THE VERY FIRST ISSUE FOR BEING TOTALLY CLUELESS AROUND WOMEN IS ASPERGERS OR AUTISM
Aspergers is high functioning autism, autism is worst. Where you can’t even read facial expressions
AUTISM IS 10X WORST THAN ASPERGERS
- You can’t read facial expressions with it
- You have sensory issues, overloaded
- You get more snowflake and sadder
- You have more comorbidity
- You get timid around women and its game over
- Women are scared of you for autism traits
SOCIAL SKILLS IS MUCH DIFFERENT THAN ELITE 30’S SOCIAL CALIBRATIONS. I MENTION BOTH IN EVERY MODULE BUT ONE IS GOING TO COME ACROSS TO BE HARDER FOR YOU
Let me tell you a story. One of my students pulled. He sent me infields and after 4 Skypes he thought he improved.
His body language improved but his socials skills didn’t.
We listened to the t.v show friends to see how roughly calibrated people spoke and for him he said it sounded nothing like him.
He was trying to spit out PUA shit
He just realized damn social skills and social calibrations are different.
But it was social calibrations that made him pull
LIKE THE MOVIE INCEPTION, TRY TO SEE THREE LAYERS, NOT JUST THE SURFACE LEVEL
Most of you can’t read facial expressions. So when you see the show friends and how they interact with each other
You only see how they interact with each other on the surface level. If you weren’t a native english speaker than it will work against you
If you had autism you can’t even see their facial expressions
Level 2 is seeing what the other person is feeling, the context
Level 3 is a deeper understanding. On the deepest level.
That’s hard if you are socipoathic you feel no guilt, or so narcissistic you have no empathy.
You will just go through life being anti social. When you are social, you are socio.
YOU ARE TRYING TO PROJECT YOUR REALITY, YOU ARE AUTISTIC AND SOIOPATHIC. YOUR REALITY IS DISTORTED
There is an ability my deluded students don’t do. They can’t copy a tonality exactly
or they have to add their own ingredient to the cake
then the cake doesn’t rise