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Yeah, as you get older, you have to take care of your skin. Lots of PUA or even dating coaches are aging. Besides working out, I recommend taking care of your skin. Before I got a spin brush thing, my camera man was like you will waste your money. I paid $20 for one, but now its only $15. The return on investment is great.

Most of my clients lately are in their late 20’s and my last client was late 30’s. He looks young, but asked me about how to take care of his skin. Yes, I don’t only teach younger guys. I have a lot of mid 20’s guys before. I taught every age, but this is something you have to address as you get older. Its not even expensive to take care of your skin. Prevention is the best cure. Luckily this hasn’t affected me yet. But one day I would have to really take care of my skin.

I have students who are older so I recommend they use this. If a dating coach gets old, he can no longer get younger women as easily without a great deal of skill. Unless you want to keep dating 24 year olds and older. I would recommend getting a spin brush. You can use any face cleanser on it. I used to have all this red spots on my skin. Dead cell skin everywhere. Now people are like why is your skin so soft looking? I mean the worst thing is having leathery skin. This is how I do it. Also, I use an apricot scrub once a week. I sometimes use a mineral toner, so it doesn’t dry my skin. Then some cheap oil of olay moisturizer.

Lol reminds me of this, joking. A student did ask how to take care of the skin.

If I were to recommend something in Canada. I would go to bed bath and beyond and get this. Its only $18 and super cheap. Its even better than the one I have above. You don’t need to spend a hundred dollars for a spin brush. Do they work? Yes, it makes your skin brighter. It makes your skin softer. Just make sure you moisturize afterwards.

 

John (the aesthetic) Wayne

Some of my students after the boot-camp knows what their sticking points are. But they just ask for advice, but doesn’t try to fix it.  So they go back out there, make the same mistakes, fails. It is like a boat with holes in it. Patch the holes first or you won’t make it to the destination. Why can’t they fix it? Sometimes due to stubbornness. Sometimes they even blame me for their inability to adapt. Some of the sticking points I have seen are: not being able to kiss the girl. Can’t hold her hands, can’t use the conversational wheel I teach, texting in a gamey way, hunching. Whatever your sticking point is, they don’t over come it. But they just fail over and over.

Solution? You make a list from the sticking points I have told you, that you have. Then you work on the worst one first. You will see the most results. Then you use the second worst, third worst. But you spend an entire week just on that one sticking point. Buy a calendar and mark it with a red marker for every day you work on it. Not doing everything at once. Like a jack of all trades, master of none. Start patching the holes in the boat first. Or you keep sinking to your destination. I know this advice sounds easy. One of my students had a very cocky funny text game that is very narcissistic. But that just provokes her to give shit test, then radio silence. I told him not to, but he keeps doing it. It took him two Skype lessons to fix it. Yes I know how hard it is to fix a sticking point or habit. I know it feels nearly impossible. But if you work on it every day of the week all day. Its better to fix it in 7 days, vs 7 months. Listen i’m giving you some very powerful advice here. If you won’t get a calendar and fix it, watch this video and it will convince you. I’m not a Dan Pena fan. But what he said makes sense. He said just do it, follow the fucking script. The video should start automatically on the right part. Substitute poor to why you aren’t getting laid.

Just stop feeling sorry for yourself when I tell you what to fix. Saying oh yeah I need to fix that. Then do the same things over and over again.

Let me repeat myself because you are not listening. Lets say if I wanted to fix not swearing as much on my blog like Dan Pena. So i’m more relatable. 1. Get a calendar, or a planner type of notebook that you can schedule in your life. Or apps on your phone. 2. write down the sticking point I told you for an entire week. 3. Just fucking do it and practice for as long as you can. 4. Stop making excuses and change it. 5. Reap the rewards of me saving you 7 months of the same mistakes and fixing it in 7 days.

-John (the fix your sticking points already) Wayne