255 views, but nowhere near 300 views

REMADE THE VIDEO AGAIN FURTHER

THIS ONE FINALLY REACHED 400 VIEWS. DO THE SAME WITH THE OTHER VIDEOS

I STARTED A NEW PODCAST ON THE SIDE ON MY SECOND CHANNEL, SUBSCRIBE IF YO HAVEN’T ALREADY. BUT I ALWAYS WANTED VIDEOS WHERE IT WASN’T SUPER LONG, IT HAS NO DEAD SPACES OR PAUSES AND ITS EASIER TO WATCH. NOT TOO LONG, NOT TOO SHORT. THATS WHAT I LIKE TO WATCH.

THERE WAS A POST THAT REALLY BOTHERED ME AND ALSO ENLIGHTENED ME THAT I AM FOCUSING ON THE WRONG AUDIENCE.

My initial aggression stems from people just acting like low-functioning zombies

I feel like I am feeding raccoons going through the trash this year

THIS IS MORE OF THE SO CALLED BROKIES THIS YEAR…

This video might be feeding the trash pandas or raccoons of the brokies.

You focus on this audience during an economic crisis..

then I would be more fustrated, angry dealing with these types

Until one told me to be nicer, empathize with their plight or their situation

Ummm.. why should I?

I made videos on how to budget their time, energy etc.

But one stupid racoon decided to bite my hand, then tell me to be nicer to them…

I can’t relate to you…

I DON’T CONDONE THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOR, THIS IS METAPHORICALLY HOW I FEEL NOW..

I was going to make a video on dealing with food cost

however, now I realized

I DECIDED NOT TO MAKE THE VIDEO ON REDUCING FOOD COST. BUT INSTEAD JUST MAKE THAT IN THE INNER CIRCLE FOR MY STUDENTS WHO WOULD TAKE IT MORE SERIOUSLY

I would show them the basmati rice I buy, tuna, also how to use flour to make noodles, pizza and strategically manage their foodcost

Like a prepper type of person, I stocked up on a lot of food last year instead of buying crypto bullshit

I literally bought all the tuna from Amazon in 2022 for $22 per case of 24 of them in different flavors

now the food inflation has gone up

I also supplement what my body needs and intermitting fast a lot

I’m not malnutrition

but I wanted to try to see what would happen if I did that for one year

I’m not as chubby as before, but learning to deal with food cost, it wasn’t factored into my maslov chart of human needs

THIS VIDEO HAS UNDER 300 VIEWS

THIS ONE TOO

The 3MP student also got in a car accident

ITS IRONIC, BUT NOBODY WOULD KNOW, THE ADVICE FOR THE FIRST 5 BUCKETS IS TO SPLIT YOUR MONEY INTO

1. SAVINGS EMERGENCY FUNDS
2. PAYING YOUR BILLS, EXPENSES
3. INVESTING IN SELF EDUCATION
4. INVEST IN TRAINING (MY TRAINING)
5. BUYING STUFF YOU LIKE

Its ironic because if he followed the advice, he wouldn’t lose his job, lose his car

I never wished that to happen,

My abilities to manifest is powerful, but I didn’t want this.

Others have gone through worst

However my thoughts and feelings lately are not alighned.

THIS INDIAN STUDENT, I HAVE SEVERAL, BUT ONE JUST STONEWALLS NOW.

I was kind of angry at first when stonewalled

the indian student, I have several, two of which already pulled

however one that has lower SMV and still stonewalling me

Hes got the money part

THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS.

A FEW OF MY STUDENTS HAVE BEEN MORE TRIGGERED, STONEWALLING.

Whats the difference between emotions and feelings

Even if they were the opposite, the point is they are separate categories.

most of my students doesn’t have a huge range of emotions

THEY HAVE FEELINGS.. BUTTHURT FEELINGS WHICH CAN EASILY BE AFFECTED BY THE MASLOV CHART OF HUMAN NEEDS.

FEELINGS IS MORE LIKE THIS.. TRIGGERED..

If the other Low smv indian guy, I forwarded him the last blog post, he a stonewaller. If not depressed why does he sigh in his video, upside down smile? why?

I mean most of the upside down smile guys are depressed, even suicidal

but for him, hes most likely so used to it, thats his new normal

getting triggered, being delusional, looking like charles manson actually, same face shape.. identical..

I mean… delusional, despite superior evidence and all these years of teaching students…

BUT THE WEIRD THING WAS, THE ETHNICITIES THAT ARE THE MOST TRIGGERED ARE INDIANS AND ASIANS. EXCLUSIVELY

I myself got a bit not emotional, that part is getting colder again

I was really empathizing with the trash pandas and I think it was a mistake to focus on them.

EMOTIONALLY I WAS VERY EMPATHETHIC TRYING TO HELP PEOPLE, I WAS

Now that side is turned off

But the feelings for the 3MP student going through money problems

he got hurt recently that sucks

however I was very angry in terms of feelings

FEELINGS NEEDS TO BE CORRECTED, SO I’M GOING TO BUILD A NEW SYSTEM ADDRESSING FEELINGS BECAUSE IF I FEEL IT, YOU FEEL IT 10X.. CAUSE YOU ARE AUTISTIC

Navy seals has 4 tenants to deal with stress

Not that I am impressed cause the Israelis are way more innovative, adaptive, stronger morale

1. SETTING GOALS, DOWN TO THE SECONDS, MINUTES, HOURS, DAYS, WEEKS, MONTHS, YEARS. SO YOUR BRAIN WILL REMAIN INTACT
2. POSITIVE VISUALIZATION.
3. POSITIVE SELF TALK
4. AROUSAL CONTROL OR STRESS CONTROL.

I think by working on these 4 things it would help a lot actually

Am I implementing this, no

but it makes no sense not to have positive self talk

this is more GRIT related stuff

GRIT and mindsets helped my students a lot

during the entire pandemic, even up to recently

however thats not enough

I made a lot videos about GRIT

IT’S ABOUT THE FIRST PRINCIPLES, THE FUNDAMENTAL TRUTHS. NOT JUST REASONING BY ANOLOGY OF WHAT ANOTHER PERSON SAID.

WHEN I THOUGHT OF USING THE MINDSET PLAYLIST, GRIT AND OTHER STUFF, IT HELPED A LOT FOR THE STUDENTS

That was a fundemental truth, you needed GRIT

We know that funementally social calibrations is more powerful than game

it takes time to develop it but its worth it

It eliminates flakes and shit test and resistance in the bedroom, so you don’t need to use alcohol wrestling with drunk women

There is no 10% stats

it wasn’t that long ago when the students were getting one lay after another

Inflation, wokism, literally driving WWIII in the future

they see all these companies closing down and laying people off..

PEOPLE ARE IN A LEARNED HELPLESSNESS STATE OF MIND

learned help·less·ness

[ˌlərnd ˈhelpləsnəs]

NOUN

PSYCHIATRY

1. a condition in which a person has a sense of powerlessness, arising from a traumatic event or persistent failure to succeed. It is thought to be one of the underlying causes of depression.

Learned helplessness

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Learned helplessness is the behavior exhibited by a subject after enduring repeated aversive stimuli beyond their control. It was initially thought to be caused by the subject’s acceptance of their powerlessness, by way of their discontinuing attempts to escape or avoid the aversive stimulus, even when such alternatives are unambiguously presented. Upon exhibiting such behavior, the subject was said to have acquired learned helplessness.^[1][2]

In humans, learned helplessness is related to the concept of self-efficacy; the individual’s belief in their innate ability to achieve goals. Learned helplessness theory is the view that clinical depression and related mental illnesses may result from a real or perceived absence of control over the outcome of a situation.

My theory (when I talk psychology I talk first, then cite later because what I am saying is true)

Not use stupid graphs and create half truth pills

This is also part of the fundemental truth.

You can’t rescue someone who is incompetent and it would just make them more depressed.

In the past I only focused on those swimming towards my rescue helicoptor

Now, more people out there are drowning.

I’M THINKING TO MYSELF, AM I MARKETING TO THE WRONG INCOMPETENT AUDIENCE?

Mind you, I also have aspies who are really low functioning,

they barely have a haircut, low smv

I also got students are extremely attractive, barely able to make their first approaches

now one is in Toronto, which is good

can finally open

He fixed his social skills, social calibrations

but like most Latinos, hes only half, he fixed

I THINK A LOT OF THE ISSUES ARE MENTAL ISSUES. SO THE MENTAL TRAUMA CURE PROGRAM IS NOT A CHARITY, BUT ALOT OF THEM NEEDS IT.

Its 1k for the program, it works

However, I also think that if they invested in my other programs, they should get a discount if they invested imo.

Maybe thats a good offer

once someone goes through it, they can approach again just fine

I think a lot of people are accumulating junk in their minds

ALSO I’M NOT TOO IMPRESSED BY THE HOT AUDIENCE FOR THE YOUTUBE COMMUNITY SECTION EITHER.

WHAT AM I THINKING, IN TERMS OF THE RACOONS. I SAY STOP FEEDING THEM, LET THEM STARVE. FOCUS ON A BETTER AUDIENCE WHO COULD AFFORD IT WHO ISN’T IN MASSIVE DEBT

I think my logical students, not all are engineers btw

some of the logical students are also other types of fields requiring the left brain

of course thats just the software, studying neruoscience lately, the brain doesn’t have a left and right

if someone gets a piece of their brain shot off, it still reroutes

Its more like an earth’s crust, the outer layer does soemthing different from the middle which regulates emotions/feelings.

The inner section does different stuff

the inner crust can not be damaged, but the outer parts can.

They do have a logical side, even if it isn’t directly firing from their left brain.

But a part of the overall core.

MENTALLY I’M STILL FINE, I’M PRETTY FUCKING RESILIENT, A BIT RUTHLESS TOO WHEN I AM

However I have to figure a new system for the feelings part

I guess my students are new test subjects.

I don’t deal with theories or half truths,

when my students supplements, they also are dealing with the physical part of their mind

I need to remind them

THE PROBLEM WITH NARCISISSM AND SELF ESTEEM. IF THEY ARE AUTISTIC, HAS CORPUS CALLSOM ISSUES WITH THEIR MIDDLE PART OF THEIR BRAIN, THEY ALSO WON’T FUNCTION TOO WELL DURING THIS INFLATION

It robs them of their self esteem, raising their ego, getting them triggered more

causing massive depression.

But they are also lazy

If I could tell them which supplements to buy, they would all be better off

I’m supplemented right now so i’m more relaxed or feelings or adrenal stress

When the supplement wears out, I am not.

I think depression is something I need to talk about maybe, the real science behind it.

But i’ll stop focusing on the raccoons soon or the trash pandas.

Its the wrong audience right now

i’m sure they appreciate it that I am making videos to help them.

But thats not enough.

Unless you want to mass approach giving direct compliments and validation. See how long you last with low SMV

then if you do get someone, shes below your looks level.

I WAS READING THIS BOOK ON HOW TO SELL MORE DURING A RECESSION. THIS IS COMMON ALTHOUGH WE AREN’T IN ONE RIGHT NOW

Technically we are, there was two quarters with negative GDP

However, they refuse to call it that

But you need to do 10x the amount just to get one if everyone are depressed.

The authors has experience with that,

it makes sense actually

I’ll have to find the right people, like a rescue operation where I can’t help everyone.

I ALSO KNOW THE MINDFUL MEDITATION CAN HELP

I’m going to adapt something pretend you are sinking in the ocean and you just accept the thoughts and feelings

I don’t meditate, or I can’t

however this might help to do that you are more focused

if the feelings are thoughts can be seperated from you, then you are not your thoughts and feelings.

This needs more field testing and split testing.

It goes more into the alpha waves for your brain a more flow state

Our brain tends to work in different frequencies.

I think people are in the theata and gamma for stress and depression

But supplementation could help a great deal, but I was refusing of sharing my supplement stack with the public unless they take my coaching.

THE POSITIVE SELF TALK IS IMPORTANT.

I’ll figure it all out.

I’m good at that stuff.

maybe if I looped an affirmation for them that would be good for youtube.

they can listen to it if they can’t do the positive self talk

ALSO, FOR GRADITUDE MEDITATION IS A GOOD IDEA. YOU CAN’T BE DEPRESSED WHEN YOU ARE GREATFUL,

Its like the opposite and I need go through that.

Acceptance is important too

THE LAST STAGE IS ACCEPTANCE, PEOPLE NEEDS TO LEARN THAT TOO. I THINK THERE IS A LOT OF GREAT IDEAS FOR VIDEO IDEAS. I SHOULD MAKE A PLAYLIST CALLED DAYGAME MOTIVATION OR SOMETHING.

EVERY FUCKED UP INFLATION EVENT, I DON’T WANT TO SAY WHO IS RESPONSIBLE, A ZOMBIE. ITS GOOD FOR THE SEO

Maybe thats the issue, they go against everyone who talks about thinks critical to the adminstration of wokism which is a mind virus.

LET ME TALK ABOUT A NORMACY BIAS.

Everything I say has citations. Its not bullshit.

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Normalcy bias, or normality bias, is a cognitive bias which leads people to disbelieve or minimize threat warnings.^[1] Consequently, individuals underestimate the likelihood of a disaster, when it might affect them, and its potential adverse effects.^[2] The normalcy bias causes many people to not adequately prepare for natural disasters, market crashes, and calamities caused by human error. About 70% of people reportedly display normalcy bias during a disaster.^[3]

The normalcy bias can manifest in response to warnings about disasters and actual catastrophes. Such disasters include market crashes, motor vehicle accidents, natural disasters like a tsunami, and war.

Normalcy bias has also been called analysis paralysis, the ostrich effect,^[4] and by first responders, the negative panic.^[5] The opposite of normalcy bias is overreaction, or worst-case scenario bias,^[6][7] in which small deviations from normality are dealt with as signals of an impending catastrophe.

NEW IDEAS POPPED UP AS I WAS DRINKING STEEPED TEA.

FIRST IDEA. BEFORE I WAS GIVING AWAY FREE COURSES FOR ASIAN SENSATION COURSE

BEFORE ELITE 30, I DECIDED TO GIVE IT ALL AWAY WITHOUT SIGNING UP

THEN THE SAME DAY LAY TRAINING.

WHY NOT MAKE ONE MORE BUDGETING, MONEY, SUPPLEMENTATION. CALL IT LOOKS, MONEY, STATUS, BUT THIS TIME MONEY, emotional control

Yeah that would be great

Make it the same as my old videos instead.

same weird background and worry about 300 views, most gets there

that along with the same day lay training, got me a lot of students

But this stuff will funnel you into that

IF I ONLY FOCUS ON A BETTER AUDIENCE ON YOUTUBE, I SHOULDN’T FOCUS ON THE TRASH PANDAS

The other course you would have sign up like Asian sensation.

NEXT I’LL UPGRADE THE CONTACT ME FORM AND ALSO THE BROKIE CATEGORY, REWRITE IT

THE BOOK CAN COME LATER ON. AFTER ALL THIS IS HANDLED.

when they are more mentally abled, they can be funneled back into the same day lay webinar

however for now, they need to handle this

Should I dress like this again?

IT WAS BASED ON THIS VIDEO, JOHN CONNER, LEADER OF THE RESISTANCE AGINST THE TERMINATOR A.I MACHINES. FUNNY IN A SHORT TIME THIS IS HAPPENING.

This could be the trailer for the new thing

I still have the outfit

This was before the Russian war actually when I made this

all the predictions came true actually.

Its forshadowing the future

I can keep this stuff on my Youtube, or less.

They can sign up for all my free courses

BUT ELITE 30 AND ELITE HAS WORKED FOREVER. SO IT DOESN’T CHANGE.

I could keep building a cold audience on Youtube, building up an army

still help my audience here for warm

then hot audience is my original videos dealing with your objections and mental bullshit.

WHEN I RELEASED THE VIDEOS BEFORE, PEOPLE IGNORED IT

When people release new courses, people ignores me

but when they don’t get laid, or funneled to a bootcamp, its happened before for mentor worship, the past is repeating itself

fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me

People are not stupid,

but the bhenchodes are.

people have doubled down on mentor worship mentality

If I write daily on my blog will be better too.

But yeah don’t worship mentors and use game crutches at bootcamps

their courses will never work

ever on purpose

Last time you didn’t listen, this time you might.

I SHOULD BEGIN WRITING OUT THE SCRIPT.

I’m not going to teach you how to make millions obviously

but i’m going ot teach you how not to be a brokeass and have some fucking skills

maybe dress up like a soilder again.

MAYBE HEALTHY FOODS WILL BE A GOOD IDEA.

-for me I noticed i’m happier eating rice and beans with sausage

also, potatoes for some reason

also, beef with ravoli

also cheese in general

I’m not sure why

even pasta

It seems like a lot of carbs with protein

Finding foods that makes you feel happier, that your body needs and double down on it.

Chips makes me tired. snacks.

I SHOULD GET STARTED WITH THE FREE COURSE OUTLINE THEN…

I can decide if I want to release all of this free and keep it the same format as before…

THESE VIDEOS WERE ORIGINALLY DESIGNED TO BE RELEASED IN A FREE COURSE, BUT IT WAS GOOD I JUST RELEASED THEM ALL SLOWLY AFTERWARDS. MADE A HUGE IMPACT. MIXING THAT WITH THE SAME DAY LAY TRAINING. SO THE TIMING IS IMPORTANT TOO.

this whole matrix background shit seems like a good idea

The other ones about money issues should be dressed in that military outfit with that radio..

I should release a few of the videos and film them all ahead of time.

Should I rehire my Filpino video editor? He didn’t even produce a single good clip last time

took him 10 tries to do the most simple task.

So I fired him again.

Looks like I have to do everything

Those are my thoughts today

I have to do all the video editing myself.

I should try to do a bigger batch so I don’t burn out

I don’t have to deal with this day to day, like spending hours writing this blog post.

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BLACK STUDENT 44 LAYS, GO WATCH IT. I WON’T MAKE A NEW VIDEO UNLESS IT HAS 300 VIEWS, A LONG WAY OFF. I CAN WAIT YOU OUT.

Get Laid Like a Hero: Watch This Video to 300 Views and Unlock a New One

240 views now, far away from 300. Unless you want no more new content.. I would wait you out giving you what you deserve or in this case.. what you don’t deserve, a new video…

I have noticed that some of the students I work with have been exhibiting stonewalling behavior lately. This behavior is often associated with sociopathy and a lack of empathy, which can negatively impact both personal and professional relationships.

It’s important to avoid falling into a state of learned helplessness and inflation, where lots of people mentally shut down and act as if everything is the end of the world.

I myself have been frustrated on dealing with slow adaptations and people doing the minium procrastinating with their homework assignments treating it like a bandage solution, not the cure…

In my experience, stonewallers are often triggered individuals who exhibit narcissistic tendencies and a lack of empathy and remorse.

It can be difficult to provide coaching or support to someone who engages in stonewalling behavior.

I understand that some of the students who have exhibited this behavior are of Asian or Indian descent.

Sometimes stonewalling even happens after the student gets 3 lays in a row and they ego trip too.

They would say uh huh, uh huh ignoring what you are saying until your other students gets even better results than they do

then they go back to the depressed snowflake cunt gear.

Remember, my job is to get you laid, it requires some discipline, focus and commitment.

Standards would need to be maintained especially last year when people were a bit more functional.

Ultimately, it’s important to approach these situations with empathy and a willingness to understand the underlying issues that may be causing the stonewalling behavior.

Many sociopathic personalities stonewall, but many stonewallers aren’t sociopaths, so how do you tell the difference?

Stonewalling is when someone shuts you down from communicating.

He just “bails” on your efforts at communication, refuses to take you seriously; refuses to engage a discussion of your concerns.

He may ignore or dismiss you, express fatigue with you (and your concerns); he may listen without offering a thoughtful, respectful response, and then credit himself for having listened, perhaps even listened at a length he may complain about.

In any case his unthoughtful, lazy, dismissive, or flat-out non-response to your feelings and concerns captures the essence of stonewalling and will reflect his pure contempt for which he’ll take no responsibility.

Rather, he may depict you as a boring windbag who doesn’t know when to “stop talking,” or who’s always making or looking for “trouble,” without recognizing or owning how his insistent refusal to listen, his determination NOT to listen, actually provokes, passive-aggressively, your very instinct to “talk” and “pursue him” until he gives a meaningful response.

He may flat-out tell you he’s bored by, and uninterested in, the concerns you raise, regardless of how strongly you feel about them, and regardless of how strong your need to discuss them is.

It may be that the more urgency you feel to broach your concerns, the more he’ll contemptuously stonewall you.

When your concerns pertain to the relationship itself, his rebuff will feel especially cruel and leave you feeling especially helpless.

It will also very likely be dripping with some form of passive-aggressive, if not aggressive, contempt.

Now this is stonewalling, and stonewalling is a nasty, hurtful thing to do to someone; it leaves the stonewalled party feeling as negated as a person can feel.

You don’t have to be a sociopath to stonewall.

Plenty of non-sociopaths stonewall.

But many sociopaths are stonewallers,

and the act of stonewalling itself, especially when it’s intentional, often contains the cold, callous attitude of the sociopath.

The stonewaller’s absence of empathy for the stonewalled party, perhaps even the relish the stonewaller takes in messing with the stonewalled party’s head, in watching her twist and squirm and perhaps make humiliating efforts and bids to be heard—

there can be something actually sadistic about this.

Stonewalling will tend to elicit some common feelings in the stonewalled party—among them shame, anger, rage, infuriation, humiliation, desperation (to be heard), helplessness, and a sense of being driven crazy.

Stonewalling, then, is a form of “gaslighting” insofar as it can leave the stonewalled party feeling as if she’s speaking a foreign language inaccessible to the stonewaller even though she knows perfectly well the stonewaller speaks the language, literally, but either refuses to speak it or “acts” like he doesn’t.

This can have a “crazy-making” effect, as if he’s accusing her (as he may very well do) of speaking incomprehensibly.

Stonewallers, whether sociopaths or not, are seriously disturbed communicators.

Their indifference to the stonewalled party’s experience, as noted, can be chilling. Their stonewalling often reflects character pathology, in which case they won’t change—they will always be stonewallers.

Stonewallers are destructive partners whom it’s best to avoid, and even leave, for your sanity’s and dignity’s sake.

I make this strong suggestion in cases where the stonewaller refuses to assume total and genuine responsibility for his stonewalling, which is not always, but too often is, the case.

You need to stop banging your head against the “wall” (the pun is apt) trying to reach the stonewaller, because he is not reachable.

Futility is what you are left feeling again and again, until you feel depressed and hopeless.

The futility is not in your head.

It is real, and will always be the experience with the stonewaller, who disowns responsibility for the suffering his stonewalling causes you.

Identify the stonewalling partners in your life; if they can’t, or won’t, take charge of their stonewalling,

get them out of your life as best, completely and fast as you can.

Anyone who tries to stonewall me will be called out and I will reflect your behavior back to you. What a fucking narcissistic sociopath, with low SMV.. very endearing..

YOU ASKED ME TO BE MORE EMPATHETIC. BUT MY RESPONSE. WHY YOU SHOULD EMPATHIZE WITH ME TOO. WHAT I HAVE TO DEAL WITH..

I understand that you may feel that I haven’t empathized with you, but I want to remind you that I have been working hard to help you improve your dating skills. As the world’s best daygame coach with 571 laid/pull testimonials, I am dedicated to helping you achieve success.

However, I also need you to understand the struggles that I face as a coach. Inflation is a real issue in 2023 and I know that money may be tight for some of you.

I have made videos on budgeting and how to save on food costs to help you, but I need you to put in the effort to apply these lessons.

I know that some of you may struggle with ADHD and find it hard to cook or make good financial decisions.

But I also need you to understand that I have put in a lot of time and effort to create videos to help you overcome these challenges.

I understand that some of you may feel triggered or stonewall during my coaching sessions, but it’s important to remember that tough love works.

Being nice just slows everything down as you are repeating the same mistakes 100 times in a row due to bad habits…

I need you to put in the effort and show iron discipline to achieve the success you desire.

Please empathize with me and understand the frustration I feel when I see people repeating the same mistakes and not taking action to improve.

I am here to help you, but I can only do so much if you don’t put in the effort getting triggered.

When that happens, I would think depressed snowflake cunts autistic sociopaths. While that is true..

First of all, I want you to know that I’m not trying to be aggressive or mean in any way.

You can’t fix a problem if you don’t acknowledge it.

My goal is always to help you succeed and achieve your goals, and sometimes that means being a little tough on you.

I know that iron discipline and tough love aren’t always easy to handle, but sometimes they’re necessary in order to get the results you want during the inflation.

I also want you to understand that I’m not trying to belittle or invalidate your feelings. I know that being triggered or offended is a real and valid experience for autistic people with narcissm, and I don’t want to dismiss or minimize that.

However, I do want to encourage you to try to push through those feelings and keep going, because I truly believe that you have the potential to achieve great things.

That is why I am trying to teach you all these military mindsets and budgeting, etc to help you.

Finally, I just want to say that I empathize with you. I know that it can be frustrating and discouraging when you feel like you’re not making progress or when things aren’t going the way you want them to due to the inflation.

But I also know that the only way to succeed is to keep pushing forward, even when things are tough. So let’s work together to achieve our goals and make our dreams a reality in 2023

But i’m not affected because I am showing you how to deal with food cost, so I post pictures and stuff showing you another way

But imagine from my point of view, my future video will teach you how to save on food cost

but you won’t even budget

you won’t even create 5 buckets, in that video I was talking to my 3MP student

However, he just got in a car accident. He needed that emergency money… if he divided it

instead it all went into options trading.

That video would of helped him a lot if he applied it.

I even taught him this before, when he started 3MP but the advice was not followed.

why should I empathize?

thats insane, if he left in index funds, he would of made at least more by now..

He worked just to burn money in options trading.

Now he lost his job, unfortunately after the car accident.

He has no high-income skills as I said in the video…

Empathize with me, cause that video was created from the blood, sweat and tears, literally!

for him, he had to pinch his nipples when he made a mistake in 3MP or Kaizen

It reduced the mistakes.

You guys gets triggered if you keep making the same mistakes when I coach you

empathize with me, a tough love method works,

but the nicer you are, the more the repeat their mistakes

then you see the audience who are RSD victims, triggered, the more triggered you are, the more debt…

triggered is feelings, emotions are different

triggered are involuntary feelings, responses vs emotions which is voluntary.

Its like putting your hand on the stove is involuntary feelings… or being trigger

How do I empathize?

Seeing how people now are not even putting one foot in front of the others

I seen documentaries of Venuvela and their hyper inflation, without even water or toilet paper who has more resilence than you…

But John, be more empathic…

Do you know why I’m frustrated, some videos gets decent videos, others doesn’t

its fine

my name isn’t showing up in the search engines.

I have a video taking things out of context where I have to appologize for.

I really mean the apology of course, but apologizing for something taken out of context…

I’m fine with it, everyone knows I’m not racist, totally ridiculous.

Maybe it has nothing to do with me… taken out of context.

But that is on top of the search engine… great…

Its fine, i’m totally cool with it because I get to show more laid testimonials funneled here.

But imagine posting laid testimonials 10x a week, for the last few months… then nobody cared

they looked at you like you were crazy or something

as if it was Venezuela…

but imagine you were me, where tact doesn’t work, people repeats the same mistakes

then to see you guys gaslighted again as they will release more courses that doesn’t work, will funnel you into a bootcamp like sheeps

its like no critical thinking

empathize with me, I’m trying to help you..

Do you understand why I had a more aggressive tone lately?

Its always have to empathize with you, but don’t you know, the only way to get you through 600 laid/pull testimonials is iron disclipine

coddling you doesn’t work,

you are literally dooming yourself by getting triggered and offended…

Thats what I want to say.

How would treating you like sheeps, not triggering like RSD going to help if you are going to ignore my videos? or help?

Wouldn’t that be a lose/lose?

its it better to be tougher to get through to your mental filter?

Why would come to me for coaching if you knew everything?

Why do I have 571 laid/pull testimonials?

that is my response.

Before i empathize with you, how about you empathize with me? Its more fair that way.

But I will not sympathize with people who can’t get their money handled when given all the tools like automatic bad habits

same worshipping mentor mentality, I can’t sympathize with sheeps…

I’m trying to find a solution to get your mind back on track.

Maybe during this inflation, its going to get worst, people will turn more zombie like this. I get it..

I’ll make another motivation advice video then. Makes sense to.

TWO OF THE STUDENTS ARE CORRECTING THIS LIFE LONG BEHAVIOR, 2 OF THEM ARE DOUBLING DOWN ON IT.

I have a student who happens to be of Indian descent, and he’s struggling with getting attention from women.

He thinks he’s got a pretty good looking appearance,

but he’s got this massive beard, white hair, and a skinny stocky frame even though he works out regularly.

He barely even fits normal clothing

Without the v shape of the body, women are usually turned off easily

When he talks, he tends to use an uptalking pattern, and recently he’s been sighing heavily at the end of every sentence, which can come off as depressing and turn off women.

The longer he talks with women back and forth, the more they get turned off by the sigh he can not hear due to low self esteem and delusions

What makes things worse is that he has a habit of procrastinating and putting things off, which is not a good mindset for daygame.

I never seen a single student who got laid with the there is always tommorrow mentality

great, but i’ll do it tomrrow.

Not even once when I was teaching for more than 10 years.

It can be tough to help him because he’s always putting things off until tomorrow,

but I’m trying to encourage him to take fast action and work on improving his communication skills to make progress in his dating pursuits.

But he says he doesn’t have depression…

Thats the problem for my students who sighs… the depression will hit them super hard in a few weeks, a full on depression

His voice and emotions betrays him since women will notice whether he can percieve it or not

I have to call these guys to get them on the phone to listen to their mistakes

I make them say brain, stop being delusional, I want to hear my mistakes.

STFU (SUPER LOUD)

They rarely challenge their brain

but they do they hear all the mistakes that I can hear…

But since I can’t get past his delusions, I can’t do that

Then 30 seconds afterwards, their brain covers their mistakes and the delusions happens again.

Then they call it out again, then they hear the mistakes again

He is off the line, stonewalling

ANOTHER CHINESE STUDENT WAS DOING THE SAME THING AND REPEATING THE SAME MISTAKES 5X IN A ROW. HE LIVES HERE IN B.C

But he was stonewalling me, ignoring my messages.

The black student used to do the same thing too actually

Its always some narcissistic mindset

Their brains simply are too adhd and lack so much empathy they have to ignore you and stonewall you

this is a sociopathic trait

A DIFFERENT CHINESE STUDENT ALSO MADE CHANGES TOO. HE SAW ALL THE OTHER STUDENTS ACTING IDENTICALLY TO EACH OTHER. ALL ASIANS OR INDIANS. NOT SURPRISED.

He is actually working hard to make changes now compared to before

he is getting through the mindset playlist slowly

I have a theory about this, if a person stonewalls you, they are probally dark tetrad or not dark triad

sadism is involved too

However he was very appreciative that I still wanted to help him

The other Indian guy just stonewalls you

So I actually sent them all screenshots of the articles talking about how sociopaths are stonewallers.

They seen it..

But for this student, he took heed of the advice and wanted to change

He also has this procrastination tomorrow mentality and learned that the Indian guy was doing the same.

One thing they all have in common is the students lately are all triggered

They are triggered so hard by the inflation, they are asking me how do you fix it?

There is only one way, competence equals confidence

if they are unteachable cases, unable to adapt making identical mistakes while having low SMV, it would further drive your mindsets down…

Corpus callosum issues with the middle part of the brain and the Maslov chart of human needs?

thats right, however being lazy and unable to fix your neuropathways isn’t helpful

I often post a book called atomic habits which suggest you should do the minium but daily until the habit is installed

meaning if you worked out, you just have to show up and do one set

but do it daily until it is automatic.

Thinking of that my Latino student also used to stonewall too ignoring some of the whatsapp message audio since I can see who is listening or not

Actually a lot of them are stonewallers, sociopaths.

Another old Latino student had the same traits lately,

this is an issue, this is not b.s thing or psudoscience.

I have citations when I talk about psychology and i’m not using it as a half truth pill like they are.

At least you guys will know that this stonewalling behavior exist amont dark tetrad broken people, emotionally and a lack of remorse or empathy on every level.

-John Elite

UPDATE: THE IGNORANCE

THIS CHINESE STUDENT FINALLY GOT A HAIRCUT. HE GOT A LOOK AND SOMEONE ELSE SAID HE LOOKED LIKE A GANGSTER…

However i’m not sure what kind of clothing he is wearing

he is like I don’t know how I feel about it

That guy is delusional

ONCE I HAD AN UNTEACHABLE CASE, STILL NOT LAID, VIETNAMESE STUDENT, SHORT, LOW SMV.. SAME SHIT

He got a haircut, less response

He’s like 5’3

he got the pants and the shirt, some response

then he got the shoes, more response

but when he got the haircut, he then got compliance, pulled twice in a row.

LETS GET BACK TO THIS STUDENT, OBVIOUSLY AN ENGINEER. HIS OLD HAIRSTYLE IS SO UGLY, THAT I TOLD HIM NO WOMEN WOULD FUCK HIM.

Its true, it didn’t happen yet

ITS THE SAME DELUSION AS THE OTHER INDIAN GUY…

But both are engineers.

Aspergers, delusional, no self esteem, not seeing clearly

It seems the worst looking you are, the better looking you think you are….

Its bizarre…

lower their SMV the more they think they are good looking, but are women responding the same way?

If no, then they can’t figure out why

the only thing that alludes them is they are completely delusional.

THIS CHINESE STUDENT IS FRIENDS OF A FRIEND ACTUALLY.

My chinese student with 15 lays recently is friends with another guy.

However he knew this guy from the u.s

If my hairstyle advice was so wrong, how the fuck did my millionare chinese student get 15 lays in a row?

fucking delusional.. so delusional…

EVERYONE HAS THE SAME FASHION, HAIRSTYLE, 571 LAID/PULL TESTIMONIALS.

The other Indian guy, isn’t even as good looking as my other Indian students, not even close

So wtf.

They are like the bouncer of truth in their own mind, pure arrogance

they decide in their left logical brain what is right and wrong..

yet they ignore the 571 laid/pull testimonials.

If I posted that Indian guys picture for people to rate his pic, he wouldnt’ be a 8/10 in his mind, but 2/10

Thats the problem with delusional people, they think you are crazy to tell them they sign with depression even if you show them other students doing the samething they can’t see it

I personally feel unless he wakes up, he won’t even procreate.

If he dismiss what I said, doubles down on his mistakes, well hes weeded out of evolutionary psychology.

THATS GREAT, BUT I’LL DO IT TOMRROW, HES TOO SLOW…

I’m offering to move him to the inner circle to serve his remaining time there instead since he learns slower

Not for the other students, but I might kick him out of Elite Access to the inner circle

I’ve seen many students like

the i’ll do it tomrorow, not a single one has ever with that mindset got laid

Just as those who say, i’ll be ready to join your training in 3 months until they have this sorted out b.s excuse…

none has joined when I followed up

you see that, its a mindset problem.