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ACTUALLY THIS IS THE MOST COMMON STORY OF PUA PARENTS, ITS ALMOST UNIVERSAL

What is narcissism and the dark tetrad personality? control freaks?

 

 

I HAVE 2 STUDENTS WHO HAS VERY CONTROLLING PARENTS

THE WORST TYPE IS TO HAVE AN OVERBEARING MOTHER WHO IS A CONTROL FREAK

The saddest thing is when you see your mother beating your father, there is no sadder shit because now you put women on the pedestal and submit to them.

THEN I HEAR STORIES FROM FATHERS THAT BEATS THEM

IM NOT JOKING ABOUT THIS, BUT WHEN THAT HAPPENS, SOME DARK TETRAD SHIT IS HAPPENING

IT IS PASSED ONTO YOU PUAS

 

 

NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER MIXED WITH DARK TETRAD, BAD PARENTING

You will notice your parents will have these traits or one of them. A common story amonth a lot of my student today

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The first 7 years determines a lot of your personality. So if you get beaten or if your mother yells at your dad, you will be very messed up. 

YOU WILL BECOME A SNOWFLAKE

YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM IS USED TO FREEZING

REMEMBER THE RESPONSE, FIGHT, FLIGHT OR FREEZE? WELL THAT IS THE FREEZE MODE

YOUR PARENTS ARE PUTTING YOU INTO A DOWNWARD SPIRAL IN LIFE, MAKING IT HARDER FOR YOU TO TAKE ACTION

 

2 FRIENDS, OR STUDENTS, LEAD LIKE A TEAM TO SUCCESS

I HELPED THEM MOVE OUT, BUT I ALSO THINK IT IS A TEAM EFFORT, I TOOK CHARGE

Turns out I have some leadership capabilities afterall

Sociopaths are often the 33%, managers, supervisors, but never CEOs, or presidents. 

They can’t, they are too deluded to lead. Narcissistic, they love to control. 

At first I failed and took extreme ownership. I told them as the leader of this mission to move you guys out, I accept full responsibility. 

MOST OF THE TIME THE SHIT LEADS CAN’T ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY. THEY WILL PASS THE BLAME TO SOMEONE ELSE

Regardless the second time I adapted a lot and made it clear what the goals are. 

Both the students were deluded, so they kept doing it their way and screwing things up. 

ITS OKAY, EVENTUALLY IT STILL HAPPENED, THEY MOVED

ONE DIDN’T HAVE A PHONE WORKING BECAUSE HIS CRAZY PARENTS BARELY FEEDS HIM AND TOOK AWAY HIS WIFI.

The other parents does that sometimes but also, is controlling, yells at them non stop

MY PARENTS ARE THE CO-DEPENDENT TYPES WHO SPOILS ME SO I CAN’T REALLY GROW UP AND DO STUFF. THEY WILL DO ALL THE CHORES, LAUNDRY AND EVERYTHNG ELSE FOR ME.

 

 

LESSONS TO LEARN

These books feels like second nature. It actually makes sense to me

MOVE THE FVCK OUT WHEN YOU HAVE NARCISSISTIC CONTROLLING PARENTS. THEY ARE CRAZY

The longer you stay there, the more they will damage your mind

make you freeze up and turn you into a snowflake

then you get more and more messed up, you start to not be able to think for yourself

For Asians, this is a very important lesson

INDIANS TAKES THIS LESSON FURTHER, THEY LET THEIR KIDS GO FREE, JUST TO ASK THEM TO SEND MONEY THEN USE AN ARRAINGED MARRIAGE

THAT’S PURE NARCISSISM, CONTROL, WORSHIP, CO-DEPENDENCY

iT IS WHAT THEY DO…

They don’t know how to lead, just be dictators. 

When these people leave, they move in there. I am going to let them have their freedom. 

You can teach or lead people by letting them know why the strategy is that way

You give them credit, Mr. S helped out too. You give credit to your team. 

THERE ARE A LOT OF PRINCIPLES OF LEADERSHIP. My type, with my type of mental illness seems to be born to be a leader. I noticed that. 

A clear filter, who is direct. 

It isn’t as tactful to get along like a low level beta cuck. But sometimes you need to think with your HIGHER SELF TO LEAD. 

THAT’S VERY HARD, IF PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS TAKING THE LOW ROAD…

-John Elite

 

THE GROUP ONLINE COACHING HAS MORE AND MORE STUDENTS

THE STUFF I AM TEACHING, A LOT OF PEOPLE THINKS IT SHOULDN’T BE TAUGHT

I TEACH MORE THAN I SHOULD BECAUSE I REWARD MY FANS, MY STUDENTS

YOU AREN’T HERE TO WORSHIP, YOU ARE HERE TO GET RESULTS

WHEN YOU WORSHIP PUAS LIKE MOST INDIAN GUYS, YOU LOSE THE ABILITY TO THINK FOR YOURSELF. YOU BECOME A SHEEP

A NARCISSISTIC, HIGH EGO LOW SELF ESTEEM SHEEP

 

 

CHARACTER VS PERSONALITY

Most people never seen me behind the scenes. I’m actually quite a nice person. Personality is the first impression. 

OF COURSE WHEN PUA MARKETERS TRIES TO SELL YOU SHIT, THEY ACT ALL NICE AND SHIT

Behind their mask is like Hannibal Lecter, seriously. 

All my students knows I go the extra mile or 10 miles for them. The extra days I helped them out, the extra time I spend when I shouldn’t. I do have a caring side. 

ALTHOUGH MY PARENTS WHO RAISED ME WERE MENTALLY ABUSIVE TO THE MAX, WORST THAN ANYONE. I was also raised by my grandparents. My grandfather was very caring to the Chinese community since he started Chinese television. My grandma was caring too. But annoying as hell. 

But the first 7 years of your life, you get programmed. Over bearing parents can limit your potential. 

 

 

THE LAST CLASS WAS AMAZING, SALES AND HOW IT RELATES TO THE GAME

JOIN THE CLASS TODAY AND STOP WASTING YOUR TIME. HERE IS A NEW OPPORTUNITY. NEW CONCEPTS. 

I talk about keeping her on the line. Like sales, how to move her forward. SAME FILTER AS THE WORLDS BEST SALES MAN. JORDAN BELFORT. 

Don’t you get it, persuasion and game is actually the same thing. 

Too bad a lot of dating coaches are using these tools wrongly to manipulate to get people to worship cults. 

When you worship a cult, you no longer think for yourself. 

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SIGN UP ALREADY AND STOP WORSHIPPING CONTROLLING NARCISSISITIC CULT DATING COACHES. 

WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A CULT DATING COACH AND NARCISSISTIC PARENTS? CONTROL, WORSHIP, DEPENDENCY. BREAK THE CYCLE

 

 

I know this sounds fucking strange, I didn’t even buy cologne. Sometimes when I have new discoveries, like shoes, watches shit like that. But smell? Really?

A friend told me few people got laid based on a particular cologne. I was like no way.

I spelled it wrong last time, sorry here is the real image

I’M NOT SAYING YOU SHOULD SPEND $100 OR MORE, BUT THE THING ABOVE IS THE MOST EXPENSIVE. I don’t recommend it.

I JUST NEVER THOUGHT OF IT THIS WAY, WTF.

“However, there is biological peril, especially for women, to the magic of fragrance. Not only does a man’s use of fragrance make him behave more charmingly, my laboratory has shown that above all other physical characteristics, women rank how a man smells as the most important feature for determining whether she will be sexually attracted to him. Critically, she doesn’t discriminate much between whether his scent comes from his clean natural body-odor or from the bottle on his dresser. The reason this is a biological hazard is because, as my last blog explained, our body-odor is the representation of our immune system genes and women use their noses to choose their “correct” biological mate to ensure maximum fertility and child health (see The Scent of Sex). Therefore by wearing a fragrance that a woman finds enchanting, a biologically unsuitable man can trick a woman into being with him by “falsely” smelling scrumptious.“

Maybe this is another way of raising your SMV. It will make things easier because that is women’s number 1 criteria.

Even more than a sports car or abs.

MY FRIEND FOUND A HOLY GRAIL OF COLONGE THAT IS A KEPT SECRET. I KNOW IT, ITS CHEAP, BUT IT WORKS WELL

I can’t tell anyone, so don’t ask what it is.

I smelled it, I was like this has a nice pineapple smell, its hard not to smell it.

I kept sniffing my arm over and over.

It changes too, like wtf. It changed 3 times to a different smell.

INVICTUS ONLY GETS WOMEN’S ATTENTION. THIS ONE GETS THEM TO ACTUALLY BANG YOU?

IT WAS LIKE THE TERMINATOR CHIP, MICROPROCESSOR FROM THE FUTURE YOU GET NEW IDEAS

NOT EVERYTHING IS TRANSFERABLE, BUT I OFTEN USE THESE IDEAS TO MAKE ME THINK IN A NEW DIRECTION

I never really thought of this.

He also has new ideas.

For me conversations is like the jab,

Right cross or right punch metaphor is the spicing or teases, push/pull shit

The hook is the flirt

touch is the upper cut.

You always go back to the jab.

But he also has a sledgehammer technique I used, but expanded.

He does a misdirection, then lots of low blows as they call it, groin punches, many extreme teases to convert short number closes in a short time.

Its really advanced stuff.

HE EVEN WAITS FOR THE GIRLS TO ASK QUESTIONS LIKE MY GAME, WHAT DO YOU DO, WHERE ARE YOU FROM, WHAT’S YOUR ETHNICITY.

He has a response to that, super funny shit. Routines.

But its weird he also uses that, I thought I was the very few that waited until the girl asked before I instadate.

He said learn to number close.

ALSO HE LIKES THE INSTAGRAM IDEA. BACK IN HIS GENERATION HE WOULD USE EXTREME TEXT GAME.

GUESS WHO TAUGHT ME TEXT GAME? YOU GUESSED IT… LOL

the real inner circle of players

THANK YOU GUYS FOR LETTING ME BACK IN. I’M BEING UPGRADED AGAIN.

All this time my weird concepts no dating coaches teaches. Well, I do field test it all, try to make the Asian version.

But the reason why my game is so different or most people are too ignorant to have the light switches or depth to see it, well. Vancouver isn’t easy.

He knows he is taller and his game isn’t as transferable, levelling. SMV is higher. But still, he said try it out. Field test it, take what you like, discard the rest.

SOMETIMES TO BE A GOOD LEADER, YOU HAVE TO BE A GOOD FOLLOWER.

IF WHATEVER HE USES DOESN’T WORK FOR LOWER SMV STUDENTS, I WILL DISCARD IT QUICKLY. IN KRAV MAGA THEY DISCARD ANY MOVES THAT DOESN’T WORK FOR THE SKINNIEST, SHORTEST OLDEST SOLIDER. I DO THE SAME WITH GAME. IT IS WHY I GET SO MANY TESTIMONIALS.

SMV MATTERS A LOT

Its a bigger part of the pie. So if you can raise it a bit more, it would help if you don’t have a genetic advantage, tall, strong, look black, white or Latino.

Also, raise your social skills, also emotional intelligence. Its already 50%. Game is a smaller part, but still important. But will be super charged if you raise those two first.

TO BE HONEST, MOST OF THE OTHER DATING COACHES ARE TALL AND SMVING IT. DOESN’T EVEN MATTER WHAT STYLE THEY USE, IT WILL WORK REGARDLESS, IF OVER THAT LINE.

MORE OR LESS DEPENDING ON HOW YOU STACK ON THIS CHART. YOU LOOK BLACK, WELL 8/10 SMV, EVEN IF YOU AREN’T THAT RACE.

MR.S LOOKS LATINO, DOESN’T MATTER HE IS NOT.

WORK AROUND YOUR RACE, WHATEVER NUMBER, THEN OPTIMIZE OTHER CATEGORIES.

ITS ALL A GAME OF SCIENCE AND STATS. WOMEN ARE PREDICTABLE, SMV CHANGES IN EVERY COUNTRY, BUT RELATIVELY SIMILAR TO GET OVER THE LINE

If other dating coaches has game, then they could of transferred it to shorter people than them right? Nope, they delude themselves. Once you get over the line, you stop improving it and project that everyone gets the same compliance from women. NOPE.

IF YOU AREN’T RAISING YOUR SMV OR SOCIAL SKILLS, WHAT THE FVCK ARE YOU DOING WITH YOUR LIFE?

MOST PEOPLE DOESN’T EVEN UNDERSTAND WHAT I TEACH. NO LIGHT SWITCHES OR LIGHT BULBS GOES OFF IN THEIR HEADS BECAUSE THEY ARE SOCIOPATHIC, DELUDED, DISMISSIVE AND DUMB.

They don’t know there are a thousand gears, big and small. They only see the big. But its the smaller gears like a door hinge that makes everything swing open better.

MOST DATING COACHES WERE ACTUALLY JUST SOCIOPATHS WHO ARE DELUSIONAL AND JUST SMVING IT. IT WAS MORE SMV THAN THE GAME.

HIGHER THE SMV, THE LOWER LEVEL OF GAME TO GET OVER THE LINE.

Regardless raise your smv.

Some peoples game only works for themselves or higher SMV guys. But if its higher SMV then obviously SMV is a bigger part. Then its not their game afterall.

THAT’S THE BIGGEST DECEPTION. RACE MATTERS OR LOOKING LIKE A CERTAIN RACE, HEIGHT MATTERS AND MUSCLES MATTERS.

THE BIGGEST LIE IS THEY ALL SAY THEY HAD IT HARD IN THE BEGINNING. THEN IT BECAME EASIER. UMM, THAT’S BECAUSE OF MOST HAD MULTIPLE MENTAL ILLNESSES AND ADDED SOME SOCIAL SKILLS OR CONVERSATIONAL SKILLS AND THEIR SMV WAS ALREADY THAT HIGH.

-John Elite

TEXT GAME FOR MINORITIES.

Guess who influenced my text game. There was a reason why it was so strong before. Or why the students got laid on bootcamps when they copy and paste my text.

https://johnelite.com/text-game-for-minorities-program/