What You Don’t Know About How To Accept Mistakes To Grow Could Hurt You

Mistakes are tolerable, but never to be repeated

Hardcases, take notes

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This is something I tell a lot of students. Why hardcase students keeps making mistakes, they don’t change anything they do.

But I tolerate mistakes, I encourage you to experience some mistakes first, doing it your way. But I step in and I won’t tolerate it if it happens over and over again.

THOSE ARE NO LONGER MISTAKES, NOW IT IS A CHOICE

I’m just saying, once you know your mistakes, a lot of you repeat them by habit. That’s not okay if you keep doing it over and over.

That’s the definition of insanity.

Or some people improves for a month and does the same shit afterwards. Mostly due to the habits and mindsets.

 

Maybe I led to you to think… that it was easy. To get most of my students laid or pulling. Maybe I made you think it was easy… its not

Everything you see that looks like the midas touch. Which means everything you touch turns into gold. It didn’t get that way over night.

I remember the first bunch of people I coached for free when I started out. 

I DID THAT FOR A FUCKING YEAR. I TAUGHT EVERY SYSTEM AND JUSTIN WAYNES SYSTEM WAS ONE OF THE LAST ONES.

I needed to try every combination. To see what works and what didn’t. I already got a lot of testimonials this way.

My process is try everything and see what sticks.

Of course, I also tried many wordpress themes. Most of it looks like shit, I like this one. But I am willing to discard something right away if it didn’t work and field test it.

 

 

Michael Jordan missed a lot of jump shots, a lot of game winning baskets, but people only remember him for his winning baskets, not the failures. Also his 6 championship rings

Since there is 10% a younger audience 18-24, not everyone knew who was Micheal Jordan or got to see him play. He was my hero growing up. The worlds best basketball player. But for all his failures, he also succeeded.

Even for you guys, if you made like a ton of approaches but you got the most epic lay with a women way past your looks scale. Do you remember all of the failures? Or do you remember the success?

A lot of people have this mental thing that if they made a mistake and failed, they fear failure.

Keep sight on your goal and do whatever it takes to not give up.

Burn all boats behind you and adapt.

Don’t have a plan B as I told my student the other day, always have a plan A and see a clear vision of what you want and keep adapting until you get it.

Or find the right mentors, people like myself.

I don’t care if you go to other places, that’s your lower self thinking. OR LOWER SELF ESTEEM.

You know the students gets so much results, you keep arguing and resisting because you have an ego.

 

 

YOU HAVE TO GET THOUGH THE SHIT TO GET TO THE GOOD

You have to go though mistakes first before you get to the good stuff.

TRY TO THINK MISTAKES ARE A LEARNING EXPERIENCE OF WHAT NOT TO DO. A LESSON I EXPERIENCED IN THE WORST WAY POSSIBLE.

In less than 20 days I would of been in the game for 18 years, a long time.

I remember making my first cold approach in University and just failing badly using this lay guide thing.

It was an old document they posted online before the book the game.

I used it and there was a lot of racism back then. I was in uncharted territories.

I stuck with it and kept adapting.

 

There are a lot of naturals and daygame systems and few dating coaches and mostly myself field testing putting all the small pieces together to make up this daygame system.

 

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My talent wasn’t as just using opinions as facts, but my talent is discarding what didn’t work for lower SMV.

that was my talent and I think if people spends this much time in the game. Almost everyone will draw the same conclusion as me.

MY MENTOR WHO TRAINED ME 5 YEARS AGO IN SETUP GAME, HE IS THE BIGGEST GEAR OF ALL. THE SHOES, THE WATCHES, LIFESTYLE, ALL THE SHIT I IGNORED BECAUSE I JUST WANTED TO DO DAYGAME. TEXT GAME TOO. FASHION.

He used to say why make it hard on yourself. Why cock block yourself. You are your own worst enemy.

Over time I realized he was right.

He was the best PUA I know with the best results in daygame. MPUA.

 

I get to field test it and give you guys the technology once its translated and field tested on my lower smv.

It speeds up the process.

You always see my game evolving like an A.I, but I don’t know what. But it keeps leading to more and more student results.

That’s my rant, go out there and make mistakes.

When you own the Elite 30 and Playbook.

Playbook has a sale this month, 3 skypes. I mean 3 Skypes cost more than the deal right now. That’s $600 already to skype with me 3x. The skypes along is worth more than the product.

You get so much out of it and elite playbook has influences from every daygame system in the world. Some bigger cogs some smaller one.

But the ones that hurt my recent students was saying do you remember my name? Oh you broke my heart.

NOT EVERYONE FIT INTO A BOYFRIEND PROVIDER FRAME TO USE ROMANCE.

Not everyone is a positive stereotype. Doing that gets you auto rejected and is a mistake.

 

 

THE MOST SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE SIMPLY FAILED MORE THAN YOU DID AND CALIBRATED. THE CALIBRATION PROCESS DEPENDS ON THE SMV OF THE COACH, HIGHER IS NOT TRANSFERABLE

He failed in 13 businesses and never failed again at the 14th. He learned from all his mistakes. He did whatever it takes.

DAN LOK

A lot of white dating coaches doesn’t realise what works for them doesn’t mean it works for a short Asian guy.

Also if tall positive stereotype students are getting results who are white, black or Latino. That isn’t game, that is something else. SMVing it.

But the people who are the most successful tends to fail the most.

 

HOPE YOU LEARNED SOMETHING, FAILURE OF MISTAKES ARE A LEARNING EXPERIENCE. DON’T LET IT GET YOU DOWN. TRY NEW SHIT BECAUSE THE DEFINITION OF INSANITY IS DOING THE SAME THINGS OVER AND OVER AGAIN EXPECTING DIFFERENT RESULTS

LIKE GOING TO RSD, GETTING FREE ADVICE WEARING HOODIES AND GETTING NO RESULTS

 

 

-John Elite

 

 

 

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