Fight, fight or freeze, why your mind freezes up in daygame

I’m in the video 11 seconds in, how to take out the competition, or RSD?

Dan Pena told me to hypothetically break their legs. I told him I would hypothetically break their legs. We think the same. But there is a lesson in thinking.

While I don’t have his wealth, I have his mindset and used it for teaching daygame. You guys needs to grow a pair. Seriously.

He is the highest performance coach for creating wealth in the entire world.

I’m the guy who has the most students laid in daygame in the entire world.

 

I’ll talk about two things, and my student who experienced something similar. When you deal with sociopaths, they love freezing your mind. 

I know a lot of you are tired of this topic, you can fvck off for all I care. But this is the daily gospel of daygame. For a lot of daygamers, this is their PUA DNA, multiple mental illnesses called comorbidity. 

 

 

The more mental abuse you go though the more your mind is in freeze or flee

Fight, flight or freeze, have you heard of it?

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This was an evolutionary psychology sort of response.

I’ve dealt with horrible people who made my brain freeze, but good thing I went back to fight mode, my default mode.

 

 

ALMOST GOT INTO A FIGHT AT COSTCO

After 5 years of Krav Maga, I was ready to fight him outside. I don’t condone violence or fightin, but sometimes you need to physically fight

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I didn’t have time, this women was taking forever to make a meal. 

I looked at my watch, I need to get out of here so I can buy my groceries. 

I see the sample food, she said she has to put it on the front. I said can I grab one? 

She said no, some b.s excuse like it takes a few mins or some nonsense.

I STILL GRABBED IT ANYWAYS. 

She grabbed my hand and some white guy said why are you so rude? 

I looked at him and laughed. 

Then he said LETS TAKE IT OUTSIDE

He wanted to fight me.

I calmly said, okay then, lets go outside and fight then

We can do it right now, lets go. 

He was in shocked and he started to chicken out

Then I called him a pussy, why are you such a pussy? 

I said come on lets go outside and fight, you wanted to. 

He never seen someone so calm, he thought I would freeze up and flee

Maybe he isn’t used to seeing tough Asians. 

I keep calling him a pussy, stop being a pussy

He acted more like a pussy and he said you should call security to that women

I started to walk before they did, then I yelled stop being a pussy

I stuck my middle finger at him

All the security guards later on at the checkout didn’t even bother me

I stared them all down, all the employees were scared

I had a good time and was back in fight gear. 

 

Your mind only goes forward fight, or neutral freeze or flee reverse

This is a common story with a lot of my students. With crazy sociopath parents or people around them, they freeze up

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I always get back into fight mode, every single time.

Although recently I have been in more of a freeze mode, but once you can access fight mode, you can take action and move foward.

When I was GamingElite, it was always fight mode.

I would approach the hottest women, I didn’t give a shit how much resistance I faced.

The resistance really helped me out by forcing adaptations in my techniques.

If you learn from an easy country, then the techniques or tactics aren’t transferable.

 

A BOOTCAMP STUDENT THAT WAS MENTALLY ABUSED

Paper tigers

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His boss was a short Asian women who kept yelling at him.

He was alpha at first, he didn’t care what women thinks

She started to lower his standard telling him those kinds of behavior was wrong

He tried to fight back, but she eventually bellittled him and went crazy

He started to freeze up more and more. He started to get tamed like my other students

Eventually over time, even when I talk to him on the phone when I swear, he would freeze up

I told my students to take Krav Maga and learn how to defend themselves and how to destroy someone if they needed it in self defense.

They need to be on the fight gear and this helps with pickup.

THEY WILL TAKE IT TO RETRAIN THEIR NERVOUS SYSTEM.

 

ADVICE AND SOLUTION

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STAY AWAY FROM PEOPLE TO MAKES YOU FREEZE UP, THEY USUALLY USE THAT TO MANIPULATE YOU. A lot of them are controlling narcissist or sociopaths. Not all, but a lot of them are.

You must always remain in the forward gear, you must never run or freeze.

Even if you have to cope with it, you always stay in the forward gear.

Almost all my inaction is action again when I am in the forward gear

Evolutionary psychology created these so you can fight a sabretooth tiger, or freeze and it doesn’t see you, since you lower your body language. Or you run.

But these days there isn’t that kind of threat.

FALSE EXPECTATIONS APPEARING REAL, F.E.A.R

That’s my advice. I’m glad I came back. Back in the forward gear.

ALMOST A LOT OF MY RECENT STUDENTS ALWAYS FREEZE UP, ITS A COMMON PATTERN. I ALREADY KNOW THEY HAVE FVCKED UP PARENTS AROUND THEM. THAT MADE THEM SNOWFLAKES.

I’M NOT SAYING FIGHTING IS THE ANSWER OR VIOLENCE. BUT I AM SAYING BE A WARRIOR AND GET INTO THE FIGHT GEAR. IT GETS SHIT DONE. STAY OUT OF THE FREEZE OR FLIGHT GEAR. STAY IN THE DRIVE GEAR THAT MOVE THINGS FORWARD.

These days there is no reason to be in the freeze gear or flight gear. There are no sabertooth tigers anymore. Things have evolved, even if our nervous system didn’t.

 

 

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Experiment for student’s Instagram you can apply

What happens when I fix his photographs?

What I done here is to create a fake bokeh filter. Which means a blurry picture on photoshop.

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I also photoshopped his Asian friends out of the picture. For Instagram photos, I said to stuff as many white people as humanly possible.

I even took out the middle finger and added some whiter people. Or Latino looking people.

If you are Indian and your friends all have a turban, that is a pussy dryer.

If you are Asian and you want white girls, doesn’t make sense to hang around Asians.
In fact that might disqualify your chances.

I’ve seen people use greenscreen but I think I can do it without it.

WHAT THE STUDENT SAW

He saw me close a 8/10 German girl, his emotions wasn’t on point. So the French girl he was with started to cockblock.

I had to use my text game to get her back out. I created a conversion.

She radio silenced me, but I turned it around. You never seen text game like this.

The secret and most white dating coaches who claims they are text game experts. They don’t know shit.

OF COURSE I AM TRAINED BY THE REAL INNER CIRCLE OF PLAYERS IN VANCOUVER BY ONE OF THE WORLDS BEST TEXTERS.

A lot of his ideas put me into a brand new direction of text game.

The girl changed her mind later and I got her back out.

THE SAME WAY I UNDERSTAND SALES LETTER AND OBJECTIONS DEALING IS HOW I GOT HER BACK OUT, A BIG HINT EVEN THE WHITE DATING COACHES WHO CLAIMS THEY ARE EXPERTS AT TEXT GAME DOESN’T GET.

They say some bullshit like high volume, something like that. I don’t know what the fvck they are talking about. Its all about conversions. Not SMVing it.

You can keep her on the line. Its all about keeping her on the line.

Whether it is daygame or it is text game.

The students jaw dropped, thinking that’s impossible. All the concepts I taught.

I kaizened this more and more until perfection. So I decided to release a course called Kaizen. Several of my 3 Months to Proficiency students are using Kaizen.

You can even see in my YouTube Live video, I’m even more calibrated, voice is better and emotional intelligence is 50x before. Switching the vibes, you can feel it.

New technologies updates all the time. Every 3 months my game no longer resembles the last. You can even see with this Instagram thing. Its constantly evolving.

Since I’m going to be invited back to the PUA inner circle in real life. I’ll be tuned up again.

WHY INSTAGRAM? WHY NOW, ISN’T IT ALL TEXT GAME?

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Women in the west are too validated. You have like 5/10 or 6/10 girls getting hit on so much so they get more narcissistic. Now she feels she is all that.

But what happens when the guys goes for her, it is because they don’t think they can get her hotter friend.

So when she gets narcissistic and she rejects the guys, friendzoning them. She isn’t even valuable enough as a friend anyways. So these guys insults her very harshly. Tear into her.

She doesn’t know she is a 5-6/10. It was just guys with no game found it easier.

WOULD THEY EVER YELL AT HER HOT FRIEND? Or mouth her off? Nope because they know they can’t get her. Well I still tease those types because I have banged much hotter women before.

IN EUROPE WOMEN KNOWS THEIR OWN SMV due to instagram, SINCE THEY ARE PRETTIER THAN MOST OVER WEIGHT AMERICANS.

It’s almost always true in the west. If her friend is 8/10 she has no self esteem because she is wondering why guys aren’t approaching her. They don’t think they can get her.

When you deal with 9/10 and 10/10, you need to have more of a high status, social circle, social life. You can’t get there by just daygame alone, unless you are a 9/10 yourself.

FIGHTING FIRE WITH FIRE

Instagram is the greatest equalizer. I won’t go into depth of how I do it. Only my students knows how this stuff is done.

If you don’t adapt it will be harder ever year. My text game is good, but its just text. It makes it even easier to use voice on WhatsApp to deal with objections.

But having these pictures will DHV. Or demonstration of higher value.

Perception around women is very important. Preselection, lifestyle triggers very evolutionary psychology processes in her brain.

I always preach about the new group and stuff. But for those who didn’t have Elite 30 yet. I don’t see how you can really succeed without it. I really don’t.

Its a social calibrations course.

BEFORE THE PLAYBOOK, BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE, JUST START HERE. I made it affordable for a reason, this is the fundamentals of game.

 

DOES THIS WORK FOR EVERYONE? FOR INSTAGRAM?

I don’t know, i’m not a sociopath which says oh my opinions is facts. I’m always right nonsense. If I did that like those types, people will suffer.

I say I have no clue, except it worked on one student so far. All the other students are field testing the theory. If a few more lays happens, I will teach hundreds. Then certify the technique.

I don’t believe in theories now, only the scientific data and how transferable it was.

IF IT DOESN’T WORK FOR EVERYONE, I WILL SIMPLY DISCARD IT. THAT’S WHAT MAKES MY SYSTEM SO STRONG.

Knowledge is acquiring more information. There is tons of that. Wisdom is knowing what to take away.

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