WATCH THIS VIDEO, YOU WILL LEARN SO MUCH FROM IT. YOU CAN LITERALLY MAKE A GUIDE OUT OF IT.. TO BE LESS THIN SKINNED..
THERE ARE A TYPE OF STUDENTS CALLED THE THIN SKINNED ASPIES.
THEY ARE OFTEN GOOD LOOKING TALL,
BUT THEY QUIT MUCH FASTER THAN THE OTHER STUDENTS.
WHY DOES IT HAPPEN?
WATCH THIS VIDEO FOR TIPS ON HOW TO FIX IT.
NAVY SEALS, OFTEN TIME THE BIGGER GUY DOES WORST THAN THE SMALLER GUYS…
They are the first ones to quit.
IN THE NAVY SEALS, HELL WEEK, IF YOU RING THE BELL YOU ARE OUT OF THERE.. BUT SOME PEOPLE QUIT, THEN YOU SAY COME BACK, THEY ALREADY MADE THE DECISION DUE TO THIN SKIN…. EVEN IF THEY HAVE MORE SMV THAN THEIR PEERS..
The shorter guys has more to prove, mentally tougher. Just like in the Navy Seals, they have more to prove…
4 STUDENTS
KOREAN
WHITE
INDIAN
CHINESE
IT HURTS YOUR EGO MORE WHEN THEY HAVE LOOKS
When a low SMV student fails, it makes sense.
But when you have a student who is talking fast, due to cortisol, who has a fight flight, freeze response, mostly flight, they run fast.
It hurts their ego more, since they have every advantage.
But they realized if John Elite can’t help them, which I can they will quit… but they quit too early…
You are not beyond helpless…
THEY FOR SOME UNKNOWN REASON QUIT EXACTLY WITHIN A WEEK USUALLY OR 10 DAYS… ITS ALMOST UNIVERSAL FOR THE THIN SKINNED ASPIES
if they just commit and be able to have the resilience to finish the fight.
Since it takes 21 days to develop a habit, they would of permanently fixed their problem enduring pain for 3 weeks….
ASPERGERS, LOGICAL JOBS, ONLY GOOD AT ONE SKILL, SUCKS AT EVERYTHING ELSE.
They can only do one skill well at a professional level. THIS IS CALLED THE NARROW FOCUS…
Everything else they suck at..
that eats away are their self esteem..
For me I worked out for 21 days, it was very hard, but now it is a habit.. or at least I think it is near 21 days.
Intermitting fasting was kind of tough, I had 2 cheat meals, that’s not good never again, that’s not grit
I used to intermitting fast all day, for years, then I ate one mega big meal… full of junk, but it didn’t matter, since it didn’t raise my insulin like a bunch of small meals.. healthy or not…
NO GRIT, NO MENTAL TOUGHNESS
1. growth, they don’t have a growth mindset to listen to new ideas
2. Resilience, the ability to take a punch, to stand a fight
3. Instinct, to do the thing the best way, not he their way or other dating coaches way. Since I have the most students laid in the world. Even my Asian laid testimonials is more than all of their laid testimonials..
4. Tenancity, the ability to keep at it until it is done, like John Wick…
STUCK AT THE FIRST EXERCISE, HURTS EGO Nothing hurts their ego when the first exercise they are already stuck at…
THIN SKINNED, MELTDOWN, TRIGGERED.
At some point they will have an autistic meltdown, then they can’t handle it, then they eject… even if I wanted to help them.
HOW TO PREVENT IT, CALLOUS THE MIND
Like doing pullups, it will create callous on your hand, a thick skin…
Its the same with your mind, you have to callous your mind, not just your hands….
MAKE NO EXCUSES, MAKE IT HAPPEN Extreme ownership. You must take full responsibility, for every excuse you make, you are shifting that responsibility.
Kind of like how Joe Biden does so with Trump, blaming him for everything…
CALL YOURSELF OUT IN FRONT OF THE MIRROR
PHYSICAL CHANGES, MINDSETS, HABITS (ALWAYS STUCK ON HABITS)
3 WEEKS TO A NEW HABIT, NOT ONE WEEK THEN QUIT
40% RULE
DO SOMETHING YOU DON’T LIKE EVERYDAY, EMBRACE THE SUCK HAVE NO WAY OUT, BURN ALL BOATS BEHIND YOU, COMMIT CONTRACT YOU ARE NOT BEYOND REPAIR, IT TAKE WORK, YOU ARE NOT WILLING TO DO
WHY TALK ABOUT GRIT, ALL THAT STUFF NOW? I’M TRYING TO PREVENT FUTURE THIN SKIN ASPIE FUCKS FROM EJECTING AFTER A WEEK….
I get it, never had adversity. emotionally fragile…
They hide it very well, until I test them, when I tell them to game in front of a hot women picture, then they freak the fuck out and talk super fast…
Then I say, I knew it..
Before I could make a commitment contract, they eject?
Was it so hard practicing talking slower?
Its always stuck at an earlier step…
Or even doing breathing exercises to rebuild the lungs…
You want to help these people, its so easy for them to be super soilders, since they have so much SMV, the solution is so simple, don’t ring the bell for 3 weeks…
I get it, it feels like hell week, but being too nice to them, they don’t improve…
Its like if you want to get better, you have to get out of your shell, like a turtle to move forward…
Even if I kick that shell forward, learn to take adversity, its fine…
Until you grow a thick skin, or callous the mind, nothing will improve.
You have the best daygame coach in the world teaching you…
Even if they knew that, still.. I wonder, maybe they realized if they can’t get results here, they are screwed up…
But at least give me 3 weeks until your habits catch up….
Excellence is a habit…
MOST OF MY STUDENTS, THE ASIANS ONES, MOST DID THE 30 DAY CHALLENGE BY THE TIME I INVENTED ELITE 30…
I get it with Delta, its hard to do the 30 day challenge, but what is to stop you from getting a $30 tall mirror at walmart and breaking bad habits for 3 weeks?
Its faster than game…
Game takes you 8 years, worshipping from coach to coach…
Worshipping is not the answer..
going to war against yourself is…
face your demons…
if you wan to face your demons, there is no better way to do that than with Elite 30….
Yes there are lot of Navy Seal concepts in that course in module 1.
Box breathing is another one…
If you can handle it, i’ll see you on the other side…. maybe as one of my laid testimonials…
IF NOT… WELL, I GUESS YOU CAN CONTINUE TO WORSHIP DATING COACHES…
REMEMBER
At some point in your life as you get older, you would have to do the 30 day challenge, or at least 21 days to break your bad RSD victim zombie habits…
Going from coach to coach getting zero results, then you get results here, even quitting when you got results…
That is fucked up…
Callous your mind first, be okay with the pain..
You don’t want to know how many approaches I made in my lifetime…
You don’t want to know how much field testing, split testing I had to do…
You don’t know what kind of hell I’ve been through, how much discarding I had to do for zombie shit…
Even having a lot of naturals as mentors… just to give you this game where you get get results quickly….
This is the shortcut, 21 days to a habit,
Game is the longest cut in the world, unless you can SMV it…
During Covid… well…
Not everyone has SMV….
You are literally training with the worlds best daygame coach with the best track record for student results…
Asians, Indians, every race…
I’ll post the Indian laid testimonials if I have to, for now I feel kind of lazy…
But with so many, if I posted it all, the results will be out of this world…
Not everyone made a video testimonial…
They should of…
UPDATE…
I HAD 2 CHEAT DAYS, BUT TODAY I HAD A BIG MEAL FOR DINNER FOR INTERMITTING FASTING….
I’ve done it for years, my students are switching over to it too…
It seems after a week, your old habits will desperately try to fight you…
Today had two burgers, nicely seared on stainless steel frying pans… I’m not longer using cast iron since it is so hard to maintain…
This gives you more of a restaurant flavor using these pans…
People should not quit within a week… this diet is hard as hell, but I can supplement it inbetween to be less hungry…
ALSO, YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE GETTING FAT EATING THAT BIG MEAL, BUT AT THE SAME TIME, TOMORROW IT ALL DISSAPEARS, THEN YOU GET EVEN SKINNIER.. WHICH IS WEIRD, BUT NOT SURPRISING, SINCE YOUR INSULIN LEVELS AREN’T RAISED MUCH FOR THE DAY…
The whole American diet is bullshit, 3 meals a day raises a ton of insulin…
Its the same with anything, learning daygame, imagine there is a hell week…
Sometimes I made it so easy, but they had to do a habit, then ejects when they get stuck on the easiest habits..
It wasn’t even hard, like box breathing.. which is in Elite 30…
That’s not good…. I mean its just a simple habit…
Or learn how to talk slower…
If that was the first exercise, they realized, shit its going to get harder…
Listen, excellence is a habit, unless you want to SMV it…
I don’t want you to SMV it…
Some of you have been stuck from coach to coach…
The worst thing is when I have former RSD victims, some of them, don’t even operate like a human being…
Muscles is not the solution to every problem, only 1% gets results, but these guys who has some SMV didn’t…
It doesn’t matter how good looking you are, or tall, if you don’t solve this problem, get past the first hell week, which isn’t even hell…
THE 52 YEAR OLD KNOWS WHAT TO EXPECT, YES HE DIDN’T LIKE GETTING YELLED IT, NOBODY DOES, BUT IT GOT HIM 2 LAYS, A 21 YEAR OLD, THEN A 25 YEAR OLD…
52 YEAR OLD MAN BANGS A 21 YEAR OLD, 8.5/10, UNHEARD OF.. BUT POSSIBLE WITH MY TRAINING… HE TOOK PUNCH AT HIM, METAPHORICALLY SPEAKING, DID EVERYTHING AS FAST AS POSSIBLE… NEW FURNITURE PAKISTANI MENTOR AND I SUGGESTED, CHECK, PRACTICE DAILY, CHECK, WENT OUT THERE DURING DELTA EVEN AT HIS AGE, CHECK…
PINCHED HIS NIPPLES WHEN HE KEPT MAKING MISTAKES, CHECK… (WASN’T FUN, IT HURTS BUT HE LEARNED FROM IT)
SOME PEOPLE NATURALLY ARE BORN WITH GRIT…
Yes his grit disappeared in 2020, but it came back in 2021…
He just did everything I said, instead of making excuses, then freaking out, breathing in, then getting offended…
The excuses dissapeared…
-John Elite
World's BEST Daygame Coach with 677 Laid/Pull Testimonials. More Than Every Daygame Coach In The World Combined 
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