What makes a good vs bad student. Adaptability vs stubbornness.

I have a ton of testimonials every week. Why was this week different I decided to post it? I should make a separate section just for testimonials btw. They really make me feel proud that my teaching method works. Other dating coaches can barely get any decent testimonials due to their direct game or numbers game or LMS game which is something their student doesn’t have. They either phrase the coach. Thank the coach because they realized something. Or pull from night game, not daygame.

Easy case/normal case student. This student was a total joy to teach. He never had any dating options outside social circles. In fact, his friends aren’t even willing to share. He had a very chilled voice others made fun of him for.  However, I saw potential. Being chilled is super important to daygame. He never done daygame before. He doesn’t even think it was possible. He was very interested in dating other women and having dating options. When I demonstrated it to him, he was instantly hooked. He had a bad memory during our first daygame lesson. But he did everything I said since he doesn’t have any PUA material floating on inside his head. He brought a notepad and wrote every last detail down. When I first met him, he dressed like the typical white guys. College clothing, regular fit jeans. He got rejected non stop. He then wore his only slim jeans he found from years ago, paired with a nice button down shirt. He was able to open every set. So many girls were into him. He got his first phone number after  seven tries. He kept learning and applying, even forgetting. We kept using drills until he got it down. During the second day, he just kept absorbing the conversational 101 part of the skill. He was scared to approach. He made a few, but was focused on working on the conversational part with me  one on one. He then called a girl on his phone. He got a date. He wanted to go home.  However, I kept teaching him. I taught him everything that day because he seems to need it for the date and to pull. I left him alone for a few weeks to check in on him. Basically he was the opposite of a hardcase. He was a normal/easy case. Hardcases has absolutely nothing to fall back on. He had a decent height, build, face and girls liked him. The reason he was so good was the ability to adapt. He was teachable and he didn’t argue with me every step of the way like hardcases do. When I told him to do something, he applied it no questions asked. When I say adaptive, I don’t mean natural and direct bullshit. These coaches aren’t really adapting. They are vibbing with their LMS. They are flexing their muscles and having a  three minute conversation. They are transferring their protector and preselection status to the girl. Other skinny Asian students who doesn’t have these qualities are going to be disappointed.

Hardcase newbies. I’m talking about all my hardcase newbie students. In fact, they are all identical for traits. I am not talking about any one person. Although there was one student that was so bad, disrespectful, I had to kick him out. He then paid money for another tall positive stereotype Asian dating coach. He didn’t get any results, except a few dates. I already taught him most of the stuff, like making statements instead of questions, ect. Hardcase newbies all have this internal chatter. They fight everything you say with PUA material filled up in their head. Most likely either from RSD concepts or Simple Pickup. They are unteachable. You tell them to do something in the field, they always say gotcha. For example, raise your volume. But they do the same shit they have been doing for the last whatever years or months they built these bad habits. They always give up easily or take breaks. They get in their head very often with this internal chatter. Which helps them give up faster. They are mentally weak. They have problems with the most simple of task like time management. They get so emotional and in their own head. They get overwhelmed by life. They all want the shortcuts. When you give them the shortcuts, they still take the long drawn out way. They also have a comfortzone problem. If they progress too fast, they feel out of their comfortzone. I got a student a pull last time on his first class. He still got in his head because he couldn’t pull this other girl who friendzoned him badly before I taught him after so many dates. He dropped out of game when he could have got laid from another girl who came back from vacation. He actually pulled that new girl on the first date along with my other hardcase student. I could have taught him how to seal the deal. Many of them had a comorbility of mental illnesses or many of them together. A lot of hardcases in my opinion has a parent who is a sociopath. The stubbornness comes from the sociopath trait. That their opinion  are the facts of the universe. While they haven’t fully expressed the gene, they still have traces of it. I field test everything, every theory before I made a judgement. Everything I wrote  are the results of teaching, not theories. For them however, they can say dude, looks don’t matter. Daygame in the field at 130 pounds and dress like shit. They stink up the field making it harder for all the good PUAs, with their bad approaches. Approaching or turn off every girl 10X. Since they approached so much. One rejection after the next.

How do I teach them? Patience. I go for milestones or smaller goals. The problem is when they keep giving up. I don’t give up on them. I push them to their limits. While their climb to the top is slower. I told them the tortoise can beat the hare. Which is true if they don’t give up. I knew a PUA hardcases (not students) who still gets laid because they have LMS. However, the girls they go for isn’t something most people wants.

Solution, learn to tell that inner hardcase voice to shut the fuck up. Then just learn everything I told you to. Apply it, see the amazing results. Don’t let your comfort-zone of growth or slow growth stop you. Don’t give up so easily. Stop being so stubborn. They think it is charming to be stubborn, like, “oh I’m stubborn. No, you are a weak, beta effeminate male. You have to treat them like a drill sergeant and drown out their other negative voice. They have no mental toughness. Regardless, i’m creating a new training module called from Beta to Alpha. It involves a ton of mental toughness exercises per day. I’m field testing it. Then, you would do hard game related exercises in the field. I figured if you boosted your mental toughness for a month every day doing something out of your comfort-zone. You would get used to it and nothing would phase you.