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This is the toughest question to really ask yourself. In most cases if you were a girl, would you date yourself? In most cases my potential students all say no. Then they come up with a list of things they would need to fix. They would start to be aware how their hair and fashion can use a lot of work. They would say they can lose weight, or even gain weight, muscles. They would need to flirt more, escalate, touch more in daygame. They would need to be more confident and stop sounding so beta. For some people they realize they need to move to a better part of the city to game and make more money.

This is a tough question, isn’t it? It cuts through all the unnecessary bullshit self-development shit that isn’t necessary. The high vibration shit, more like high sociopathy shit, cough RSD. In fact, there are cults in Hollywood a lot of actors goes to that is related to bullshit self-development. How do we tell the difference between the two?

Bad self-development: High vibration shit. Just focusing on making more money and making more money. For some fucking reason some of my beta students can’t wait to be a better beta provider. When they game for a bit, they can’t wait to say I am focusing on making more money. While that is important, but do you have enough to make a living? If you do, then wtf are you doing more of the same? You should reinvest the time into learning pickup. Even something like Wayne 30 can help you with your social skills. I believe being proficient in game is worth it. Learn how to get laid first. When you get your dick wet, then you can feel less depressed and focus better on work. Do you get it now? Its the other way around. I’ll tell you why. Let me tell you a typical story most Asians and East Indian guys can relate to, tiger parents. They force you to get good grades in school. They believe that lands you a good job, you get a car, house then a women falls on your lap out of the sky and you get married. But there is a problem with this formula, it takes social skills completely off the equation. Your parents were focusing on their survival as immigrants. At the expense of yours, since you are their retirement plan. In fact this sabotaged so many Asian guys.

How many rich 40 year old Asians are there with absolutely no love life? When they try to natural game it, with their asperger like traits. Even if they are not, but they do act like it, if they are forced to be socially impaired. They don’t realize they will just end up like most 40 year old Asians who are taking MMA, trying to keep in shape, then having a good job. But with no dating options. Money only gets you 5 points on this scale Asian guys. Your ethnicity is only 1/10, accent or no accent in North America. Your game is practically 1/10 in most cases. You have an Asian poker face, Asian poker tonality, Asian poker emotional impact. All this self-development in your job is just a total waste of time. You will never get your time back. Learn to get laid first and go back to use that energy to make money.

 

 

Good self-development: Good self-development is everything that is related to the first question. If you were a girl, would you date yourself? A better question is if you were your ideal girl, would you date yourself, or will she date you? That is even more of a tougher question. Of course, I am not saying you have to build your life around her. But it points out a lot of your weaknesses. Start focusing on working on the things on your list. Maybe you need to work out more. Maybe your fashion is terrible, go to Zara for fuck sakes. Stop buying H&M hoodies like RSD Nation faggots. Also, stop listening to Tony Robbins bullshit or read a trillion books or meditate for hours because it seems like the trendy RSD thing to do. Would books or video courses on sales, marketing and stuff help you in your niche? Maybe because it is relevant. I suggest everyone learn some sales. I have a world class level close rate. Easier because I am selling the best products in the world that works universally. Regardless, it still takes some skills. I invested in Udemy courses on subjects I don’t understand. Like video editing, sales, marketing. You get a good return on investment. It only cost like $10 per course USD and if something works for your life, you get the return on investment. I think the better term is called “necessary self developement.”

Pareto principle

I operate under the pareto principle. It suggest 20% of your focus gives you 80% of the results. You don’t need to focus on 80% of things to get 80% of the results. You just have to focus on a small percentage. Like languages, do you have to learn every word? Of course not, it is too much to learn. Its the same with daygame. You don’t have to learn every fucking daygame system and field test it. I already broke down the pareto principle. The 20% that gives you 82% of the student pulling girls home. Lol, pretty similar percentages too when you think about it.

I’ll break it down for you so the dumb RSD sheeps understand. Even their tiny sheep brains can comprehend this. If you are spam approaching with a system that doesn’t work for daygame. You have to ask yourself. Are you sure they are teaching you the paraeto principle? Nope, you are not efficient and wasting your energy. Especially in Vancouver where these dumb mofo sheeps think they are what they call taking action. Or in reality, taking dumb action. So you quit to night game, where you also quit in game in general. Congratulations you dumb stupid mother fuckers. I guess it started with Jan the scam Lifestyles Julien Blanc RSD bullshit natural game. This was not the parato principle or anything else they teach in Vancouver. The blind leading the blind.

 

RSD is a cult, a self-development cult

I won’t mention which cult I think they are like. But when they started to introduce all this self-development shit. When they started to introduce this self development thing, people fell victim to mind control. Why were these dumb RSD Nation faggot sheeples manipulated so much? It is because we all have 6 human needs. For me as a dating coach, I have met all my human needs. For these people, RSD Nation forum, other induction meetings, it is a way to have significance, connection with your fellow brainwash brother. To have certainty to bullshit mind control like looks don’t matter, be in the moment, freedom from outcome, all these things to limit your thinking ability. The self-development is about growth. You have no contribution, you only made the daygame world a worse place. In Vancouver, you turn off all the women for no reason except to approach and take action. Get the fuck off the field. See Pareto principle above, you are not using that.

 

When you leave a cult, you get excommunicated from other members and gets attacked. Happened with Todd and other people. This is the reason why a church is not a cult. If you leave there are no consequences. I left my church, the pasture just prayed for me on the phone or something. Lol, ummm okay. Cults will actually excommunicate you and attack you. I mean, Todd is getting take down notice on his youtube channel. RSD will attack people that worked for them in the past because their cult is about making money.

Solution

You ever fasted before? Where you didn’t eat anything for 24 hours? People also intermittent fast now. To get out of a cult, sometimes people get deprogrammed. In fact this entire blog is a way to help you deprogram and question your belief. They usually separate you from the cult first and try to ask questions getting you back to your rational mind. To think outside of the B.I.T.E model above. My solution is to stop going to RSD Nation for a month and stop watching their videos. Since you love free advice, intermittent it a bit. Go take another month fast. That is one way. You will find what I am saying finally makes sense once you break the programming. You wonder why you ever believed that RSD bullshit in the first place. You start to feel yourself again. Don’t be so easily swayed because you want to meet your human needs. You give up the ability to get your dick wet from banging a hot girl in daygame. Unless you’re priveldged, then you wouldn’t understand. I’m talking to the negative stereotypes. You have to wonder why RSD stuff doesn’t work for daygame and works for night game. Well, night game you don’t need social intelligence or to Wayne 30 it. Can you log out of RSD Nation? Can you unsubscribe to all their shit on youtube? you can re-subscribe. But every time you do this, when you think rationally again. Would you really want to? Unplug from the RSD Matrix. When they tell you to unplug from the Matrix, they are replugging you back into their matrix.

Remember, I won’t ever use any sort of their tactics on you. I’m always here to wake you up. You can spot it a mile away now if I do. I am teaching you how cults work. Second, never worship me. I’m just human with some extraordinary abilities and a scientific field tested understanding of the game. If you dislike what I am saying, you are a deluded sociopath who thinks your opinions is facts. I won’t train you. Stop reading my blog, fuck off. Remember I am not here to tell you how to think. I’m just posting my field testing results. I do have the most student success in the world for daygame for pulls and lays combined. Meaning if you go look at pull/laid testimonials from every daygame company, I have many times more. Maybe I am telling you something that is so scientific, rooted in reality, it works. Think for yourself, is the best advice I can give you. Also, Merry Christmas Eve.

-John Wayne

 

You might wonder why I even posted a Justin Wayne video? Well, I said whoever has the balls to speak out against RSD. Even Wayne Dating, which we split from in 2015. I don’t give a fuck, I’m the third daygame Wayne or third generation. I am my own separate person. But I have to commend grandpa Wayne for speaking out against RSD. Now Todd did another tall white dude with a high lay count, Justin, Deepak and me. Me, the guy with the most student results, testimonials in the entire world for daygame. Such a high amount, there are no second or third places anywhere near me. Notice, my last name is Wayne.

Having said that, I don’t care if they fight it out. For me, I just grab some popcorn and watch. I don’t give a fuck, to be honest, its entertaining. I can post whatever the fuck I want on my blog and I doubt Deepak cares. Deepak was paid next to nothing by Justin, in terms of the value comment about the company investing in the marketing. But I am actually paid on commission and I make a lot. I won’t go into the numbers here, but I make more than most average people in normal jobs. I already have bootcamp clients signing up for next year. But Deepak was working for peanuts literally. I can tell you how much, but it’s too low to even be posted. You wouldn’t even believe it. Even I made more than that as an independent dating coach before, many times more.

Having said that, both or daygame systems aren’t identical. If we look objectively? Who has more daygame testimonials and who struggles getting pull/laid student testimonials? Its obvious we don’t teach the same system. I wasn’t trained by Justin. I actually rebuild from scratch. Taught Justin’s system for a bit in 2015. Then Deepaks system in 2016. I adapted the same adaptations as Deepak because we are both so low value in terms of our LMS. What shocks me was I released the Wayne Playbook before Conversation Domination. It was Deepaks product and it was very similar at the time. Deepak trained me in 6 months to mastery. I created Wayne 30 as a social skills course, that is similar to pickup mastery personality course, but way more robust with many more categories. Its not the first time I have created a product that is similar to another Wayne. I created my 3 months to proficiency after two of Justin Wayne’s Asian students weren’t getting results. Begged me to train them. I got 3 students in 15 hours. Not my opinion, this is a fact. It’s not because I am some amazing teacher since I sell products like Wayne 30 and Wayne Playbook where students still get laid from it. I haven’t even trained some of the students who got results. We updated our system into a more natural and adaptive system. One works for positive stereotypes and one work for negative and positive stereotypes. I think the best way to understand the differences it the samurai vs the ninja concept. Samurais are more flashy and more overt. Our style is based on stealth, natural game to draw her in. Ninja stars and blow darts to spice. We don’t touch so much to get investment. We get investment first before we touch. The ninja stealth and camouflage is our ability to have a natural conversation to sneak in there. We are more like asymmetric warfare than symmetrical.

Our style has similarities, but lots of differences from Justin Wayne. In late 2015, I was teaching the domino effect unofficially. I was a Wayne, though and through. I taught Deepaks system in 2016 unofficially. I lived and breathed Wayne technologies. I’ll point out some difference in my objective observation. I got no student results teaching the domino effect. Samepagology kept getting my Asian students auto rejected. Its lover, bf/provider or friendzone. They got friendzoned using it. It isn’t about personality accuracy going up the ladder. They simple were treated as second class citizens and friendzoned. Samepagology isn’t necessary and can backfire. I would suggest you don’t use it, or introduce more romance after sex. Not before, but choose the ratio carefully at the escalation ladder.

One thing I noticed was we use more spicing, meaning teases, push/pulls, that kind of stuff. Justin doesn’t have to, he just goes to social comfort. I think most girls, in general, find black guys attractive in terms of protectors status, preselection and personality. What I mean by that is, teasing and push/pull, they all have a purpose, including self-amusement, challenging. Deepak learned it from London systems which were shitty. But we have to use it because we aren’t attractive in the eyes of most girls. We have to build the attraction. But our timing is what makes it special. Use it too much, it becomes gamey. This is where our spicing concept comes in. Spice too much you ruin the soup. Too less, it’s platonic. This is my observation as a coach. I think another difference is selling romance. We are the romantic/sexual connection. We adjust the ratio because of the lover, boyfriend/provider, friendzone category. I think Justin fits into the boyfriendzone. I think a lot of taller, stronger black guys do with white women in general. Of course I have a lot of students with hot girlfriends. But they always have some LMS advantage to get the girls. Listen I’m in charge of updating our daygame system, not Deepak. Its field tested across all students in 3MP, bootcamps and Skype playbook students.

The whole point is to show you that even Justin Wayne thinks RSD sucks. Everyone who spoke out against RSD is better than RSD. This is how we have the immunity to get away with it. I have more testimonials for daygame than all RSD 100,000 students/sheeps/minions. I’m only one coach who has been a Wayne for one year. Year one, every student has pulled on the bootcamp. Except for one guy who is borderline autistic. Year 2, I don’t think that is necessary. I already broke every conceivable record as a dating coach. 82% of students pulled, 70% got laid. I don’t know how to top these metrics except to stop teaching impossible cases. My point is anyone who speaks out against RSD. Anyone will be commended by John Wayne.

Todd partially got in trouble with RSD for interviewing Justin Wayne. He also said someone was a wingman with Todd Valentine and he only gets laid once every 6 months or something. Or was it a year? Wtf, low odds. Even if Todd isn’t with RSD, he is still foisting their low level of white privilege game. I never saw his infields, but as Justin said, drunk girls at night game. I just had students tell me he pulled 11 times so I don’t know. Maybe from a date or something. I’ll take their word for it. But prepare to see 12 of my infields, 2 were released. You would love the third one. I did an impossible task. I had to game two girls at once because my bootcamp student didn’t know what to do like a deer in the headlights. But closed the deal anyways. Its not the first time on a bootcamp. 5 approaches before this, same day lay a 6’2 Russian. A promise is a promise. Any future dating coaches want to talk about RSD, who has skills. You will also be commended. Justin seems a bit apprehensive about me. I still have my respect for him. He is still the first generation Wayne. I have my difference of opinions based on field testing and student results. It is my destiny. I have in a year become the worlds best dating coach statistically. I’m happy to have the last name Wayne.

But remember, the first system is like Jiu Jitsu the samurais used. It’s rigid, powerful, technical and more energy. Later, you got Judo, like Deepaks 2015. It changed to Brazilian Ju Jitsu or Ninjustu. Both Deepak and I were extremely technical. We are the two most technical dating coaches in the world. He was an engineer and my brain was similar. I never was smart enough to be one since I had bad grades. In 2017, we turned more natural. I think its more like Ninjutsu or Aikido. The point is just because something started as the original doesn’t mean it ends there. I had 5 years of training in Israeli Krav Maga.

Demonstration of Krav Maga. You can hire me as a bodyguard if you want to. Joking. But Krav Maga made me realize that if the shortest and the most disadvantage couldn’t use it. Even fighting from the worst position, it was discarded. My idealogy of mixing things and discarding things. Even my training methods for drills, exercises were from Krav Maga. You wonder why my bootcamps has so many drills and exercises like a martial art class. We also don’t fight symmetrically because we will lose due to our LMS. We fight unfair. Its all about efficiency too. Also, it’s still automatic due to all the drills I had to do. I didn’t move as fast, pants were too tight to fight. I ripped it and bought another one afterward. This method of fighting was not an original, but a remix. Now you understand my mindset. I also studied MMA, I got my eye scratched by someones thumb in a MMA fight and I quit. I kept seeing flashes of light on the left eye. Regardless the no nonsense mindset always stood with me. Absorb what is useful, discard what is not. Add uniquely what is your own. 

If you want to learn more about Krav Maga, this video is very educational. Skim though it. In Israel, they have a very small population and limited resources. They have to outmatched their enemies in skill to defend themselves. I might be a short skinny Asian guy. But my mentality is to over come difficult odds. 

The system was evolved from many martial arts even if the creator was a boxing and wrestling champion. Sometimes the derivative is stronger than the original. All martial arts started in China by a monk called Bodhidharma. He taught the Chinese. But just because Shaolin kung fu was the first, doesn’t mean it ends there. A good metaphor for the Mystery Method. Now we have Sanda Or San Shou. It is way more efficient and effective. Bruce Lee never believed in forms or styles. But to mix them all. He was hated by other martial artists. Dude was arrogant and he challenged everyone. He studied every system and he created an MMA like style. My point is, the original stuff, including RSD, doesn’t mean it is the best. Sometimes the evolution of it is more efficient. Even for people phrasing the Mystery Method. The world of game doesn’t stop at Mystery. MMA or mixed martial arts is an evolution of everything. It is effective. I hope you get my point. This blog is a beacon of truth, so I’ll just say it as it is. I don’t give a fuck. Take it or leave it, I still make money being honest with people. I don’t care if I make less than RSD or lose potential students. I can sleep well at night being honest about the true nature of game.

-John Wayne