I teach people to get laid for cold appproach without direct game (compliments numbers game) or expensive bootcamps. I have more daygame laid and pulled testimonials than every daygame coach in the world combined
WELL WELL WELL, ANOTHER NOT A HAND JOB, BUT A BLOW JOB THIS TIME.
Indian student got a blow job, not f-close on June 2nd, 2026. Why? shes looking for a husband material frame.
Her last boyfriend broke up with her when she wanted to get married.
Thats the real objection.
Remember there are 6 frames.
fuckboi, quick sex guy
boyfriend girlfriend frame
friendzone social circle
husband material
sugar daddy
high status.
It is likely she wanted frame number 4, a husband material frame.
You have to change the frame on the date and figure out which frame she wants and give it to her.
If that is what you want.
Give women what they want.
But it might explain the last two pulls that led to a hand job, now blow job.
its a 6 frames issues that was mismatched.
The arrow science needs the full husband material fashion and accessories.
I think he only did it part way.
Which helped a great deal, but these things will help a great deal too.
Maybe he needs to frame his job as more high value.
Regardless, I will update the banner.
Yes its a huge climb, one by one for the laid and pulled testimonials and you all counted it with me.
There is no short cuts.
But if he is able to pull or get laid or a blow job, or hand job, every single time, or a day 2, day 3…
Then there really isn’t a numbers game.
Skill maxing is hard.
But I also have another Jewish white student who pulled a lot in the beginning and only closed a few.
He got more pulls than lays.
However he learned later on and closed the deal 20 times.
I hope that make sense and gives you guys some hope.
I just got his message right now as I have to update my blog post and include this.
So, here’s the deal with this Indian student, right? 683 laid and pulled testimonials as this happened on May 31st.
Just a few hand jobs and pulls.
But hey, he’s had three lays and even a blow job.
Progress, I guess?
What’s he still got to work on?
Well, for starters, he talks way too fast on dates.
Which just makes him stutter.
It’s like a pressure cooker waiting to explode, you know?
Comfort is key, folks.
And congruency?
Yeah, that’s pretty important too.
Remember those John Elite phrases?
If you don’t flirt, you don’t fuck.
But here’s the thing.
If you flirt but don’t have that comfort, you’re left with just hand jobs.
I told him to make sure he’s getting the women back out.
Even if he doesn’t have the best memory, he has this WhatsApp video.
Like a little reminder of all the mistakes he’s made.
He listens to it twenty times in a row to really drill it into his brain.
It’s like his external memory, if you will.
We’re trying to see how that plays out.
To figure out if it’s the right formula.
At first, the adjustments were mostly about what he did on instant dates or regular ones.
Honestly, he never had a day where nothing happened.
It’s either a lay.
A pull.
A hand job.
A blow job.
Or an instant date.
I’m telling you, guys.
Especially my Indian brothers.
Don’t buy into the idea that you’re not enough or that there’s some kind of Indian hate out there.
My students only know Indian love.
And that’s the truth.
Some of them just don’t get it because they’re dressing all white washed.
This is all about skills.
He sends me his drills.
I check his approaches.
And we pinpoint what’s going wrong.
We’re changing that WhatsApp video bit by bit.
Invest in yourself, people.
Don’t be that lazy narcissist who blames the coach or the economy.
Show up and put in the work.
It’s all about memory.
Kind of like an external brain since he struggles to remember things.
Then it’s about compressing those skills.
He’s got to adapt.
I’m using that video to push for adaptation.
So I don’t have to yell as much these days.
I mean, I don’t like yelling at people.
Unless you’re in my Kaizen program.
Speaking of Kaizen.
All those students who actually finished it got laid.
That’s a 100% success rate.
If you get upset about that program and don’t do anything, well, you might just be a total narcissist.
But hey, the Elite Bundle Resurrections program is a bit more relaxed.
If you get banned, it’s just for a week at most.
Just a little discipline.
If you run away like a loser, well, I can still do something instead of leaving you to your own devices.
Not everyone’s out here playing the numbers game with height or perceived race advantages.
You’ve got to max out your skills.
Not everyone has those height or race perks, you know?
You’ve got to train like you’re prepping for the Olympics.
Then you’ll see those results when you adapt.
Everyone who plants a seed grows at their own pace.
We’ll check in on this student’s total lays by the end of his Elite Access.
I let him learn at his own speed.
But he’s showing up to grind through those drills.
Other Indians who are listening to all these other dating coaches?
They’re barely hooking up because they’re stuck in the game techniques.
It’s not going to work.
Especially with the economy affecting your vibe.
Unless you work on social skills, calibrations, and emotional control, you’ll struggle.
This student is working on that congruency.
But he sounds a bit down when he slows down his speech on dates.
He’s still figuring it out.
You can’t adapt without memory.
And you can’t compress the drills while being a lazy narcissist.
An Indian student was oh so close to scoring his fourth lay. She was on her period. That was back on May 28, 2026.
Just one little pull away.
Can you believe it?
He’s got 682 lays and pulls under his belt.
Pretty impressive, right?
Every time he heads out, it’s like he’s on an instant date.
But you know me.
I’m pretty strict about these things.
I expect a lay within 1 to 6 approaches.
That’s how it worked for many of my previous students.
Still, I have to say he’s making some solid progress.
It’s tough to find Indian superstar students these days.
But this guy?
He’s got the potential to become one of them.
Honestly, I really like working with average students.
Not too short.
Not too tall.
Not supermodel good looking.
Just everyday people who have some daygame experience and aren’t completely paralyzed by approach anxiety.
Now here’s one of the challenges.
His memory is practically non existent.
He forgets things constantly.
To solve that problem, we created a video listing all of his mistakes.
It’s pinned on WhatsApp.
And he listens to it twenty times in a row.
It basically acts as an external memory bank.
Lately, I’ve been sharing more Indian laid testimonials in the video section simply because I have fewer students this year.
That means I need to get whoever joins my coaching laid no matter what.
And let’s be honest.
Some of you love ignoring all those laid testimonials that keep showing up.
The next story I’ll share is about a former ABCs of Attraction student who got laid in the USA with a redhead.
But if you join this year, be prepared to do the drills.
And be prepared to approach afterwards.
Please no lazy narcissistic types.
No people who want to blame everyone else.
And no people who refuse to do the work.
We’re here to train.
We’re here to improve.
And we’re here to get results.
INCASE YOU MISSED HIS 3 VIDEO TESTIMONIALS, TOO BAD IT WASN’T A FOUTH LAY BUT STILL CLOSE.
I mostly left these to make sure poor MGTOWs doesn’t ignore the laid testimonials.
I will post some unreleased stuff, I got 45 left as I posted 15 of them, normally 60.
I will dip into another one, former ABCS of Attraction victim person who got 2 lays with 2 white girls for daygame with my coaching.
Mystery Method deriviative systems are always going to get you stuck.
Its only for night game, not daygame which requires more social skills and emotional control.
So they can’t transfer it as they don’t understand these concepts, due to being former engineer coaches with Aspergers Syndrome.
-John Elite
P.S, you wasted last summer. Are you going to waste this one? The food inflation might go up with the Iran war as I predicted. I was right wasn’t I that it won’t work out for their deals. Its going to last 2 years. But will you want to give up all those months of summer just to turn MGTOW for the next few years? Come on now.
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Back in 2016, China saw a whopping 17.86 million births.
Fast forward just a few years, and that number has nosedived to 7.92 million.
Which is pretty shocking, right?
Now let’s dive into what’s really going on.
There’s this quiet rebellion happening between men and women in China.
They’re stepping away from the whole traditional marriage and kids lifestyle.
You’ve got this trend called lying flat.
Young people are just burned out from the nonstop grind of corporate life.
Instead of working themselves to death trying to afford a house and settle down, a lot of them are choosing to simply lie flat.
They work just enough to cover basic needs.
They avoid the dating scene.
And they focus on themselves first.
Sounds pretty liberating, doesn’t it?
Then there’s the whole MGTOW scene.
Men Going Their Own Way.
With the pressure to pay insane bride prices in rural areas, sometimes between $8,500 and $28,000, a lot of working class men are completely fed up.
They’ve realized trying to impress women and afford a place to live just doesn’t feel worth it anymore.
Their mindset becomes simple.
If they’re going to end up alone anyway, they might as well keep their money for themselves and enjoy hobbies, games, or personal freedom.
Now let’s talk about the so called leftover women, also known as Sheng Nu.
These are highly educated women over 30 with strong careers and high incomes.
But despite all of that, many are getting pushed out of the marriage market.
They worked hard to build their lives.
Naturally, they also became more selective about who they want to date or marry.
They don’t want to settle for a man who earns less or expects them to become traditional housewives.
But the men who meet their standards often chase younger women instead.
That leaves a large group of successful single women over 30 feeling trapped in the middle.
It’s also worth mentioning the harsh age gap dynamics in dating.
A lot of men in China still lean toward younger women because of traditional expectations and modern social pressure.
Most aim for women in their early to mid 20s.
And then there’s the issue of bride prices, also known as Cai Li.
In rural areas where women are becoming increasingly rare, families demand massive dowries from men.
By 2026, some men could be paying anywhere from 60,000 to over 200,000 yuan just to get married.
That completely prices out many average working class men from even starting families.
And it’s not just mainland China dealing with this.
Hong Kong is facing very similar problems.
A huge part of it comes from sky high housing prices and economic pressure.
Their birth rate has dropped to an extremely low 0.75.
It’s a very difficult situation for many people living there.
And across China overall, the demographic outlook is becoming increasingly serious.eleased in early 2026 shows births collapsed to an all-time low of 7.92 million
Wait until you hear about South Korea.
But then again if you get more Elite Bundle Resurrections in Hong Kong or China, you will get a better price than others, since your currency is worthless.
I want to help the birth rate issue and dating too.
Stop listening to Jan Lifestyle or Scam Lifestyle.
Chapter 3: South Korea’s Hyper-Stressed “Black Pill” Society
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South Korea has been sitting at the bottom of the birth rate barrel for quite some time now.
It went from 1.24 back in 2015 all the way down to an extremely low 0.72 in 2023.
That’s a massive collapse in less than a decade.
The 2026 plot twist.
But then in late February 2026, new data started showing a slight uptick.
Births temporarily rose to around 0.80, totaling roughly 254,500 babies.
At first glance, some people celebrated it like the crisis was ending.
But honestly, it’s more of a temporary statistical echo than a real recovery.
A large group of millennials born in the early 1990s all reached their 30s around the same time.
Many delayed marriage and children because of the pandemic years.
So some of those postponed births finally happened all at once.
But even with that temporary increase, the overall situation is still extremely grim.
South Korea’s population still shrank by around 108,900 people in just one year because deaths continue to outpace births.
And Seoul itself looks even worse.
The fertility rate there dropped to around 0.63.
Now, if you really want to understand why so many South Koreans feel hopeless and black pilled, you have to understand the economic pressure cooker they live inside.
Everything revolves around competition.
Life feels like one endless exam where you either win or fall behind forever.
Young people feel enormous pressure to get accepted into one of the three elite SKY universities.
Seoul National.
Korea University.
Yonsei University.
Because without one of those schools, many believe they have almost no chance of landing a prestigious job at massive corporations like Samsung or LG.
And if someone fails the Suneung college entrance exam, culturally it can feel like their entire future is collapsing.
That level of pressure completely burns people out.
Even people who successfully make it into companies like Samsung often end up too exhausted, financially stressed, and emotionally drained to even think seriously about dating or starting families.
That’s where the Hell Joseon mindset comes from.
A lot of younger South Koreans now describe their own country as Hell Joseon.
A never ending dystopian treadmill where survival and status competition consume everything.
And then there’s the strange K Pop paradox.
Globally, the rise of K Pop and K Dramas over the last decade massively changed how Asian men are perceived in the West.
A lot of people outside Korea now see South Korean men as stylish, romantic, and socially polished.
But inside South Korea itself, the reality feels much darker.
There’s a huge gender war happening internally.
Many women became involved in the 4B movement.
No sex.
No dating.
No marriage.
No babies.
As a reaction against the exhausting expectations placed on them inside corporate culture and traditional gender roles.
So on one side, South Korea became a global cultural powerhouse.
But domestically, huge parts of the younger generation feel emotionally exhausted, disconnected, and increasingly hopeless about relationships and the future.
I don’t have as many Korean students as they have better social skills than the other Asians.
I used to hang around Koreans in high school actually and many others.
The first girl I went on a date with in highschool is a 5’11 Korean.
My Korean student got like 22 lays from a bootcamp and flying to Asia afterwards in a short time.
He helped me film the Elite Playbook for its later chapters with his digital camera.
That is part of the Elite Bundle Resurrections which is the solution.
Chapter 4: The North American Canary (Vancouver’s Dating Collapse & U.S. Record Lows)
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So, let’s shift our focus from Asia to the West Coast.
It turns out the same kind of black pill demographic issues have started hitting us right here at home.
The G7 food inflation capital.
Think economic struggles are only happening in places like Seoul or Tokyo?
Think again.
As we moved deeper into 2026, Canada was officially being called the food inflation capital of the G7 according to Statistics Canada and multiple global economists.
Grocery prices jumped somewhere between 6.2% to 7.3% in a single year.
That’s almost double what was happening in parts of the United States.
Young people are not only getting pushed out of the housing market.
They’re struggling just to afford basic groceries.
And this inflation completely destroys dating motivation.
Now let’s talk about Vancouver.
Because the reality there is brutal.
Reports and surveys coming out of Vancouver showed that roughly 82.6% of adults between 19 and 29 years old were single.
Only around 10% to 17% of young men in that age range were in committed relationships.
Think about how insane that is.
Most people are effectively locked out of the dating market.
And why?
Because even going out for a simple dinner date can eat up a huge portion of their rent money.
People are stressed out.
Financially exhausted.
Emotionally burned out.
And when people live in survival mode, relationships become harder to maintain.
Now let’s move just south of the border.
The United States is also hitting historic lows.
According to CDC data released in April 2026, the U.S. fertility rate dropped again to another record low.
Roughly 710,000 fewer babies compared to peak years.
And one of the biggest reasons younger adults gave was simple.
The world feels too expensive.
Too competitive.
Too unstable.
A lot of people under 30 no longer believe they can realistically afford marriage, children, or even long term stability anymore.
That mindset slowly creates isolation, hopelessness, and social withdrawal.
And honestly, that’s why so many people are mentally checking out of the dating market altogether.
Chapter 5: The Asian-Western Coping Mechanisms (The Nightclub & Passport Traps)
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Let’s take a closer look at how Asian American and Asian Canadian men are navigating this broken system.
It’s interesting to consider why the solutions they’re choosing might actually be leading them into a trap.
The MGTOW retreat.
With the cost of living exploding in places like Vancouver, Toronto, Los Angeles, and New York, a lot of Western Asian men are looking at the Chinese lying flat movement and thinking to themselves, yeah, that actually makes sense.
Instead of fully participating in the dating market, many retreat inward.
They stay glued to screens.
They focus only on work, gaming, or isolated hobbies.
And slowly they begin giving up on dating altogether.
Honestly, a lot of them are exhausted.
The cost of modern life alone already burns people out before dating even enters the picture.
Then there’s the nightclub bottleneck.
For the smaller percentage of guys who still try to date actively, many end up funneling themselves into nightclubs.
And what happens there?
They spend massive amounts of money on drinks, entry fees, tables, and status signaling.
All while competing in loud chaotic environments for a very narrow demographic of women.
The odds become brutal.
Especially when everybody is fighting inside the exact same social funnel.
It starts feeling like a rigged game from the beginning.
Then comes the passport bro illusion.
When night game stops working, many guys decide to escape entirely.
They fly to Latin America.
Open Tinder.
And rely on algorithmic matching in a completely different country.
At first, it feels amazing.
The matches go up.
Confidence temporarily rises.
And everything feels easier.
But in reality, it often becomes a form of avoidance.
Because the core problem back home never actually gets solved.
The second they return to North America, they end up trapped inside the same digital cage again.
Still unable to create genuine real world connections during normal daily life.
And that’s why so many people end up stuck in an endless cycle instead of building lasting social skills that work everywhere.
The Pivot: Why Daygame is the Only Real AnswerFor Asian Men In North America.
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You know, relying solely on some nightclub algorithm or running off to South America just to swipe on a screen cannot be the only solution anymore.
That isn’t freedom.
It’s dependency disguised as freedom.
And let’s be honest for a second.
Sure, taking the black pill and going MGTOW might save you money during inflation.
But it also slowly turns you into the same type of isolated recluse that helped destroy Japan’s population growth.
It becomes a slow surrender.
And honestly, who wants to live like that?
What we actually need to solve the North American dating crisis is bringing back the daygame cold approach.
And no, it is not the easy path.
It takes real courage to put your phone down and walk up to a woman during the daytime.
At a coffee shop.
A bookstore.
A park.
Or just during normal everyday life.
You have to look people in the eye again.
You have to rebuild social skills that a huge percentage of modern men completely lost.
But that’s exactly why it changes everything.
Instead of competing against thousands of men on dating apps or spending hundreds of dollars inside clubs, you’re having a real conversation in real life.
And the crazy thing?
It’s completely free.
And honestly, Western Asian men especially need to break out of the demographic bubble.
Why limit yourself to only one type of woman just because it feels familiar or safe?
And why keep searching for validation only inside nightclub environments?
There’s an enormous number of non Asian women who are exhausted by dating apps, emotionally unavailable men, and low effort interactions.
A lot of them are looking for genuine masculine confidence and real world social skills.
By getting good at daygame, you’re not only improving your own dating life.
You’re actively pushing back against the anti social digital matrix that keeps people isolated, addicted, lonely, and financially drained.
That’s why the lost science of daygame matters more now than ever before.
For Asians in Asia, depending where you are. I can adjust the Elite Bundle Resurrection price because I am trying to help my fellow Asians procreate and fight against the declining birth rate.
Your governements can’t help you, but I have the ability.
It should be put to good use.
If you can get 2 lays with my coaching, you can likely get married one day and procreate.
Don’t turn MGTOW due to cortisol stress. Fight back. You are the resistance.
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