Author: vancouverdaygame

Have you ever noticed guys who are into pickup who doesn’t do that well. They struggle with it, even if they have advantages in height or looks. They tend to only think of the outcome. They only think how they are going to get laid next. Instead they should be focusing on improving the process. They don’t even know what they did wrong all these years. So when they are talking to women, they are really taking value vs giving value. Like saying I’m cool, if you are cool too, lets vibe together. In reality, they are like, I’m daygame Dracula. I’m going to suck your value. Basically they can’t build a connection or doesn’t care about the girl on any level. They just see women as sex objects and women can feel that. They want to know at least you like them for more than that. Unless your frame is to go for a same day lay. Then that is the exception. Most women doesn’t want to feel like a slut. It triggers their ASD or anti slut defense.

I teach many methods of how to connect with women. I have a method called deep diving. But I won’t give the specific details outside of my boot camp or skype coaching. Regardless, if she doesn’t feel you during the daygame. She won’t even reply to you. You aren’t keeping it real. Sometimes you don’t always connect with every girl. You don’t have to and you won’t. She has the right to not feel connected to you.

Of course some people claims, well they been doing pickup for a long time. They don’t run attraction game until I taught them. They would think they already ran comfort or rapport game without it. Nope, that  is just asking non stop questions vampire value seeking game. If you learned how to build attraction from her. It is good to learn how to connect with her. As they say, the game is played in comfort. Even if you feel like you can’t, or you don’t have that kind of emotional range. Fake it at least. But don’t care what she thinks of course. But be geniunely interested in her at least.

Train with me, if you want to learn how to build comfort besides just learning how to build attraction. Don’t forget, there is seduction too. Something I would talk about in a future post.

 

I talked about the 5 attraction switches before. Why not use DHV stories in your daygame to flip attraction switches of higher value. Not explicitly, but implicitly. Meaning, don’t try to state it outright so it sounds like bragging. But say it in such a way it sounds like you are talking about a friend. But you use the word she in it to her surprise. To imply you have females around you. Pick 10 of your best stories as if you were a comedian and this is your material. Make sure you can flip a lot of the attraction switches. Just say parts of the story in pieces. No one has the time to listen all day to a full story. As long as you flip the 5 attraction switches. Let these stories demonstrate the best part of your personality. At times being Asian and short for example. You would be stereotyped as someone without a lot of dating options. You can put into your stories how you have dated women like models ect. You can even relate with short stories like, “Oh you are Russian? Reminds me of my friend Anastasia, (or Ana, for other races.) Man, she wasn’t a citizen and she tried to marry me. I haven’t talked to her in two weeks. I’m sure she is married to someone else right now.” Image not only using this for knowledge and relatability. “Like oh my best friend is this too. She..”But into normal statements too. I rarely see people who can do this on the fly, off the top of their own head. You seem like you go to this university. Rather than say do you go to university? Which you would get a yes, no or maybe answer. “One time I sneaked in there with a backpack. (risktaker) I brought a few other girls with me (preselection). A fight nearly broke out, I told them to back off. They sensed how calm I was sensing I knew how to fight. (protector status). My friends cheered me on (leader of men). I ended up making out with a few girls, but connected very well with them. (ability to emote). The rest I can’t say.” This might be the missing component if you aren’t strong or tall. You don’t have preselection or protector status. Or you are still building it. But for now, these stories can raise your value in a short interaction. No one said the stories have to be true, just sound believable. But I prefer to tell true stories. That is why building a lifestyle is just as important. So you have things to talk about. You aren’t trying to be a try hard or braggart. But someone who is the most interesting man in the world. Showing her a trailer of your world. Inviting her in.