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I have noticed that some of the students I work with have been exhibiting stonewalling behavior lately. This behavior is often associated with sociopathy and a lack of empathy, which can negatively impact both personal and professional relationships.
It’s important to avoid falling into a state of learned helplessness and inflation, where lots of people mentally shut down and act as if everything is the end of the world.
I myself have been frustrated on dealing with slow adaptations and people doing the minium procrastinating with their homework assignments treating it like a bandage solution, not the cure…
In my experience, stonewallers are often triggered individuals who exhibit narcissistic tendencies and a lack of empathy and remorse.
It can be difficult to provide coaching or support to someone who engages in stonewalling behavior.
I understand that some of the students who have exhibited this behavior are of Asian or Indian descent.
Sometimes stonewalling even happens after the student gets 3 lays in a row and they ego trip too.
They would say uh huh, uh huh ignoring what you are saying until your other students gets even better results than they do
then they go back to the depressed snowflake cunt gear.
Remember, my job is to get you laid, it requires some discipline, focus and commitment.
Standards would need to be maintained especially last year when people were a bit more functional.
Ultimately, it’s important to approach these situations with empathy and a willingness to understand the underlying issues that may be causing the stonewalling behavior.
Many sociopathic personalities stonewall, but many stonewallers aren’t sociopaths, so how do you tell the difference?
Stonewalling is when someone shuts you down from communicating.
He just “bails” on your efforts at communication, refuses to take you seriously; refuses to engage a discussion of your concerns.
He may ignore or dismiss you, express fatigue with you (and your concerns); he may listen without offering a thoughtful, respectful response, and then credit himself for having listened, perhaps even listened at a length he may complain about.
In any case his unthoughtful, lazy, dismissive, or flat-out non-response to your feelings and concerns captures the essence of stonewalling and will reflect his pure contempt for which he’ll take no responsibility.
Rather, he may depict you as a boring windbag who doesn’t know when to “stop talking,” or who’s always making or looking for “trouble,” without recognizing or owning how his insistent refusal to listen, his determination NOT to listen, actually provokes, passive-aggressively, your very instinct to “talk” and “pursue him” until he gives a meaningful response.
He may flat-out tell you he’s bored by, and uninterested in, the concerns you raise, regardless of how strongly you feel about them, and regardless of how strong your need to discuss them is.
It may be that the more urgency you feel to broach your concerns, the more he’ll contemptuously stonewall you.
When your concerns pertain to the relationship itself, his rebuff will feel especially cruel and leave you feeling especially helpless.
It will also very likely be dripping with some form of passive-aggressive, if not aggressive, contempt.
Now this is stonewalling, and stonewalling is a nasty, hurtful thing to do to someone; it leaves the stonewalled party feeling as negated as a person can feel.
You don’t have to be a sociopath to stonewall.
Plenty of non-sociopaths stonewall.
But many sociopaths are stonewallers,
and the act of stonewalling itself, especially when it’s intentional, often contains the cold, callous attitude of the sociopath.
The stonewaller’s absence of empathy for the stonewalled party, perhaps even the relish the stonewaller takes in messing with the stonewalled party’s head, in watching her twist and squirm and perhaps make humiliating efforts and bids to be heard—
there can be something actually sadistic about this.
Stonewalling will tend to elicit some common feelings in the stonewalled party—among them shame, anger, rage, infuriation, humiliation, desperation (to be heard), helplessness, and a sense of being driven crazy.
Stonewalling, then, is a form of “gaslighting” insofar as it can leave the stonewalled party feeling as if she’s speaking a foreign language inaccessible to the stonewaller even though she knows perfectly well the stonewaller speaks the language, literally, but either refuses to speak it or “acts” like he doesn’t.
This can have a “crazy-making” effect, as if he’s accusing her (as he may very well do) of speaking incomprehensibly.
Stonewallers, whether sociopaths or not, are seriously disturbed communicators.
Their indifference to the stonewalled party’s experience, as noted, can be chilling. Their stonewalling often reflects character pathology, in which case they won’t change—they will always be stonewallers.
Stonewallers are destructive partners whom it’s best to avoid, and even leave, for your sanity’s and dignity’s sake.
I make this strong suggestion in cases where the stonewaller refuses to assume total and genuine responsibility for his stonewalling, which is not always, but too often is, the case.
You need to stop banging your head against the “wall” (the pun is apt) trying to reach the stonewaller, because he is not reachable.
Futility is what you are left feeling again and again, until you feel depressed and hopeless.
The futility is not in your head.
It is real, and will always be the experience with the stonewaller, who disowns responsibility for the suffering his stonewalling causes you.
Identify the stonewalling partners in your life; if they can’t, or won’t, take charge of their stonewalling,
get them out of your life as best, completely and fast as you can.
Anyone who tries to stonewall me will be called out and I will reflect your behavior back to you. What a fucking narcissistic sociopath, with low SMV.. very endearing..
YOU ASKED ME TO BE MORE EMPATHETIC. BUT MY RESPONSE. WHY YOU SHOULD EMPATHIZE WITH ME TOO. WHAT I HAVE TO DEAL WITH..
I understand that you may feel that I haven’t empathized with you, but I want to remind you that I have been working hard to help you improve your dating skills. As the world’s best daygame coach with 571 laid/pull testimonials, I am dedicated to helping you achieve success.
However, I also need you to understand the struggles that I face as a coach. Inflation is a real issue in 2023 and I know that money may be tight for some of you.
I have made videos on budgeting and how to save on food costs to help you, but I need you to put in the effort to apply these lessons.
I know that some of you may struggle with ADHD and find it hard to cook or make good financial decisions.
But I also need you to understand that I have put in a lot of time and effort to create videos to help you overcome these challenges.
I understand that some of you may feel triggered or stonewall during my coaching sessions, but it’s important to remember that tough love works.
Being nice just slows everything down as you are repeating the same mistakes 100 times in a row due to bad habits…
I need you to put in the effort and show iron discipline to achieve the success you desire.
Please empathize with me and understand the frustration I feel when I see people repeating the same mistakes and not taking action to improve.
I am here to help you, but I can only do so much if you don’t put in the effort getting triggered.
When that happens, I would think depressed snowflake cunts autistic sociopaths. While that is true..
First of all, I want you to know that I’m not trying to be aggressive or mean in any way.
You can’t fix a problem if you don’t acknowledge it.
My goal is always to help you succeed and achieve your goals, and sometimes that means being a little tough on you.
I know that iron discipline and tough love aren’t always easy to handle, but sometimes they’re necessary in order to get the results you want during the inflation.
I also want you to understand that I’m not trying to belittle or invalidate your feelings. I know that being triggered or offended is a real and valid experience for autistic people with narcissm, and I don’t want to dismiss or minimize that.
However, I do want to encourage you to try to push through those feelings and keep going, because I truly believe that you have the potential to achieve great things.
That is why I am trying to teach you all these military mindsets and budgeting, etc to help you.
Finally, I just want to say that I empathize with you. I know that it can be frustrating and discouraging when you feel like you’re not making progress or when things aren’t going the way you want them to due to the inflation.
But I also know that the only way to succeed is to keep pushing forward, even when things are tough. So let’s work together to achieve our goals and make our dreams a reality in 2023
But i’m not affected because I am showing you how to deal with food cost, so I post pictures and stuff showing you another way
But imagine from my point of view, my future video will teach you how to save on food cost
but you won’t even budget
you won’t even create 5 buckets, in that video I was talking to my 3MP student
However, he just got in a car accident. He needed that emergency money… if he divided it
instead it all went into options trading.
That video would of helped him a lot if he applied it.
I even taught him this before, when he started 3MP but the advice was not followed.
why should I empathize?
thats insane, if he left in index funds, he would of made at least more by now..
He worked just to burn money in options trading.
Now he lost his job, unfortunately after the car accident.
He has no high-income skills as I said in the video…
Empathize with me, cause that video was created from the blood, sweat and tears, literally!
for him, he had to pinch his nipples when he made a mistake in 3MP or Kaizen
It reduced the mistakes.
You guys gets triggered if you keep making the same mistakes when I coach you
empathize with me, a tough love method works,
but the nicer you are, the more the repeat their mistakes
then you see the audience who are RSD victims, triggered, the more triggered you are, the more debt…
triggered is feelings, emotions are different
triggered are involuntary feelings, responses vs emotions which is voluntary.
Its like putting your hand on the stove is involuntary feelings… or being trigger
How do I empathize?
Seeing how people now are not even putting one foot in front of the others
I seen documentaries of Venuvela and their hyper inflation, without even water or toilet paper who has more resilence than you…
But John, be more empathic…
Do you know why I’m frustrated, some videos gets decent videos, others doesn’t
my name isn’t showing up in the search engines.
I have a video taking things out of context where I have to appologize for.
I really mean the apology of course, but apologizing for something taken out of context…
I’m fine with it, everyone knows I’m not racist, totally ridiculous.
Maybe it has nothing to do with me… taken out of context.
But that is on top of the search engine… great…
Its fine, i’m totally cool with it because I get to show more laid testimonials funneled here.
But imagine posting laid testimonials 10x a week, for the last few months… then nobody cared
they looked at you like you were crazy or something
as if it was Venezuela…
but imagine you were me, where tact doesn’t work, people repeats the same mistakes
then to see you guys gaslighted again as they will release more courses that doesn’t work, will funnel you into a bootcamp like sheeps
its like no critical thinking
empathize with me, I’m trying to help you..
Do you understand why I had a more aggressive tone lately?
Its always have to empathize with you, but don’t you know, the only way to get you through 600 laid/pull testimonials is iron disclipine
coddling you doesn’t work,
you are literally dooming yourself by getting triggered and offended…
Thats what I want to say.
How would treating you like sheeps, not triggering like RSD going to help if you are going to ignore my videos? or help?
Wouldn’t that be a lose/lose?
its it better to be tougher to get through to your mental filter?
Why would come to me for coaching if you knew everything?
Why do I have 571 laid/pull testimonials?
that is my response.
Before i empathize with you, how about you empathize with me? Its more fair that way.
But I will not sympathize with people who can’t get their money handled when given all the tools like automatic bad habits
same worshipping mentor mentality, I can’t sympathize with sheeps…
I’m trying to find a solution to get your mind back on track.
Maybe during this inflation, its going to get worst, people will turn more zombie like this. I get it..
I’ll make another motivation advice video then. Makes sense to.
TWO OF THE STUDENTS ARE CORRECTING THIS LIFE LONG BEHAVIOR, 2 OF THEM ARE DOUBLING DOWN ON IT.
I have a student who happens to be of Indian descent, and he’s struggling with getting attention from women.
He thinks he’s got a pretty good looking appearance,
but he’s got this massive beard, white hair, and a skinny stocky frame even though he works out regularly.
He barely even fits normal clothing
Without the v shape of the body, women are usually turned off easily
When he talks, he tends to use an uptalking pattern, and recently he’s been sighing heavily at the end of every sentence, which can come off as depressing and turn off women.
The longer he talks with women back and forth, the more they get turned off by the sigh he can not hear due to low self esteem and delusions
What makes things worse is that he has a habit of procrastinating and putting things off, which is not a good mindset for daygame.
I never seen a single student who got laid with the there is always tommorrow mentality
great, but i’ll do it tomrrow.
Not even once when I was teaching for more than 10 years.
It can be tough to help him because he’s always putting things off until tomorrow,
but I’m trying to encourage him to take fast action and work on improving his communication skills to make progress in his dating pursuits.
But he says he doesn’t have depression…
Thats the problem for my students who sighs… the depression will hit them super hard in a few weeks, a full on depression
His voice and emotions betrays him since women will notice whether he can percieve it or not
I have to call these guys to get them on the phone to listen to their mistakes
I make them say brain, stop being delusional, I want to hear my mistakes.
STFU (SUPER LOUD)
They rarely challenge their brain
but they do they hear all the mistakes that I can hear…
But since I can’t get past his delusions, I can’t do that
Then 30 seconds afterwards, their brain covers their mistakes and the delusions happens again.
Then they call it out again, then they hear the mistakes again
He is off the line, stonewalling
ANOTHER CHINESE STUDENT WAS DOING THE SAME THING AND REPEATING THE SAME MISTAKES 5X IN A ROW. HE LIVES HERE IN B.C
But he was stonewalling me, ignoring my messages.
The black student used to do the same thing too actually
Its always some narcissistic mindset
Their brains simply are too adhd and lack so much empathy they have to ignore you and stonewall you
this is a sociopathic trait
A DIFFERENT CHINESE STUDENT ALSO MADE CHANGES TOO. HE SAW ALL THE OTHER STUDENTS ACTING IDENTICALLY TO EACH OTHER. ALL ASIANS OR INDIANS. NOT SURPRISED.
He is actually working hard to make changes now compared to before
he is getting through the mindset playlist slowly
I have a theory about this, if a person stonewalls you, they are probally dark tetrad or not dark triad
sadism is involved too
However he was very appreciative that I still wanted to help him
The other Indian guy just stonewalls you
So I actually sent them all screenshots of the articles talking about how sociopaths are stonewallers.
They seen it..
But for this student, he took heed of the advice and wanted to change
He also has this procrastination tomorrow mentality and learned that the Indian guy was doing the same.
One thing they all have in common is the students lately are all triggered
They are triggered so hard by the inflation, they are asking me how do you fix it?
There is only one way, competence equals confidence
if they are unteachable cases, unable to adapt making identical mistakes while having low SMV, it would further drive your mindsets down…
Corpus callosum issues with the middle part of the brain and the Maslov chart of human needs?
thats right, however being lazy and unable to fix your neuropathways isn’t helpful
I often post a book called atomic habits which suggest you should do the minium but daily until the habit is installed
meaning if you worked out, you just have to show up and do one set
but do it daily until it is automatic.
Thinking of that my Latino student also used to stonewall too ignoring some of the whatsapp message audio since I can see who is listening or not
Actually a lot of them are stonewallers, sociopaths.
Another old Latino student had the same traits lately,
this is an issue, this is not b.s thing or psudoscience.
I have citations when I talk about psychology and i’m not using it as a half truth pill like they are.
At least you guys will know that this stonewalling behavior exist amont dark tetrad broken people, emotionally and a lack of remorse or empathy on every level.
UPDATE: THE IGNORANCE
THIS CHINESE STUDENT FINALLY GOT A HAIRCUT. HE GOT A LOOK AND SOMEONE ELSE SAID HE LOOKED LIKE A GANGSTER…
However i’m not sure what kind of clothing he is wearing
he is like I don’t know how I feel about it
That guy is delusional
ONCE I HAD AN UNTEACHABLE CASE, STILL NOT LAID, VIETNAMESE STUDENT, SHORT, LOW SMV.. SAME SHIT
He got a haircut, less response
He’s like 5’3
he got the pants and the shirt, some response
then he got the shoes, more response
but when he got the haircut, he then got compliance, pulled twice in a row.
LETS GET BACK TO THIS STUDENT, OBVIOUSLY AN ENGINEER. HIS OLD HAIRSTYLE IS SO UGLY, THAT I TOLD HIM NO WOMEN WOULD FUCK HIM.
Its true, it didn’t happen yet
ITS THE SAME DELUSION AS THE OTHER INDIAN GUY…
But both are engineers.
Aspergers, delusional, no self esteem, not seeing clearly
It seems the worst looking you are, the better looking you think you are….
lower their SMV the more they think they are good looking, but are women responding the same way?
If no, then they can’t figure out why
the only thing that alludes them is they are completely delusional.
THIS CHINESE STUDENT IS FRIENDS OF A FRIEND ACTUALLY.
My chinese student with 15 lays recently is friends with another guy.
However he knew this guy from the u.s
If my hairstyle advice was so wrong, how the fuck did my millionare chinese student get 15 lays in a row?
fucking delusional.. so delusional…
EVERYONE HAS THE SAME FASHION, HAIRSTYLE, 571 LAID/PULL TESTIMONIALS.
The other Indian guy, isn’t even as good looking as my other Indian students, not even close
They are like the bouncer of truth in their own mind, pure arrogance
they decide in their left logical brain what is right and wrong..
yet they ignore the 571 laid/pull testimonials.
If I posted that Indian guys picture for people to rate his pic, he wouldnt’ be a 8/10 in his mind, but 2/10
Thats the problem with delusional people, they think you are crazy to tell them they sign with depression even if you show them other students doing the samething they can’t see it
I personally feel unless he wakes up, he won’t even procreate.
If he dismiss what I said, doubles down on his mistakes, well hes weeded out of evolutionary psychology.
THATS GREAT, BUT I’LL DO IT TOMRROW, HES TOO SLOW…
I’m offering to move him to the inner circle to serve his remaining time there instead since he learns slower
Not for the other students, but I might kick him out of Elite Access to the inner circle
I’ve seen many students like
the i’ll do it tomrorow, not a single one has ever with that mindset got laid
Just as those who say, i’ll be ready to join your training in 3 months until they have this sorted out b.s excuse…
none has joined when I followed up
you see that, its a mindset problem.