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MOST PEOPLE GOT OFFENDED WHEN I POSTED THIS VIDEO SHOWING ME TEACHING MY STUDENT KRAV MAGA, HOW TO GET OUT OF BETA MINDSET, UNTIL I EXPLAINED WHY IT IS SO NECESSARY

I got another friend to take Krav Maga. He also experienced freezing up. The last blog post really struck a chord with a lot of people. They freeze up with a super fear.

When I almost got into a fight, wished it happened, everything came back. Back on the foward gear I talked about in my last post.

Everything I wanted to accomplish is way easier.

 

DISCLIPLINE EQUALS FREEDOM UNLOCKS YOUR MIND SO YOU CAN TAKE ACTION

The left book helps hardcases stop making excuses. But the second book in the middle helps you take action.

Some things I learned is you can only control yourself. Not the outside, so it should be called self disclipline equals freedom.

The book unfvcks your mind and makes you take action.

As people the more mental abuse, or sociopaths we deal with, the more we freeze up for the nervous system.

But I realized men need a bit of fighting. Maybe i’ll organize a fight club with my friends, joking, but put on some gloves.

 

ISN’T IT WEIRD I TEACH MY STUDENTS HOW TO FIGHT, TO GET OUT OF BETA MODE. BUT DAN PENA DOES THE SAME THING?

He is the highest performance coach in the world for students results or making money.

I am the coach with the most students laid in daygame or cold approach in the world.

Sometimes its weird, but our concepts by default are very similar.

Actually everyone who is first place in a particular field or niche or whatever, tends to all have the same mindsets or filters. Mine isn’t marketing. But the same filter for something else.

 

Too much in the fight mode stresses you out

you don’t use the fight mode all the time. Just when the gear shift in your mind move by itself back to freeze or flight. Like a gear shift going backwards.

What will happen with your body will be flooded with cortisol, it is a stress hormone.

Only use the fight mode when you get stuck in freeze mode.

Its better to turn off the fight mode when you don’t need it. But to turn it back on when you do.

The focus is just what you need for hunting, fighting, a sabretooth tiger attacks in the old days. But not as relevant as today.

 

Problem with some martial arts is they don’t work in the streets

You still remain fearful with traditional martial arts. If someone puts you into a head lock, or bear hug or tackles your legs, or you are on the ground. Or pulls a knife on you, I do.

You don’t know how to survive

Even if you learned shit like that, it doesn’t really help train you in martial arts.

UNLESS THE SHIT WORKS IN A LIFE OR DEATH SITUATION, YOU WOULD HAVE A SUPER FEAR. YOU DON’T TRUST YOUR OWN KARATE.

 

Most of you don’t know your jobs will be replaced with robots

• Robots doesn’t get tired
• robots doesn’t complain
• Robots doesn’t act like snowflakes
• They don’t make demands

 

Be A Terminator, or machine

Emotions doesn’t mean shit. You can be beaten and yelled at and be an emotional triggered snowflake. Feelings is something you feel or don’t. Why not use it to your advantage

When I read that book a lot of things clicked. Its mental weakness that people gives into.

Mental toughness is the opposite. It is just move forward despite the feelings.

This is why most people will never be successful as some others. They are controlled by emotions.

Mental toughness is ignoring the weakness and fighting back against it. Its like an internal battle. NOT SO MUCH EXTERNAL

 

JUST FVCKING DO IT

JUST GO IN THE FORWARD GEAR OR FIGHT GET AND FVCKING DO IT.

When you fear failure, fear success, a perfectionist

Progress over perfection. I’m also a perfectionist. But sometimes you have to use big blocks of marble, clay or whatever before you sculpt. Sculpt before you work on the details.

 

 

On last trick is to trick your mind, just fvcking do it

Say you aren’t going to approach, you are going outside

You aren’t going to approach you will walk behind her

you aren’t going to approach, you will just ask her directions

You aren’t going to approach you will ask her directions and transition

You aren’t going to approach her, you will ask her directions, transition and get into a cconversation.

SO BASICALLY BY TELLING YOUR MIND YOU WON’T DO SOMETHING, YOU WILL STLL GET IT DONE.

I’ve studied neuroscience. I have no idea how it works, but sometimes getting started is the hardest thing.

You wouldn’t believe what you can accomplish.

Instead of fighting the forces in your mind, just bypass that.

-John Elite

Elite Playbook is more of the offense of the game, not the defense.

 

Be a Terminator or robot when you get shit done. When you deal with women, use feelings. But emotions are not feelings, emotional snowflakes. Feelings is something you can feel in your nervous system. What you feel she feels.

 

DON’T BE A PUSSY

 

Start Here With Elite Playbook, has 3 skypes too

-John Elite

I’m in the video 11 seconds in, how to take out the competition, or RSD?

Dan Pena told me to hypothetically break their legs. I told him I would hypothetically break their legs. We think the same. But there is a lesson in thinking.

While I don’t have his wealth, I have his mindset and used it for teaching daygame. You guys needs to grow a pair. Seriously.

He is the highest performance coach for creating wealth in the entire world.

I’m the guy who has the most students laid in daygame in the entire world.

 

I’ll talk about two things, and my student who experienced something similar. When you deal with sociopaths, they love freezing your mind. 

I know a lot of you are tired of this topic, you can fvck off for all I care. But this is the daily gospel of daygame. For a lot of daygamers, this is their PUA DNA, multiple mental illnesses called comorbidity. 

 

 

The more mental abuse you go though the more your mind is in freeze or flee

Fight, flight or freeze, have you heard of it?

This was an evolutionary psychology sort of response.

I’ve dealt with horrible people who made my brain freeze, but good thing I went back to fight mode, my default mode.

 

 

ALMOST GOT INTO A FIGHT AT COSTCO

After 5 years of Krav Maga, I was ready to fight him outside. I don’t condone violence or fightin, but sometimes you need to physically fight

I didn’t have time, this women was taking forever to make a meal. 

I looked at my watch, I need to get out of here so I can buy my groceries. 

I see the sample food, she said she has to put it on the front. I said can I grab one? 

She said no, some b.s excuse like it takes a few mins or some nonsense.

I STILL GRABBED IT ANYWAYS. 

She grabbed my hand and some white guy said why are you so rude? 

I looked at him and laughed. 

Then he said LETS TAKE IT OUTSIDE

He wanted to fight me.

I calmly said, okay then, lets go outside and fight then

We can do it right now, lets go. 

He was in shocked and he started to chicken out

Then I called him a pussy, why are you such a pussy? 

I said come on lets go outside and fight, you wanted to. 

He never seen someone so calm, he thought I would freeze up and flee

Maybe he isn’t used to seeing tough Asians. 

I keep calling him a pussy, stop being a pussy

He acted more like a pussy and he said you should call security to that women

I started to walk before they did, then I yelled stop being a pussy

I stuck my middle finger at him

All the security guards later on at the checkout didn’t even bother me

I stared them all down, all the employees were scared

I had a good time and was back in fight gear. 

 

Your mind only goes forward fight, or neutral freeze or flee reverse

This is a common story with a lot of my students. With crazy sociopath parents or people around them, they freeze up

I always get back into fight mode, every single time.

Although recently I have been in more of a freeze mode, but once you can access fight mode, you can take action and move foward.

When I was GamingElite, it was always fight mode.

I would approach the hottest women, I didn’t give a shit how much resistance I faced.

The resistance really helped me out by forcing adaptations in my techniques.

If you learn from an easy country, then the techniques or tactics aren’t transferable.

 

A BOOTCAMP STUDENT THAT WAS MENTALLY ABUSED

Paper tigers

His boss was a short Asian women who kept yelling at him.

He was alpha at first, he didn’t care what women thinks

She started to lower his standard telling him those kinds of behavior was wrong

He tried to fight back, but she eventually bellittled him and went crazy

He started to freeze up more and more. He started to get tamed like my other students

Eventually over time, even when I talk to him on the phone when I swear, he would freeze up

I told my students to take Krav Maga and learn how to defend themselves and how to destroy someone if they needed it in self defense.

They need to be on the fight gear and this helps with pickup.

THEY WILL TAKE IT TO RETRAIN THEIR NERVOUS SYSTEM.

 

ADVICE AND SOLUTION

STAY AWAY FROM PEOPLE TO MAKES YOU FREEZE UP, THEY USUALLY USE THAT TO MANIPULATE YOU. A lot of them are controlling narcissist or sociopaths. Not all, but a lot of them are.

You must always remain in the forward gear, you must never run or freeze.

Even if you have to cope with it, you always stay in the forward gear.

Almost all my inaction is action again when I am in the forward gear

Evolutionary psychology created these so you can fight a sabretooth tiger, or freeze and it doesn’t see you, since you lower your body language. Or you run.

But these days there isn’t that kind of threat.

FALSE EXPECTATIONS APPEARING REAL, F.E.A.R

That’s my advice. I’m glad I came back. Back in the forward gear.

ALMOST A LOT OF MY RECENT STUDENTS ALWAYS FREEZE UP, ITS A COMMON PATTERN. I ALREADY KNOW THEY HAVE FVCKED UP PARENTS AROUND THEM. THAT MADE THEM SNOWFLAKES.

I’M NOT SAYING FIGHTING IS THE ANSWER OR VIOLENCE. BUT I AM SAYING BE A WARRIOR AND GET INTO THE FIGHT GEAR. IT GETS SHIT DONE. STAY OUT OF THE FREEZE OR FLIGHT GEAR. STAY IN THE DRIVE GEAR THAT MOVE THINGS FORWARD.

These days there is no reason to be in the freeze gear or flight gear. There are no sabertooth tigers anymore. Things have evolved, even if our nervous system didn’t.

 

 

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