A lot of you are stuck because you think worship equals results…
and it does not.
My system is the Arrow Science…
Maneuver… Sexualize… Objection Loop.
I am not trying to be Michael Jordan.
I am trying to be Phil Jackson.
That means I am not here to impress you with aura…
I am here to help you win championships.
That is the difference.
The problem with this mentor worship mentality is very simple.
You see a coach taking action…
you see a coach standing next to women…
you see a coach who looks the part…
and you assume he must be good.
But being good at doing something and being good at coaching it are not the same thing.
Michael Jordan was one of the best players ever…
but that does not automatically mean he would be the best coach.
Same thing with daygame.
Some coaches can posture well…
market well…
film well…
or look like they are winning…
but that does not mean they can transfer results to students.
That is the part delusional people never understand.
Worship Creates Fake Certainty
When people are insecure…
especially in a bad economy…
they become more delusional.
And when people become more delusional…
they start worshipping more.
They assume…
this guy is taller…
this guy is better looking…
this guy has a better aura…
this guy has better optics…
so therefore he must be the answer.
That is not critical thinking.
That is idol worship.
It is the same thing in marketing.
People worship gurus not because the gurus can transfer the skill…
but because the gurus are very good at selling the fantasy.
They know how to make you believe.
That does not mean they know how to make you win.
A lot of people do not buy coaching because they want results.
They buy coaching because they want to feel close to somebody they admire.
That is a completely different reason.
And that is why they stay stuck.
Optics Are Not Results
One of the biggest scams in this industry is optics.
You see a perfectly crisp DSLR clip…
you see a coach standing next to a woman…
you see a cinematic thumbnail…
and now your mind assumes…
this guy must be crushing it.
But what do you actually know?
You do not know where the woman came from.
You do not know what happened after the clip.
You do not know whether he got the number…
the instant date…
the pull…
or the lay.
For all you know…
it is just optics.
And this is what I mean when I say worshipping is dangerous.
You stop using your brain.
You stop asking…
where are the student results…
where are the recent results…
where is the transferability…
where is the proof that this still works after inflation… after tariffs… after all the stress of 2025 and 2026?
Instead…
you just assume the image is enough.
It is not enough.
Student Results Matter More Than Aura
People can falsely accuse me of not having students laid in 2025…
but that is not true.
I showed the results.
Yes…
I repost some of the testimonials.
Why…
because a lot of them are 18 plus…
and I cannot just leave everything floating around forever in the same way.
So sometimes I move things up again.
But my students got laid last year…
the year before…
and the year before that.
That matters.
A lot more than image.
A lot more than aura.
A lot more than worship.
My students do not treat me like somebody to worship.
They treat me like Phil Jackson.
They say…
John… tell me what I need to do to get the results of your other students.
That is the right attitude.
They care about the plays.
They care about the drills.
They care about the system.
They do not care about idolizing me.
That is why they move forward.
The Three Categories Of People
I break people down into three categories.
The first category is the zombies.
These are usually my students…
or people like my students.
They may have gotten some results before… or maybe not…
but now they are low on memory… low on energy… low on focus… and low on emotional control.
The zombies do not need somebody to worship.
They need somebody to tell them what the play is.
They need structure.
They need drills.
They need a coach.
The second category is the sheep.
The sheep always need to worship.
It is in their nature.
They assume…
if the coach can do it…
then I can do it too.
They do not understand systems.
They do not understand transferability.
They do not understand what is actually being taught.
They just latch onto image… aura… or social proof… and think that is enough.
It is not enough.
The third category is the small group of real students.
These are the people with tenacity.
These are the people who do not need to worship.
They listen…
apply…
drill…
adapt…
and get better.
That group is smaller than ever now…
but it is still the only group that matters.
The Four Traits Of Low Self Esteem In Daygame
There are four traits I keep seeing in low self esteem daygamers.
The first is delusion.
The second is half assing it…
usually through mass approaching… random tactics… and no deep skill building.
The third is bad decision making.
The fourth is quitting.
Because they are delusional…
they have to worship.
That is why this whole industry keeps reproducing the same cycle.
They see somebody who looks cool…
or a guy who still has some old footage…
or somebody with strong branding…
and they think the answer is to copy the vibe.
That is not game.
That is fantasy.
And fantasy does not transfer.
Crutches Expire
A lot of methods only worked because they had crutches.
Alcohol…
social circle advantages…
status…
optics…
old market conditions…
easier times before inflation and tariffs.
Take away the crutch…
and now you find out if the coach really had game.
A lot of them did not.
They could brute force pulls…
or push things through in the bedroom…
or use social momentum…
but once the environment changed…
once women got more stressed…
once the economy got worse…
the student results started drying up.
That is why I keep saying worship is dangerous.
You can be worshipping a coach whose edge already expired.
And because you are worshipping…
you do not even notice.
Even If I Film Infields… The Sheep Still Need Somebody To Worship With Higher Halo Effect Than Me
Let us say I start filming infields again tomorrow.
Let us say I show more approaches… more conversations… more demos.
Would I get a huge flood of good students from that?
Maybe not.
Why…
because the audience has changed.
A lot of them are broke.
A lot of them are checked out.
A lot of them only want free content.
A lot of them are window shopping.
The only people left who still really care are often the sheep and the hardcore pickup artist types.
And the sheep do not want coaching.
They want somebody to worship.
So even then…
there is no guarantee.
If you are the type of person who needs to worship before you can listen…
then I am probably not the right coach for you.
Because I am not trying to be a guru.
I am trying to be the guy who gives you the right plays.
Worship Does Not Guarantee Results
Worshipping a coach does not guarantee results.
It is just like weightlifting.
Let us say you want bigger muscles.
You might see a guy who looks amazing…
and assume that because he looks the part… he must be the best person to learn from.
But what if he is using crutches…
chemical help…
special advantages…
or shortcuts that do not transfer to you?
Now you are following image instead of method.
That is exactly what happens in daygame.
The scientist type…
the doctor type…
the systems type…
those people may not always trigger worship.
But they are the ones who understand transferability.
They are the ones who can actually explain why results happen.
That matters more than whether they trigger idol worship in low IQ followers.
Why I Keep Posting Student Proof
People can hate me all they want.
That is fine.
I will still keep posting proof.
I will still keep posting video testimonials.
Because I want to be known as the Phil Jackson of daygame.
Not the guy you worship…
the guy who gets students results.
That is the difference.
If you want somebody to worship…
go somewhere else.
If you want somebody to help you understand the plays…
the drills…
the Arrow Science…
and how to repeat success…
then that is what I do.
Maneuver, sexualize and objections looping.
Not maneuver with romantic flirts where you don’t fit into the boyfriend frame
Then you use alcohol to deal with the objections, which should be illegal
Then you sexualize it by heavy bedroom escalation
Its why they don’t have a lot of bootcamp student proof anymore because women are too resistant in the last few years.
Bad economy, these alcohol crutches won’t work.
-John Elite
World's BEST Daygame Coach with 675 Laid/Pull Testimonials. More Than Every Daygame Coach In The World Combined 
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