RETHINKING MY FOCUS ON HELPING THE BROKIES. WHY SAVE PEOPLE WHO ARE MENTALLY, FINANCIALLY DROWNING? NEW UPDATES TO THE TRAINING TOO FOR EMOTIONAL CONTROL, STOICISM

255 views, but nowhere near 300 views

REMADE THE VIDEO AGAIN FURTHER

THIS ONE FINALLY REACHED 400 VIEWS. DO THE SAME WITH THE OTHER VIDEOS

I STARTED A NEW PODCAST ON THE SIDE ON MY SECOND CHANNEL, SUBSCRIBE IF YO HAVEN’T ALREADY. BUT I ALWAYS WANTED VIDEOS WHERE IT WASN’T SUPER LONG, IT HAS NO DEAD SPACES OR PAUSES AND ITS EASIER TO WATCH. NOT TOO LONG, NOT TOO SHORT. THATS WHAT I LIKE TO WATCH.

THERE WAS A POST THAT REALLY BOTHERED ME AND ALSO ENLIGHTENED ME THAT I AM FOCUSING ON THE WRONG AUDIENCE.

My initial aggression stems from people just acting like low-functioning zombies

I feel like I am feeding raccoons going through the trash this year

THIS IS MORE OF THE SO CALLED BROKIES THIS YEAR…

This video might be feeding the trash pandas or raccoons of the brokies.

You focus on this audience during an economic crisis..

then I would be more fustrated, angry dealing with these types

Until one told me to be nicer, empathize with their plight or their situation

Ummm.. why should I?

I made videos on how to budget their time, energy etc.

But one stupid racoon decided to bite my hand, then tell me to be nicer to them…

I can’t relate to you…

I DON’T CONDONE THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOR, THIS IS METAPHORICALLY HOW I FEEL NOW..

I was going to make a video on dealing with food cost

however, now I realized

I DECIDED NOT TO MAKE THE VIDEO ON REDUCING FOOD COST. BUT INSTEAD JUST MAKE THAT IN THE INNER CIRCLE FOR MY STUDENTS WHO WOULD TAKE IT MORE SERIOUSLY

I would show them the basmati rice I buy, tuna, also how to use flour to make noodles, pizza and strategically manage their foodcost

Like a prepper type of person, I stocked up on a lot of food last year instead of buying crypto bullshit

I literally bought all the tuna from Amazon in 2022 for $22 per case of 24 of them in different flavors

now the food inflation has gone up

I also supplement what my body needs and intermitting fast a lot

I’m not malnutrition

but I wanted to try to see what would happen if I did that for one year

I’m not as chubby as before, but learning to deal with food cost, it wasn’t factored into my maslov chart of human needs

THIS VIDEO HAS UNDER 300 VIEWS

THIS ONE TOO

The 3MP student also got in a car accident

ITS IRONIC, BUT NOBODY WOULD KNOW, THE ADVICE FOR THE FIRST 5 BUCKETS IS TO SPLIT YOUR MONEY INTO

  1. SAVINGS EMERGENCY FUNDS
  2. PAYING YOUR BILLS, EXPENSES
  3. INVESTING IN SELF EDUCATION
  4. INVEST IN TRAINING (MY TRAINING)
  5. BUYING STUFF YOU LIKE

Its ironic because if he followed the advice, he wouldn’t lose his job, lose his car

I never wished that to happen,

My abilities to manifest is powerful, but I didn’t want this.

Others have gone through worst

However my thoughts and feelings lately are not alighned.

THIS INDIAN STUDENT, I HAVE SEVERAL, BUT ONE JUST STONEWALLS NOW.

I was kind of angry at first when stonewalled

the indian student, I have several, two of which already pulled

however one that has lower SMV and still stonewalling me

Hes got the money part

THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS.

A FEW OF MY STUDENTS HAVE BEEN MORE TRIGGERED, STONEWALLING.

Whats the difference between emotions and feelings

Even if they were the opposite, the point is they are separate categories.

most of my students doesn’t have a huge range of emotions

THEY HAVE FEELINGS.. BUTTHURT FEELINGS WHICH CAN EASILY BE AFFECTED BY THE MASLOV CHART OF HUMAN NEEDS.

FEELINGS IS MORE LIKE THIS.. TRIGGERED..

If the other Low smv indian guy, I forwarded him the last blog post, he a stonewaller. If not depressed why does he sigh in his video, upside down smile? why?

I mean most of the upside down smile guys are depressed, even suicidal

but for him, hes most likely so used to it, thats his new normal

getting triggered, being delusional, looking like charles manson actually, same face shape.. identical..

I mean… delusional, despite superior evidence and all these years of teaching students…

BUT THE WEIRD THING WAS, THE ETHNICITIES THAT ARE THE MOST TRIGGERED ARE INDIANS AND ASIANS. EXCLUSIVELY

I myself got a bit not emotional, that part is getting colder again

I was really empathizing with the trash pandas and I think it was a mistake to focus on them.

EMOTIONALLY I WAS VERY EMPATHETHIC TRYING TO HELP PEOPLE, I WAS

Now that side is turned off

But the feelings for the 3MP student going through money problems

he got hurt recently that sucks

however I was very angry in terms of feelings

FEELINGS NEEDS TO BE CORRECTED, SO I’M GOING TO BUILD A NEW SYSTEM ADDRESSING FEELINGS BECAUSE IF I FEEL IT, YOU FEEL IT 10X.. CAUSE YOU ARE AUTISTIC

Navy seals has 4 tenants to deal with stress

Not that I am impressed cause the Israelis are way more innovative, adaptive, stronger morale

  1. SETTING GOALS, DOWN TO THE SECONDS, MINUTES, HOURS, DAYS, WEEKS, MONTHS, YEARS. SO YOUR BRAIN WILL REMAIN INTACT
  2. POSITIVE VISUALIZATION.
  3. POSITIVE SELF TALK
  4. AROUSAL CONTROL OR STRESS CONTROL.

I think by working on these 4 things it would help a lot actually

Am I implementing this, no

but it makes no sense not to have positive self talk

this is more GRIT related stuff

GRIT and mindsets helped my students a lot

during the entire pandemic, even up to recently

however thats not enough

I made a lot videos about GRIT

IT’S ABOUT THE FIRST PRINCIPLES, THE FUNDAMENTAL TRUTHS. NOT JUST REASONING BY ANOLOGY OF WHAT ANOTHER PERSON SAID.

WHEN I THOUGHT OF USING THE MINDSET PLAYLIST, GRIT AND OTHER STUFF, IT HELPED A LOT FOR THE STUDENTS

That was a fundemental truth, you needed GRIT

We know that funementally social calibrations is more powerful than game

it takes time to develop it but its worth it

It eliminates flakes and shit test and resistance in the bedroom, so you don’t need to use alcohol wrestling with drunk women

There is no 10% stats

it wasn’t that long ago when the students were getting one lay after another

Inflation, wokism, literally driving WWIII in the future

they see all these companies closing down and laying people off..

PEOPLE ARE IN A LEARNED HELPLESSNESS STATE OF MIND

learned help·less·ness

[ˌlərnd ˈhelpləsnəs]

NOUN

PSYCHIATRY

  1. a condition in which a person has a sense of powerlessness, arising from a traumatic event or persistent failure to succeed. It is thought to be one of the underlying causes of depression.

Learned helplessness

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Learned helplessness is the behavior exhibited by a subject after enduring repeated aversive stimuli beyond their control. It was initially thought to be caused by the subject’s acceptance of their powerlessness, by way of their discontinuing attempts to escape or avoid the aversive stimulus, even when such alternatives are unambiguously presented. Upon exhibiting such behavior, the subject was said to have acquired learned helplessness.[1][2]

In humans, learned helplessness is related to the concept of self-efficacy; the individual’s belief in their innate ability to achieve goals. Learned helplessness theory is the view that clinical depression and related mental illnesses may result from a real or perceived absence of control over the outcome of a situation.

My theory (when I talk psychology I talk first, then cite later because what I am saying is true)

Not use stupid graphs and create half truth pills

This is also part of the fundemental truth.

You can’t rescue someone who is incompetent and it would just make them more depressed.

In the past I only focused on those swimming towards my rescue helicoptor

Now, more people out there are drowning.

I’M THINKING TO MYSELF, AM I MARKETING TO THE WRONG INCOMPETENT AUDIENCE?

Mind you, I also have aspies who are really low functioning,

they barely have a haircut, low smv

I also got students are extremely attractive, barely able to make their first approaches

now one is in Toronto, which is good

can finally open

He fixed his social skills, social calibrations

but like most Latinos, hes only half, he fixed

I THINK A LOT OF THE ISSUES ARE MENTAL ISSUES. SO THE MENTAL TRAUMA CURE PROGRAM IS NOT A CHARITY, BUT ALOT OF THEM NEEDS IT.

Its 1k for the program, it works

However, I also think that if they invested in my other programs, they should get a discount if they invested imo.

Maybe thats a good offer

once someone goes through it, they can approach again just fine

I think a lot of people are accumulating junk in their minds

ALSO I’M NOT TOO IMPRESSED BY THE HOT AUDIENCE FOR THE YOUTUBE COMMUNITY SECTION EITHER.

WHAT AM I THINKING, IN TERMS OF THE RACOONS. I SAY STOP FEEDING THEM, LET THEM STARVE. FOCUS ON A BETTER AUDIENCE WHO COULD AFFORD IT WHO ISN’T IN MASSIVE DEBT

I think my logical students, not all are engineers btw

some of the logical students are also other types of fields requiring the left brain

of course thats just the software, studying neruoscience lately, the brain doesn’t have a left and right

if someone gets a piece of their brain shot off, it still reroutes

Its more like an earth’s crust, the outer layer does soemthing different from the middle which regulates emotions/feelings.

The inner section does different stuff

the inner crust can not be damaged, but the outer parts can.

They do have a logical side, even if it isn’t directly firing from their left brain.

But a part of the overall core.

MENTALLY I’M STILL FINE, I’M PRETTY FUCKING RESILIENT, A BIT RUTHLESS TOO WHEN I AM

However I have to figure a new system for the feelings part

I guess my students are new test subjects.

I don’t deal with theories or half truths,

when my students supplements, they also are dealing with the physical part of their mind

I need to remind them

THE PROBLEM WITH NARCISISSM AND SELF ESTEEM. IF THEY ARE AUTISTIC, HAS CORPUS CALLSOM ISSUES WITH THEIR MIDDLE PART OF THEIR BRAIN, THEY ALSO WON’T FUNCTION TOO WELL DURING THIS INFLATION

It robs them of their self esteem, raising their ego, getting them triggered more

causing massive depression.

But they are also lazy

If I could tell them which supplements to buy, they would all be better off

I’m supplemented right now so i’m more relaxed or feelings or adrenal stress

When the supplement wears out, I am not.

I think depression is something I need to talk about maybe, the real science behind it.

But i’ll stop focusing on the raccoons soon or the trash pandas.

Its the wrong audience right now

i’m sure they appreciate it that I am making videos to help them.

But thats not enough.

Unless you want to mass approach giving direct compliments and validation. See how long you last with low SMV

then if you do get someone, shes below your looks level.

I WAS READING THIS BOOK ON HOW TO SELL MORE DURING A RECESSION. THIS IS COMMON ALTHOUGH WE AREN’T IN ONE RIGHT NOW

Technically we are, there was two quarters with negative GDP

However, they refuse to call it that

But you need to do 10x the amount just to get one if everyone are depressed.

The authors has experience with that,

it makes sense actually

I’ll have to find the right people, like a rescue operation where I can’t help everyone.

I ALSO KNOW THE MINDFUL MEDITATION CAN HELP

I’m going to adapt something pretend you are sinking in the ocean and you just accept the thoughts and feelings

I don’t meditate, or I can’t

however this might help to do that you are more focused

if the feelings are thoughts can be seperated from you, then you are not your thoughts and feelings.

This needs more field testing and split testing.

It goes more into the alpha waves for your brain a more flow state

Our brain tends to work in different frequencies.

I think people are in the theata and gamma for stress and depression

But supplementation could help a great deal, but I was refusing of sharing my supplement stack with the public unless they take my coaching.

THE POSITIVE SELF TALK IS IMPORTANT.

I’ll figure it all out.

I’m good at that stuff.

maybe if I looped an affirmation for them that would be good for youtube.

they can listen to it if they can’t do the positive self talk

ALSO, FOR GRADITUDE MEDITATION IS A GOOD IDEA. YOU CAN’T BE DEPRESSED WHEN YOU ARE GREATFUL,

Its like the opposite and I need go through that.

Acceptance is important too

THE LAST STAGE IS ACCEPTANCE, PEOPLE NEEDS TO LEARN THAT TOO. I THINK THERE IS A LOT OF GREAT IDEAS FOR VIDEO IDEAS. I SHOULD MAKE A PLAYLIST CALLED DAYGAME MOTIVATION OR SOMETHING.

EVERY FUCKED UP INFLATION EVENT, I DON’T WANT TO SAY WHO IS RESPONSIBLE, A ZOMBIE. ITS GOOD FOR THE SEO

Maybe thats the issue, they go against everyone who talks about thinks critical to the adminstration of wokism which is a mind virus.

LET ME TALK ABOUT A NORMACY BIAS.

Everything I say has citations. Its not bullshit.

Normalcy bias

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From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Normalcy bias, or normality bias, is a cognitive bias which leads people to disbelieve or minimize threat warnings.[1] Consequently, individuals underestimate the likelihood of a disaster, when it might affect them, and its potential adverse effects.[2] The normalcy bias causes many people to not adequately prepare for natural disasters, market crashes, and calamities caused by human error. About 70% of people reportedly display normalcy bias during a disaster.[3]

The normalcy bias can manifest in response to warnings about disasters and actual catastrophes. Such disasters include market crashes, motor vehicle accidents, natural disasters like a tsunami, and war.

Normalcy bias has also been called analysis paralysisthe ostrich effect,[4] and by first respondersthe negative panic.[5] The opposite of normalcy bias is overreaction, or worst-case scenario bias,[6][7] in which small deviations from normality are dealt with as signals of an impending catastrophe.

NEW IDEAS POPPED UP AS I WAS DRINKING STEEPED TEA.

FIRST IDEA. BEFORE I WAS GIVING AWAY FREE COURSES FOR ASIAN SENSATION COURSE

BEFORE ELITE 30, I DECIDED TO GIVE IT ALL AWAY WITHOUT SIGNING UP

THEN THE SAME DAY LAY TRAINING.

WHY NOT MAKE ONE MORE BUDGETING, MONEY, SUPPLEMENTATION. CALL IT LOOKS, MONEY, STATUS, BUT THIS TIME MONEY, emotional control

Yeah that would be great

Make it the same as my old videos instead.

same weird background and worry about 300 views, most gets there

that along with the same day lay training, got me a lot of students

But this stuff will funnel you into that

IF I ONLY FOCUS ON A BETTER AUDIENCE ON YOUTUBE, I SHOULDN’T FOCUS ON THE TRASH PANDAS

The other course you would have sign up like Asian sensation.

NEXT I’LL UPGRADE THE CONTACT ME FORM AND ALSO THE BROKIE CATEGORY, REWRITE IT

THE BOOK CAN COME LATER ON. AFTER ALL THIS IS HANDLED.

when they are more mentally abled, they can be funneled back into the same day lay webinar

however for now, they need to handle this

Should I dress like this again?

IT WAS BASED ON THIS VIDEO, JOHN CONNER, LEADER OF THE RESISTANCE AGINST THE TERMINATOR A.I MACHINES. FUNNY IN A SHORT TIME THIS IS HAPPENING.

This could be the trailer for the new thing

I still have the outfit

This was before the Russian war actually when I made this

all the predictions came true actually.

Its forshadowing the future

I can keep this stuff on my Youtube, or less.

They can sign up for all my free courses

BUT ELITE 30 AND ELITE HAS WORKED FOREVER. SO IT DOESN’T CHANGE.

I could keep building a cold audience on Youtube, building up an army

still help my audience here for warm

then hot audience is my original videos dealing with your objections and mental bullshit.

WHEN I RELEASED THE VIDEOS BEFORE, PEOPLE IGNORED IT

When people release new courses, people ignores me

but when they don’t get laid, or funneled to a bootcamp, its happened before for mentor worship, the past is repeating itself

fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me

People are not stupid,

but the bhenchodes are.

people have doubled down on mentor worship mentality

If I write daily on my blog will be better too.

But yeah don’t worship mentors and use game crutches at bootcamps

their courses will never work

ever on purpose

Last time you didn’t listen, this time you might.

I SHOULD BEGIN WRITING OUT THE SCRIPT.

I’m not going to teach you how to make millions obviously

but i’m going ot teach you how not to be a brokeass and have some fucking skills

maybe dress up like a soilder again.

MAYBE HEALTHY FOODS WILL BE A GOOD IDEA.

-for me I noticed i’m happier eating rice and beans with sausage

also, potatoes for some reason

also, beef with ravoli

also cheese in general

I’m not sure why

even pasta

It seems like a lot of carbs with protein

Finding foods that makes you feel happier, that your body needs and double down on it.

Chips makes me tired. snacks.

I SHOULD GET STARTED WITH THE FREE COURSE OUTLINE THEN…

I can decide if I want to release all of this free and keep it the same format as before…

THESE VIDEOS WERE ORIGINALLY DESIGNED TO BE RELEASED IN A FREE COURSE, BUT IT WAS GOOD I JUST RELEASED THEM ALL SLOWLY AFTERWARDS. MADE A HUGE IMPACT. MIXING THAT WITH THE SAME DAY LAY TRAINING. SO THE TIMING IS IMPORTANT TOO.

this whole matrix background shit seems like a good idea

The other ones about money issues should be dressed in that military outfit with that radio..

I should release a few of the videos and film them all ahead of time.

Should I rehire my Filpino video editor? He didn’t even produce a single good clip last time

took him 10 tries to do the most simple task.

So I fired him again.

Looks like I have to do everything

Those are my thoughts today

I have to do all the video editing myself.

I should try to do a bigger batch so I don’t burn out

I don’t have to deal with this day to day, like spending hours writing this blog post.

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