Author: vancouverdaygame

I was a Day game coach trying to get people to understand my students doesn’t go through flakes. WHEN LEVELLED UP… (When they haven’t levelled up they do. After, rarely if at all. Literally not even an issue they bring up or at all)

I really wanted to Get more students laid so I wouldn’t have to stop listening to these misguided 10% stats .

I wanted to be able to understand their flaking issue is nothing they can perceive and I could get people to stop being brainwashed.

The thing is I was these bhenchodes who thinks it is about connecting more or you need to escalate more.

Or you need more game tactics. 

That meant I wasn’t able to understand their flaking issue is nothing they can perceive,

let alone get people to stop being brainwashed.

To make things worse, I felt terrible because they never even considered it was a social calibrations issue or non verbal communication.

I felt even worse about the situation because my students were getting same day lays in one approach now.

Plus when they get a phone number, they don’t get flaked on.

Well only one student receives a few flakes, the black student.

But he still got 40 lays so who gives a shit. 

I felt like these people are so misguided and why do they think its a numbers game? .

The problem was that after my webinar with students getting laid in 1 – 6 approaches, they still don’t want to believe it cause the headline is out of their reality.

Which meant they could literally see the proof,

but somehow they are too triggered to look at it.,

which made less people look at the webinar even though it is really amazing. A real paradigm shift.

Then, as if by chance, something amazing happened…

That’s when I explained social calibrations as behavioral game all about Todd V always hunches so he always gets flakes.

Same with other dating coaches as they stick their neck forward like their neck is broken.!

It was now crystal clear to me how to explain that it is behavioral game.

The alpha male isn’t going to hunch at all.

Or stick their neck out. He doesn’t care.

But is confident and will stand tall. 

because I saw no matter how many gamey tactics they used, they were playing a numbers game cause they had no social calibrations..

I also learned that if you squared off, it puts a lot of pressure on her.

It is not more manly as it contributes to the amount of flakes. 

you need to stand in a 45 degree stance instead.

As a result I made all the students do that since it wouldn’t trigger her cortisol or stress hormone.

If you halfway do stand diagonally, you will trigger half her cortisol. .

After I did that, I started making Youtube shorts about the same issue.

Suddenly, I was getting non stop laid testimonials throughout the entire pandemic and inflation without my students using alcohol.

It can be done without it

That’s when I realized that the secret to get people to understand my students doesn’t go through flakes

it was some of the dating coaches just talked super fast and hunched like crazy.

Or squared off, not being socially calibrated. .

My plan was to start educating people that my students can same day lay in one approach.

Also, they don’t understand the concept of flaking when they levelled up their Elite 30 or Kaizen..

So I started educating people that it wasn’t text game. It was the social calibrations that made her come out on a date since it raises massive value. .

But I didn’t stop there.

I then educated people it wasn’t a numbers game .

After that, I posted non stop laid testimonials even some in the webinar for students getting laid in 1 – 6 approaches.

But there was still a problem…

they were so brainwashed by other dating coaches 10% stats.

There is not a lot of daygame laid testimonials for these coaches.

For Paul Janka for example,

I noticed on his testimonial page,

he only has 1 student laid in daygame, 1 in online. Out of 50,000 people.

Unless he has the laid testimonials he should post it.

His 11% stats is purely misguided.

He didn’t have social calibrations as I seen in his infields.

I ended up getting so frustrated that we decided to talk about how it isn’t a numbers game.

I chose to call it “use social skills, social calibrations, emotional control to keep her on the line.. much like sales. ”.

I thought if we could create something that would make it possible to adapt to her in a rock paper scissors way teasing her when she is off the line, flirting when she talks more.

While maintaining the body language that gradually builds massive attraction.

It doesn’t spike., i’ll be really happy.

After created this concept for daygame, it got non stop laid testimonials because the students had to keep their body language, plus know when to tease and flirt. 

I created use social skills, social calibrations, emotional control to keep her on the line..

much like sales. .

I can now get non stop laid testimonials during the inflation.

I mean for other dating coaches, their student results are dropping like flies.

None existent.

Now we have ABCs of Low Self esteem Asians defaulting to night game since they have no social skills, social calibrations.. dancing at night like fools or chicken with their heads cut off…

0 daygame laid testimonials this entire year, what a joke.

I then started to let other Daygamers use use social skills, social calibrations, emotional control to keep her on the line.. much like sales. .

As a result of all this we were able to achieve the following:

I continue to get all the daygame laid testimonials, it never stopped.

My students don’t have to deal with flakes when they are socially calibrated by Elite 30 or Kaizen.

They can same day lay on the first approach. While everyone is failing and dropping like flies.

After creating use social skills, social calibrations, emotional control to keep her on the line.. much like sales. 

I was not only able to get non stop students laid during the inflation,

plus them not knowing what a flake is cause she always comes out due to social calibrations,

I’ve also been able to stop focusing on more DHV stories, sexualizing it or some irrelevant nonsense, because we can now get 546 laid/pull testimonials. .

And in the end, all of this means I’m now able to stop getting flaked on if you use the social calibrations technology of Elite 30 or Kaizen. 

BUT STILL, I GET IT. THE STUDENTS DON’T EVEN SEEM TO GET FLAKES AT ALL. ALSO THEY CAN SAME DAY LAY IN 1 APPROACH… BUT I POSTED PROOF, BUT YOU IGNORED IT BECAUSE ITS OUTSIDE YOUR REALITY…

I MADE A FUCKING WEBINAR ON THIS. I LITERALLY SHOWED YOU THE STUDENTS WHO GOT LAID IN ONE APPROACH, OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN. EVEN DURING DURING EVERY LOCKDOWN, EVERY VARIANT, EVERY INFLATION, NOW RECESSION…

Just because you can’t imagine it due to your lack of social calibrations, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist

its easy to dismiss..

any fool can dismiss as a way to cope with your belief system.

BUT MAYBE, JUST MAYBE YOU WERE COMPLETELY WRONG.

All these people tells me it is a numbers game John or winning the lottery

I SAY, MAYBE YOU ARE SOCIALLY UNCALIBRATED. YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW.

LET ME ASK YOU SOME QUESTIONS… IF YOU GOING THROUGH A BRAIN PAIN BY TWO OPPOSING BELIEFS. THEN ARE YOU BRAINWASHED SO BADLY SOMEWHERE?

MOST PEOPLE WHO BRAINWASHES YOU, DO THEY SHOW PROOF OR STAND NEXT TO A WOMAN? ISN’T THAT EVIDENCE? NOT PROOF? HOW WOULD ANYONE KNOW? (THERE IS A LOT OF EVIDENCE, BUT VERY LITTLE PROOF)

AREN’T THEY SWITCHING YOUR PROCREATION SWITCH WHERE YOU NO LONGER HAVE CONTROL OF YOUR MIND ANYMORE? THEN YOU ACCEPT THE WRONG NEUROPATHWAYS?

IF THIS IS TRUE, THAT MY STUDENTS DON’T GET FLAKES, ARE YOU SO AUTISTIC YOU CAN’T FATHOM IT? EVEN WHEN THIS HAS HAPPENED THROUGH THE WHOLE PANDEMIC, INFLATION..??? SHOULDN’T YOU BLAME YOUR AUTISM?

IF SOCIAL CALIBRATIONS SOLVES THE FLAKING ISSUE COMPLETELY FROM ELITE 30 WHEN LEVELLED UP. WHY THE FUCK AREN’T YOU GOING THROUGH THE COURSE DAY BY DAY? ARE YOU ON FOODSTAMPS? IN SURVIVAL MODE? CAN’T FOCUS ENOUGH TO DO THE 30 DAY CHALLENGE?

YOUR WHOLE OH ITS LIKE WINNING THE LOTTERY, OR ITS LOGISTICS, SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? MAYBE YOU CAN’T KEEP HER ON THE LINE? MAYBE YOU ARE IGNORANT? MAYBE YOU LISTENED TO THE WRONG COACHES?

I HEAR STUPID SHIT, AREN’T YOU THE BLIND LEADING THE BLIND CAUSE YOU WANT TO FEEL LIKE A DATING COACH KNOWING WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT? BUT IN REALITY YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT?

YOU HEAR STUPID SHIT LIKE OH SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. DO YOU THINK MY STUDENTS GOES THROUGH THAT? IF THEY DON’T GO DIRECT? EVEN IF SHE DID HAVE ONE, WITH MY STUDENTS SOCIAL SKILLS, SOCIAL CALIBRATIONS, WOULD SHE EVEN TELL MY STUDENTS TO AUTO REJECT HERSELF IF THEY LIKE MY STUDENTS SO MUCH FOR THEIR FASHION, FOR THEIR HAIRSTYLE, FOR THEIR SOCIAL SKILLS, SOCIAL CALIBRATIONS? THEN LOSE A HIGH VALUE MAN ? WOULD SHE? (HELL NO)

IF YOU FEEL TRIGGERED.. THEN ISN’T THERE A COGNITIVE DISSONANCE HAPPENING?

DO YOU KNOW MY STUDENTS, IN THE INNER CIRCLE, LOOKS AT THEIR CLASSMATES LAID TESTIMONIALS AS I TAG THEM. HOW DO THEY FEEL? SOME INSPIRED? SOME DEPRESSED? THE WINNERS WIN MORE? DON’T YOU GET IT?

WHAT DO YOU REALLY KNOW ABOUT DAYGAME? REALLY? NEXT TO NOTHING?

IT TOOK A LONG TIME TO MAKE THIS… I WAS BOGGED DOWN TRYING TO CUT DOWN THE TESTIMONIALS DOWN TO 2 MINUTES. IT WAS HARD. I POSTED NON STOP STUDENTS GETTING LAID IN 1 APPROACH OVER AND OVER AND AGAIN

You look at the title, you get triggered.

I haven’t even updated this yet, there is so many more same day lay on the first approach testimonials even students not getting flaked on.

The testimonials don’t stop out of nowhere.

MAYBE I NEED TO GO ON YOUTUBE LIVE AND YELL AT EVERYBODY, LIKE A RANT…

Do you want me to post all the proof here? would literally take forever…

In the past, I could not have finished this article.

I passed out, but let’s just finish it right now.

Let’s talk about why motivation is very important and how you can manipulate your mind to be more motivated.

And also debunking the motivation myth.

The truth is, maybe you just don’t want it badly enough.

MOTIVATION CAN BE MANIPULATED IN YOUR MIND

Anyone could be motivated if someone were to point a gun at somebody you care about.

They said you have to walk from one building to another over a wooden plank.

Would you be able to do it?

Of course you can, because the carrot and the stick Is about something you care about.

Normally you may not be motivated for day game.

But if you do things correctly, then you’ll start to be motivated.

If I said that I were to point a gun metaphorically at somebody you care about, then what? You do it.

Not only will you do that, you do it perfectly.

So the whole concept of being motivated by my laid testimonials is completely misguided.

The only thing you have been motivated of doing is just to spam approach even more.

You wouldn’t do things correctly, you would just be motivated just to put in more reps.

This is a trait of low self esteem.

The half assing things.

COMMITMENT IS IMPORTANT. THAT IS HARDER TO MANIPULATE IN YOUR MIND.

So what can I see about commitment?

This is something I cannot teach.

When I talk to you on the phone and you show that you are not committed…

Usually I would tell you that you’re not suitable for my training.

Commitment is very important.

It is like grit.

You need the tenacity to win.

Tenacity means finishing the fight.

This is something the Asperger students struggles with because they are so slow in their processing.

Their cortisol is so high.

But what is even worse than the Asperger students are the guys who have so little money.

Their mindset of not being committed is the reason why they are poor.

Because how you do anything is how you do everything.

If you are not committed here, you are not committed in other areas of your life.

You secretly do not believe in yourself.

What is worse is when you get older and you are not working on your day game skills.

You might not even procreate anymore, even though I’m giving you the opportunities.

But because you don’t believe in yourself and you can’t commit to even getting something as simple as that elite bundle two or 3MP

You deserve to fail.

You don’t believe in yourself.

Even when you see all the laid testimonials.

You don’t want to believe it because that means that you have to change and that means there is no way out.

There is no Plan B.

You have burned all the boats behind you and you have to move forward.

You need a cushion to fail.

THE EMOTIONAL RETARDATION EFFECTS OF PUAS AFTER THEIR LAYS OR BEFORE IT.

Sometimes I notice some emotional retardation from pickup artists after they get their lay

I said, come on now, let’s get ready for another lay.

You have the skills to get whoever you want.

But they look at you like you are fucking crazy.

In reality, you are just emotionally retarded

You have no emotional intelligence.

Because all of a sudden you are not hungry anymore.

Everything you said beforehand all goes out the window.

Before the lay you need me, so you are nice to me.

You’re like, yes, Sir John. Yes, Sir.

Oh, you want me to jump? How high?

You want me to run how far?

But then afterwards, when you get laid, you turn kind of ungrateful.

You no longer have a problem, so you start to ignore me.

You treat me like a leper.

In reality, you’re so emotionally triggered and retarded

That is why I made this chart.

He says IQ as in the intelligence.

Or in other words, the delusions.

Emotional category means how triggered you are.

When you are emotionally triggered, it means you have low self esteem and high Ego.

Because when you have high self esteem, you have low ego and you get less triggered.

In the last qualities, your spiritual IQ.

It’s very important to have a sense of morality.

Not just be self-righteous, but to have a real morality of what’s good and bad.

When these triggered people that are delusional and they lose their religion, they start to turn evil.

They start to be possessed by evil Spirits and entities.

Then they start to act like zombies with the four traits of low self esteem.

The first thing is they start to be delusional.

Then the second thing is they halfass everything spam approaching.

The third thing is the wrong path, the sociopath.

The last thing is they start to burn out.

Because you are emotionally retarded

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Have you noticed I don’t have Black Friday sales because my stuff works.

Their stuff does not work, so they need to have Black Friday sales.

Whatever the sale price is, is the actual value of their products.

When I say it doesn’t work, I mean it doesn’t work For day game.

I’m not talking about setup game or some night game b.s or some Tinder b.s.

Since day game is 20 out of 35.

Night game is only 15 out of 35.

Tinder is 12 hour 35, requiring less skills.

It isn’t even pick up.

My students are getting laid nonstop.

More proof do you want, because that can just post one Laid testimonial after another.

As I give you all these advice videos and stuff, you still dismiss it.

You don’t realize all the advice is derived from this student results.

How much longer must you worship?

As our fleecing the sheep’s With their day game products that does not work.

Without their game crutches. Like alcohol.

Or New Delhi grape game?

Once you take away the game crushes, it no longer works.

So your final to a boot camp…

Where they can take more of your money.

First, as they fleecing their sheeps With their products, that does not work for daygame

Then they finally you into boot camps where they make 5k a head

If their stuff did work for daygame, then they cannot make money because their products are stopping them from making more money.

That’s why they have to lower their price for these Black Friday sales.

I might raise the price again for some of these courses.

I might raise the price for mental trauma cure

I might also raise the price of 3MP.

Anyway, sign up and train with me.

Don’t let this be another year where you worship, make excuses, not be committed and not get laid

You always say next year, next year.

Or I’ll be ready in next three months.

No you won’t.

How you do anything is how you do everything.

If you’re always at delaying kind of person that procrastinates well.

That bleeds into other areas of your life.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not the fastest when it comes to marketing.

In fact, I would say I’m pretty slow and actually delegate this to other people.

I’d rather just focus on training students, not marketing.

However, at least I’m trying.

You need to try and swing at the plate.

If you’re not trying, you’re not committed, then **** you.

But if you’re trying, even though it’s hard, you may still hit a home run.

As long as you are trying.

That I would want to train you.

My students are amazing.

They are superhuman.

A success leaves clues.

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