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He only took one Skype coaching session with me. He finally got out there to practice daygame again. He got a same day lay with a Latina. At first he was really untrusting because of the whole Justin Wayne, Deepak Wayne civil war going on. He said most of the industry was a scam. I told him, yeah most of it is. Except Deepak and I are real. His issue was, he was Justin Wayning the daygame. He pulled an endless amount of girls home, but dry pulls. He needed me to figure out what was the issue. I did the game test to see what was the issue. He was dominant and he was good at moving her from place to place. The game test is a secret test I do with all Skype students in the first few minutes. I can figure out all their sticking points without them going to a bootcamp. Like most black guys, they escalate way too fast. They really don’t use social comfort or social connection. Its 0-100 very quickly. Social comfort or social connection as we call it at Wayne Dating Lifestyle is a term that talks about rapport. But we have our own version of it. Also, we know when to use it at the right times.

Long story short, I have a lot of black students. They come in a few types. The first type is the Justin Wayne, I am going to be gamey, dominant and overly expressive, personality enhancement type. This might have some effect if the student is tall and strong, protector status. Second type is the 5’8-5’9 type. They are neither big or strong. They don’t dress well at all. They have an uphill battle. They usually try Justin Wayne style and fail miserably. The third type is the inner game issues type. They tend to be skinnier, or they want to take action. But like the Asians, they feel every odds are against them. Its not true, but their SMV natural status scale makes it harder because they don’t have the protector status and preselection. They need to get out more and switch their styles.

While some of my students who are black got laid. The ones who didn’t really have to get over their inner game issues and go back out there with better calibration. They are the ones who doesn’t take action. Black people are more preselected than Asians are generally. White girls are attracted. The white girls almost escalate them, isn’t a race issue. Having a darker complexion isn’t the issue. You guys aren’t Asians or East Indians. If you want to know who has it the toughest, its Asians.

 

John (the real truth seeker) Wayne

How to be more grounded. Being grounded was something I have noticed in the recent wave of bootcamp students. They could rarely focus and stay still. When they stay still, they hardly used hand gestures. Then again if you come from the natural and direct scam group. You would just put your hands in your pocket and try to square off. Not only is this out right creepy and aspergers.

At the same time, I have noticed students using too much hand gestures or too less. Or once they get going, they never stop hand gesturing as if they their hand was in glitch mode. Their upper body moves all over the place. Some calls it body rocking. I say an alpha doesn’t over do this. You can do this front to back. But it is better just to move your hands. Also, not all the time, maybe every third interval of your sentences when you speak.

What causes these issues? A lot of it has to do with nervousness, uncalibrated and being too beta. An alpha male will learn how to keep still yet express him emotions though facial expressions and movements at the right time. He wouldn’t be so easily nervous or twitchy.

To get grounded, I would start to breath very slowly. Eventually you would notice with enough breathing you would get into a different state of mind. You know you are doing this right when you are either seeing details around you. You noticed all the shadows, textures, lighting, all that visual stuff. I myself am a visual person, so I tend to talk faster. But I do notice these details that is related to 3D animation or rendering. If you are more of a logical person, than a 3D person. You would notice more sounds like cars going by or other sounds of people talking when you breath slow. If you think with feelings, you would talk slow because you are thinking with feelings. These guys notice the vibe around them. These are called modalities.

After this step, I would focus on my body, where there is any sensation or pain. So I focus inwards like mindful meditation. I would say there is a nerve pain on my spine for example. The i’ll say, okay now i’m in state. Although us Waynes doesn’t need to be in state to function. We already have an adaptive structure. Well at Wayne Dating Lifestyle anyways. After that we will apply the secret mindsets that I don’t acknowledge. This should fix your issues with being grounded. If you are calm and grounded, she is calm. Its mirror neurons in her brain mirroring your state. Newbies all are kind of twitchy, or they have no hand gestures. Try to find something inbetween.

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To the guys who just likes mental masturbation. Sorry not under my watch.

Step 1. Start breathing slowly for a minute. 

Step 2. Look for visual details, sound details or vibe in the environment. 

Step 3. When that modality hits you and you get into state. Just notice the pains and sensations in your body and call it out. 

Step 4. Say I’m in state and go approach the set. You should be much calmer. 

Umm, don’t just sit there, go practice this. It will make such a dramatic difference in your overall groundedness. Just because you are more grounded, doesn’t mean she will automatically jump on your dick. But it is a start.

 

-John (the grounded) Wayne