DEAR 17-YEAR-OLD LATINO STUDENT WHO GOT A GIRLFRIEND WITH MY COACHING AND MANY PULLS AND MANY LAYS, BLOW JOBS
I’ll post his testimonial soon, but I would tell myself the exact same advice actually if I went back in time
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I had a Latino student who was 17 who asked me for advice. I’ll write this letter to him here. Why I decided to kick him off my bootcamp.
I am gifted as a salesman, a natural. I was able to turn a potential student who was on the fence or no, into yes.
Look what happened, he got laid wth a 30 year old Asian women, then he got a 18 year old Colombian girlfriend.
OFTEN I GIVE HIM ADVICE, HE DOESN’T LISTEN, BROODS A BIT, LOOKS DOWN, DOES IT HIS WAY. I CAN TELL YOU FOR ONE THING THE SOCIOPATHIC MINDSET, YOU WILL ONLY GET A SHORT TERM GAIN BUT YOU WILL FAIL LONG TERM
He just blocked me on Whatsapp. Temperamental.
I never should of took him in, he got a 17 year old GF and delusional as fuck. But its okay. Every time he ignored my advice and did it his way, it always blew up in his face and it became a disaster.
He surely didn’t have the temperament to listen. Trust me I have some of the most stubborn Latino students. They are all the same.
What advice would I have given my old self. Or someone that age.
First of all you are reading a lot of books. That’s great, but at that age I read 25 books every single time I went to the library. I was hungry for knowledge.
I TRIED TO MOVE HIM OUT, BUT HIS PARENTS WHEN HE CAME BACK RUIN HIS MIND
He regrets it but is more sociopathic being around his parents.
You have to realize, that, you have no skills.
I’ll start with the mindsets.
ALL LATINOS, LATINAS ARE SOCIOPATHS, DELUDED, OPINIONS AS FACTS. THEY KILL EACH OTHER AND FUCK ANIMALS. THEY BEHEAD EACH OTHER
All my Latino students or Latino PUAs are sociopaths. Lets be real here. This is why I kicked out the other Asian guy from my bootcamp. But how do sociopaths thinks.
Almost all Latino students are stubborn. They live in a fantasy world or a delusional dream. I recommended him to read 7 habits of highly effective people and Poor Charlie Mungers Alamac.
This is to repair the habits. It starts with the mind. Those were the two books.
The reason why most dating coaches don’t get student results is, they are delusional too, sociopathic. But higher SMV.
THE DAMAGED MIND FROM HIS PARENTS
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- the action of deluding or the state of being deluded.“what a capacity television has for delusion”
Some Latino parents are crazy, controlling. I mean, when this student was beaten, starved, parents stole money from him.
I stepped in, but I helped two sociopaths. Both were the same, both stole my watch, both were fucked up. Same shit, same mindsets.
Both had one crazy parents. This is a genetic thing. Its hard to reverse.
I MOVED BOTH OF THEM OUT, BOTH ARE THE SAME MINDSETS. BUT ONE MOVED BACK HOME DESPITE MY REASONING.
I KNEW HE WAS GOING TO GET MENTALLY OR PHYSICALLY ABUSED WORST. SOMETIMES YOU CAN’T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT.
Of course, I wanted to call his parents out and say if you ever treat him like that again. But sometimes you realize, this is something you can’t say to him.
My dad is mentally abusive, I know. I knew what sociopaths were like and I knew he will mentally suffer. Now he can’t even think.
The issue was, he decided it was better to go home then he said he will make money and move out. I get it, he was young, not as mentally tough as I am.
But I said he wouldn’t move out until he was 22 or something
Listen to my favorite clear-headed Latino in the world. Dan Pena.
DAN PENA IS THE ONLY LATINO IN THE WORLD I RESPECT WHO HAS THE CLEAREST MENTAL FILTER EVER
Reading and listening to a podcast isn’t taking action. Taking action is taking action.
GET A JOB FIRST
I taught him about high-income skills, but he doesn’t realize that skills will take a year to learn.
He believes if he gets a sales job, he will just get mentored and make a ton of money.
I say try it out. But there is a KFC next to you.
He said I won’t learn any skills. I say being punctual is a skill, he got fired for being late. In fact every time I met him he was always an hour or two late.
Also, you have something on your resume.
At 17 years old, its good to start somewhere.
Dan said the same thing I told him, do something, get a fucking job. I don’t care what job it is, just get some money coming in.
Dan Lok started working on a super market.
In his words, the same one I am saying to my former student now.
Oh, I got to start as an entrepreneur, you got so much damn pride, get a fucking job. Dan’s words, not mine. I have to aggree.
LIKE I TOLD HIM, ON HIS SPARE TIME SIDE HUSTLE,
If you don’t listen to me, why not listen to Dan?
This picture, I was already a dating coach for so long. Even back then
Dan was talking about funnels and I asked him about how all this marketing relates to dating. Can it be like funnels?
If I agree with Dan Pena about reading books isn’t taking action. Neither is just I have to start as an entrepreneur.
I did start as an entrepreneur, I never had any other job except dating coach and while I was a dating coach one of my students said to get a normal job.
I know its not fun but I learned how hard people had to work for minium wage during that short time.
LETS BE REAL HERE, I’M A GIFTED DATING COACH THE BEST IN THE WORLD. I’M LIKE GOD LIKE NOT TO BRAG. THERE WILL NEVER BE ANOTHER JOHN ELITE IN THE WORLD. LIKE THERE WILL NEVER BE ANOTHER BRUCE LEE. I’M GIFTED, I CURB STOMP EVERY OTHER FAMOUS DATING COACH FOR STUDENT RESULTS. SO I HAVE A SKILL NO ONE ELSE HAS. TRANSFERBILITY, STUDENT RESULTS.
I HAVE A SKILLSET THAT ISN’T SOMETHING I CAN TEACH TO OTHERS, OF HOW TO TEACH. ITS MY MENTAL FILTER AND EXPERIENCE. I’LL GET TO THAT.
I put in the time, 18 years to get this skill down. I’ve had many mentors and many failures.
WHAT HE DIDN’T UNDERSTAND THOUGH HIS MENTAL FILTER IS, HIGH-INCOME SKILLS, OR WHAT IS SKILL BUILDING
High income skill, what is a skill?
Well, you have to measure a skill as something that can be rated out of 100 or 10.
How much skills do you have? 0/10? You just left highschool.
School by the way keeps you poor, like an employee mentality.
You have to think of this high income skills thing like a side hustle. Meaning you get a normal job first.
IF IM SAYING THE SAME THING AS DAN LOK AND DAN PENA, MAYBE MY MENTAL FILTER WAS CORRECT. I’VE ALWAYS BEEN RIGHT. I EVEN HAVE OTHER LATINOS TELL ME, JOHN, YOU WERE ALWAYS 100% RIGHT. I’M SORRY. MAYBE YOU WILL REALIZE I WAS TOO.
I’M NOT YOUR PARENTS, TELLING YOU TO GET A NORMAL JOB. BUT DAN IS SAYING THE SAME THING.
How fucking long does it take to build a skill? From 1/10 in copywriting to 2/10? That took me a month. ALL THE SALES LETTER ON MY SITE I WROTE THEM. I DIDN’T PAY A FEW GRAND FOR EACH
I spent years trying to write it. I spent 6 months in a row practicing just that.
So instead of sales, or instead of public speaking or copywriting or whatever. I spent a lot of time to hone in one skill.
I write blog post, this is a skill set. Who the fuck can write a new blog post in a short amount of time everyday? I don’t even schedule this shit. this is a skillset.
Its like basketball, you have to focus on the drills. When you learned Elite 30 and got laid from it. You were working on one skill at a time. With my guidance.
But it was step by step. Something you don’t understand, brooding and getting frustrated. I was stubborn too at your age. But ignoring me, is going to cost you a few years of your life and you will say John you were right.
NOPE, BOTH DANS WERE RIGHT, NOT JUST ME.
KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM
Knowledge is all the books that we read. All the things that are consumable. In fact, with RSD there is too much bullshit knowledge.
Wisdom means mistakes to avoid.
What is Bruce Lee trying to say? It’s not more knowledge, but more wisdom. Hack away at anything that isn’t essential. You won’t get that except through experience.
I gave 18 years of my life to the game. No one will have that experience.
I tested every white man’s system and didn’t work for Asians. I tested every combination.
That’s why everything I taught you prebootcamp worked like crazy. Every situation I knew. It wasn’t more knowledge, but having the wisdom and experience to avoid mistakes.
The wisdom was how I got 410 laid/pull testimonials. It was field testing every combination.
Wisdom trumps knowledge. I got wisdom from field testing on every type of student. Every race. I put in the work. I saw the science from the other side.
If i’m so wrong about race and hierachy. I told you to dye your hair brown to look more white so you get laid more. Race matters, it worked. You could pass as white.
YOU ASKED ABOUT FUNNELS. WELL, I’M MOVING MY PRODUCTS TO FUNNELS NEXT YEAR AND MIGRATING THE PEOPLE THERE. NOT SURE IF YOU WILL MAKE THE CUT
Dude the funnel cost me thousands of dollars I have to invest. If you can’t afford $97 USD a month, for CAD that takes a lot of money. But my students needs my coaching so im going to do it.
Funnels is like upsells. I have upsells on my courses. Like if you are going to buy this one, then why not get both. This way I can offer discounts. That is what a funnel essentially is.
When people are ready to buy, they buy more. Which is great since that gets my students even more results.
You can downsell. It is just a software that speeds up this process while the student is ready to buy, on impulse.
I told you to get a job, so you can afford click funnels or some other software. It cost a fortune. I told you to get a laptop, save up. If you listened months ago instead of just reading, you would of already worked at KFC. Then that’s on your resume, you would move to another sales job, maybe clothing. Then transition to car sales or something.
You are going to find how hard it is to get a normal job with no skills.
You wanted to be an entrepreneur.
BUF IF YOU FAIL, HOW WILL YOU RECOVER?
HOW WOULD YOU BUILD A BUSINESS WITH NO CAPITAL? I DID BUT IT TOOK ME A LONG TIME
I was lucky, I was skillful at getting student results. But that’s different. I was already the best daygame coach in the first or second year. I had more student results than anyone even now for daygame for laid testimonials even back then.
Does it mean I can do something else as easily? nope.
MY SALES SKILLS COMES FROM JORDAN BELFORTS IDEAS. SO IS MY DAYGAME SYSTEM SINCE ITS ABOUT PERSUASION
When you break it down, I show you how to keep her on the line.
If anything deviates off the line, you lose the sale. Its objections dealing. There is no numbers game, its a game of a valuable product and conversions.
The problem with RSD shit is its off the line. 7 months, you did daygame in Vancouver without any results. 7 months, everyday until you met me.
Now look at you, few blow jobs, few lays, a girlfriend.
A LOT OF MARKETING IS JUST TESTING CONCEPTS
What does testing mean? Well I don’t know if something works or not. I have let people see the sales letters and see if it converts.
For Elite 30, I tweak the page on a daily basis. The order is different. I look at the analytics.
Its the same with daygame, I see what stops work the best, in my analytics the point stop works all the time.
It is like the stats. Every piece of my daygame system went through analytics. Every piece was tested down to a science.
BUT IF YOU NEVER EVEN HAVE MONEY, OR EVEN THE ABILITY TO EVEN HAVE A LAPTOP TO BUILD A WEBSITE OR EVEN A FUNNEL. I TOLD YOU TO GET A JOB, SO YOU CAN GET A LAPTOP. NOT A SLOW ASS ONE THAT IS A LIABILITY.
YOU START WITH EMPLOYEE, LIKE DAN LOK SAID. LEARN SOME SKILLS. KFC, MAYBE NOT, BUT YOU STILL GET TO WORK ON YOUR HIGH INCOME SKILLS ON THE SIDE. LIKE I SAID IT TAKES ONE YEAR TO MASTER ONE SKILL
When I told you to have a side hustle, that’s self employment.
I’m technically self-employed. Not sure if a business owner, I don’t think so. I do have employees who works for advice in exchange for them working on certain parts of my business. Like one guys does all my censoring, another guy is building the free Asian course. Another guy will edit all my bootcamp videos in the future. I can’t do it all myself.
But to become an investor, you need to scale your business. Which is why I am doing clickfunnels soon.
Without the high income skills which is what I was trying to tell you, you wouldn’t have the cash flow to scale a business.
Imagine scaling is like ads. you put in $50 to aquire one customer. You make $55.
You might thing that is bullshit. But the more money you spend, the more money you print. That’s scalability. Same with dating, the more time you put into approaching when your game is optimized, the faster you can one shot one kill it on the first approach. The more you get.
But the problem with RSD is they are scaling or spam approaching when they don’t have an optimized game yet.
As Dan Lok always said, you don’t scale your business until you can make 10k a month. I have other students who listened to my advice.
I think the guy from Elite 30, the indian guy after I trained him makes 5k a month now. Pretty impressive, he was about to be fired.
YOU OFFERED TO BUY ME LUNCH, BUT YOU THEN BLOCKED ME, BUT I MADE HIM 5K A MONTH. LOL. WHY WOULD YOU NOT LISTEN?
Go start a prototype business, fail hard, fail fast and fail cheap so you can learn from it.
Real life and what is in your delusions. Experience is something you don’t have. Get some experience, try it out. You will learn something. Forget theories. When I taught you, it wasn’t theories that got you laid. Every single tip 10x your results. Every time you asked during the 30 day challenge.
You need marketplace feedback, same with daygame. You need to know how they respond so you can adjust.
THIS STUDENT WHO RUNS ALL OF RSD MEETINGS IN VANCOUVER, HE DOESN’T USE THEIR SYSTEM. HE IS TRAINED UNDER ME 10 LAYS. STREET GAME AND DAYGAME. AFTER ONE MEETING, SO IT IS YOUR LOSS
He is making that much now, everything about his life is going in an upwards spiral. He just applied what I taught him and did it.
These two guys aren’t delusional
IN THE FUTURE I WILL NOT TEACH DELUSIONAL STUDENTS NO MATTER WHAT.
DELUSIONAL STUDENTS ARE USUALLY TROUBLE.
I gave you great advice. But your temperamental behavior plus your parents. Also, now after few more months of constant mental abuse. You have lost your self-esteem and you think with your lower self.
I know a lot of this doesn’t make sense and you still feel like a wild animal. Your brain hasn’t crystalized yet.
You also noticed, in terms of emotional intellegence. I’m more resilient. I told you to leave your parents. You couldn’t take a few days of hunger. When we were going to buy you food and get you a blanket.
But you went back to hell. You did it your way. Which is always going to fail.
I’m not the bad guy here, you are. You couldn’t take advice.
Others took my advice, 5k richer or 10k.
I have learned a great deal about marketing concepts. But I realized this industry like this student wants comfort lies and no daygame results but to take action…
I don’t know what else to say. I hope you learned something.
This product got you laid, you did it my way, not yours.
For future Latino students, or deluded students. I have to interview you. Any students with this toxic PUA sociopathic behavior and lower self, aren’t allowed to train with me.
If you continue to read books and not get a job, you will lose another 6 months not taking action.
STUBBORNNESS IS STUPID
4 YEARS AGO MY PAKISTANI MENTOR TOLD ME TO BUILD THIS SETUP GAME, LIFESTYLE. FEMALE FRIENDS, HIGH INCOME SKILLS.
I didn’t listen. I was stubborn too.
I thought I should be a hunter, not build the farm. I’m a daygamer.
I could of even got hotter women cause he was talking about funnels.
I wasted 4 years of my life and had some wrong mentors who slowed down my progress. If I just listened. I know what it is like to be stubborn. But stubborness and foolishness cost you time.
I want to end with a proverb. Do not give golden nuggets of wisdom to pigs. They will trample it under their feet and attack you.
Wisdom can save your life. My blog is full of wisdom and for example RSD victims are fools, not wise. They will usually quit daygame.
Wisdom or experience is so important. Learn from other people’s mistakes.
1% improvement over time for high income skills. There is no short cut to mastery.
Drills can help a lot like basketball sure. But if you want to master something beyond the 80/20 rule or 80%. You want 100%, it takes time.
Opinions as facts.
Not me i’m very scientific and so is my daygame system and student results. Everything I tell others comes from the data and science of my student results.
I’ve built funnels, sales skills as you want to know, But get a fucking normal job first. Get some fucking income and I don’t read books. I use books, I apply books.
There is a difference between knowledge and applying it.
The problem with hardcases is they need so much clarity. Maybe listen for once. Maybe people are trying to help you. Maybe people are telling you this because you might need to toughen up and delay gratification.
Sometimes you need to do stuff you don’t enjoy like a job. But that money you can re-invest in yourself.
I don’t know what else to tell you, I was also quite dumb at your age. I see you are reading many books like me.
emotional bank account is important too.
Play to win, not play not to lose.
Dan Lok failed like 14 businesses then succeeded. I failed in almost every daygame system, but I played to win. Not play not to lose.
When you play not to lose, you already lost.
RSD victims are taking action, but not smart action, no wisdom. I hope you learned a lot and this letter gets to you. Maybe you will realize, down the road, when you try to contact me again to say you are sorry, John you were right as usually. Damn why the fuck are you always right. What the hell. Maybe, just maybe, I will get tired of it.
last advice, your dad is a lion tamer
- he takes away all your food, money, mentally abuses you like a tiger that you are
- you got tamed, when you went back home
- you didn’t realize as I told you in real life, you can destroy him. You are the Lion.
- You were emotionally weak and froze up
- He kept kicking you out even at 17, so my team moved you out. But you were too emotionally weak to survive
- Maybe work on that, learn to be as tough as nails like me. I really don’t give a shit about anything and will steam roll over people.
- Kill the tiger, move out, you could of if you got a job and saved up something. You didn’t listen, your fault, not mine.
- You wish you listened to me then. Not went home, whatever. I can’t save everyone.
- Don’t make me the bad guy, your mind is. I taught you to be at your higher self.
I wrote this a long time ago, Latinos are always at lower self. Hmm… You are better than that. Get a fucking job, learn sales on the side, practice it for months. Move from one job to the next to learn some skills but get some money coming in. One skill at a time. Do a ton of multiple jobs until you find that you like. Then for your side hustle on your days off, I said work 2 or 3 days. Work on your high income skills. When your side business makes more money than your real job, quit that and focus on the side hustle. So you can start to try to make 10k a month. Then you scale and invest. Makes sense?
Nope, you read it through your mental filter.
There are no shortcuts dude. You are living in a fantasy world.
Too bad you didn’t listen. I mean the other guys made 5k and 10k a month. So…
Or maybe you need to make more mistakes to learn the hard way. But its fine, even if your business failed, eventually you will figure it out. No such thing as failure, get wisdom and take massive action. RSD forgot the wisdom part.
Things takes time, it took a long time to get to 400 testimonials. You will have to learn that in life. you just have to find the right strategies and test them all. For the first time in your life, you didn’t have to go to every other strategy. I knew it all for daygame. You followed it, got a gf right away. That’s life. Taking risk.
Your brain is your worst enemy, you can’t see clearly. When you read those books, your mental filter is seeing it. Maybe that’s why you wanted to buy me lunch. You knew you would learn more if you asked me. I could of said yes. But its rainy this entire week. But blocking me, just shows me how far gone you are. When you get clarity again, get your Latino sociopahtic mind under control and stop blaming others. Then ask me again. But not now. Good luck.
i’m also teaching another 17 year old student who actually listens. I’ll turn him into a superstar instead. This guy is taller, better looking. So wouldn’t be difficult. But his host family is you guessed it, Latino. Puts him down. Great mindsets guys.
White guy too. High school. People wants to get their foundation right early.
Then again I have a student who is 50 too. So, whatever. I’ll get them results. People wants results.
MOVE OUT, YOU ARE THE SUM OF THE 5 PEOPLE YOU ARE CLOSEST TO. SHOW ME YOUR FRIENDS AND I’LL SHOW YOU YOUR FUTURE
If you made some money at least you could of saved up to move out. But no, you will just get more mentally abused by crazy Latino parents and mentally you will go in a downward spiral.
OF COURSE THE SAME SHIT, YOU READ ALL OF THIS, THINK EVERYONE IS YOUR ENEMY IN YOUR DELUSIONS, THEN YOU WILL BROOD, THEN BROOD AGAIN THEN DO IT YOUR WAY, STUBBORN.
1.think deeply about something that makes one unhappy.“he brooded over his need to find a wife”