I ACTUALLY WROTE THIS POST ON APRIL 14th,
I didn’t post this post because it is way too hard to write. It takes a lot of emotionalities to write it. But I’ll try my best to get to the point. This will hurt a lot of peoples ego, but bring clarity to a lot of my students and potential students.
DESCRIBING THE PROBLEM
A lot of people have told me, John, I don’t want to think with my lower self. I’m ALWAYS RESISTANT AND HAVE TO WIN THE ARGUMENT NO MATTER WHAT.
They tell me no matter what they have to be right.
They dismiss things and when you tell them to do something. They somehow use their own filter in their brain and royally fuck it up.
Its almost like they are delusional and can’t help it.
The ego is so resistant, that slows down your progress in daygame.
WHAT THE FLYING FVCK CAUSES THIS?
I don’t experience anything like this at all. I’m smart at one topic, but lots of things I don’t know. But I can ask.
EVERYTHING I TEACH YOU, YOUR LEFT DELUDED BRAIN TWIST THE INFORMATION
Ever notice some white dating coaches are deluded or some in general? You tell them something they listen and distort your information?
I’m teaching a student who already got 2 blow jobs from my training. How to turn his hair brown so he can raise his SMV looking more white.
He’s bleaching his hair now, I’m giving him instructions, but he messes it up every single time. Or say should I bleach my eyebrows?
I’M LIKE DUDE, YOU WILL GO BLIND, DON’T DO IT.
I’m teaching him how to make your hair brown with dye afterward. It seems like whatever I say, he distorts it.
DISTORTED PERCEPTIONS OF MY CLIENTS
It’s true of all clients with comorbidity. Multiple mental illnesses who get into the PUA world.
His hair is already brown now, this article was written before.
THE MOST FVCKED UP THING IS, NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY, THEY WILL TWIST YOUR WORDS. IF THEY WRITE IT DOWN FROM A WHITEBOARD STANDING NEXT TO YOU,
THEY CAN’T TWIST YOUR WORDS WITH THEIR LEFT LOGICAL DELUDED BRAIN.
THEY CAN’T CHANGE THE WORDS OF YOUR WHITEBOARD AS IF THEY ARE LISTENING TO IT THOUGH THEIR MESSED UP FILTER
JOHN, THAT SOUNDS LIKE ME EXACTLY, JOHN ELITE. WHAT IS THE MAIN CAUSE?
THE 10 TRAITS ARE THE REASON YOU ARE SO FUCKED UP
Look at trait # 5, 9, 10
There is your answer
SINCE SOCIOPATHS ARE DELUSIONAL
- They believe that they are always right and what they think through their filter is the truth. So they distort what you teach them. We call them hardcases in the industry.
- They are sociopathic narcissistic and Aspergers like with some depression and a touch of Attention deficiet.
- They never apologize and never admits they are wrong.
- Since they have to win at all cost, they can never admit they are wrong.
The 33% concept.
Some people who make it at the top of any industry are sometimes 1 in 30 of them as CEOs are psychopaths. Not sociopaths.
They aren’t deluded. They are the CEOs and they are the presidents, they are the top of the top.
But sociopaths always are the low-level supervisors. Never going beyond.
They only make it to 33% of their industry and can’t move forward because they mentally dismiss things based on you guessed it…
- their delusions
- they have to win at all cost
- they never apologize and never feel wrong
It’s like the hardware of your brain is fucked.
Doesn’t matter if you have high SMV as a dating coach, this compliance from the girls just supports your delusions.
JOHN I’M IN A NIGHTMARE OF DELUSIONS AND IM BEGGING FOR SOLUTIONS
My first solution is to read this book on the right: EXTREME OWNERSHIP
Ignore the book on the left. My Pakistani mentor taller guy told me to read it. I’m going to do it because I’m not delusional.
What are the reasons to read it? You don’t have to understand, just do it. Or you get in your head too much.
- YOU WILL LEARN HOW ITS ALL YOUR FAULT AND NO ONE ELSE TO BLAME. When you stop shifting blame, you get brutally honest with yourself, you start to correct the mistakes and your brain follows your lead
- Your filter will be overwritten and the hardcase part will be dramatically reduced.
- THIS BOOK IS THE BIGGEST GOLD MINE FOR HARDCASES NEXT TO ELITE 30: SOCIAL SKILLS. Even I have talked about Navy Seal mindsets in my Elite 30 program on how to succeed at anything.
- I’m actually going to hand this book to some of my local bootcamp students. They have to read it, required reading. This is such a good suggestion.
IF YOU MAKE A TON OF BULLSHIT EXCUSES, ARE EGOTISTICAL, JUST ORDER IT FROM AMAZON ALREADY
The second you stop blaming everything else. The only thing you can blame is LMS. But you have to improve it first before you become delusional and go in the field approaching.
Or you become a RSD victim with a hoodie making non stop cold approaches giving up.
Just know in your delusional dream this is the way to wake up. Stack your LMS means raising your self-esteem which means lowering your ego?
YOU KNOW YOU CAN’T RAISE YOUR SELF ESTEEM OF GETTING NICER CLOTHING IF YOU DON’T HAVE MONEY MAKING SKILLS RIGHT?
Let us be real here. You begin to have a poor mans mentality.
THE 250K PHILIPPE PATEK HELPS
That’s my second suggestion. This watch my friend actually has it for 250k. Dan Pena suggested he get this watch.
Not sure if he was reading my blog or his lawyers were. Since I mention his name. I even met him. I want to say, keep up the good work. I’m the Dan Pena of this industry. As you said, get your willy wet industry, lol.
I’m also friends with multi-millionaires. I am in so many inner circles for every single area of life to make my life easier.
You can see us comparing watches.
While our watches are very similar, there are some differences.
My friends, most of my team has multi-million dollars.
By being around people like that will that raise my standards? Of course.
Get the $50 USD one. It feels just as expensive. I don’t buy expensive shit, but I buy stuff that looks almost identical to it.
RAISE YOUR SELF ESTEEM, ONLY WAY TO DEFEAT YOUR EGO. ONLY. NARCISSISM OR EGO ISN’T SELF ESTEEM BTW. UNLESS YOU ARE REALLY ACCOMPLISHED LIKE ME AT ONE FIELD OR DONALD TRUMP OR SOMEONE ELSE TOP OF THEIR FIELD, MAYBE SOME BRAGGING IS ALRIGHT. BUT EVERYONE ELSE, FVCK NO!
Check out this page. Consider getting Elite 30: From Hardcase To Hero. Or buy the bundle today. Yes, there is a bundle, you save and have more free Skype coaching that is worth $200 each. It’s insane the bonuses outweigh the actual product.