

This angle removes pressure from the interaction and makes the approach feel more natural.

The second was tonality.

He already had a strong whitewashed tonality, which meant I, John Elite, did not have to adjust it much.

The third was the social skills flow drill.

This drill teaches conversational rhythm and emotional pacing.

In fact, he appeared in one of the Inner Circle Platinum training videos practicing the social skills flow drill with another student.

That other student was Vietnamese and had already gotten an 18 year old Latina stunner through cold approach.

That Vietnamese student actually recommended this Jewish student to me.

He told me, “Can you please help my friend.”

When he mentioned the student was Jewish and a former IDF soldier, I, John Elite, immediately felt a connection because of my Krav Maga background.

He said we would probably get along because we both understood drill based training.

This is why the system works.

Drills create skills.

Skills create value.

And value pushes you over the threshold where results happen.

I, John Elite, teach that attraction can be measured across a 35 point system.

Looks are worth up to 10 points.

Money is worth up to 5 points.

Status from your race or background can add up to 10 points.

Social skills are worth 2.5 points.

Social calibration is worth 2.5 points.

Emotional control is worth 2.5 points.

Game fundamentals are worth 2.5 points.

That creates a total possible score of 35 points.

Once you reach 20 out of 35, you cross what I, John Elite, call the line of fuckability.

When a student crosses that line, results start happening automatically in daygame cold approach.

That is why the drills matter.

They are not random exercises.

They are designed to raise your points until you cross that threshold.

Age Is Not the Real Barrier in Daygame. This student was in his 40s. Yet he still got laid in 2.5 weeks.

That is actually very fast for daygame cold approach.

He was a late bloomer.

So if you think age is the real issue, it really is not.

When men get older, the problems are usually something else.

Sometimes they start dressing old fashioned.

This student had to upgrade his fashion and improve his overall presentation.

Sometimes older students also carry more fear.

He had extremely bad approach anxiety, which I will talk about in the next section.

But the real factor was skill development.

He had a growth mindset.

He actually wanted to learn.

He did not question everything I, John Elite, told him to do.

That is a big difference compared to other older students who resist coaching.

Some students constantly beat themselves up whenever they make mistakes.

Others keep returning to the starting line over and over again.

Their neural pathways never stabilize because they are constantly stressed.

Too much cortisol shrinks the hippocampus and destroys memory formation.

When that happens, they cannot retain the training.

I am not saying older students are losers.

Some of them are actually incredible performers.

You might remember my German student who was over 50 years old.

He got laid three times in a row on the first approach with women in their twenties.

So the real difference is not age.

The real difference is grit.

It is growth mindset.

It is resilience.

It is instinct.

Can they follow instructions from me, John Elite.

And do they have the tenacity to finish the process.

Some students unfortunately have almost no memory retention.

Their hippocampus shrinks from stress and they lose their neural pathways.

They repeat the same mistakes again and again.

They are always standing at the starting line.

The faster someone abandons the growth mindset and starts telling me what they think they should be doing, the faster they quit.

That is exactly why I, John Elite, created Inner Circle Basics.

Inside that structure, even if you quit temporarily, you can still move forward slowly.

Like a turtle.

But if you actually follow the drills, everything changes.

You need three things working together.

Memory.

Adaptation.

And consistent repetition of the drills.

When those three overlap, it becomes like a Venn diagram.

Students eventually cross the threshold and start getting results.

The system works when the student actually commits to it.

The problem today is the economic environment.

With the tariffs and economic stress, people are treating the situation like a recession.

Their nervous systems become deregulated.

They lose discipline.

They stop committing to the drills.

That is another reason I, John Elite, built Inner Circle Basics.

This student originally trained inside Elite Bundle Resurrections.

At that time, Elite Tonality Mastery was still part of Elite Access.

Later I integrated that training into the Elite Bundle to create Elite Bundle Resurrections.

Back then he received a lot of infield analysis from me.

The interesting thing is that it only takes me a few seconds to diagnose problems.

When I, John Elite, watch an infield recording, I can identify mistakes almost immediately.

I can see the body language.

I can hear the tonality.

I can evaluate the social skills flow drill.

And I can read the woman’s reactions.

All of these signals reveal what is really happening in the interaction.

Many students cannot see these mistakes themselves.

The truth is simple.

You do not know what you do not know.

And without feedback, it is very easy to become delusional.

Approach anxiety exists even in combat veterans. This student had some of the worst approach anxiety out of all my students.

Yet he was a former IDF soldier with real combat experience.

That alone proves something important.

Physical courage and social courage are two completely different systems.

In combat, you can face bullets flying past you.

But when it comes to approaching a woman in daygame cold approach, your nervous system can still panic.

That is why grit matters so much.

In the military, when bullets are flying by, you are trained to breathe and slow everything down.

You regulate your nervous system so you can function under pressure.

The same principle applies to daygame.

You feel the fear and do it anyway.

That is something I, John Elite, have been teaching for a long time.

In fact, I talked about this extensively in my Unquit Daygame Approach Again course.

I released it on my second channel even though most people have not seen it.

The real lesson is simple.

Feel the fear and do it anyway.

You can replace fear with anything.

Feel the depression and do it anyway.

Feel the distraction and do it anyway.

Feel the disappointment and do it anyway.

The point is that you execute despite what you think or feel.

Anything else is just mental bullshit.

When I, John Elite, tell a student to do something, their response usually falls into two categories.

Some students are like rabbits.

They move fast and execute immediately.

Others are like turtles.

They move slowly and hesitate.

The rabbits keep executing regardless of fear.

The turtles sometimes half commit.

Then they start beating themselves up for mistakes.

That creates more cortisol in the body.

When cortisol increases, the hippocampus shrinks and memory formation becomes weaker.

Now the turtle loses the neural pathways that were already forming.

Instead of moving forward, he walks backwards in a circle and starts from the beginning again.

This is why daygame success is not really about age.

Sometimes older students lose a little bit of resilience.

That is not a marketing message people like to hear.

Everyone wants to believe they are already enough.

But the truth I see as a coach is different.

The students who get results are usually the ones with rabbit like resilience.

Their sexual market value is not always higher.

Their resilience is higher.

Their growth mindset is stronger.

They execute even when conditions are difficult.

And right now the economic environment makes things harder.

During a tariff era, people are more stressed and more distracted.

Feeling the fear and doing it anyway becomes even harder.

Memory formation becomes harder.

Adaptation becomes harder.

That is why I, John Elite, created Inner Circle Basics.

It gives slower students a safety net so they can keep progressing even if they move at a turtle pace.

But if you already have some experience, you should move faster.

If you have already gotten a date through daygame cold approach, you should be training inside Elite Bundle Resurrections.

Moving forward I, John Elite, will only allow students into Elite Bundle Resurrections if they can prove they have already gotten a date before.

Because that shows they can execute.

For example, my Indian student recently had not approached for five days.

He was only practicing the drills.

Then he went out and did one approach.

In that single approach he got an instant date and a venue change.

That is how skill based training works.

This is not luck.

This is skill.

Showing up is half the battle.

Now on the world events point.

A lot of people are deregulated right now.

You need to be tough and execute anyway.

Feel the fear and do it anyway.

That mindset is closer to Donald Trump than it is to kicking the can forward.

And if Biden was still in charge or Kamala Harris, Iran would already have a nuke.

That is the kind of zombie mentality I am talking about.

You do not want to be that.

You want to think clearly.

Then execute anyway.

Then adapt.

I also have a podcast incase you didn’t know.

Not everyone enjoys watching a video of me and my lack of halo effect.

-John Elite

P.S I believe in this group coaching course so much. Its like the cure for students who are slower learners who shouldn’t be in Elite Bundle Resurrections. But Inner Circle Basics. Its not slower or further away from your goals. Its actually faster if you get the basics down first and win half the battle instead of quitting early on.