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The dreaded incels, (black pill)

To some degree they are right looks, money, status and game plays a big part of it.

But they don’t include game, which includes

1. social skills
2. social calibrations
3. emotional intelligence
4. game

Of course looking at just the looks, money, status part of the chart for online dating, obviously helps if you are tall and white.

They live in a fantasy world of having game easier.

While there are calibrations you can do, it isn’t a social skills or persuasion type.

Yes then you can clearly see a race hierarchy and how Asian men and black women are dead last when it comes to the race.

Of course there are stronger short Asians or tall good looking Asian men.

But you can see how Asian women prefer white men, there seems to be a hypergamy.

 

WHERE DO I DISAGREE WITH THE BLACK PILL? 

I’m a daygame coach with a ton of experience and I have a ton of students in every circumstances. They are usually what I call aspergers or autistic hardcases who are delusional.

They always make one excuse after another, then another excuse, then another excuse why its not their fault.

They have never taken extreme ownership.

BLAME YOUR AUTISM INSTEAD OF BLAMING WOMEN, WTH

You have to understand women’s mentality. Women like value, a potential husband material.

There is a value threshold you have to pass.

Since their mindsets are so fucked, it even affects what they call their microexpressions in their body language, since they love hunching and having a defeated look in their eyes, or face, even for that one microsecond.

Women can sense value and when I talk about limiting beliefs, this already limits the vibe

Of course women are shallow, of course, they look for value. When they scan you up and down when you first approach.

What is happening is they are trying to find some value.

It doesn’t matter where it comes from, just have to get over the 20/35 line.

Let us say you want to work on status, or a cool lifestyle. Even if your race was an Indian but whitewashed Indian which is a 4/10. Raise that, now its like 6/10 or 7/10 if you have a bunch of women around you.

That’s preselection and now your game doesn’t have to be as good.

You can start to work on other areas like dressing more whitewashed for your fashion and hairstyle. Now it’s much easier.

But some incels doesn’t even work on their social skills. Since they have Asperger’s syndrome.

WOMEN ARE SHALLOW, YES HEIGHT, RACE ALL THAT STUFF MATTERS, LOOKS IS ONLY ONE CATEGORY OF VALUE…

So you see tall white dating coaches saying does looks matter? What about all the other category?

Anyways, without social skills, the game is very hard for incels. So they go in a downward spiral. They start to have limitations in their mind.

Their thoughts affect their feelings and then action.

 

I’m saying, EVEN IF INCELS HAS PLASTIC SURGERY AND IMPROVED SOME FEATURES, WHICH MIGHT HELPED FROM A RECESSED CHIN. OR IF THEY LOOK MORE HANDSOME, THEY HAVE TO FIX THEIR VIBE FIRST

Even with that mindset and male model looks, it isn’t enough. Since the social skills and persuasion is impacted.

The emotions are completely wrong too for the emotional intellegence.

 

LOOKS, YOU CAN’T GET THIS WOMEN OF THIS SCORE

When I was mentored by someone, they say go after lower score to get an easy lay and work your way up.

That’s useful. But I have been used to approaching the hottest women I can find here for so many years building resistance, or adaptation.

Its kind of like playing a video game for example at the most difficult level and you are dying. Over and over and over.

Then somehow you find a way to adapt.

That particular strategy when you succeed can be transfered over.

Even better if your SMV is low, it works for almost anyone.

That’s why I don’t like daygaming at easier countries. While it can help your game it can limit it.

For the women I get, lets be real here, i’m like 5.5/10 for overall looks compared to a white guy and height, race. So the women are above my scale in value overall.

Keep that in mind, i’m not a tall handsome white coach with low levels of game and no testimonials.

 

 

ANOTHER NEW MENTOR IS AT THE MANSION, HE ONLY BANGS LIKE 10/10, 9/10 AND 8/10 WOMEN WITH NICE BODIES

The kind of women most dating coaches thinks is hot, fake tits, old, wrinkles, big forhead

I’m not sure exactly why. He doesn’t convert every women, but when he converts, its always way higher than normal.

Hes not that good looking, but he is above the 5’9 national average and that helps.

But once again these reality-bending people are naturals.

The cool thing is they all have the same advice, make her laugh, be chilled, comfort, they sharpen the knife with social skills, at some point seduction, banter, its all the same.

This actually makes more sense about women in general. Once again they all make more money than average people and they have some high value qualities, good social skills.

Its amazing because even my chiropractor before was a natural giving the same advice.

Comfort, not pushing things, all about this flow, wittiness, it keeps coming up as a theme.

The truth is what is one persons 8/10 is another persons. Its subjective. Some people like old looking women with fake tits and butter faces saying that’s hot.

I tend to like younger. If older she has to look hot. Imagine runway models or whatever, they are thin, pretty. That’s my type, even tall sometimes.

I might of ran out of limiting beliefs, but I covered some of the main ones.

Don’t let anyone limit you.

Yes the SMV chart I created is true of 90% but not the last 10%, there are natural and anomalies.

 

-John Elite

 

 

Once you have your inner mindsets down, it flows to your body language

Had a student taking Kaizen, first day he did his lessons he already got a date.

Yep, one of my concepts is outside in. Inside out.

What it means is if you already maxed out your outer game, you switch to inner game.

If you maxed out your inner game and plateaued, you switch back to outer game

Then you go back to inner game,

Then back to outer game.

 

You can try to disrupt the flow by fixing the body language which is Kaizen or Elite 30.

When the outside is changed and everyone is treating you differently, then the inside changes. for your beliefs or thoughts.

You can go in an upward spiral or downward spiral depending

Just don’t plateau.

 

One student just got a date learning Kaizen on his first day of the course.

Another student in 3MP is using Kaizen and it turns out his fast thoughts and his fast speech affected the way he moves his body.

While I think mindsets are important, I’ve always been more of an outer game guy, outside in.

That’s why I have so much student results.

 

Check out Kaizen, might be exactly what you need all along

Bad habits takes 21 days to change. Elite 30 is a 30 day challenge. Kaizen course is 31 days.

Your tonality can also affect your body language

Speak too fast, too unnatural, guess what, your hand gesture are going to be screwed up.

Also your bad body language affects your speech, its all related.

AT SOME POINT YOU WILL NEED A GREAT INTERVENTION TO BREAK YOUR BAD HABITS AND LOOK CREEPY

https://johnelite.com/kaizen/

I’m trying to redesign the site. Between looking more professional or functional.

There are so many testimonials, it is slowing down the site.

I know that seems weird, but i’m a victim of my own student success.

I don’t know what to tell you.

I’m not a marketer. I don’t claim to know how to be a good PUA marketer.

Sometimes it isn’t about who is the best dating coach. But the one people knows.

Most are envious of me, but at the same time, I still get students with a fraction of the YouTube views and subscribers because students wants results.

 

-John Elite