Author: vancouverdaygame

70 views I make a new video. You could of had daily videos, had you watched it more and like it more.

Alexithymia and the Emotionless Student

Let’s talk about alexithymia… a lack of emotions.

I’ve noticed some students struggle with this, especially one Asian student who completely failed this week.

He had no facial expressions, none at all. Even when his face moved, it was completely incongruent… like the opposite of where it needed to be.

It wasn’t just him, though. Many students have similar issues.

Some look teary-eyed, almost like they’re crying, while forcing a fake smile.

They don’t know what to do with their faces…

just like how some Chinese people don’t know what to do with their hands, moving them awkwardly in the same spot three times.

For facial expressions, it’s the same thing.

Some students can hold an expression for five seconds and feel something, while others hold it indefinitely and feel nothing.

A lot of unteachable cases share this problem.

They’re emotionally blind.

When they speak, they either sound angry or depressed, but they can’t feel it themselves.

Latinos, for example, often have a frown… an upside-down smile.

It’s like those mugshots from ICE raids; the bigger the frown, the bigger the crime.

They might have feelings, but they lack true emotions.

It’s a recurring issue, and it’s something that separates those who succeed from those who don’t.

I thought I had this before, until I used the Mental Trauma Cure program.

That dissapeared, I have about 25% of emotions now.

But the general population has 75% more than me.

But the students here has 25% less than me.

Never trust the person who said they are the most emphatheic people they know…

They are often the most self deception and machevellian laying to themselves they are winners protecting their massive fucking ego.

Elite Tonality Mastery: Your Golden Ticket to Success

Previous video, stuck at 80 views, wtf. Make it 100 views, incase you missed it.

Elite Tonality Mastery has been updated with five new videos.

It’s in early access, but don’t worry…

early access courses like Elite 30 and Elite Playbook always get updated for years until they’re perfect.

This course is already delivering results, and I’m supervising every step to ensure your success.

The focus is on fixing your tonality, which is key to getting your foot in the door.

Your facial expressions and body language directly affect your state of mind, which shapes your tonality and, ultimately, your words.

You won’t need to memorize anything…

this course rewires how you naturally communicate.

If you’re ready to upgrade, it’s simple…

just put down one-third of the price, $333.

May is coming up fast, and this is your chance to grab the golden ticket to getting laid.

The course is growing, and so are the number of students seeing results.

Don’t miss out.

The course might be so big, bigger than Elite Playbook.

I’m not editing in a way for filler content, this is the juice, not the pulp.

You can even hear the other students practicing and realized why they kept getting laid non stop last year.

They all practiced this.

49 minutes, cut down from hours.

2 hours and 23 minutes

30 minutes. This was filmed a few days ago. New exclusive content.

1 hour and 24 minutes.

This is 5.1 hours and I am only getting started. This is almost bigger than Elite 30. Plenty more to follow.

I’m editing the next video soon.

Root Rotting and Crashing Out: Why It Happens

This was the third last video.

I can only write so fast, so forgive me for slowly updating this section. I’m trying.

Marco asked why he was rotting, and here’s the explanation.

Think of a plant that’s been overwatered. Its roots get deprived of oxygen, bacteria grows, and it starts to rot.

The same thing happens to people when they’re overwhelmed by tasks or stressed by inflation and tariffs.

This stress triggers the winner and loser effect.

The more someone loses, the more cortisol builds up in their system.

It keeps them stuck in survival mode, stressed out, and physically affected…

like developing a double chin from the cortisol.

Marco isn’t the same as he was last year. He’s rotting because he’s not completing tasks, making excuses, and spiraling downward.

Every time he avoids finishing his work, it chips away at his self-esteem.

Low self-esteem leads to four key issues:

1. Delusion – Convincing yourself you’re fine when you’re not.
2. Laziness – Half-assing tasks more and more.
3. Bad Decisions – Making choices that blow up later.
4. Quitting – Giving up entirely and becoming a zombie in a downward spiral.

This year, people are crashing out weekly.

But those who still have self-esteem can break this cycle by completing tasks.

Every finished task adds to their emotional bank account and builds confidence.

Marco’s situation is a reminder that fixing the root cause is the only way to stop the rot.

Root Rot, I put hydrogen proxcide on the left plant. I can’t save it from rotting to the core. Like you cortisol filled loser zombies. Due to the winner and loser effect. The delusional people who are in denial because they are zombies…

Recently, I’ve noticed a troubling trend…some students lack a working memory.

Third last video, give it some views. Get it to 100 views.

I can’t focus, so it might take me some time to completely finish this blog post. I’m trying.

When cortisol floods their system, it damages neural pathways.

They can’t learn anything new…

and worse, they forget what they learned just the day before.

Facial expressions, drills… it’s all erased.

These students are stuck in survival mode, trapped in the winner and loser effect.

When they’re broke, they can’t retain anything because their minds are in constant fight-or-flight mode.

The worst cases are the sociopaths.

They refuse to take responsibility and cling to past successes, convincing themselves they’re still “winners.”

But they’re lying to themselves to protect their egos.

Their manipulation isn’t directed at others…

it’s aimed at themselves.

It’s like they’re part of the dark tetrad…

self-destructive, delusional, and completely out of touch with reality.

This frustration leads to even more cortisol and ADHD-fueled chaos.

It’s the same pattern I see with Latino behavior:

1. One-track mind – Stubborn, with no willingness to adapt.
2. Wrong path – Sociopathic decisions that backfire in months.
3. Meltdown – Emotional collapse, like an Asian student I saw today.
4. Rage quit – They give up out of frustration.
5. Resurrect – They try again, only to repeat the cycle.

Latinos tend to repeat this three times before disappearing.

For others, it’s once or twice, and they’re gone for good.

It’s frustrating to watch…

but it’s a pattern that keeps repeating itself.

The Winner Effect: How to Stop Losing

The only way out of this spiral is to trigger the winner effect.

If you lose, cortisol floods your system.

You lose your hair, gain a double chin, and your mind becomes foggy.

That’s why I make sure to finish everything I start.

I don’t half-ass anything, even when it’s early access.

The course will be upgraded to perfection later…

but for now, I focus on getting the work done.

Zombies, on the other hand, can’t even show up for four days straight.

They disappear for weeks and drown themselves in cortisol.

They’re losing on purpose.

To break free, you must force yourself to keep winning.

Winning clears your mind and gives you momentum.

Supplements can also help, especially with ADHD.

But zombies dismiss things like this.

They lack supplments to fuel their zombie brain.

You need to fuel your brain to temporarily turn back into a human.

Just long enough to get things done.

Each task you complete deposits into your emotional bank account.

That’s how you stop losing and start winning.

The John Elite Army: Rebuilding for Success

The John Elite Army needs to grow, and I’m ready to push harder than ever.

A lot of the reserve unit…

past students who were consistently getting laid, are crashing out.

It’s like soldiers with PTSD. They’re no longer operational.

Every week, another one crashes out, and it’s frustrating to see.

That’s why we need fresh recruits.

Not just anyone, though. We need people with resilience, discipline, and the ability to put in the work.

These zombies who procrastinate and rot away aren’t cutting it.

We need new blood… metaphorically speaking.

I’m looking for students who are hard cases—not unteachable or impossible ones.

With the right mindset and training, hard cases can become normal cases.

But they need to have low cortisol, no double chins, and the resilience to handle pressure.

In May, I’m launching the Mayday Game Challenge…

a five-day challenge to recruit and train the next wave of students.

The mission is simple: rebuild the army with students who can deliver results and bring in more laid testimonials.

The John Elite Army is ready to grow.

Are you ready to join?

Thats really all I can think of, except you should get Elite Bundle Resurrections.

You snooze, you lose.

-John Elite

Navigating the world of daygame has always been a challenge, but has it truly become more difficult over the years?

Let’s dive into the shifts and strategies that define the current landscape and explore how you can thrive despite the obstacles.

I’m John Elite the worlds best daygame coach with 656 laid and pulled testimonials, and I’m here to shed light on the evolving dynamics of daygame.

2020-2021: The Pandemic Era

When the pandemic hit in 2020, daygame faced unprecedented challenges.

Lockdowns and social distancing made traditional approaches nearly impossible, and those relying on mass approach tactics from RSD (Real Social Dynamics) were the first to fail.

Without the skills to adapt, they found themselves floundering, unable to make meaningful connections.

However, for those with social intelligence, this period offered a unique opportunity to stand out.

With fewer people on the streets, a well-calibrated approach could yield significant results.

It was a time when other daygame coaches recycled old testimonials, creating an illusion of success that didn’t reflect the current reality.

The truth is, while the landscape shifted, the core principles of effective daygame remained unchanged.

2022-2024: The Inflation Impact

As we moved into 2022, the economic landscape began to change with the onset of inflation.

While the initial effects were subtle, by 2023 and 2024, the impact became undeniable.

Rising costs and economic uncertainty affected everyone, including women, influencing their social and dating behaviors.

Women became more discerning, constantly evaluating interactions based on relative SMV (Sexual Market Value) using my 20/35 system.

This system evaluates looks, money, status, social skills, calibrations, emotional control, and game, all crucial factors in navigating this new landscape.

Women were no longer just using emotional reasoning; they began to think more logically, leading to increased objections and challenges for traditional pickup artists.

Despite these hurdles, my students continued to succeed, leveraging their refined skills and adaptability.

Their ability to navigate these complex dynamics is why I have 659 laid and pulled testimonials for daygame.

2025 and Beyond: Mastering the Arrow Science

In 2025, the economic landscape continues to evolve, but my students are prepared.

They’ve mastered the Arrow Science, a comprehensive approach that combines social skills, calibrations, and emotional control to create a powerful framework for success.

The Arrow Science is about precision and adaptability, allowing them to maneuver through complex social dynamics with ease.

By focusing on the three components—the arrow tip, body, and feather—they’ve honed their abilities to perfection.

The arrow tip represents their game, maneuvering and sexualizing interactions to overcome objections.

The arrow body encompasses their social skills, calibrations, and emotional control, providing a stable foundation for success.

The arrow feather symbolizes their V-shaped body and white-washed fashion, enhancing their appeal and ensuring their approach flies true.

This holistic approach has empowered my students to achieve consistent results, even in a challenging environment.

Their mastery of the Arrow Science sets them apart from the competition, allowing them to succeed where others falter.

The journey through these years has been one of adaptation and growth, proving that with the right strategies, success is not only possible but inevitable.

Imagine this: You muster up the courage to approach, armed with your rehearsed lines and statements.

But as the interaction unfolds, you find yourself trapped in a cycle of short, dismissive responses.

Your heart sinks as you realize she’s not engaged, not interested, and you’re once again left standing there, feeling invisible and inadequate.

The pressure mounts with each failed attempt, eroding your confidence and leaving you questioning your worth.

You’re not just battling external obstacles; you’re waging an internal war against self-doubt and insecurity.

Every interaction feels like a test you’re destined to fail, and the weight of repeated rejection is crushing.

You see others succeed and wonder why you can’t break through, why your efforts seem to vanish into thin air.

It’s a torturous cycle, one that leaves you feeling isolated and defeated, convinced that true connection is beyond your reach.

The pain of seeing others thrive while you struggle is a constant reminder of your shortcomings, a relentless echo that chips away at your confidence and self-worth.

The pandemic and inflation have only intensified these feelings, adding layers of complexity and pressure to an already challenging landscape.

As you watch the world change around you, the fear of being left behind grows, leaving you trapped in a cycle of frustration and despair.

But it doesn’t have to be this way. The cycle can be broken, and I’m here to show you how.

Break the Statement Cycle

Stop relying on cold read statements that lead nowhere.

The truth is, moving from one topic to another with meaningless statements and questions is a dead-end strategy.

These outdated methods leave you stuck in a loop of short answers and disinterest.

Instead, focus on engaging her with meaningful conversation, creating a genuine connection that goes beyond surface-level chit-chat.

My students learn to break free from the statement cycle, using body language and presence to build attraction naturally.

They understand that true connection isn’t about what you say, but how you make her feel.

By shifting the focus from statements to engagement, they create interactions that are dynamic, genuine, and fulfilling.

This approach not only breaks the cycle but opens the door to deeper, more meaningful connections.

You see, statements alone can’t capture her interest; they lack the depth needed to spark genuine curiosity.

My students know that by integrating subtle cues and active listening, they can guide the conversation toward topics that resonate with her interests and emotions.

This creates a fluid exchange, where both parties are actively engaged, leading to a natural flow that keeps her intrigued and invested.

By mastering this technique, my students turn mundane interactions into memorable encounters, setting the stage for authentic attraction.

They learn to adapt their approach, using the context of the conversation to build rapport and connection.

This adaptability is key in navigating the complexities of modern dating, where every interaction is unique and requires a tailored approach.

Through practice and refinement, my students have honed their ability to engage meaningfully, making each interaction a stepping stone to deeper connection and success.

Ditch the Clown Act

Stop acting like a gamey clown and start building real attraction.

People love to be gamey, witty, and self-amusing, but this rarely works.

Trying to win her over by acting like a clown only puts you off balance and undermines your credibility.

She sees through the act, recognizing that you can’t even talk to her normally.

My students let their body language do the attraction building, eliminating the need to rely on cocky humor.

By focusing on presence and authenticity, they create a natural, compelling attraction that speaks volumes without words.

This is why pickup artists often get a bad name—because they rely on superficial tactics that lack substance.

Pairing direct compliments and validation with gamey antics is a recipe for disaster.

Instead, my students cultivate genuine interest and connection, building attraction through authenticity and presence.

They understand that true confidence comes from within and isn’t dependent on flashy antics or exaggerated personas.

By embracing their true selves, they create a sense of authenticity that resonates with women on a deeper level.

This genuine approach not only fosters trust and rapport but also establishes a foundation for lasting attraction.

My students learn to read subtle cues and respond with genuine interest, creating a dynamic interaction that feels organic and real.

This shift from superficial tactics to authentic engagement is what sets them apart, allowing them to connect with women in a way that feels natural and unforced.

They focus on building a connection that is rooted in mutual respect and understanding, rather than relying on gimmicks or tricks.

This approach not only enhances their appeal but also builds a foundation for meaningful relationships that go beyond surface-level attraction.

By prioritizing authenticity and presence, my students create interactions that are both impactful and memorable, setting the stage for lasting connection and success.

Master the Social Skills Flow Drill

Unlock the secret to making her talk more and build genuine connection.

The key to successful daygame isn’t about mass approaching and hoping for the best.

It’s about mastering the art of conversation, using the social skills flow drill to engage her on a deeper level.

While I can’t teach you the drill here, I can bring awareness to its power.

My students use a three-step process to take what she’s talking about and make her talk more.

This secret is reserved for those who train with me, but it transforms interactions by making her backward rationalize her interest in you.

The more she talks, the more likely she is to trust you, like you, and be willing to go home with you.

This is why my students don’t rely on mass approaches—they focus on quality interactions that yield real results.

The three-step triangular social skills flow drill extracts maximum conversation, creating a foundation for genuine connection and attraction.

This is where my students excel, using the drill to engage, connect, and ultimately succeed in daygame.

They recognize that a woman’s willingness to engage in conversation is a powerful indicator of her interest.

By encouraging her to share more, they create a space where she feels heard and valued.

This approach not only builds rapport but also enhances their understanding of her desires and motivations.

My students are skilled at guiding the conversation in a way that feels natural, allowing her to open up and express herself freely.

This creates a sense of intimacy and connection, paving the way for deeper interactions and genuine attraction.

The social skills flow drill empowers them to navigate complex social dynamics with ease, turning casual encounters into meaningful connections.

They understand that by fostering a genuine connection, they can create interactions that are both impactful and lasting.

This approach not only enhances their appeal but also builds a foundation for meaningful relationships that go beyond surface-level attraction.

By prioritizing authenticity and presence, my students create interactions that are both impactful and memorable, setting the stage for lasting connection and success.

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Don’t Miss Out: Summer is Coming

If you’re serious about transforming your dating life, now is the time to act.

Summer is less than a week away, and this is your golden opportunity to prepare yourself for the most active season in daygame.

Here’s the truth:

Elite Bundle Resurrections, including Elite Tonality Mastery, isn’t just a course—it’s a system designed for winners.

It’s for those who have GRIT:

• Growth mindset to adapt and learn.
• Resilience to overcome challenges.
• Instinct to know when to act.
• Tenacity to keep pushing forward.

If you’re the kind of person who rocks easily, who’s stuck in ADHD delusions, or who lacks focus and memory, this isn’t for you.

This is for people who are ready to win.

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Why Early Access is a Game-Changer

I’ve been keeping these secrets from you for years.

The techniques in Elite Tonality Mastery are so advanced, they’ve left students completely freaked out by how powerful they are.

This course is early access, but that’s the beauty of it—you get to use it now, while I continue to refine and expand it.

It’s like having access to UFO technology before anyone else.

And the best part? You don’t need every single piece to start seeing results.

The students who’ve already joined are collecting lays like trophies. 65 laid and pulled testimonials just last year prove that this system works.

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Your Golden Ticket to Success

This is your golden ticket to achieving the dating life you’ve always wanted.

For just $333/month for 3 months, or $1,000 upfront, you’ll gain access to:

✅ Elite 30: Build unshakable social skills.
✅ Elite Tonality Mastery: Fix your tonality, hide cortisol, and sound confident.
✅ Elite Playbook: Master the tactics for daygame success.
✅ Elite Access (1 year): Personalized WhatsApp consultation to keep you on track.
✅ 10 Skype sessions for tailored coaching.
✅ Exclusive Bonus Soundtrack (only 7 spots left).

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Act Now or Miss Out

This is your chance to stop being a loser and start winning.

But if you wait, you’ll miss the window to prepare for summer, when women are more approachable and your opportunities to succeed skyrocket.

The longer you wait, the more you risk falling behind.

Click below to join Elite Bundle Resurrections now, and take the first step toward dominating daygame this summer:

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P.S.

This isn’t for everyone.

It’s for those who are coachable and ready to change.

If you’re serious about success, Elite Bundle Resurrections will give you the edge you need.

Invest in yourself today—your future results depend on the actions you take right now.