Here is the big problem… Why being monotone like Todd V can kill your day game.
HERE IS THE THUMBNAIL FOR THE VIDEO TESTIMONIAL FOR TOMORROW FOR A STUDENTS LIFE I SAVED..
What is monotone in the first place?
It is when you are speaking, but the notes do not go up or down.
This is very common among my engineering students.
But when Todd Valentine starts to speak for advice videos, his voice goes up and down like crazy. Kind of like RSD Tyler.
That is the second type of Asperger’s, or autism tonality.
Were you sound a bit like Mickey Mouse?
For the in field, however, when you listen to Todd V, every single note it’s the same note and one goes up and then it goes back to the same note.
Believe or not, this is actually a very common occurrence for my Asperger students.
Especially the ones in three months to proficiency.
Having this tonality makes it very hard to have that whitewashed tonality.
White people are extremely expressive when they talk.
Doesn’t mean being blackwash trying to flirt with your stupid black tonality flirting stupid ****.
Were you stupid romantic flirts 100 times in a row?
But my point is that there needs to be some variations to your tonality.
At the same time, there needs to be some congruency.
You must start in the area where you’re comfortable with, which is what I call the NSP.
The natural state projection.
There are tonalities for teasing, flirting and other things too.
But once you get better at all of them, you can start to drift.
For those who do not know what drifting is, comma, it is like a car that is drifting from lane to lane and sliding around, clearing corners.
white people mastered this
even talks to the minorities that way..
but you never recognized it until now…
The nail in the chalkboard effect. The inability to speak softer when your Asperger’s.
That is just a thing I’ve noticed among other Asperger’s people.
When I teach them, they have a very harsh tonality.
It’s like the very last word of the sentence sounds very harsh.
It almost makes you wanna cover your ears.
What is worse is when they say yeah…. OK!….Yeah… Uh huh
That really hurts your ears, and it really hurts her ears.
She gets angry at you, auto rejecting you badly as you wonder why she is leaving like the typical Aspie fuck
When she is speaking and there are supposed to be nodding and saying, uh-huh.
It sounds like they’re way too loud and is really harsh sounding.
It literally interrupts her.
Imagine trying to get connection with women,
get them to open up,
but instead you are getting all the rejected because you are literally cutting out her ability to speak.
Since at the end of your sentence, it is way too harsh.
You need to soften that.Uh-huh. At the end of the sentence by 50%.
A lot of time that Asperger’s students in three months to proficiency in the past, felt depressed in their social circle because they get all rejected.
Or they get rejected in less than a few seconds in a nightclub, sounding like a monotone fv ck.
They take it very personally And they wonder why they cannot have friends and even hang around with other white people.
They do have friends, they just find it hard to grow their social circle beyond their existing one.
Trust me, I know your pain.
I understand you.
It almost feels like you’re isolated while everybody else understands what social skills is.
It feels like everyone got the memo on it, except for you.
You just don’t know why that everybody avoids you, but it’s because you’re very monotone.
The lack of congruency makes it so hard for you to build trust with women.
No matter how hard you try, your tonality betrays you.
This is the same issues with the Asian men.
They either sound completely monotone without facial expressions.
Or else this sound exactly like a beta ****.
That is not congruent to what they want to Expressed to her.
Also, they can have a little bit of anger in her voice or depression at the end of the sentence.
SOLUTION. It’s almost like you are surfing.
The best way to think about this is that it’s almost like a big wave.
Or if you want to think more in terms of Binary and ones and zeros. Like a machine.
It’s almost like your waves will affect her in some ways..
Imagine your tonality is very harsh, so when you record the audio it’s almost have this wavelength form thing, but you see big bunches of waves going up and down a lot.
For her, she’s gonna get very annoyed by that and get very scared.
Her wavelength will go smaller and more timid.
Then your temple would start talking a lot faster because of your cortisol problems.
Now she’s afraid, so her wavelength will go a little bit faster too.
It is like a tango dance… where if you go too fast, then now she has to catch up.
That’s why speaking fast is not a good idea.
If she’s going really fast and you’re going very slow, you can meet somewhere in the middle.
Then go back to being slower.
Then even slower the next time you talk in your social skills triangle.
This concept is called synchronicity.
At some point you’ll be synchronized with each other.
That’s why it’s very important to be aware of her emotions.
Most of the Asperger students cannot actually detect her emotion. They only see two emotions.
They could only see happy or sad when you look at the MRI machine.
Aspies have no emotions. That is a complete ********.
Some of them do have emotions.
Emotions are like 21 flavors of ice cream.
But for the aspies, they only got two flavors.
Happy or distressed?
You have to manage the distress by knowing when she’s distressed, so that way you can soften up your tonality, slow down your speed
Then once you take control then you could start to lead the tango dance again.
This goes beyond the tactics and beyond the algorithms.
This becomes more of a right brain kind of activity too for daygame
Not just the left logical brain.
For being monotone would never help you.
Because congruency is king.
Are you congruent when you are monotone?
I don’t think so.
But are you congruent when you sound the RSD, Tyler, where everything goes up and down like Mickey Mouse?
Of course not.
The truth is somewhere in between.
There are radio hosts are very good with the tonalities and they sound like what most Caucasian people.
That’s all the advice I have for you today.
Learn to think different.
Learn to think in waves or learn to think in waveForm.
Thats all I got for you today.
Maybe it would make you think differerently…
P.S i’ll make a new youtube video soon, but I want at least 400 views for that one. It shouldn’t be ignored or dismissed..
UPDATES: THE OTHER 3MP STUDENT HALF LATINO. WENT THROUGH HIS MELTDOWN PHASE AS I PREDICTED IN THE LATINO FUCK BEHAVIOR…
Lots a fuck buddy too
I made him do 500 squats, but he still has to do 150 more, so hes done 350…
just to get on my good graces…
I am not worried about telling you one 3MP student is that guy.
you know the one that ruins my perfect record zombie type.. for coaching
always that one guy
If you are reading this, on your death bed, would you regret not doing this properly?
But everyone else is doing well..
but I want more results, faster too.
EVEN THE BLACK STUDENT BURNT OUT. HE GOT 42 LAYS, BUT HE IS IN SUCH SURVIVAL MADE, HE CAN’T FOCUS.
I WANT HIM TO GET 50 BEFORE THE END OF THE MONTH
BUT HE ISN’T OPERATIONAL ANYMORE…
cause he will laid off soon, he can not focus
luckily his family is still throwing him a bone helping him a bit
HE NEEDS HIS PSYCHOLOGICAL NEEDS MET. WHILE OTHER 3MP STUDENTS ARE DOING FINE DURING THE INFLATION. THEY ARE MORE ON THE SAFETY NEEDS.
UPDATE AGAIN, I CAN’T EVEN MAKE THIS STUFF UP ANOTHER INDIAN STUDENT I GAVE HIM A TEST.. OF GRIT. I GAVE HIM THE MINDSET PLAYLIST TO FINISH BEFORE HE JOINS. HE DIDN’T EVEN GET PAST THE THIRD VIDEO OF 35…
YOU ARE NOT HERE TO BHENCHODE. MY OTHER INDIAN STUDENT ALREADY GOT LAID HERE, BUT UNTIL ITS FULLY DAYGAME I WILL POST IT.
I showed him that I made the other half Latino student do squats, even he is half assing it.
I told him about the Latino fvck behavior
WHAT MADE HIM SUCCESSFUL WORKING IN ONE OF THE BEST COMPANIES IN THE WORLD.. ENGINEERING JOB,
Doesn’t mean that applies to other areas
Hell I even got guys who are logical who wanted to join who actually invented the Samsung camera I use with my phone…
Jewish guy, genius, but I didn’t let him join
he still gets his lays in but wants a girlfriend, easily done with my advice if he took it
I’m know to not let smart zombies who are stubborn join
but he is still a fan..
THAT IS THE PROBLEM SMART DUMBS…
they are smart in one area.. but dumb in another
I’ll write more about this as the next post…
this is something I want to talk about..
would the indian guy finish the mindset playlist?
HE UPDATED THE GOOGLE DRIVE, BUT SOME OF THEM VIDEOS DOES’T HAVE 10 TAKEAWAYS ONLY 5 OR 6…
SOME ONLY 9
HE NEEDS ALL 10 BUT THE TAKEAWAYS SO FAR ARE VERY GOOD…
This is something he can reference back to every month and update it
I might make all the students update their mindset playlist with the new stuff they learn to hard reset..
if the student doesn’t do it, well… just ignore them…
NOT ALL THE STUDENTS ARE BORN WITH GRIT.
BUT AFTER THE MINDSET PLAYLIST YOU WOULD AT LEAST HAVE THE SAME MINDSET BEFORE HABITS TAKES OVER…
From what I can see from his takeaways, he had to everything himself…
but he had to adjust without having a mentor saving him time…
He is on track to make it on time because its still a few hours before midnight pacific time.
I think the 3MP program, how military like it is, is everything he needed for tenacity…
THE STUDENTS ALL GO THROUGH THE SAME 20/35, 5 MINDSETS, 4 GRIT..
its all a formula, an algorithm that keeps on getting you one lay after another
cause if you don’t level up, you can lose your habits
its not just tactics, but habits..
ALSO, AFTER HE STARTS.. HE WILL BE INTRODUCED TO THE INNER CIRCLE GROUP SO HE CAN MEET THE OTHER STUDENTS WHO ARE THE LAID TESTIMONIALS
He will realize most are short, average looking but with superior abilities that are beyond human…