What You Don’t Know About How To Accept Mistakes To Grow Could Hurt You

Mistakes are tolerable, but never to be repeated

Hardcases, take notes

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This is something I tell a lot of students. Why hardcase students keeps making mistakes, they don’t change anything they do.

But I tolerate mistakes, I encourage you to experience some mistakes first, doing it your way. But I step in and I won’t tolerate it if it happens over and over again.

THOSE ARE NO LONGER MISTAKES, NOW IT IS A CHOICE

I’m just saying, once you know your mistakes, a lot of you repeat them by habit. That’s not okay if you keep doing it over and over.

That’s the definition of insanity.

Or some people improves for a month and does the same shit afterwards. Mostly due to the habits and mindsets.

 

Maybe I led to you to think… that it was easy. To get most of my students laid or pulling. Maybe I made you think it was easy… its not

Everything you see that looks like the midas touch. Which means everything you touch turns into gold. It didn’t get that way over night.

I remember the first bunch of people I coached for free when I started out. 

I DID THAT FOR A FUCKING YEAR. I TAUGHT EVERY SYSTEM AND JUSTIN WAYNES SYSTEM WAS ONE OF THE LAST ONES.

I needed to try every combination. To see what works and what didn’t. I already got a lot of testimonials this way.

My process is try everything and see what sticks.

Of course, I also tried many wordpress themes. Most of it looks like shit, I like this one. But I am willing to discard something right away if it didn’t work and field test it.

 

 

Michael Jordan missed a lot of jump shots, a lot of game winning baskets, but people only remember him for his winning baskets, not the failures. Also his 6 championship rings

Since there is 10% a younger audience 18-24, not everyone knew who was Micheal Jordan or got to see him play. He was my hero growing up. The worlds best basketball player. But for all his failures, he also succeeded.

Even for you guys, if you made like a ton of approaches but you got the most epic lay with a women way past your looks scale. Do you remember all of the failures? Or do you remember the success?

A lot of people have this mental thing that if they made a mistake and failed, they fear failure.

Keep sight on your goal and do whatever it takes to not give up.

Burn all boats behind you and adapt.

Don’t have a plan B as I told my student the other day, always have a plan A and see a clear vision of what you want and keep adapting until you get it.

Or find the right mentors, people like myself.

I don’t care if you go to other places, that’s your lower self thinking. OR LOWER SELF ESTEEM.

You know the students gets so much results, you keep arguing and resisting because you have an ego.

 

 

YOU HAVE TO GET THOUGH THE SHIT TO GET TO THE GOOD

You have to go though mistakes first before you get to the good stuff.

TRY TO THINK MISTAKES ARE A LEARNING EXPERIENCE OF WHAT NOT TO DO. A LESSON I EXPERIENCED IN THE WORST WAY POSSIBLE.

In less than 20 days I would of been in the game for 18 years, a long time.

I remember making my first cold approach in University and just failing badly using this lay guide thing.

It was an old document they posted online before the book the game.

I used it and there was a lot of racism back then. I was in uncharted territories.

I stuck with it and kept adapting.

 

There are a lot of naturals and daygame systems and few dating coaches and mostly myself field testing putting all the small pieces together to make up this daygame system.

 

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My talent wasn’t as just using opinions as facts, but my talent is discarding what didn’t work for lower SMV.

that was my talent and I think if people spends this much time in the game. Almost everyone will draw the same conclusion as me.

MY MENTOR WHO TRAINED ME 5 YEARS AGO IN SETUP GAME, HE IS THE BIGGEST GEAR OF ALL. THE SHOES, THE WATCHES, LIFESTYLE, ALL THE SHIT I IGNORED BECAUSE I JUST WANTED TO DO DAYGAME. TEXT GAME TOO. FASHION.

He used to say why make it hard on yourself. Why cock block yourself. You are your own worst enemy.

Over time I realized he was right.

He was the best PUA I know with the best results in daygame. MPUA.

 

I get to field test it and give you guys the technology once its translated and field tested on my lower smv.

It speeds up the process.

You always see my game evolving like an A.I, but I don’t know what. But it keeps leading to more and more student results.

That’s my rant, go out there and make mistakes.

When you own the Elite 30 and Playbook.

Playbook has a sale this month, 3 skypes. I mean 3 Skypes cost more than the deal right now. That’s $600 already to skype with me 3x. The skypes along is worth more than the product.

You get so much out of it and elite playbook has influences from every daygame system in the world. Some bigger cogs some smaller one.

But the ones that hurt my recent students was saying do you remember my name? Oh you broke my heart.

NOT EVERYONE FIT INTO A BOYFRIEND PROVIDER FRAME TO USE ROMANCE.

Not everyone is a positive stereotype. Doing that gets you auto rejected and is a mistake.

 

 

THE MOST SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE SIMPLY FAILED MORE THAN YOU DID AND CALIBRATED. THE CALIBRATION PROCESS DEPENDS ON THE SMV OF THE COACH, HIGHER IS NOT TRANSFERABLE

He failed in 13 businesses and never failed again at the 14th. He learned from all his mistakes. He did whatever it takes.

DAN LOK

A lot of white dating coaches doesn’t realise what works for them doesn’t mean it works for a short Asian guy.

Also if tall positive stereotype students are getting results who are white, black or Latino. That isn’t game, that is something else. SMVing it.

But the people who are the most successful tends to fail the most.

 

HOPE YOU LEARNED SOMETHING, FAILURE OF MISTAKES ARE A LEARNING EXPERIENCE. DON’T LET IT GET YOU DOWN. TRY NEW SHIT BECAUSE THE DEFINITION OF INSANITY IS DOING THE SAME THINGS OVER AND OVER AGAIN EXPECTING DIFFERENT RESULTS

LIKE GOING TO RSD, GETTING FREE ADVICE WEARING HOODIES AND GETTING NO RESULTS

 

 

-John Elite

 

 

 

part 4 bootcamp series, don’t miss this, 2 same day lay 2 pulls, Asian student bootcamp

You don’t want to miss this one, it is actually very enjoyable to watch the student improving dramatically.

When you have a coach in ear coaching you, fixing one issue at a time. You tend to get better and better and better.

My theory is all the students will pull or get laid once they fix all their issues.

I attack one issue at a time until the can do it.

OR I DO A TON OF DRILLS UNTIL IT IS FIXED

Every bootcamp is different catered to your strengths and weaknesses. No two bootcamps are taught the same.

 

THAT’S GREAT JOHN, WHAT IS YOUR BRAND THEN FOR THE COMPANY? I’M THE FUCKING BRAND, JOHN ELITE

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You know what the fuck I stand for. I hate white dating coaches who screws over minorities, sure…

You know I fucking hate Asian dating coaches because they don’t teach daygame well, its all funneled to night game, they suck it off.

Or they go to RSD or something else that is comforting.

 

 

I’LL TELL YOU A STORY, ONE GUY BOUGHT MY ELITE BUNDLE AND WENT TO RSD’S BOOTCAMP

One guy just found out about my bootcamp but he already paid RSD for coaching.

But he wanted to learn my system first before taking RSD bootcamp.

He was like oh fuck, john was right. He can’t refund it now can withdrawl his money.

I’m sure now after watching this bootcamp series, he is like oh fuck.

This is only one of many bootcamp documentaries. This is nothing, this is just the beginning.

You will see more, thanks to my new video editor guy who did an amazing job censoring faces for me.

 

 

FOR SOME PEOPLE THEY MIGHT BE SCARED OF ME

John is just like Dan Pena, he is so fucking tough as nails. I’m scared.

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  • Now that you stop being scared, go use your vagina cream.
  • First of all if you are my students, you get yelled at you actually go do shit.
  • Its like you tell me your god damn fucking excuses and I tell you, that you are a cunt. Or a coward.
  • Then I call you out on your shit and you get in fucking line.
  • Its like the Navy Seals or a drill sergeant.
  • When people finished and got laid, most of them sometimes can ghost me or hate me. But they can’t deny they never would of got there without me.
  • You also don’t realize and most people doesn’t realize why I spent 10 hours with you per day on bootcamps, not 4.
  • BECAUSE I CARE YOU DUMB FUCK, YOU ARE ALL LIKE FAMILY
  • I can only be me, without a fucking mask..
  • All the dating coaches wants to say this shit, they want to tell you the truth, race matters, all that shit. Muscles matter, fashion matters, social skills matters. But they can’t say it. They are wearing a mask.
  • I think a lot of students enjoys this style of talking. They enjoy it because it really resonates with them.

 

 

You think is this the right place for you? Unless you are tall, a positive stereotype, it doesn’t matter what you take, you will eventually get results. But if you are a negative stereotype, this is the only place to be taking a bootcamp

If you see positive stereotypes getting results in game who are tall. That’s called positive stereotype game or pos game or piece of shit game.

Its just enough flirts to get over the line of fuckability.

What is more impressive is getting Asian men or guys who are totally negative stereotypes that kind of results.

You see them in my testimonials yet you don’t ese that for others in daygame. Why?

You don’t even see daygame results for other big name Asian dating companies. Its all night game. They think daygame is tough.

 

 

My YouTube Analytics have changed. Most of my students are well established technical field 25- and up. Now I have 18-24 year olds

One guys said John you are 23 years old or no older than 24.

This is one of the other resistance because people thinks i’m 19 years old teaching game so they are like well if he is a teenager, then if i’m young, why should I listen to him?

Sometimes people thinks i’m 27. It is different for everyone. Most people are surprised when they know my real age.

Now 10% of the audience are 18-24. Which is great.

 

I SWEAR I AM NOT A 24 YEAR OLD, EVEN IF IT IS HARD TO TELL. I’M ACTUALLY THE FIRST DAYGAMER WHO ISN’T A NATURAL DOING DAYGAME USING THE LAY GUIDE.

I’m in the game for 17 years and in Sept next month, 18 years.

You are getting a veteran of the game.

THE REASON WHY YOU SEE ONE TESTIMONIAL AFTER ANOTHER IS SIMPLY BECAUSE I ALREADY MADE A TRILLION MISTAKES, SO I KNOW WHAT TO AVOID.

 

 

THERE IS ONLY 40 YOUTUBE VIDEOS

This is the 40th video and I get it, there isn’t a lot of videos.

So you have to make judgements based on my YouTube.

Since I’m kind of lazy, I can’t do all this video editing shit myself, i’m training the video guy to do it. So you guys will have more content so I can focus on building more stuff. Like that free course for Asian men.

Why make a course for Asian men when most of my students are non Asian?

I WANT TO TAKE AWAY ALL OF YOUR EXCUSES, SO YOU HAVE NO ONE ELSE TO BLAME

ALSO I WANT TO GIVE BACK, GIVE YOU A SAMPLE AND SOME OF YOU WILL GET MY COURSES.

I understand from a cold traffic point of views, lots of new students who are younger now.

They might not have the money to afford a bootcamp yet.

 

 

I think a lot of people are afraid of opening up to me. Pickup or their sex life, their struggles are very personal. But I am someone who understands it well.

I totally get it, but my students opens up to me because I am brutally honest as hell on Youtube.

They aren’t afraid because they know I will diagnose them very accurately.

I know what a lot of you go though, am I right?

  • Crazy narcissistic controlling parents
  • You don’t have many friends, your a loner
  • You feel angry that women doesn’t give you the time of day when approaching
  • You have been spam approaching non stop
  • You got no results whatsoever and you did it for months after months
  • You can’t even socialize in a social circle
  • you feel like you are in a nightmare of delusional thoughts and evil thoughts you can’t control, but you feel you are somehow 100% right as you feel in your brain but nothing ever works
  • You can barely hold down a job sometimes and you have money problems
  • You are narcissisistic as hell

 

 

Check out my bootcamp page, you don’t have to be a big brand or a marketer to take someones bootcamp, it is the coach.

This coach brings results

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