Limiting beliefs, part deux… Deux means 2 in French you dumb fuck

Now that I offended you, lets begin the blog post. The last post’s topic was so big that I had to make a part 2, a sequel…

Lets talk about some of the students limiting beliefs. You can even see them in their testimonials too.

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Age affects your game. Yeah if you look really really old it can. Wait that’s not true. I seen anomolies everywhere.

Ever noticed that all the anomalies all have the same qualities, they are usually rich, has social skills, chilled, good vibe, can keep is sexual, same shit.

 

I knew a guy with 1600 laycounts and I will meet the other PUA inner circle members who are like the seal team 6 of daygame. All the same shit…

They are much older looking, but banging women from 18-30 whatever. Doesn’t matter.

The idea that game will get harder when you are older, even JT Tran believes there is a cusp, I don’t buy into that shit I really don’t.

Its easy to say when I look like a 22 year old with knowledge about the game from when it started for the PUA scent. I’m not 22 mind you.

But just because you are older, as long as your vibe is good, you are socially intelligent and attempt to take care of yourself.

 

Once you have the right mother fucking mindsets, your game will continue because womens nervous system can detect value.

When most of these naturals were younger, they were all better looking, most are tall and all had an upward spiral.

So their mindsets were upwards. Does that make sense?

 

Of course looks, money, status, game matters. It all matters, for game, social skills, social calibrations, emotional intelligence and persuasion/game matters.

That is true of 90% of the society, but not 100, there are anomalies everywhere.

 

No one in the history of game has 400 daygame testimonials, no one. Except me.

 

Until you see someone do it,

then your mind opens

 

For most people age matters, if your SMV is getting worst and you are older. For naturals, it doesn’t mean shit. It doesn’t mean shit.

 

By naturals I don’t mean the so called natural and direct faggots in the daygame industry who sticks feathers up their ass and call themselves naturals.

I don’t mean that at all, because they aren’t the same as the naturals.

These faggots, have no social skills and they give validation all the time. They don’t flirt, just validation replaces flirting which is stupid.

 

 

Second limiting belief is you can’t get a white girl, or a taller one… Lol

Ummm if you believe that, of course you won’t.

 

Have no limits to your abilities dude, wtf.

This dude, always was obsessed with blonde women. He didn’t think he could get any white women and it was impossible.

Never use that word dude, once you use the I word, impossible, it manifest into your reality.

I believe anything is achievable if you have the right strategy. Even if it hasn’t been done yet, doesn’t mean shit, it can be achieved.

 

ABSENSE OF EVIDENCE ISN’T EVIDENCE OF ABSENSE.

 

Before no one ran a 4 minute mile…

Now every mofo can run a 4 min mile, in fact 60 more people did after the first guy did it…

 

This dude with my coaching even before I was John Wayne, that’s why he called me John Dole.

I was already the worlds best dating coach way before when I was an entrepreneur teaching every daygame system and creating my own from scratch.

Everyone has a 1% or 10% of 5% pieces of gears that makes it run. I just discard a lot of what doesn’t work.

Krav Maga will get rid of any techniques that doesn’t work in the worst case scenario that doesn’t work for everyone in the worst circumstances.

 

This guy was only 5’7 and Latino, but somehow he banged a 6’2 women who is blonde.

 

 

Still after my mentor is going to bring another women home, that’s 3/3. He rarely goes out, now sends them over here. I no longer understand any of this…

I can’t get over the 11% of the numbers will come out and for my students its about 35% and if the guy is taller, 40% but it never is 100% like for my mentor.

Neo in this scene said, no, that’s impossible, I don’t believe it. I want out, I want out. He then fainted. That’s how I feel right about now.

I even knew a taller white guy who never got rejected before with sloppy game. Actually he had no game, but 25% will come out, 75% will respond, 50% will set up a date.

 

But this, If he looked like some Bollywood actor I would understand, but he doesn’t.

Doesn’t make any fucking sense, this makes about as much sense as me getting non stop daygame testimonials, which makes no sense to other dating coaches.

Now I know how it feels like.

To be humbled, so much to the point where I hyper focused on same day lays, but thought numbers will flake more.

I had a limiting belief that same day lays were the only solution.

While it is a good option, this still doesn’t make any sense, it bends reality.

Of course the stats I get, the 11% comes from white dating coaches and I thought it was universal. I was so fucking sure. I was so sure. Nope

Now I have to revamp my game for two routes, number closes and same day lays.

 

I believe this group is the seal team 6 of daygame, the best of the best and i’m one of the members. I was even more of a killer in the game, doing even more amazing stuff before I got too much into the PUA coaches stuff.

I knew this guy 5 years ago, this is where a lot of my innovation came from, he was the terminator chip I used for innovation.

 

While not identical systems, the chip made me aware or inspired me…

He is the best PUA I ever saw in my life and makes all the dating coaches including myself look like amateurs. I thought he was exaggerating his results. Or using some kind of seeking arraignments or something else before. Nope, its all real.

He doesn’t get every number, but when he does a 100% rate of her coming to any location he wants.

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Another limiting belief, Same day lays are the only option and logistics has to be close

Now that I seen this mentor get same day lays though number closes and meeting her later. I realized almost all my limiting beliefs were from one particular person.

This is where you drop these beliefs.

They might not be true for everyone, not the naturals anyways.

They bend the rules to their reality..

This is what it feels like looking though the looking glass.

 

Yes I am the worlds best dating coach for student results. But when you are part of a seal team 6 level of daygamers, you realized there is even more innovation.

The longer I am around these guys the faster I think I can get to 1000 testimonials.

I believe they are all naturals, real ones…

 

For the logistics, I always believed I had to be really near, another belief I had from one person.

It is almost always wrong.

I’ve banged women like 5 cities away using transit.

I have to reset all of the limiting ideas. Anything can be accomplished if you have the right strategy.

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I was so sure I had everything down to a fucking science. I do, but there is more to field test again.

New directions of the game, even more impossible task.

 

One shot one kill, same day lay on the first approach

This concept freaks out almost all wh

ite dating coaches. To them because they have such high SMV and high natural status, they play a numbers game of high volume.

My mentor if he can get every number to come out, its not a numbers game but a game of conversions.

I try to keep her on the line.

I almost have a rock paper scissors way of counter punching her back on the line every time so she can’t deviate from the line.

I’ve done it in front of bootcamp students too. Many times even on the first approach.

But to most people who keeps telling themselves its a numbers game, I don’t agree with that.

This is entirely possible and only several people in the world can do this.

 

Comfort takes 7-10 hours face time during a date, you can’t use seduction

I broken this rule many many times, bringing it down to 10 mins.

I even seen guys who can pull even faster and still convert her and keep her around

Once she has sex, if your value is higher she will stick around.

If not, you are the quick sex guy and you don’t fit into that frame.

But I have no reason to believe in the 10 hour rule

That is only for white people with no flirting or seduction skills, all attraction building to get over that line.

 

 

Your specific country is harder than others or city

Unless you live in Vancouver which requires more social skills, then you shouldn’t think that

I like to tell myself its easy even if most PUA style RSD victims taking other dating coaches courses only gets results night game or quits entirely in less than a year.

That really sucks to be them, I can see why, they are failing.

Lack of social intelligence, weird vibe no emotional intelligence.

Students loves coming here from all over the world to train with me here.

Someone from Australia thought what the fuck is it with this place?

Its like 3x harder than Australia.

Its only harder due to social skills, but I should tell myself it is super easy. Its a better mindset especially if you have the right tactics.

I often tell my students in 3MP to talk to people at your work place to work on small talk.

You improve your social skills immediately when you can do that.

You can reuse this social skills for so called plowing, which isn’t necessary as much if you can use statements of empathy early on, false time constraints and self amusement.

Maybe social skills is super important in game, people skills.

 

 

 

 

I have field tested every daygame system in the world

been mentored by a lot of underground players of all races. Few dating coaches and field tested very system in the world.

I found the cure for daygame,

no one is happy because they are all in it for the treatment, not he cure.

Its all about ego and comforting that ego, not curing your problems with daygame.

With social intelligence and social intelligence on top of persuasion and game, with SMV maxing, you can you even the odds.

Proven with the most testimonials in the world.

I see the world only having one daygame system in the future…  mine.

Join me in this new opportunity.

I’m giving you guys the tools with my products, services and bootcamps, Youtube Live, Inner Circle to over throw a system that was rigged against you.

A system by tall positive stereotype dating coaches who can’t transfer their Sexual market value to you.

Join me. Lets change the world together.

 

I’m going to write all my limiting beliefs and burn it all

I just bought a new mouse, called the Death Adder Elite. I like that name. Someone upsold me on it today, I lost my other mouse somewhere and I needed something or I can post the second part of the bootcamp video.

This much is Fucking expensive shit.

I also got a new Rolex GMT II design looking homage watch too.

Out of all watches the Rolex Submariner and Daytona got students laid the most.

Its the iconic look that works.

I was out field testing it, it works.

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Perhaps the best mindset is to always believe you are wrong.

Even thought in almost all cases all my students say I am 100% right about everything.

In most cases I am.

But I started out thinking I was wrong so I had to field test everything.

I tried every system. It took many years to field test them all. I even taught it too on top of that.

I got the field testing data all the tall white students got laid first. I knew there was a race hierachy

But now, being around the naturals again, this opens up more possibilities. Even I can always keep learning.

I’m a student of the game obsesses with perfection. I’m a perfectionist.

I have an obsession with perfection

Once again more room to field test

Just try to be less wrong.

The biggest problem with most dating coaches are they never tried every system.

I did, but every system by sociopathic PUAs only limits you because most of them are socially retarded and SMVing it.

This is my rant.

Student always, teacher sometimes.

Well a very good teacher at that.

Nice Jubilee bracelet… Doesn’t say Rolex, but it still has a nice sapphire glass on it.

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-John Elite

 

Limiting beliefs, the stuff they don’t teach you for daygame

This post will be Esoteric as fuck

But John What the fuck does esoteric means? I don’t know, but my friend used that word and now I do.

es·o·ter·ic
[ˌesəˈterik]

ADJECTIVE
  1. intended for or likely to be understood by only a small number of people with a specialized knowledge or interest.

 

My limiting beliefs and why I am dropping all that shit

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When you are mentored by the wrong people, it fucks you up. When you are mentored by the right people, you get better in daygame. Its called levelling.

 

The best PUA I ever seen is my Pakistani Mentor. He can bang a few women a week and just banged a 18 year old. The day before he banged an Instagram model women. He kept flaking on her due to the last date. He did that at her house.

Hes an older guy, not good looking, a bit over weight. He is the best PUA I know.

In fact he was responsible for the knowledge about the watches and shoes before.

He was also responsible for me going the text game route. Which I have a course text game for minorites.

I think he is a natural, women are throwing himself on him.

100% of the numbers, they come out on a date, pulled or he bangs them. Wtf,

WELL NO MORE GOD DAMN, OH YOU NEED THIS MUCH VALUE BEFORE THE NUMBER CONVERTS.

While there is a lot of truth to it, there is something else, the vibe.

I don’t know how he does it. But it freaks me out and I never thought it was possible.

All the white PUAS for dating coaches said they have 11% of the girls coming out.

I mean I used to study Paul Janka’s Janky game too. I taught everyones system and field tested it.

He was a lazy fuck who collected numbers, be good looking and text them all at the same time. What a lazy cunt.

This ideology limits you.

I became so hyperfocused on same day lays because of this belief.

 

 

 

4 Minute Mile

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Some dude ran a marathon and he ran a mile in 4 mins and people didn’t believe it was possible.

60 more fucking people fished that mile right afterwards.

This is a case of limited potential.

Have no limits to your abilities, wtf.

It isn’t true until you see someone do it…

400 laid and pull testimonials. While others thinks they are on god tier with 12=15 testimonials and most white dating coaches 1-3.

Umm 400 vs 12, 400.

Just saying…

 

 

Same day lays are the only option, but try to pull and day 2 afterwards setting the frame?

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Its not the only option. My mentor who I think is the best PUA I ever met without being a positive stereotype.

He said if I went for an instadate I can lose other girls who will convert on the numbers.

Of course he banged this 18 year old girl during an instadate and solidify the number.

But he was offended he could of got more.

I mean, wtf, this throws a wretch into all of my theories.

 

 

FEMALE FRIENDS ARE A WASTE OF TIME

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This is a load of bullshit. They can actually be an asset, not a liability. But in reality, I don’t bother with female friends.

What started this belief?

For myself, I had female friends in highschool and every single one of them friendzoned me when I try to go and escalate on them.

I was devastated and thought never again, that was the activating event.

Simple Pickup or Simple Bullshit said female friends are a waste of time. Fuck Me Or Fuck Off as they said…

 

Okay this is why its bullshit. Ready to hear it?

Female friends you can get used to pulling them home. Without sex, you still learn how to get more comfort?

Lots of you are nervous in the bedroom.

Unless you wrestle with her or have a higher SMV, or both. That’s not game, that’s something else. Starts with a R and ends with an APE.

Sometimes the comfort can hurt you, or the lack of it.

Being chilled and comfortable is very  important in the game

What you feel she feels. if you are nervous or uncomfortable, she is uncomfortable

Having female friends means she will tell you if you are creepy or not.

Then again this is still advice that I didn’t take. Before there was no social media when I was in the game, OG. Now there is and you can utilize this as preselection.

 

 

You should only approach women when they have nothing to do

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This is what they call shotgun game. It just not precise, just go for a women not so hot and try to same day lay her.

While that’s good for your vibe, you lose a ton of hot women you could of banged.

Its easier to do one shot one kills this way, meaning first approach.

 

The other style is called sniper game.

It uses the escalation ladder.

What is an escalation ladder for those who doesn’t know.

My escalation ladder uses the least amount of romance possible or not at all.

But its a yes ladder.

Mine is determine what frame you fit into.

If she sees you as a boyfriend material you can go more romantic

If she sees you as a fuck buddy, you can be romantic sexual

If your SMV is dogshit like mind, either be husband material or same day lay guy.

Sniper game isn’t the only way either.

 

Assault rifle or 3 round burst is the same idea, but approaching women you would of approached shotgun method. But you just make more approaches around these type of women trying to same day lay them.

 

There is also another strategy naturals uses. Ping her. Sometimes they use preopeners. Like the weather is good today… Before they go into the excuse me real quick.

If they aren’t feeling her, in 30 seconds they say bye, nice to meet you.

Then go onto the next one filtering a women who is down to fuck.

 

Conclusion, if you only go for shotgun strategy, you will lose a lot of women that could of been way hotter. There is no hard and fast rule.

 

That was a very hard blog post to write actually. But have no limits to your abilities

Bruce Lee said it best

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