Author: vancouverdaygame

This is not going to be an easy post to write. But it is necessary. I will cite people this post if they are cheapo hustler clients. I have encountered this time and time again. What type of clients do I usually encounter? I only encountered 4 types. First type is the guy who will say shut up and take my money. He is the type of clients that makes good use of my material. The second type is the educational type of client. They want to make an educated decision first. But don’t mistaken difficult clients which comes third. They will not buy no matter what and demand free advice. For you to show them bootcamp videos. Even ask you for access to your students to ask for their opinions. Even if the opinions are solid or goods, they won’t buy no matter what. Last type of clients the worst in my experience are called the cheapo clients. The cheapo clients are the first clients to hustle me.

I made several post about this. Click here and here. But I want to elaborate a pattern I constantly found. Those who are cheap, for some strange reason, or correlation has a personality problem. They are so into free advice, they act like snakes who are waiting to bite you in the neck. Am I cheap? Totally. But I spends big when I find something I really want. I usually don’t buy arbitrary things. Only things I wanted for a long time, or mostly reinvest it all back into the business. Like updating new equipment. I do invest in myself. Chinese people are known to be cheap. But yes, I do spend big regardless. I’m not Korean to the contrary belief.

Most of the time, these cheapo clients often say they don’t have much money. They begin to bargain with you. They want things cheaper or some shit. I say no. Then they say can they pay in installments. They often just pay one or two and stop. So I usually give them less than they paid me as an insurance policy. Now I’m starting to kick out cheapo clients and send them over to my competition where they will fail in daygame. I know that is bad to send people over to my competition. It makes them more money. But it also makes them drop out of daygame getting no results. I often send students to Jan Lifestyle. I also am considering sending them to Justin Wayne, if I don’t like them. So they can fail miserably. Its the best revenge.

When I was independent, I was dealing with poor hardcase hustlers. They would hustle me for free advice leeching off my value like a vampire. Imagine if you got something for expensive. You tend to be happier. You value it more. If I gave you a free book, you don’t value it as much. Sometimes value or giving away free items can be a way to trap the greedy. This is a common tactic daygame coaches use. I don’t use it, I don’t need it. By focusing on my clients who aren’t cheapos, but affluent, I don’t have to deal with hustlers. I had a guy ask me for free advice. He was my client twice for cheap when I was independent. I got him a girlfriend who was a Latina. She was like 8.5/10. It was amazing after he got a fuck buddy with a 6’2 blonde. He is only 5’7. But he never paid me. He just backstabbed when I asked for a testimonial. He kept delaying it with some excuse. Like a doctor already solved his problem. He just takes value and doesn’t give it back. People like this are uncool vampires.

This knife will be featured in the next video. I bought the knife as a deal, of buy one get one free. So I bought another huge Karabit. I was spinning this in the video like a nunchucks or figit spinner. Its weird how I John Wayne have so much fighting or martial art ability. This is the most dangerous knife in the world. I highly recommend you don’t fuck around with it or buy it. You will slice open your own wrist easily spinning it. I can do it, you can’t

The lesson I want to impart was since I paid more money. I enjoyed it a lot more. It was cheaper on Amazon of course. It is a psychological thing. The blazer that is featured in my video. I bought it out of impulse in front of my students. It does make me look K-Pop which makes it hard to daygame. It will not be relatable to some girls, which I faced resistance. But I could feature this in future videos. The blazer was not cheap at all, even for a sale. Its more expensive than a whole outfit. But I was happier buying or investing in myself. I’m spinning this swords like a pro here again and people are watching. I honestly have no idea how I’m able to use every weapon like a pro. Maybe I was a modern day warrior. I should of been born thousands of years ago. Perhaps I’m more suited to be a general or something. Or I’m the Asian Sam Fisher.

The point is invest in yourself. Sure my training is more expensive, but I hope I made a good point. If you are a cheapo client or hustler. You take value from others and not make it win/win. But win lose. You have a personality problem and will backstab me when you are successful. This is not cool. I can give you powers in daygame. But like any tool, it depends on the one using it. Learn how to give value like cool people first.

If you have this uncool personality trait. It will affect your daygame. The girl wil only think you want sex or she can sense your vampire vibe. It will hurt your results. You will get a lot of flakes. One guy gave me a compliment, then asked for free advice about this girl he gave a compliment to. Then he tried to take value. I told him the way he tried to take value from me was the same way he lost her. Of course I don’t want to turn down any business. But at the same time, having higher prices filters out the snakes. It is actually that snake behavior that is hurting their game in the first place. You have to set the cheapo clients free. You can’t teach integrity. It is something you have to have or work on.

Edit: A few East Indian guys were asking for free advice today. One was cool, he’s going to make a video testimonial after he got laid. Prepare for a few more video testimonials on this site. Now a few Asians are asking for free advice. Asians and East Indians. But for freebie cheapo guys asking for free advice. I say google it. If I want you to fail, I would forward you to other scammy coaches just to watch you fail badly. In the past I let clients take advantage of my time. Where they don’t appreciate it. Turns on you. It was that shitty behavior, where you guys no longer can have nice things. You want my advice, then pay for my time. Maybe some people doesn’t see the value in what I do. If it were up to me, I’ll charge even higher prices than now.

I was worried that I would lose clients if I charged more money. That was what happened when I raised my price for the online product with 3X Skype coaching. In the beginning, I did. But during the month, things picked up as usual eventually. I sold quit a few copies of the course. I attract the right clients. Also, with Wayne Dating Lifestyle bootcamps. 95% of the students has pulled already in the last two months. The bootcamps are about 3 grand Canadian. I thought okay, I would never get another client again. But I attracted great clients flying in all over the world. I would say it was worth it. You just filter out the trash. If you can’t see value in my work, 80% student pull rate and 70% lay rate. Then go to RSD, Justin Wayne,  Jan Lifestyle and fail with them. I want you out of game, so I recommend them.

Regardless, invest in yourself is the solution. I can’t help you if I can’t sell to you. You know others I could sell too are going to pull and get laid. While you get motivated by marketing and clever scams. Then lose your money not getting any results. Why is my bootcamps or Skype coaching with the online product worth the money? Its customized to your sticking points. I have over 80% student pull rate and 70% lay rate. In Vancouver, there is no such testimonials for any PUA coaches yet, in the last two years. Direct doesn’t work here. You are paying for world class cutting edge training of the highest level.

Edit: Another Asian guy is asking free fashion advice. Another East Indian client is asking for a discount. Listen, i’ll send an invoice for the right amount. If you don’t pay it on PayPal on time, making excuses I double the price of the invoice. I don’t need cheapo clients. This is my old policy, so I’m reinstating it. I mean if you are hustling me, I can hustle back.

 

 

Here is another East Indian guy hustling me. He said something about giving value. Dude I have so much videos giving free advice and blog post. This guy probably is never going to be a client.

 

 

 

 

 

However earlier today another East Indian client from India. Their money is more scarce there. He managed to pay for the online course. He by investing in himself will probably watch every video and practice a lot. Not take it for granted. Versus this guy wants free advice. I always forward value takers to this article. Its really annoying when most of the freebie value guys are East Indians or Asians. Why not other ethnicities who pays me for it? I always make one sale at the same time with someone who pays. There is always someone who ask for free advice too. Its weird, but that is the timing.

 

John (the I will hustle you back) Wayne

I have cracked the code. I have a client who is an impossible case. A lot of the ideas of using drills and exercises. A lot of the technologies I have created to teach daygame in a more efficient way is field tested on him. People with aspergers tends to not be able to make eye contact among many other impairments. I created using symbols instead to remember things or sequences since they can’t really remember the next step. Regardless, this is the reason why some of the latest techniques were so transferable. It works for him, it works for everyone else. Of course in the past, everything that works for me, works for you. But I am taking this concept to a whole other level using impossible cases as experimental test subjects. He is okay with it, as long as you guys benefits.

But there was something new I have discovered. I made this student buy a figit spinner and forced him to focus on it for an entire week. So that way he can make solid eye contact. He was able to make perfect eye contact for the first time ever. He used to just look left and right talking to you. It was weird as hell. He is one of the slowest learners I ever had in my teaching career. But his inability to learn fast was what I used to help a lot of people in daygame. I’m constantly working on new technologies because the existing daygame framework doesn’t work. No one has any testimonials in the last two years in Vancouver or students pulling in daygame or getting laid. The weakness of their system is what got me thinking with innovation.

It turns out, you don’t have to practice an hour a day. You only have to practice 10 minutes a day. That is the secret timing. He done this for only 7 days and was able to rewire his brain. He wrote on a calendar, which is something I am inventing for students to practice. If you wanted to work on one skill. Instead of going out there and stinking up the field. Turning off girls entirely just to learn that one skill like how to transition out of the opener. You will go through 20 girls just to learn that one skill. But why not practice in front of a camera. Its only 10 minutes. You can practice and mess up more than 20X easily. You correct it, where it looks normal and not gamey. Then you go outside to apply it.

Remember this video? I haven’t practiced these moves in years. But I was able to maintain it. Krav Maga stuff. What they taught me is the same kind of teaching methods I use today to teach others. Like drills, innovation, discarding what doesn’t work for the shortest, skinniest, weakest guy. 

I however recommend you do it for 15 minutes a day on your worst sticking point. Wait, 15 minutes only for 7 days is enough? Well….when I was taking martial arts, or Krav Maga. I only practiced like one move, lets say a block for 15 minutes non stop as many times as humanly possible. Then they make you do the next move. Which is like learning how to get out of a head lock for 10-15 minutes. Then learning how to block a knife for 15 minutes. The thing was, the instructors corrects you. Imagine if you did this every day per week. While 15 minutes of practice doesn’t seem long, it does compound over time to 105 minutes a week. If you did it for 10 minutes a day, it is 70 minutes a week. It makes more sense to practice 15 minutes a day. The hard part outlined in the article was scheduling practicing. I made everyone get a calendar. If you followed the advice by clicking here.

Why would such a short time of practice work? It is called neuroplasticity. Unless you are a stubborn PUA who scrunches his face every time he is given advice. Which means you won’t grow. Over time these short drills can really boost your game. But the brain is capable of adapting. You might think because you are older, you can’t adapt, nonsense. This is why I stress speed of implementation. Also, if you practice a bit throughout the week, you create new neural pathways in your brain. To learn a skill, you use something called a neuron. It jumps from one neuron in the brain to another. At first it doesn’t do things well, the brain is stressed to learn that skill. But when it does, the jump is automatic over time. Its a habit. When it become automatic, you don’t feel the stress anymore in the brain. It does things automatically. In fact this is why you have bad habits and suck in daygame. Listen you don’t need to know the science behind what I teach. Just do it and leave the science and strategy to me. You just have to fucking do it.

Neuroplasticity, also known as brain plasticity or neural plasticity, is an umbrella term that describes lasting change to the brain throughout an individual’s life course. The term gained prominence in the latter half of the 20th century, when new research^[1][2] showed that many aspects of the brain can be altered (or are “plastic”) even into adulthood.

Or course find a good coach. By good coach, I mean someone who can get you pulls or laid during daygame. So far there isn’t a single daygame student testimonial except for me. There are PUA coaches, but no effectiveness except for me in Vancouver. Direct game is something you want to consider staying away from. Its really weird i’m the only coach who can get their students laid in daygame. Direct game is so dogmatic and so rigid in belief system. Looks don’t matter, natural conversation, be congruent, be in the moment. Its failing everyone in Vancouver. Innovation is the key to success in daygame. Unless you are looks maxing like some coaches. That’s not really game, its something else. Like being her type instead. But do the exercises I taught you here.

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Oh right, stop with the mental masturbation or reading and not taking action. This isn’t a bandage on a wound. I will give you concrete steps.

1. Get a list of your worst sticking points. If you don’t know, you can Skype me. I have a game test in the first 5 minutes. Its $200 usd Wayne Dating Lifestyle prices for an hour. Am I not worth it? You get answers and a list to your sticking points. Even training too all in one. Sometimes you are stuck and don’t know what to focus on. Some people pay thousands in a bootcamp just to learn what their sticking points are.

2. Make the list in order from the worst sticking point that is hurting you the most to the least. Fixing the most pressing on first will give you the most noticeable results.

3. Mark it down on your calendar I told you to buy and a big red marker. Every day you completed it, you can mark it on your calendar. You only need to do one sticking point exercise or drills for 5 days. You can do like 6 exercises a week. 6X5 = 30. Which is a month.

4. Schedule practice for the entire month. You might have 6 different sticking points. But you can over come 6 months of mistakes in a month. If you just daygame without practice. You would be doing all 6 sticking point drills or exercises a month. But its hard to succeed without laser focus on one at a time.

5. Just fucking do it. The video starts at the right place. Honestly just get it done already. If you done this months ago and listened to me, you wouldn’t be in this mess. If you didn’t take action after reading this. Then it is your fault, is solid world class advice that is easy to implement today.

I don’t believe in the 10,000 hour rule to be an expert. I believe in meta learning or laser focus, while adapting. I believe in the pareto principle or the 80/20 rule. 20% of what you focus on gives you 80% of the results. With drills and frequency of practice. It works for me and it works for my clients. You see people out there spending a lot of time in daygame still sucks. Even if they have done it for years. Now you know why. They are like trying to get into a MMA fight, without actually practicing the basics in their own gym. Maybe this concept is new to most. The idea of being able to have no stakes practice. Then going back out there at the same time. But one day the industry will catch up to my innovation. You can go out there every day and take action. But without smart action, there is no results. You become that creepy spam approach guy that turns off all women.

 

-John (the neuro scientist) Wayne