I hope you like the design of the site. I’m learning how to communicate better. Its a lot easier to find stuff now, functional, vs dysfunctional. Often times that makes more money for me and get more students to see the offers which helps you to get laid fast. Its a win/win.
It also might be narcissistic I’ll introduce Johnny Wayne and eventually Johnathan Wayne character. A personality is tied to a name often times in peoples mind. My real name isn’t John. But when people calls me John, I became John. That’s my narcissistic identy.
Outside of women, I really don’t have the perfect tone, or the perfect communications. During talking to women, everything is kaizen or 1% improvement over 17 years, I can do it well.
Only with women. Most of the time I am yelling at you or telling you with my self absorbed ego.
PURPOSE OF THIS BLOG POST
i want to organize this blog post so I can communicate more effectively. I have noticed, with a neighbour and also another natural. They just talk non stop about themselves.
Myself included due to the lack of empathy sometimes with narcissism. Self absorbed.
When you are talking to normal people you have to establish a reason for talking to them.
If you look at my conversation style, in most of my blog post. I am long winded, meaning I talk a lot. It isn’t aspergers or anything like that. If many naturals loves talking about themselves and their story, it feels their ego to feel validated.
That’s why they keep telling stories of their sexual conquest even if you have evidence or not. You always see the same 3 pictures of lays they show you and tell you all these stories why they have a triple digit laycount in daygame without being a dating coach.
LACK OF EMPATHY
Self absorbed people wouldn’t get the point of your conversation anyways. Just dismiss you saying oh yeah, cool, right yeah. He talks too much. But the Guy without empathy will be like just talking though you. Through you, not to you. So you roll your eyes.
YOU ALWAYS HAVE TO RELATE WHAT YOU ARE SAYING WITH THEM
Most people are really stupid in my experience. No light switches flipped off. If someone doesn’t understand metaphors. They often have sociopathic traits. Lets say you were comparing apples to oranges and explaining the problem. They don’t get it. There is some type of delusion.
They will think opinions as facts, that’s different than this article or Narcissism. Most people only cares about themselves. But talking to another narcissist, they simple won’t get it because you always have to understand their points. They think only of themselves.
You always have to empathize with them for some unknown reason. But when you ask them to do the same they won’t.
In the general population, they won’t even relate to you. They would just leave.
ASK THEIR OPINION, IF YOU WANT THEM INVOLVED
In my opinion, most people are stupid emotional snowflake assholes who won’t accomplish much due to fears from their emotions. But you have to ask them something about their opinions.
Sure most of these dumb fucks won’t have an important opinion, but you never know. But this creates a tango sort of dance in a conversation.
Most people who are narcissistic will never ask a question, but talk about themselves some more.
MOST NARCISSISTIC PEOPLE ARE NOT SELF AWARE
You can hint at this to narcissist, they don’t exactly get it in my experience. If they did, they won’t. You have to directly tell them. Hinting at something is like a beta Asian in vancouver not knowing he is socially uncalibrated. Yet the girl hints she is not comfortable. These types of people are not mind readers.
This natural neighbour didn’t get it after calling Mr. S and I or texting us we didn’t want to hang out because he is bored.
You can even tell them their marketing sucks. Or tell them that they are doing this wrong. It gets dismissed due to mental laziness.
When I wrote my sales letter, my sales letter for Wayne 30.com/go was very narcissistic at the first draft. It talked more about my accomplishments and it doesn’t get into the other persons ego.
THE IS NO SHARED GLORY WITH A NARCISSIST
If there are two people in a team, the narcissist will always take all the credit. Even in a normal job with a team, the narcissist will do next to nothing and take all the credit. I had students try to take all the credit without giving me credit.
Some turns on you. The non narcissist will not.
Almost all narcissistic people will fight. Unless one of the narcissist has dark triad personality, meaning sociopath, narcissism, machevelli manipulation. When a person is manipulative, you most likely can conclude they have all 3.
If they are sadistic, they most likely have the dark 4. Trolls has this, sadism (causing pain), sociopath/psychopath (sociopaths wears a fake mask of sanity, psychopath doesn’t give a fuck), narcissism (grandiose ego, self absorbed), Machevelli manipulator (always trying to get ahead manipulating if not screwing people over)
Most of the general public doesn’t understand this. These types of people will always lead and manipulate you. You just are mentally too fucking stupid to counter it. Most dating coaches has these traits.
COMPARITIVE TO ASPERGERS SYNDROME
There is a difference. Asperger’s will talk non stop but about every topic. Narcissistic pepole will talk about themselves non stop. But only about themselves.
WHAT’S IN IT FOR ME? (W.I.I.F.M)
When talking to normal people, when you have narcissism the other person has to feel they are involved or they get bored. They need to feel it is a WIN/WIN.
HOW DOES IT ALL RELATE TO YOU?
Most of you have some sort of Ego. You have one controlling narcissistic parent. You come here for coaching as a PUA. You pretend you know so much about the game like Karisma King. That’s pure ego without any student results and accomplishments.
Its hard to get to the point when you have narcissism. In London we had a student who only talked about himself to women. He couldn’t change it. But his SMV was high so he still can get laid from it.
HOW DOES IT REALATE TO ME?
If I were GamingElite still. I always wanted to be a Wayne. Many companies wanted to work with me before. While they might not value it, RSD might. RSD wouldn’t be like stealing all the credit for my coaching.
Wouldn’t Tyler say John, you are so awesome, in front of a camera. This guy is a great coach for the company. He will raise his team up. Just as he said Todd doesn’t have chrisma, but he is good at technical game. (Even without much student results), or Max is a natual, he has good game.
INFIGHTIHNG, ONE TOPIC COMES UP, CAN YOU GUESS?
In this company, Wayne Dating Lifestyle, have you seen that happening? You can blame it because of money. But in reality, lets be real. The fighting with Justin Wayne was over money.
The fighting with Michael Wayne is to see how much you can screw him over for money.
The truth is with John Wayne. How can you not make him grow, unless he is making you money.
Its all about the money. My coaching isn’t valued here or the student results. Just how its used to make money.
If I was in RSD in another lifetime, I would be valued. My coaching will be supressed a bit, saying looks don’t matter as much as you think. That’s the trade off. Just thinking out loud, if this happened.
EMPATHIZING WITH DEEPAK
On the flip side, I see his point of view.
He wants to be the top like Tyler and I’m suppose to take over. He will take on the Papa Doc role and i’ll be the new Tyler running team Wayne across the world. So he can take a lesser role, i’m the front man.
I can walk away at anytime. There is no contract, even if he beats me, he can kill me I won’t sign. I’ll never sign even with a gun to my head. Or even threatened emotionally. No I have to make the choice myself to work. I don’t operate anyother way. I have to be inspired and encouraged and given credit so I can grow withing my own skills.
Tell my parents I made the wrong decision by going to Europe if i’m dead or in the hospital. Or my throat is slashed in my sleep. Or I get assassinated REMEMBER WHO IS TO BLAME
I own all the infields and I own all the bootcamp clips and testimonials. I choose to help Wayne Dating Lifestyles. My continual involvement purely is because i’m happy. Even if I am given no credit, I will have it back in the future. Its always like its all Johns fault. But there are a multiple of people who should share in the blame.
There are some wearing a mask who can hide this. I’m not cool with that, since i’m very direct. In the future lets see if I am given credit. If I am i’ll just stfu and learn to adapt.
Its not all me, but all about money, that’s the only common denominator. Money is important, but chasing money doesn’t work at least for me.
I often get it by getting students laid. If I’m not given the credit, it is stolen, then they won’t come to me, making it harder to make money if all my skills are given away to the company. The company wants to make money for the company or himself? Look back at Justin Wayne, Michael Wayne, John Wayne. I think it leans towards himself…
DO YOU SEE TYLER STEALING TODDS CONCEPTS OR MAX OR JULIEN? NO FUCKING WAY WILL TYLER DO THAT. JUSTIN WAYNE THE NARCISSIST WILL STEAL AND SUPPRESS. THEN BLAME. HE PUSHED DEEPAK AWAY TO A DEGREE. BUT IT WAS OVER MONEY. NOT MAKING ENOUGH ON HIS END. GREED IS A SIN, ITS MORE THAN JUST BUSINESS.
I HAVE TO STEP UP AND PUT MY EGO ASIDE FOR MARKETING
THAT’S NOT THE POINT. THE POINT IS THIS. I TAKE EXTREME OWNERSHIP. BY BEING ALLOWED TO MAKE MISTAKES I GET TO SEE WHAT THE MISTAKE IS. I LEARN THAT WAY BETTER AND IN THE FUTURE I BECOME EVEN BETTER THAN JUST ADAPTING SLIGHTLY.
I don’t know how things will turn out. I’m learning. This first adaptation is when I change the site.
Second one is when I show my face less.
Third is working on my tonality. Sure its perfect around women, but not other guys.
I haven’t been marketing as well as I should. I can still give the same message without being rude.
ALL OF THIS HAS GOT ME THIS FAR. BUT TO MAKE IT TO THE NEXT LEVEL. I GOT A MARKETER MENTORING ME WITH ENVIORNMENT EXPOSURE. I’M GOING TO FOCUS ON ASIAN CONTENT FOR A BIT NOW. JUST HELPING AND SOLVING PROBLEMS. JOHNNY WAYNE. I LIKE THE SOUND OF THAT. NEW CHARACTER, NEW PERSONALITY.
BUT UNLIKE THE OTHER TWO WAYNES, I DON’T WEAR A MASK. JUSTIN WAYNE WORD A MASK. I TOLD YOU GUYS, OVER AND OVER NO ONE LISTENED THAT JUSTIN IS A COMPLETE CRAZY FUCK UNDER THAT.
STUDENTS TURNED AGAINST ME, UNTIL THEY APPOLOGIZED DUE TO NARCISSISM. NOT NORMAL GUYS WITH ASPERGERS OR NO NARCISSISM.
ITS ALL WIN/WIN, THE ONLY WAY
I TOLD MICHAEL WAYNE, WE DON’T NEED A CONTRACT. AS LONG AS WE OPERATE UNDER WIN/WIN, I’M ALWAYS PROTECTED. AS HE SAID IF WE SCREW YOU OVER, OR DEEPAK SAID, I’LL LEAVE.
ITS TRUE ACTUALLY. BUT I SEE THE MESSAGE HE CAN NEVER CONFRONT ME TO SAY. WHICH IS JOHN WAYNE I KNOW WHEN YOUR MARKETING IMPROVES YOU WILL WANT TO GET MORE INVOVLED.
I’LL BE TRAINING MY REPLACEMENT IN THE FUTURE. BUT DEEPAK IS DARK BROWN LIKE A BLACK SKIN GUY, I’M YELLOW LIKE AN ASIAN. WE NEED SOMEONE WITH A LIGHTER SKIN.
FOR ME I’M HAPPY TO CONTRIBUTE AND WORK UNDER WIN/WIN AND GROW AND IMPROVE. NOT AS AN EMPLOYEE, MY LAWYER AND ACCOUNTANT SAID I’M SELF EMPLOYEED. IF I GET A SALARY HOURLY, SOCIAL INSURANCE NUMBER I HAVE TO PAY TAXES BY APRIL 1ST. MY DEADLINE IS IN JUNE. I’LL DO IT ANYWAYS.
I’M SELF EMPLOYEED AND I’M HAPPY. BUT MAYBE HIRE AN EMPLOYEE THAT WANTS JOB SECURITY. MAYBE LAWERENCE WAYNE SINCE HE WANTS TO OPERATE THAT WAY. The next Wayne has to operate as an employee. Otherwise it wouldn’t work. So you can control him.
You couldn’t inspire me, as a leader like RSD Tyler. You don’t have leadership qualities. I couldn’t inspire others yet because I don’t have leadership qualities. Leaders inspires others to act in their vision.
But the difference is I have to learn it. I do have respect for Deepak for helping me out even in Europe. I have to give credit where it is due. He helped me talk about emotions to fix myself to make Wayne 60 which I won’t release. I’ll teach it in the immersion.
Hopefully my communications and the way I write these post are more to the point.
Justin Wayne never gets to the point when he talks. He talks a lot. I guess I still take after Grandfather Wayne’s narcissism.
But he is more Asperger’s than I am. I don’t have a diagnoses for it.
I want to the top guy in Canada. He said no way. You are too bright to be. Its something else. I don’t know what.
WELL I KNOW WHAT THAT IS, ITS NARCISSISM, OR NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER.
I changed the company logo. THEY HAVE TO LIKE YOU, TRUST YOU AND WILLING TO BUY FROM YOUR COMPANY trusting it.
The company part seems pretty slimey or douchy sometimes. The all trust me, they just don’t like me. So I have to work on the like. Also serperating my concepts giving Justin, Deepak and Myself exactly which part of the system we contributed in a future video.
I’ll even label all the other dating coaches name when I used their tactics and added it to the system. I’ll label everything. Lots of coaches has contributed to my system and I field tested it all. Justin Waynes game and Deepaks game isn’t always compatible for my short Asian body.
So I am the Asian Wayne that has to adapt to it to help the students. I have a different circumstance and SMV. If their game was compatible for short Asians. Would you have seen them get more testimonials for short Asians??? Why do I get it? Do I have a different game or different take? YOU BET!
WAYNE PRODUCTS INTENT
WAYNE 60 WAS SUPPOSE TO HELP PEOPLE WHO ARE SOCIOPATHS WEARING A MASK AND BACKSTABBING, EVEN STONEWALLING AND RUNNING A SOCIOPATH SMEAR CAMPAINGE AFTER SOMEONE LEAVES BEING A VICTIM.
PSYCHOPATHS WITHOUT CARE OR EMOTIONS. WITHOUT EMPATHY. IT WAS SUPPOSE TO FIX THAT.
WAYNE 30 WAS TO HELP PEOPLE WITH ASPERGERS. OR EVEN ASIANS. ALL OF TEHSE ARE TO HELP ASIANS. PERHAPS I SHOULD RENAME
WAYNE 30: SOCIAL INTELLEGENCE FOR SEDUCTION
WAYNE 60: EMOTIONAL INTELLEGENCE FOR CONNECTION
I CREATED THESE TECHNOLOGIES. OUT OF ALL THE WAYNES MY GAME IS BY FAR THE MOST ADVANCED. ITS NOT SMV DRIVEN. WHICH IS LIKE 75% IF WE TALK ABOUT A PIE SLICED IN 4 PIECES. IF YOU DON’T GET METAPHORS, SOCIOPATHS AREN’T BRIGHT IN MY EXPERIENCE. THEY ALL ACT THE SAME WAY. LIKE A TUMOR, PREDICTABLE.
I KNEW EVERY MOVE OF JUSTIN WAYNE. IT NEVER CHANGES. I TOLD DEEPAK EVERYTHING JUSTIN WILL DO. NOTHING WILL SUPRISE ME, KNOWING IS POWER. NOT KNOWING IS FEAR… DOESN’T WORK ON ME. I’M NOT AS EMOTIONAL, BUT TECHNICAL. ITS WHY I AM SO GOOD AT TEACHING GAME, NO FEELINGS ARE INVOLVED SLOWING IT DOWN FOR STUDENTS…
I ALWAYS LOVED WRITING IN THIS BLOG. I CAN BE BRUTALLY HONEST AND JUST NOT WEAR A MASK. ALSO NARCISSISTIC SOMETIMES. BUT THAT CAN BE REDUCED.
MOST LIKELY THE SOLUTION
DETAIL WHICH PART OF JUSTIN WAYNES GAME WAS USED, DEEPAKS GAME AND MY GAME. DETAIL WHERE ALL MY CONTRIBUTION TO THE IMMERSION STUDENTS ARE, WHICH PART IS MINE. THE BIGGER PART IN DETAIL. GIVE PEOPLE CREDIT WHERE IT IS DUE. I’LL TELL YOU WHICH 1% PIECES BELONGS TO WHO.
WHEN YOU REALIZED ALL 3 WAYNES HAD 3 DIFFERENT CIRCUMSTANCES AND 3 DIFFERENT GAME. JIU JITSU ISN’T THE SAME AS JUDO, AS BRAZILIAN JU JITSU. I’M BRAZILIAN JU JITSU THE MOST EVOLVED.
WHEN I TURN THIS INTO A LIFESTYLE GAME AND ALSO SETUP GAME, IT BECOMES A MMA. WHEN BRUCE LEE COMBINED EVERYTHING.
FOR NOW MOST LIKELY ALL THE CREDIT TAKING AND SUPPRESSION IS THE ISSUE. SO FOCUS ON THE DIFFERENCE. DEEPAK WANTS ME TO MAKE MONEY, ONE GUY IS WILLING TO BUY WAYNE 30 NOW KNOWING WE HAVE A DIFFERENT GAME. HE DOESN’T HAVE MUCH MONEY, BUT THAT IS A START…