Cold Approach to 18 year old Girlfriend: Latino student in Vancouver (VIDEO TESTIMONIAL)

Why Vancouver is one of the hardest cities for cold approach daygame.

Vancouver is very similar to New York.

In many ways, it is even harder.

I call it Asian day game.

Outside of my students, most of the pickup artist crowd here has some type of Asian fetish.

When there are a lot of Asian men concentrated in one place, it becomes even harder for an Asian man to stand out.

The more competition inside one demographic, the more skill you need to separate yourself.

For this Latino student, there are not that many Latinos in Vancouver compared to other cities.

Most of them tend to live in certain cheaper areas slightly outside of downtown.

They are not far from the city center, but they are not in the prime locations either.

Height is a very big factor in Vancouver.

If you go outside at night near the clubs and watch street game interactions, the men approaching are often basketball-player height.

When someone is 5’8″ and only 18 years old, he is already at a disadvantage in this environment.

Social skills matter even more here.

Mystery method style game gets exposed quickly.

RSD mass approaching gets exposed even faster.

Women in Vancouver are very shallow and highly selective.

It is a very cold city.

Not just in terms of constant rain and grey weather.

Emotionally cold.

People stay within their own social circles.

They resist meeting new people.

On top of that, the cost of living is among the highest in the world.

It is comparable to New York.

It is comparable to Hong Kong.

That makes logistics difficult.

Living close to downtown, especially near the Granville area, is extremely expensive.

If you want a proper pull location, you need money.

When you combine height bias, shallow culture, emotional coldness, and brutal cost of living.

Vancouver becomes one of the hardest cities for cold approach day game.

Eight months of rejection before my coaching without the PUA crap.

He succeeded because he did the opposite of RSD.

RSD is a very big thing in Vancouver.

One of my other students even hosts their hot seats and meetings.

A lot of guys got scammed.

A lot of guys got gaslighted.

No matter how hard they tried, they could not get results.

Whenever someone from RSD nation gets a result, it becomes a huge celebration.

That tells you how rare it is.

It is similar to certain Reddit forums where almost nobody has been getting laid for the last two years through day game.

He had to stop playing a numbers game.

He had to stop mass approaching without skill.

When he signed up for the bootcamp, he could barely afford the deposit.

I also gave him Elite 30 from hardcase to hero.

He committed to the 30-day challenge.

That is when things shifted.

He realized everything is skill-based.

It has very little to do with just stacking rejections.

He had already done eight months of rejection.

That proved volume alone does not fix anything.

Now imagine doing that in a high cortisol stress tariff environment.

This is worse than the pandemic.

It feels closer to a recession.

Pressure is higher.

Anxiety is higher.

He had to build drills.

He had to change his fashion.

I made him dye his hair light brown.

I showed him exactly how to do it.

He used my bathroom and did it there.

When he stopped looking like a stereotypical dark-haired Latino, he stood out differently.

He looked more ambiguous.

Almost half white, half Latino.

His skin is naturally lighter, so the look worked.

He also upgraded his clothing.

He could not afford brand new outfits.

That did not matter.

He found a better fitted shirt.

Better pants.

Different shoes.

I even bought him heel lifts from a Korean store in Vancouver.

I raised him above five foot nine.

That is the North American average height.

Height makes a big difference in Vancouver.

That adjustment helped immediately.

But the real shift was arrow science.

Maneuver.

Sexualize.

Objections looping.

He stopped chasing phone number closes.

He focused on maneuvering.

He pulled the girl home.

He escalated.

Later he slept with her again.

Then she became his girlfriend.

It was not about collecting numbers.

It was about maneuver warfare, metaphorically speaking.

He is Gen Z. At the time, he was 18 years old. Being 18 is not a disadvantage.

I have many students who were 21 years old, including Latinos, and they still got laid just fine.

Age is not the deciding factor.

The real secret behind their success is arrow science.

Maneuver.

Sexualize.

Objections loop.

It happens the same way every time.

Even if you forget parts of the sexualizing steps, the structure still carries you forward.

Some groups, especially Asians, have to sexualize much more intentionally because their perceived sexual market value is lower.

Back then, Latinos were around 7 out of 10 in perceived natural status.

Now, because of the political climate and ICE raids happening twice under Trump, that perception has dropped closer to 5 out of 10.

That two-point difference matters.

When you are younger, you have fewer bad neural pathways installed.

You have less ego.

You have less accumulated failure.

As long as you have grit, age does not matter.

Some younger students lack grit, and that becomes a double negative.

But many shorter Latino students have strong grit.

There is a reason they sometimes outperform taller students, and I will explain that later.

The longer you listen to PUA nonsense, mystery method tactics, and RSD mass approaching, the more weeds grow in your brain.

You reinforce bad habits.

You stack rejections.

Your vibe shifts.

You develop stress patterns.

You start associating cold approach with pain.

That creates something close to post-traumatic stress.

Then it becomes harder to teach you.

You are stubborn.

You are set in your ways.

When you are younger, you still have fresh neural pathways.

You can install correct patterns faster.

The more you try to figure it out alone through Reddit forums, especially in a bad economy under tariff pressure, the more likely you are to fail.

Here is how the downward spiral works.

You start with high potential.

You take action.

You look at the results.

You form a belief about yourself.

If the results are bad, your belief drops.

Then your actions change.

You hunch more.

You talk faster.

Cortisol rises.

Your results get worse.

Your belief gets worse again.

If you are emotionally unstable, you beat yourself up.

That becomes a negative feedback loop.

But if you start young with a strong foundation, you avoid installing those destructive cycles in the first place.

Shorter ninja Latinos versus taller samurai Latinos. Why do taller Latino students struggle more during the tariff era.

When you are taller and you previously had 7 out of 10 for perceived natural status, women naturally gravitated toward you.

Most Latinos average around 7 out of 10 in looks unless they are extremely overweight.

So if you had 7 points for looks and 7 points for perceived status, you already had 14 points.

If the line of fuckability is 20 out of 35, you only needed 6 more points.

Dress slightly better and gain 2 points.

Have some basic game and gain another 2.

Improve body language and gain another 2.

You already cleared the line.

That is why taller Latinos often had multiple girlfriends easily in the past.

They did not need extreme skill.

They relied on natural advantages.

Then the political climate shifted.

With ICE raids and tariff pressure, perceived natural status dropped.

Now that 7 out of 10 for race perception becomes closer to 5.

Instead of 14 starting points, you now have 12.

Now you need 8 additional points instead of 6.

That difference exposes weaknesses.

This is where taller Latinos struggle.

Many of them developed narcissistic tendencies because success came easily before.

They expect the same results.

They do not invest deeply in social skill development.

They do not sharpen maneuvering.

They do not build emotional control.

On top of that, many have financial stress.

Financial stress increases cortisol.

Cortisol affects posture, tone, and vibe.

They may say they are not depressed.

But their face shows tension.

Their energy feels heavy.

They spend more money trying to compensate.

That creates a downward spiral.

The taller ego collapses faster under pressure.

The shorter guys are different.

They are scrappy.

They fight harder.

Like compact boxers who can take punishment and keep moving forward.

When you grow up without advantages, you develop grit.

When you are used to advantage, pressure feels shocking.

That is the uncomfortable truth.

On sales calls, when I see a tall Latino with grandiose ego, I sometimes tell him not to join.

Because if he refuses correction, he will quit quickly.

The shorter guys, I often welcome.

They usually have more resilience.

They are stubborn, yes.

But if they have enough tenacity, they adapt.

Grit is growth mindset, resilience, instincts under control, and tenacity.

If you have resilience, you will eventually get laid.

If you rely on ego and past success, you will procrastinate and collapse when pressure increases.

That is why Inner Circle Basics exists.

It gives room to rebuild.

It tolerates slower progress.

Elite Bundle Resurrections does not tolerate procrastination.

Silver is for rebuilding resilience.

Gold is for performance under pressure.

IF YOU CAN’T GET A DATE OR NEVER GOT LAID BEFORE FOR DAYGAME. YOU AREN’T READY FOR ELITE BUNDLE RESURRECTIONS, DURING A BAD ECONOMY.

YOU ARE MORE SUITABLE TO LEARN THE BASICS FIRST.

UNLESS YOU CAN GET A DATE, OR INSTADATE OR PULL HER HOME FROM THERE.

YOU WON’T GET LAID, IF YOU CAN’T GET A DATE OR MANEUVER HER AROUND.

ALL YOUR NUMBERS WILL FLAKE.

HAVE A GROWTH MINDSET.

WANT TO BE LONELY AND WATCH PORN ALL DAY?

OR DO YOU WANT TO DO SOMETHING WITH YOUR LIFE?

ITS FUCKING LIFETIME, I LOSE MONEY OUT OF THIS DEAL.

BUT I GET MORE PEOPLE LAID WHEN THEY GRADUATE WITH 2 DATES OR 2 INSTANT DATES BEFORE MOVING ON.

-John Elite

Haters gonna hate. Why can’t haters say something good first before they make up bad things about me? Would seem more credible. If you are disuaded, well, you just lost your chance to get laid for daygame. You don’t have to like me. Just do what I say and get results and I get my video testimonial. I don’t care about money, than getting more people laid. I enjoy that more. The legacy. But if i’m not dominating, then thats a problem to me. I have to urinate on other daygame coaches forheads year after year, so join the inner circle basics.

5’7 Latino Laid 6’2 Blonde + Hot Latina Girlfriend | Cold Approach USA VIDEO TESTIMONIAL

100 views new video testimonial on Youtube

This first blonde lay was his dream goal.

She was six foot two.

He is five foot seven.

When he got on the sales call with me, he said he would be extremely happy if he could ever get a blonde white girl.

He saw a compilation video of me kissing a very pretty blonde, and that image stuck in his mind.

He said if he could do something like that one day, he would feel like he made it.

So he invested.

He bought the Elite Playbook.

He also added Skype coaching.

It did not happen immediately.

Everyone gets results at a different pace.

For him, it took around three months.

But eventually, he got exactly what he wanted.

A tall six foot two blonde white girl.

That was a life goal for him.

After that, he started dating a very attractive Latina.

He lives in the United States and works as a doctor in a hospital.

He is Colombian.

She was also Colombian.

She was going through a divorce at the time and she flaked on him.

Instead of panicking, he came back for another Skype session.

I showed him exactly what to text her.

Simple objection handling.

Objection looping.

Arrow science fundamentals.

Nothing complicated.

She came back out.

He closed her on the next date.

She became his girlfriend.

Most Latinos struggle with cold approach right now.

Especially with Donald Trump being president again and ICE raids happening.

External events affect status.

When outside pressure increases, natural status drops.

On my status scale, every ethnicity has a rating.

Latinos used to sit higher.

Now they are down two points because of the political climate.

That matters.

Most Latinos are around seven out of ten in physical looks.

Tall or short, it usually averages out to seven.

But their natural status used to match that.

Now it is closer to five.

Those two missing points change everything.

If you do not install the drills.

If you procrastinate.

If you refuse to build skill.

You cannot raise those lost points.

You stay stuck.

Twenty out of thirty five.

Right under the line.

Skill is what moves you above it.

From RSD victim to a 6’2 blonde and a hot Latina girlfriend.

RSD represents zombies.

What I mean by that is when someone becomes completely cluster B in their behavior, they become delusional about progress.

Low self esteem mixed with narcissism creates a strange mindset.

They start to half ass everything.

They mass approach without building any real skills.

They believe the more they approach, the better they will become.

They are told it is all part of the journey.

They are told they need hundreds of rejections.

Sometimes even thousands.

They think if they make ten thousand approaches, they will eventually get laid.

That is the mass approach ideology.

What they do not realize is that repetition does not automatically equal improvement.

If your body language is wrong, repeating it just reinforces the mistake.

In the beginning, you might get some positive reactions.

But as time goes on, you start hunching.

You talk too fast.

You rush your words.

Your nervous system tightens.

And every repetition installs the bad habit deeper.

In the brain, there is something called the myelin sheath.

It strengthens neural pathways like a jacket wrapping around the wire.

The more you repeat something, the stronger that pathway becomes.

If you repeat bad habits, you hardwire rejection patterns.

Then rejection increases.

Stress increases.

Post traumatic stress increases.

This is why he was completely stuck.

He is a doctor.

He works in a hospital.

He performs surgery.

That is a prestigious career.

Imagine the frustration of being competent in one area of life and completely failing in another.

Mass approaching was not a strategy.

Mystery method techniques were not a strategy.

Swinging the samurai sword harder was not a strategy.

None of it worked for him.

He had to stop chasing tactics.

He had to learn skills.

He had to rebuild fundamentals.

He had to slow down and install better habits.

He actually applied what he learned.

Back then, he was focused on game.

That is understandable.

But once he switched to skill building and proper drills, everything changed.

Why do most short men stay stuck in daygame.

The reality is that women do respond to height.

If you are above 5’9″, which is the national average in America, you face less resistance.

If you are below that, the battle becomes steeper.

This was true even before the tariff era.

Now it is harder.

Other day game coaches do not have recent students getting laid.

Last year, I had multiple students getting laid, including Latinos like him.

But even then, height played a role.

Before, shorter men could compensate by mass approaching.

If you were 5’9″, you might get laid after 300 approaches.

If you were 5’8″, maybe you needed 200 more on top of that.

If you were 5’7″, maybe 400 more on top.

As you get shorter, the number increases.

That was the old crutch.

Mass volume to compensate for height.

But that crutch does not work anymore.

There are three major crutches being taught in day game today.

Mystery method techniques.

RSD mass approaching.

And global game platform noise that promises volume equals success.

Those crutches fail under pressure.

The more you lean on them, the more stuck you become.

When you are short, there is also inner game pressure.

Insecurity.

Comparison.

Overcompensation.

The truth is taller students get rejected too.

Height does not eliminate rejection.

But skill changes conversion.

This student did not make thousands of approaches.

Before coaching, he did.

Nothing happened.

After coaching, he made far fewer approaches and got better results.

That is skill density.

Those photos are real.

They are not edited.

They are the same images that have always existed.

He could not have done that without structured training.

Other day game coaches cannot get consistent results like this in the United States during inflation and tariff pressure.

Especially not for a Latino student in this climate.

Sometimes Latinos are resilient.

Sometimes they are emotional.

Emotional intensity can be good.

But if you are constantly triggered, women feel it.

High stress signals weak regulation.

Women respond negatively to that.

If you are short and emotionally unstable, that becomes a double negative.

Better to be calm and confident.

Confidence is good.

Overconfidence becomes arrogance.

Arrogance turns into narcissism.

Cluster B territory is not attractive.

Sociopathic behavior.

Narcissism.

Borderline instability.

Histrionic showing off.

Women reject that energy fast.

For a short man, steady confidence is powerful.

Not loud.

Not showy.

Controlled.

Many of my students wear elevator shoes.

Not cheap sneakers that make you look sloppy.

Clean shoes.

Structured look.

Husband material presentation.

If you are 5’7″, you can be 5’10” with the right footwear.

Why make it harder on yourself.

He was not wearing elevator shoes at the time.

But he did improve his fashion.

Why fight uphill when you can adjust variables.

This is not manipulation.

This is realism.

Even strong students can become deregulated.

Marco, who usually performs well, became so deregulated that he struggled to make a single approach.

I called him out privately.

Because nervous system regulation matters.

When your nervous system is regulated, your heart rate slows.

Digestion improves.

You enter a resting state.

When it is deregulated, you live in fight, flight, or freeze.

Approaching becomes terrifying.

Long term stress damages performance.

That is what is happening to many men right now.

Let’s talk about Inner Circle Basics.

Even if there is a smear campaign happening, that does not change the structure of what this is.

The funny thing about haters is they never say anything good first.

They go straight to extreme accusations.

They say you are racist.

They say you are evil.

They say you only care about money.

But if I only cared about money, I would not create Inner Circle Basics.

It is half the price of Elite Bundle Resurrections.

I genuinely believe sometimes you need to go slower in order to go faster.

If you never learn the basics, you cannot play midgame.

It is like chess.

You cannot start trading pieces and pushing for position if you do not understand the fundamentals.

In dating, midgame is the instant date.

Midgame is the day two.

Some of you are overreaching.

You are deregulated.

You are thirsty.

You are impatient.

You are outcome oriented.

You want to get laid before you can even get an instant date.

That is backwards.

That is why Inner Circle Basics focuses on two instant dates or two day twos before you are even allowed to join Elite Bundle Resurrections.

When you graduate, you get a discount to upgrade.

You do not lose anything.

You build the foundation first.

Even though it makes me less money up front, it gives you more runway.

Lifetime membership means you can go slower.

This is not Navy SEAL hell week.

Before, it felt intense because people were more deregulated.

Let the haters hate.

Even if I get fewer students, I will still get people laid this year.

I just need to focus on the ones who stay.

If you are still approaching.

If you are still drilling.

If you are still remembering what you learned and applying it in the field.

You will get laid from cold approach day game.

This is long term thinking.

There was criticism that I only focused on the best students.

That is not true.

The best students simply show up more.

The weaker students procrastinate.

They run.

They quit.

They block you because they feel shame for not doing the exercises properly.

Just attempting something does not mean you did it correctly.

In martial arts, throwing a punch once does not mean you mastered it.

There are nuances.

There are corrections.

There are drills.

Skill development goes through stages.

First is unconscious incompetence.

You do not know what you do not know.

Then conscious incompetence.

You start seeing your mistakes.

Some people never reach this stage because they are too delusional to see their errors.

Then conscious competence.

You can do it correctly but only with focus.

Finally, unconscious competence.

It becomes automatic.

Very few reach that level.

By creating a larger safety net, more people can reach it.

Not everyone can be saved.

But I did not accommodate enough for hard cases before.

I tried being extra nice.

They quit faster.

I tried Navy SEAL style discipline.

They resisted.

Some people simply do the opposite of instructions.

They procrastinate.

They make excuses.

They self deceive.

They gatekeep.

It is like trying to perform surgery on someone’s mental tumors while they grab the scalpel and insist they know better.

That is why they stay stuck.

Personality matters.

But if you have a longer runway, you can fail more safely.

You can stay longer.

You can plant the seed and water it with drills.

Eventually it sprouts.

The good students do not succeed because I give them special attention.

They succeed because they adapt faster.

You need three things.

First, you must show up and compress the drills.

Second, you must have memory so you can rehearse and adjust.

Third, you must adapt.

My best students adapt in three repetitions.

It is almost bizarre.

Three corrections and it locks in.

Unteachable cases can repeat something 300 times and still reinforce the wrong pattern.

Inner Circle Basics is designed to increase the number of students who actually adapt.

That is the point.

Even I felt poor lately not investing in myself as much.

I know what it feels like.

Its the wrong mindset.

Its not the frontal lobes top part of the brain the altruistic gear.

Its the lower self, the reptilian part of the brain in survival mindset.

If you don’t make big changes in your life, things will stay the same.

The food inflation will go up and not get better.

You think you can wait it out, nope.

Join today and invest in yourself.

Or lose the ability to.

I could go lower at the price but I would feel its unfair if I was to teach you for a lifetime until you get 2 dates.

$500 is the lowest I will go in the future.

Haters gonna hate.

Haters never have anything nice to say anywayas…

Could of said one good thing and 10 bad things, would of been more credible.

Instead of miscontruding the truth to lies.

One thing I know, haters are super jealous of my student results.

Thats why they hate.

Every other rationalization how I am the worst human being in the world, is just disguised jealousy of my student results.

Keep tearing me down.

I only get better as a coach with them putting my head under water.

I would fight my way out of it like John Wick vs the world.

Also check out this video, what is a cluster B

Reddit is a cluster B sociopath place that has the worst advice in the world, Nobody got laid last year for their advice. Not even worth listening to. Free advice from delusional narcissist with borderline personality. Scumbags.

-John Elite (Best Daygame Coach In The World)

P.S we have to make sure people still approach. People are deregulated for their nervous system. Join now as the price wlll go back to $500 in a few weeks. After the launch and stays that way. This si the last 3 day challenge and I haven’t been on Youtube Live for 5 months now. See you in the next 5.