Why you are stubborn and resistant but can’t help it. Like your mind is your worst enemy in a bad dream. Possible solutions

I ACTUALLY WROTE THIS POST ON APRIL 14th,

I didn’t post this post because it is way too hard to write. It takes a lot of emotionalities to write it. But I’ll try my best to get to the point. This will hurt a lot of peoples ego, but bring clarity to a lot of my students and potential students.

 

 

DESCRIBING THE PROBLEM

A lot of people have told me, John, I don’t want to think with my lower self. I’m ALWAYS RESISTANT AND HAVE TO WIN THE ARGUMENT NO MATTER WHAT.

They tell me no matter what they have to be right.

They dismiss things and when you tell them to do something. They somehow use their own filter in their brain and royally fuck it up.

Its almost like they are delusional and can’t help it.

The ego is so resistant, that slows down your progress in daygame.

WHAT THE FLYING FVCK CAUSES THIS?

I don’t experience anything like this at all. I’m smart at one topic, but lots of things I don’t know. But I can ask.

 

 

EVERYTHING I TEACH YOU, YOUR LEFT DELUDED BRAIN TWIST THE INFORMATION

 

Ever notice some white dating coaches are deluded or some in general? You tell them something they listen and distort your information?

I’m teaching a student who already got 2 blow jobs from my training. How to turn his hair brown so he can raise his SMV looking more white.

He’s bleaching his hair now, I’m giving him instructions, but he messes it up every single time. Or say should I bleach my eyebrows?

I’M LIKE DUDE, YOU WILL GO BLIND, DON’T DO IT.

I’m teaching him how to make your hair brown with dye afterward. It seems like whatever I say, he distorts it.

 

 

DISTORTED PERCEPTIONS OF MY CLIENTS

It’s true of all clients with comorbidity. Multiple mental illnesses who get into the PUA world.

His hair is already brown now, this article was written before.

THE MOST FVCKED UP THING IS, NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY, THEY WILL TWIST YOUR WORDS. IF THEY WRITE IT DOWN FROM A WHITEBOARD STANDING NEXT TO YOU,

THEY CAN’T TWIST YOUR WORDS WITH THEIR LEFT LOGICAL DELUDED BRAIN.

THEY CAN’T CHANGE THE WORDS OF YOUR WHITEBOARD AS IF THEY ARE LISTENING TO IT THOUGH THEIR MESSED UP FILTER

 

 

JOHN, THAT SOUNDS LIKE ME EXACTLY, JOHN ELITE. WHAT IS THE MAIN CAUSE?

 

THE 10 TRAITS ARE THE REASON YOU ARE SO FUCKED UP

Look at trait # 5, 9, 10

 

There is your answer

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SINCE SOCIOPATHS ARE DELUSIONAL

  • They believe that they are always right and what they think through their filter is the truth. So they distort what you teach them. We call them hardcases in the industry. 
  • They are sociopathic narcissistic and Aspergers like with some depression and a touch of Attention deficiet. 
  • They never apologize and never admits they are wrong. 
  • Since they have to win at all cost, they can never admit they are wrong. 

 

The 33% concept.

Some people who make it at the top of any industry are sometimes 1 in 30 of them as CEOs are psychopaths. Not sociopaths.

They aren’t deluded. They are the CEOs and they are the presidents, they are the top of the top.

But sociopaths always are the low-level supervisors. Never going beyond.

They only make it to 33% of their industry and can’t move forward because they mentally dismiss things based on you guessed it…

  1. their delusions
  2. they have to win at all cost
  3. they never apologize and never feel wrong

 

It’s like the hardware of your brain is fucked.

Doesn’t matter if you have high SMV as a dating coach, this compliance from the girls just supports your delusions.

 

JOHN I’M IN A NIGHTMARE OF DELUSIONS AND IM BEGGING FOR SOLUTIONS

My first solution is to read this book on the right: EXTREME OWNERSHIP

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Ignore the book on the left. My Pakistani mentor taller guy told me to read it. I’m going to do it because I’m not delusional.

What are the reasons to read it? You don’t have to understand, just do it. Or you get in your head too much.

  • YOU WILL LEARN HOW ITS ALL YOUR FAULT AND NO ONE ELSE TO BLAME. When you stop shifting blame, you get brutally honest with yourself, you start to correct the mistakes and your brain follows your lead
  • Your filter will be overwritten and the hardcase part will be dramatically reduced.
  • THIS BOOK IS THE BIGGEST GOLD MINE FOR HARDCASES NEXT TO ELITE 30: SOCIAL SKILLS. Even I have talked about Navy Seal mindsets in my Elite 30 program on how to succeed at anything.
  • I’m actually going to hand this book to some of my local bootcamp students. They have to read it, required reading. This is such a good suggestion.

 

IF YOU MAKE A TON OF BULLSHIT EXCUSES, ARE EGOTISTICAL, JUST ORDER IT FROM AMAZON ALREADY

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The second you stop blaming everything else. The only thing you can blame is LMS. But you have to improve it first before you become delusional and go in the field approaching.

Or you become a RSD victim with a hoodie making non stop cold approaches giving up.

Just know in your delusional dream this is the way to wake up. Stack your LMS means raising your self-esteem which means lowering your ego?

YOU KNOW YOU CAN’T RAISE YOUR SELF ESTEEM OF GETTING NICER CLOTHING IF YOU DON’T HAVE MONEY MAKING SKILLS RIGHT?

Let us be real here. You begin to have a poor mans mentality.

 

 

THE 250K PHILIPPE PATEK HELPS

That’s my second suggestion. This watch my friend actually has it for 250k. Dan Pena suggested he get this watch.

Not sure if he was reading my blog or his lawyers were. Since I mention his name. I even met him. I want to say, keep up the good work. I’m the Dan Pena of this industry. As you said, get your willy wet industry, lol.

I’m also friends with multi-millionaires. I am in so many inner circles for every single area of life to make my life easier.

You can see us comparing watches.

While our watches are very similar, there are some differences.

My friends, most of my team has multi-million dollars.

By being around people like that will that raise my standards? Of course.

Get the $50 USD one. It feels just as expensive. I don’t buy expensive shit, but I buy stuff that looks almost identical to it.

 

RAISE YOUR SELF ESTEEM, ONLY WAY TO DEFEAT YOUR EGO. ONLY. NARCISSISM OR EGO ISN’T SELF ESTEEM BTW. UNLESS YOU ARE REALLY ACCOMPLISHED LIKE ME AT ONE FIELD OR DONALD TRUMP OR SOMEONE ELSE TOP OF THEIR FIELD, MAYBE SOME BRAGGING IS ALRIGHT. BUT EVERYONE ELSE, FVCK NO!

 

-John Elite

 

Check out this page. Consider getting Elite 30: From Hardcase To Hero. Or buy the bundle today. Yes, there is a bundle, you save and have more free Skype coaching that is worth $200 each. It’s insane the bonuses outweigh the actual product.

https://vancouverdaygame.wordpress.com/online-program/

 

The only two frames Asian men can fit into. Maybe 3 in Toronto and California. Want to learn more?

LETS GO OVER THE 6 FRAMES AGAIN THAT YOU FIT IN WITH WOMEN AS AN ASIAN GUY

Remember, an Asian guy has to make $240k to equal a tall white guy with a white t-shirt and blue jeans. Or the girl isn’t into you…

 

IN THIS VIDEO IT SHOWS AN ASIAN MAN STANDING NEXT TO A WHITE GUY

HE TOLD THE WOMEN THAT IT ISN’T A CONSCIOUS CHOICE. BUT SUBCONCIOUS, SHE ISN’T AWARE THEY WILL BE MORE INTO THE OTHER GUY

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  • Even if she finds the Asian guy cute, she won’t go on a date with him.
  • You even see other cringy PUA videos like asking other women if she likes Asian guys. The cringy ABCs of Embellishment videos.
  • THE WOMEN WILL SAY……. (long fucking pause thinking) YEAH I DO (to not sound racist)
  • Then they often get asked, HAVE YOU EVER DATED ONE?
  • They all say no… then
  • THEY GET ASKED, WOULD YOU DATE ONE? (they pause for a long time, say yes, to sound politcally correct)
  • WELCOME TO THE MOTHERFUCKING WORLD OF SMV, OR SEXUAL MARKET VALUE, WOMEN ARE SHALLOW.

 

6 FRAMES, BUT CELEBRITY STATUS DOESN’T HELP?

  1. PLAYER/FUCKBOI,SAME DAY LAY GUY
  2. BOYFRIEND PROVIDER
  3.  FRIENDZONED/OBIBITOR
  4. HUSBAND MATERIAL
  5. DADDY TO DAUGHTER FRAME
  6. HIGH/STATUS, CELEBRITY STATUS

 

CELEBRITY STATUS FAILED. I MEAN NAME ANY HOLLYWOOD ACTOR THAT IS ASIAN THAT IS CONSIDERED A ROMANTIC FIGURE? NONE.

This is about as good as it gets.

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Yeah I know, not exactly great right? Well…

 

 

THAT’S CALLED PRESELECTION

 

It means if other women likes you, then women will automatically like you.

But in Vancouver, you only see one Asian guy white girl couple once a month.

Nearly 500 white guy Asian girl mocking you a month.

This is where Asians are going to be screwed by preselection.

You will do better in Toronto, California and Eastern Europe being Asian.

 

K-POP HAS MORE PRESELECTION

If you’re a pretty boy type, you have more preselection with girls who likes K-Pop.

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K-Pop was the only media that helped launched Asians men into preselected people.

Before Gangnam style, I found game so hard.

There was no preselection and my fashion wasn’t on point.

I went to hell and back to get you this fashion and game. Field tested every combination.

 

EXOTIC FACTORS IN EUROPE

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First of all to eastern European women its easier if there isn’t a lot of people of your race in the country.

When you have an exotic factor, it is to your advantage.

THE PROBLEM IS IF THERE IS A LOT OF PEOPLE THERE OR MULTICULTRAL AND SEEN AS NEGATIVE, IT WILL BE HARDER FOR YOU.

 

PLACES THAT ARE ASIAN FRIENDLY

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IF YOU WERE SMART, WOULDN’T YOU JUST MOVE HERE IF YOU CAN?

They aren’t as hard for sure

South America, if you are safe it seems on tinder. Try not to get kidnapped.

Poland Warsaw

Prague kind of ugly girls

Berlin Germany, lots of hipster girls there

Ukraine Kiev only night time, day time super difficult to build trust, they think you are a sex tourist

Russia, becareful of fights, but most people will leave you alone

Estonia

Las Vegas

Toronto, huge preselection. Tons of white girl and Asian guy couples

Las Vegas, if you are into Asians, i’m not

PLACES HOSTILE TOWARDS ASIAN MEN

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Vancouver Canada, VANCOUVER CANADA, Vancouver Canada

Riga

San Francisco

London

 

Its just the brutal honest truth. Next post I will attack the dumb ass Indian egotistical PUAs. Not my students, they hate these types.

Then i’ll explain why the brain is so resistant to learning game. How to fix it by lower the defenses of the ego by raising self esteem.

UPDATES AND CONCLUSIONS

Update; Moral of the story is, if you are Asian under the 5’9 average. You really are considered less value compared to every other race.

Even an Indian PUA can whitewash himself and move his 2/10 natural status to 4/10 by improving his fashion. Since they have better bone structure.

Nobody talks about this, nobody does. But its just the truth everyone swept under the rug.

Sometimes it feels like a curse being Asian doesn’t it?

Yes race matters, its why a lot of Asians sticks to night game. Or night clubs because that requires no social skills or social calibrations or emotional intelligence.

WE HAVE TO EVOLVE AS A SPECIES. RECOGNIZE OUR EGO AND LEARN TO RAISE OUR SELF ESTEEM FIRST. SO WE CAN DRESS BETTER. THEN WORK ON OTHER ISSUES.

 

RESISTANCE IS GOOD, IT MAKES YOU GROW

I’VE DECIDED TO STAY AND FIGHT RATHER THAN MOVING TO AN EASIER COUNTRY.

THE SECRET IS ALWAYS ADAPT. THERE IS ALWAYS A STRATEGY TO WIN.

ITS NOT IMPOSSIBLE AND YOU SHOULDN’T PUSSY AWAY TO EASIER COUNTRIES.

THERE IS ALWAYS A WAY, YOU JUST HAVEN’T ADAPTED

YOU NEED RESISTANCE TO ADAPT.

 

MENTORS

MY TALL PAKISTANI MENTOR JUST SHOWED A PIC WITH HIM AND A FEW GIRLS TO RAISE MY STANDARDS. TALL BLONDES AND SHIT. 

HIS FILTER WAS ALWAYS STRONGER THAN MINE. 

HIS GAME MIGHT OF BEEN WORLD CLASS AND HE INSPIRED MY DIRECTION. 

YES HIS VALUE IS 6/10, IN TERMS OF NATURAL STATUS. HES NOT SHORT, BUT EVERYTHING ELSE OPENS THE DOORS. 

 

THE SHORT PAKISTANI MENTOR IS COMING ON MONDAY. I DECIDED TO LEARN EVERYTHING FROM HIM TOO. 

HIS GAME IS WAY MORE TRANSFERABLE. BOTH THE MENTORS CONTRIBUTED A LOT TO FINISHING THE LAST 10% OF MY GAME. 

EACH WILL COMPLETE THE LAST 5% TO MY GAME EACH. DAYGAME WILL BE COMPLETE.

I’ll field test it afterwards and they have no problems if it doesn’t work, i’ll discard. 

Each of the mentors doesn’t have a game that translates to Asians yet. But the shorter one transfers a lot better. 

 

EACH OF THEM HAS A DIFFERENT GAME. ALL OF US BELIEVE THE SHOES IS THE MOST IMPORTANT AND FASHION FOR OUR ADAPTATIONS IN VANCOUVER

ALL OF US BELIEVE THE VIBE IS SUPER IMPORTANT AND WE ALL ACKNOWLEDGE NOW THE SMV AND RACE CONCEPT AND ADAPTING TO IT.

Welcome to the real inner circle of players.

Their existence should of been not revealed.

Its tougher here than London or the United States. Its close to 4x tougher. 

 

 

WHAT FRAMES WOULD WORK FOR ASIANS?

High status makes more sense than celebrity status. It really does. I’ll be field testing an instagram and stuff. Everything is setup. My team of friends are building something. Stay tuned.

Husband material will work better than boyfriend material. Unless in Toronto where you have lots of Asian men with white women where you can use boyfriend frame.

Same day lay player frame can work if you are taller and has more muscles and good looking as an Asian. But that requires the maximum amount of game.

 

-John Elite