THE DELUSIONS OF MY LATINO STUDENTS. THE LOW SELF ESTEEM TRAITS OF SELF SABOTAGING..

I WANT TO SPEAK ABOUT AN UNSPOKEN TRUTH. WHY LATINOS WILL FIND DAYGAME A BIT HARD OR MOST. EVEN IF I GET LATINO STUDENTS LAID DURING THE PANDEMIC, INFLATION.

I could post non stop laid testimonials, I would, but still lets talk about something else on my mind..

I WAS SKYPING WITH A NEW STUDENT WHO WAS LATINO. WE DID THIS EXERCISE ABOUT DELUSIONS. HE CALLED OUT HIS BRAIN, CAN HEAR ALL HIS MISTAKES.

WHAT’S THE PROBLEM? FIRST HE COULDN’T HEAR HIS MISTAKES.

He said was the last part that wrong?

he didn’t know so I recorded his audio to play it back to him

I told him I can’t time travel to change his audio..

HE CALLED OUT HIS BRAIN, WITH THE LINE, BRAIN, STOP BEING DELUSIONAL I WANT TO LISTEN TO MY MISTAKES. FOLLOWED BY A SHARP STFU.

Then he listened to his audio again…

it was a train wreck and he was mindfvcked

He couldn’t believe his ears, the mistake was so appearant

I had to explain to him with lower self esteem, higher ego, it gives you the 4 traits of low self esteem

we will talk about that later..

YOUR BRAIN IS LIKE AN UNRULY COUNTRY THAT DOESN’T FOLLOW ORDER. YOU MUST LEAD IT OR IT WORKS AGAINST YOU.

You got to brainwash it

it is like rebelling against you

if you don’t lead your mind, it will start to lead you down a path of low self esteem…

I DID THE SAME THING WITH A BRAZILIAN STUDENT TOO. SAME ISSUE, HE HEARD HE WAS DELUSIONAL TOO.. HE CAN’T HEAR HIS MISTAKES.

A BRAZILIAN STUDENT THOUGHT I WAS CRAZY WHEN THESE STUDENTS ARE BATSHIT CRAZY, DELUSIONAL. I TOLD HIM HIS AUDIO SOUNDED DEPRESSED

It was so bad, it was monotoned, plus depressed

it kept going downwards not upwards

HE WAS WORKING ON TONALITY, IT SOUNDED LIKE A DEPRESSED SNOWFLAKE CUNT

He would get a vocal coach which will help him work out his accent

most people can reduce their accent if they sing through it.

British singers when they sing, they have no accent at all.

WHEN HE CALLED OUT HIS BRAIN, HE HEARD ALL THE MISTAKES

It was surprising to him, then he realized he went through life like that

I call that the zombie VR

most likely you think you aren’t delusional, you wouldn’t know

So you dismissed all my videos about it…

THE NEXT DAY, I TOLD HIM TO CALL OUT HIS BRAIN AGAIN, HE DIDN’T LISTEN. ZOMBIES..

He completely forgot he was delusional..

A HALF LATINO HALF WHITE STUDENT IS STRUGGLING WITH THE SAME THING. I CALLED HIM ON THE PHONE. TELL HIM HE IS OFF THE LINE.

HE WASN’T BORN IN THESE COUNTRIES BUT CARRIED THE SAME GENETICS OR EPIGENETICS.

Doesn’t matter if you didn’t grow up in a dangerous murder capitals..

if you look at the top 50 murder capitals of the world it is latino or spanish countries.

Its facts… not my opinion

but that means the psychology is all right

HE KEPT FUCKING UP ALL THE STEPS WITH HIS DELUSIONS AND THE WRONG PATH, THE SOCIOPATH.

He is doubling down on half assing everything

I’M GOING TO GIVE HIM SOME OF THE ADVICE THE BLACK STUDENT DIDN’T DO. HE COULD OF GOT ANOTHER JOB BEFORE THE RECESSION HITS… BUT I CAN UNDERSTAND LIVING A THIRD WORLD COUNTRY, WHERE THEIR THINKING IS BACKWARDS..

Now the black student is listening..

he works with his family for a big business..

but without them he wouldn’t have support

although my knowledge is more first world related, but he can still use it there mixed with his friends, family wisdom

He should be fine, cause he has grit.

work habits, but he needs to focus on the 80/20 rule.

But the other Latino student, he was born there, Cali… he will get better and better.

I don’t mind imparting some wisdom to him

he used up 2 Skypes…

CHINESE STUDENT IS GETTING SUPER DELUSIONAL, EVEN IF HIS CUBE TEST NEIL STRAUSS NONSENSE DOESN’T WORK. WELL FOR TINDER, FEW TIMES DAYGAME. BUT DOESN’T WORK FOR ANYONE ELSE.

HE KEPT INSISTING IT WORKS. HE JUST KNOWS. HE JUST KNOWS. OPINIONS AS FACTS.

So far not a single person was able to use it

its not the thing, its the thing that sells the thing.

Or in this case, it wasn’t this stupid routine…

it was just the arrow head

it was like a cellphone that was charged by him doing the social skills flow drill and body language his mind dismissed

but thats the problem since his left brain thinks it is right

like a cellphone losing its charge, he was at the top

now the other skills not automated will deplete or plateau him

he made the wrong conclusions, is levelling his game

winning the battles, losing the war…

THE MORE RESULTS HE GETS THE MORE HIS EGO GOES UP, THE SELF ESTEEM GOES DOWN.

I showed him this screenshot…

at first they need my help, are depressed

then they go in the lower self ungreatful gear

when they ego trip so hard, they interupt you, thinking they are a god

after 3 lays

happens to lots of my students, Indians, blacks, Chinese

3 is the magic number, their brain shuts down

then they fail or go sideways..

realizing they can’t do it without me

their conclusions are all misguided for their ego

its one excuse after another

misreading the situation

THE PRIDE BEFORE THE FALL…

Thats right, it is all algorithm.

regardless, I need him in the future since with him i’m making money so i’m fine

he also needs me long term, even if I gave him the tesla battery

but it wasn’t fully installed as he tried to add other AAA batteries

its not enough.

I TOLD HIM HE COULD PLATEAU AS HE SHOT EVERYTHING DOWN EVEN THOUGH I GOT HIM LAID IN THE SAME ASIAN ISLAND BEFORE 6X FOR PICKUP. HE DISMISSES…

EVERYTHING I SAY ALWAYS ENDS UP 100% RIGHT

Not the first day but like 3 days afterwards it is the biggest issue the lesson reveals itself..

he literally thinks he is building comfort talking super fast

which affects social skills flow drill,

also body language

it isn’t more of those two, but the emotions always escalating

pressure no release…

its not enough to escalate her in the bedroom if she isn’t converted even if she lets you touch her a bit

something was wrong before on the date for comfort..

not everything need to be escalated like a rocket,

always up, like UMP, up up up up up

SEXUALIZE SEXUALIZE SEXUALIZED

But that is not enough

you need a release valve…

OTHER DATING COACHES ARE 50X MORE DELUSIONAL THAN YOU. THEY DON’T KNOW WHY THEY GET RESULTS. NOT THAT WHITE DATING COACHES HAVE ANY PROOF…

THEY DON’T HAVE LAID TESTIMONIALS. LOOK AT KRAPISMA KING FOR EXAMPLE. HE IS SO CERTAIN HE IS RIGHT, NO DAYGAME LAID TESTIMONIALS.

They give you this tonality they now what they are talking about

i’m number one for pickup laid testimonials

not tinder which doesn’t count but pickup

daygame

well night game is pickup

but the ironic thing is I have more pick or daygame laid testimonials than even their night game laid testimonials..

EVERYONE IS 100% THEY ARE RIGHT, YET I POST LIKE 5 – 6 LAID TESTIMONIALS EVERY WEEK. WELL AT LEAST FOR THIS WEEK

the problem is these delusional field reports

wrong conclusions

then he ask the best daygame coach in the world

I say you have no comfort

he dismisses it. like an algorithm

in 3 days it will turn out I was right

if you listen to his audio talking 10x faster than my other students

doubling down on his strenghts

it goes him this far as his social skills, social calibrations are fleeting?

how do I know I am right

its undeniable, my logic is perfect

he got 6 lays before training under me there

he did all the exercises

not just gamify it

its the same fucking Asian island again, same

but the results are different

he can make excuses all he wants, how he is afraid to approach in front of his wingmen

if he got Asian girls

I get it,

but his past success, got to his head

like a lot of students, they became ungreatful, thinks they can do it without me

since I can’t train him in front of his friends…

the cellphone is really losing its charge

it will be empty soon..

YOU CAN’T KEEP STRATEGIZING EVERYTHING OR USING TACTICS, IF YOU HAVEN’T BUILD UP THE METAPHORICAL SOILDER IN DAYGAME

YOU CAN’T KEEP SWINGING THE BIG GAME SWORD….

You need to build up value through levelling up skills like a ninja

the longer he switch to samurai the harder it is

more pulls,

then night game nonsense

Do the math, social skills, social calibrations, emotional control is worth 7.5 points..

but he insist on game’

2.5 points

this is why I crush this daygame industry

THE EGO VS THE SELF ESTEEM. THIS IS NOT B.S ADVICE. WHETHER YOU ARE GETTING RESULTS OR NOT.

OTHER THINGS THAT COMES INTO PLAY IS THE I.Q, E.Q, S.I.Q

In my view he isn’t evil, just a bit narcissistic,

that raised the triggered feelings

the delusions goes up as the ego goes up

they will interupt you, saying uh huh

But he is still a good person with some values

without that I can predict how a person will turn out

he maybe delusional with game, got some good results

but he sure isn’t delusional about making money

i’m delusional compared to him

he taught me so much

I might be the slowest person he taught, i’m not a marketer

i’m a dating coach

however the amount of money is still pretty impressive all things considered..

THAT MEANS IF A PERSON GETS TRIGGERED, IS DELUSIONAL, AND NOTSPRITUAL, THEY TEND TO BE THE SITH, BACKSTABBERS OR EVIL.

In starwars there is the jedi and the sith

i’m going to teach him the value of the jedi

the good side

don’t give into the dark side

THEY DON’T FILL THE GRADITUTE METER, BUT THEIR EGO METER..

Thats what I told this latino student..

after your lays it will fill the graditute meter or just ego

if ego they will say they appreciate it or thankful

you ask them to name 10 things they are greatful for, they can’t

graditute is imporant..

if not it fills the ego meter..

I’M VERY GRATEFUL HE HELPED ME REACH MY FINANCIAL GOALS.

Plus this helps a lot more people get laid too

Since I did promise in 2023, the sky will rain and part like the red sea of egypt where moses splits it in half

I will rain down so many laid testimonials… this is just the beginning…

But you guys the new students have to fulfill that promise too.

SOLUTION, RAISE YOUR SELF-ESTEEM WITH ELITE ACCESS.

I have great tips to raise your self esteem

but there is only a treatment for low self esteem, but no solutions unless you fill your graditute meter after you lay with my training..

you won’t know if you are a jedi or sith

one thing you can do is listen to bineural beats self esteem audio with earphones

but it only works for 4 days where the delusional student thinks he is cured

then they go back to stop doing that

its like PUAs are destined to have high ego, low self esteem..

which causes the 4 traits of low self esteem

massive delusions, without them knowing it

massive ego tripping until they fall apart.

Its all an algorithms,

there is no individuality, just algorithms that repeats itself

PUAS generally has the same clusters of things.

COMPETENCE EQUALS CONFIDENCE.

Elite 30 is competence

that gives you real confidence

its not an inside out thing

but outside in first..

-John Elite

BLACK STUDENT GETS SEVERAL LAYS. MY RANT ABOUT WORKING HARD VS WORKING SMART.

WILL HE REACH HIS GOAL OF GETTING 50 LAYS BEFORE THE END OF THE YEAR? HE HAS 20 DAYS AND NOT USING ELITE ACCESS AS MUCH LATELY. I’M NOT GOING TO CONTACT HIM. LET HIM FUCK IT UP..

MORE RECENT LAY

2 MORE LAYS HERE HAPPENED WITH ONE APPROACH. HE WAS APPROACHING IN A RESTURANT.

He only had evidence with a screenshot for one of the two lays, so I can only certify one of the two

I know most people doesn’t give a rats ass about negro women…

I get it,

but don’t forget he same day lay a Russian blonde and also a Ukrainian in 1 – 2 approaches. 5 min and 10 min pull, then took some time to a lay.

Put him in a different country, he would destroy you in daygame..

LETS NOT FORGET, THE OTHER 3MP STUDENT GOT A FVCK BUDDY NOW. I’M GOING TO UPDATE SCREENSHOT. HE HAS A FVCK BUDDY NOW.

  • NO ALCOHOL
  • NO NIGHT GAME COMPONENTS
  • NO INSTAGRAM
  • NO SOCIAL MEDIA
  • NO STATUS
  • JUST PURE SOCIAL SKILLS, SOCIAL CALIBRATIONS

AFTER HE HAS A WHITE FUCK BUDDY YESTERDAY HE IS STILL MINDFUCKED. MEANING ALL HIS BELIEFS IN THE PAST THAT HIS ASIAN FRIENDS GETTING LAID IN NIGHT CLUBS, LOL STUPID NIGHT CLUBS WAS BECAUSE OF MUSCLES… ROFL..

but he got laid in daygame… no night game components

Now he will aim for his second white girl fuck buddy

cause he finally believes in himself

he trained with the best…

LOL, NOT MORE ASIAN PAST ASIAN GIRLFRIENDS ANYMORE…

None of that bullshit…

So basically I want to talk about how some of the students in my kaizen program were kicked out in the past. Some past behaviors.

A lot of them were very slow to the point where they’re just passing all the time.

This is not a place for slow zombies.

Another pattern is that they don’t make more than a dozen videos in one day.

I have no idea why they take so long.

Not only that they are also delusional.

It’s almost like they have ear muffs or something scrambling or signal in their ear.

The revision is almost like a zombie VR.

So it makes us slower for them.

There’s actually 4 steps to learning a new skill.

The 1st step is unconscious incompetence.

At this stage you don’t know what you don’t know how shit you are when it comes to kaizen and doing day game.

Then you go into the conscious incompetent stage where you are aware of your mistakes.

However, if you cannot hear your mistakes when I’m correcting it or see your mistakes that is a big problem.

When you do it correctly enough times you’re going to the conscious competent stage which is something that doesn’t happen very often for a lot of my students very last stage is the unconscious competence where everything just becomes natural.

The reason why a bad student did not reach the stage is very simple,

They simply don’t do it right the 1st time.

A Lot of The bad students are like burning a bunch of Steaks.

Instead they should be following recipes.

Because when you’re baking you have to be very precise with your recipes.

You don’t just start with your prototype or your bad habits..

Then try to work your way out of it wasting a lot of time, especially wasting an entire week.

That week could have been saved had you started doing things correctly the 1st time.

But you are delusional that’s why you are so fucked up. 

I myself am very slow in marketing so I can relate to how you feel. 

I just wrote 30 scripts for YouTube shorts and it’s killing me.

Then now I have to record all that stuff and it is not fun at all.

Did you know I do all my own marketing?

That’s right nobody else does any of the marketing for me.

It’s crazy to think it is a one man army basically running everything.

I have nobody to delegate it too because when I get video editors there are slower than a snail.

It looks like a massive fucking team slowly putting out content, but I can assure you it is not.

Then you got other video editors out there that says oh I can edit your videos for $500.

But that is something I can do in less than 10 minutes and they don’t do a good job with it.

Then you got the type of video editors who basically are so unadaptable, they’re not able to change anything.

Those types get fired on the spot the other video editor who takes like 3 weeks just to finish the projects.

That’s why I fired a guy from the Philippines.

But I do know what I feel like to be slow.

I am not a marketer I am a dating coach.

If I could just focus on teaching and Getting students laid that’ll make me a lot happier.

Do you know all those YouTube Post in the community section was written by me.

Did you know all those podcasts were Uploaded by me after I convert it to MP3..

Did you know I had to write every single blog post for all these years and it became a neural pathway.

Did you know I have to censor the student’s faces that’s why I go on YouTube live instead.

Honestly, I spent over a decade working myself to death.

Right now it’s blog post in filming all these videos.

I can assure you that it was not easy..

One thing I notice about the hustle culture is it is not true.

At 1st you have to learn how to work very hard that’s a given for the 1st 10 years of your business.

however after that you guys work smart.

So what I recommend is now you work hard 1st then you work smart later.

The same with day game working harder by Spam approaching does not mean you get better..

You have to start to do things correctly it’s better to work smart in the beginning but still have to work ethics.

You have to move the needle 4th period that’s exactly what kaisen provides.

It tells you exactly what you need to do to build your neural pathways.

If you fight against kaizen then you are stupid. What thing I’ve learned from a millionaire student is that a lot of the steps that are required to get something working properly Requires light over 10 to 20 steps.

I can see why it’s so hard for the normal person to do something because they like things simple.

But it’s very tactical the way I see things from what they do.

Also there’s a very specific set of skill sets that you need to build in a specific order too.

One thing I’ve noticed about them as they take a massive amount of risk.

They don’t actually have any sort of sense of fear whatsoever.

Also I feel that working harder as I’m getting older it just drains my battery or energy very quickly.

I USED TO WORK SO HARD. YOU NEED THAT IN THE FIRST 10 YEARS. BUT AFTERWARDS YOU NEED TO BE MORE OPTIMIZED. HOWEVER, IF YOU ARE MORE OPTMIZED IN THE BEGINNING, NOT WORK HARD, YOU WILL DO LESS AND LESS AS TIME GOES ONE..

I much rather delegate the entire process of everything that I do know after reading a book by Ari Menzel.

He only worked one hour a week because he has crone’s disease in the past..

So so he figures out how to be super-efficient.

There are some things that are better delegated for example video editing.

but due to the sheer incompetence of other people and not working fast enough or adapting, almost seems counterintuitive.

But if I’m taking care of small things and putting on small fires in my business that I can’t focus on the big things.

I’m not hiring new people for video editing and if you show up saying “Hey I can edit your videos.”

There are some people that did that without any experience whatsoever and they don’t want to show me even a portfolio…

but they say they can do it.

You still gotta do it in a semi-professional way to some degree

And while I appreciate the gesture,

maybe even will give a Skype in exchange for video editing..

But I need somebody who is able to execute quickly on time period.

also there’s something called zapier.

It is a program that can connect different programs together let’s say I write a quick blog post then I get upload to zapier here,

then I’ll send it to somebody to check the spelling mistakes in grammar.

Then somebody else could go and make a video out of it or PowerPoint presentation.

You can trigger all this to happen with zapier program perfect

so really my time is extremely valuable these days as I’m getting older.

I may just start to schedule things in advance because writing one article at a time has been very time consuming.

People doesn’t give a fuck worrying about how to pay the bills for the low resilence foodstamp warriors.

I might even schedule some of my marketing in the YouTube post ahead of time ..

Or I may start to use content from videos transcripts and then move to other places.

I don’t know I’m trying to think of new ways to get something done

there’s always more efficient ways to get things done in the period

in the meantime I want to focus on coaching.

So join my coaching,

I’m trying to figure out more ways to reach other people.

The YouTube shorts seems to be a good way to reach a New audience.

But at the same time it kind of messes up my algorithms for the shorter videos is like Costco…

where they give you free food in small sample size.

But there’s no guarantee they’re gonna stay for the bigger things on the back end.

I hope you learned something…

I REHIRED MY VIDEO EDITOR. GAVE HIM THE MONEY TO BUY A NEW LAPTOP, NOT SUPER EXPENSIVE. BUT YEAH, WHEN HE FULLY GETS THE MONEY HE WILL START.

THE BLACK STUDENT ALWAYS HAS THIS BELIEF HE REFUSES TO CHANGE. IN HIS IGNORANCE, HE BURNT OUT.

HE DIDN’T WORK HARD FOR DAYGAME. HE WORKED SMART

He did Elite 30 12x in a row for the 30 day challenge

then collected the lays

Hes already wasting time as he contacts me a lot less.

This hustle culture is total bullshit in my experience

if you do work hard, then work smart too

I used to work non stop for the first 10 years

I didn’t burn out cause i’m the best daygame coach in the world…

So its easy for me

I enjoy what I do since it isn’t all about the money

but I make money without working hard now

as the millionare student taught me

He said I was burning out too, plus it is making me more angry when I talk on youtube live

so I did less of that,

I hope this makes sense.

I THINK HE WANTED A CULT OF WOMEN. MASSIVE FUCKING EGO BEFORE. YET HE CAN BARELY MAKE MONEY…

I THINK CULTURALLY THE MINDSETS IN HIS ENVIRONMENT, SELFISHNESS, SELF RIGHTOUSNESS DOESN’T HELP

Now he wants to help humanity

but level up some skills first outside of daygame

He could of got a sales job, but he delayed that

guess what happened, the recession is coming

they are cutting back…

sigh..

IF ANYTHING ALWAYS APPLY THE ELON MUSK 5 PRINCIPLES

Be less dumb..

elimintate unnecessary steps

don’t optimize what doesn’t need to be optimized

reduce the production time to get the car out of the factory

automation

if it already works, I might as well automate it somehow

save time time to focus on other things.

that moves the needle forward.

SOMETIMES YOU DON’T REALIZE HOW MUCH WORK DOES IT TAKE TO GET TH 3MP STUDENTS LAID. THEY PAID MORE, THEY HAVE MORE OF MY TIME. MY EXPERTISE, BEING MENTORED…


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