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Borderline plus ADHD plus alexithymia plus Asperger syndrome on top of cluster B and cluster C equals unteachable cases. John Elite

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Do not join if this is you.

Did you know that there is more than just cluster B and cluster C personality disorder for unteachable cases.

And in my John Elite teaching experience, the worst students always have other overlapping issues too.

I know it sounds crazy.

Because we are so used to hearing about a numbers game.

Mass approaching.

Tactics.

And being told you are enough.

But I am going to share four issues with you today that will change how you understand why you are stuck with daygame.

Because it goes beyond cluster B and cluster C.

In case you do not remember, lets get on the same page.

Cluster B means sociopath, narcissism, borderline personality disorder, histrionic personality disorder.

Cluster C means avoidant personality disorder.

When cluster B and cluster C stack together, that is what creates an unteachable case.

Now we are on the same page.

And the people with these traits almost always have the same overlapping issues every single time.

So what is borderline personality disorder.

ADHD.

Alexithymia.

And Asperger syndrome.

Overlapping with cluster B and cluster C traits.

And branching out for the unteachable cases.

The worst unteachable cases always have extra issues stacked on top of cluster B and cluster C.

And the worse the student is, the more of these traits stack together.

Normal pickup artists are usually more cluster B, not cluster C.

So they might have some of these traits.

But they do not have all of them like the worst students of the year.

And I John Elite have been seeing this pattern again recently.

Even on Christmas.

I emailed a student on Christmas because he rage quit so fast it was ridiculous.

Success leaves clues.

But failure leaves clues too.

You can be nice to one guy and he still quits.

Then another guy calls you the devil.

And it is not because you did anything.

It is self projection.

It is the same pattern.

Borderline.

Money problems.

Ego.

Avoidance.

Gatekeeping.

And then quitting.

Issue 1 borderline personality disorder

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The big idea here is borderline personality gets you triggered fast.

So you quit right away.

Mood swings.

Meltdowns.

Rejection feels personal.

After two or three rejections, you quit daygame for good.

Then cluster B grandiose narcissism stacks on top.

So even neutral feedback feels like a personal attack.

You interpret my text and audio messages on WhatsApp for coaching as hostile, even if there is no evidence of it.

And it is all in your own borderline perception.

So you get massively butthurt.

You get moody.

And you interpret coaching as hostility.

This is important because borderline personality disorder makes you quit fast.

After three days of approaches, it feels like three strikes and you are out.

The rejection hurts so much you run away.

Then cluster C avoidance kicks in.

So you disappear instead of building reps for resilience.

And this is why some guys can never survive the early phase.

They need early victories.

If they do not get early victories, they quit because it is not fun.

My system is not fun.

My John Elite system is effective.

Issue 2 ADHD mixed with cluster C avoidant personality disorder

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The main thing to understand here is ADHD plus cluster C is a total disaster.

Homework gets skipped.

Days get skipped.

Habits need consistency.

It takes 30 days in a row to build a habit.

If you skip more than two days, your brain does not assimilate the drills.

So you show up every three or four days and you forget.

Then no habits get built.

So you fall back on mass approaching and tactics, which reinforces bad habits.

Then depression starts creeping in.

And with alexithymia, you do not even notice it.

You just walk around with a massive frown.

Then tariffs and stress add more cortisol.

So you spend money as retail therapy to reduce your depression.

Now you are broke.

Now you are in five figure debt.

Then you get more delusional and start half assing everything.

Then you start acting like the gatekeeper deciding what is the truth or not.

Like you have a mental bouncer guarding the door to a nightclub in your mind.

Treating opinions like facts.

While dismissing my advice like a stupid zombie.

This is where you see the dumbest behavior.

I told one student to go into Zara to buy clothes.

He refused to even walk inside.

His reason was there was no exact shirt and pants combination

He thought I said it needed to be a shirt and pants

Good thing he is reading this post, I can see his country.

So he did not even try.

That is not logic.

That is avoidance pretending to be logic.

Then I John Elite told him I need a specific watch.

He spent his money on something else and said it is similar.

No.

It looked nothing a like

He said it himself, 40% similar if its side by side.

That is gatekeeping.

I remember that Italian student who was in New York who got laid with my system for streetgame

He was so sure it was the pants until I said it wasn’t vertical pockets

Its too baggy that is has a crotch armor look, like a diaper.

That is opinions as facts.

That is a one track mind.

And it is always the same type of guy.

They think they are the gatekeeper of truth.

They believe whatever they believe is correct.

Just like Reddit guys believe whatever Reddit says is correct.

Just like Mystery Method and RSD guys believe tactics are reality.

They are not.

Then you get the other stupid stuff.

You say, I do not want to sing through my speech, even though it fixes your depressed tonality and shitty voice.

Then you say, I do not want a haircut, but you look like Shaggy from Scooby Doo.

And the funniest part is the guy who rage quit did not even get the haircut yet.

He quit before even doing the obvious basics.

Then you say, I do not want supplements because I am scared of side effects.

Then you melt down.

Then you smear campaign me when you never tried supplements in your entire life.

Defaming me because you are a vegetarian.

Creating a false narrative.

Then you stonewall.

Then you stop replying, even when I am trying to help.

And another pattern.

They skip the Mindset playlist.

They skip Mindset playlist part two.

Then they wonder why they cannot regulate their emotions.

Then they quit.

Then they blame.

And this is why I say failure leaves clues.

Because the clues are always there.

And it is not just the Asian student.

I have Latino students with the same memory wipe problem.

Marco is so ADHD he cannot remember what to do.

He comes back the next day and it is like nothing stuck.

That is why they cannot improve homework.

Because if memory gets wiped out, you cannot change.

You cannot refine.

You cannot stack reps.

And then money problems make it worse.

A lot of guys end up in debt.

Four figures.

Five figures.

They spend money to feel better.

Then they panic.

Then they disappear.

Then they become avoidant.

Then they become delusional.

And if Asperger syndrome is on top of that, you might be good at one narrow focused job.

Engineering.

Some logical job.

Maybe a specialized job like a magician.

But building a second skill like daygame becomes brutal because consistency is not there.

This means ADHD robs your self esteem.

It makes you delusional.

It makes you half ass the drills.

You make bad decisions.

Then you quit and stonewall.

So you never get the reps that build real daygame skills.

Then you blame me even though you ran away.

That is cluster C.

Avoidant personality disorder.

And cluster B stacks on top.

And here is the leadership piece.

I John Elite started thinking about students like A players, B players, C players, and D players.

A players get laid.

They have grit.

They listen.

They do homework.

They show up.

They do it even if it sounds stupid.

They like results.

B players do a little.

They are just a body.

They half ass everything.

C players are the bottlenecks.

They could get laid before.

Then money problems show up.

Five figure debt.

They stop showing up.

D players are quitters.

Smear campaigners.

Losers.

And the scary part is D players always think they are A players.

That is the delusion.

Issue 3 alexithymia

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Alexithymia means emotional blindness.

Unteachable cases will say they cannot hear their own mistakes in the audio homework they send me.

They sound angry.

They sound depressed.

But they think I am gaslighting them.

On top of that, their delusion stacks on top.

So you also get ego defense distortion.

That is where the unconscious mind misinterprets reality to protect the ego and maintain a positive self image.

Mix ego defense distortion with alexithymia and emotions become invisible.

Sure, a higher SMV guy with this problem might still get girlfriends from Tinder.

Maybe even some lays from night game.

But daygame will destroy you if you do not have high SMV.

Every stonewalling unteachable case student I have had has this issue.

They cannot understand womens feelings.

When they hear their daygame infields, they cannot hear any emotion.

Then they say they have been like this their whole life and everything was fine.

It was not fine for daygame.

On average, the unteachable cases have alexithymia.

This is key because if you cannot hear your own anger or depression, or your sighing at the end of your sentence, women get turned off.

And if you cannot interpret it, you will say I am gaslighting.

Then you cannot improve because you cannot perceive the problem.

And this is why stonewallers are so dangerous.

Stonewalling is not just silence.

It is a personality move.

It is a control move.

It is a shutdown move.

They cannot handle stress.

So they run away.

They stonewall.

Then they come back later and act like nothing happened.

Or they disappear forever.

And almost all stonewallers are unteachable cases.

Every single one.

Issue 4 Asperger syndrome

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A lot of the unteachable cases with Asperger syndrome have it the worst.

Asperger syndrome is high functioning autism.

It is not as severe as classic autism.

Most of these guys have a technical job.

Engineer.

Accountant.

Something specialized.

They have a narrow focus.

So all their neural pathways get built for one skill.

They can get world class at that one thing.

But it comes at the expense of everything else.

So building a second skill like daygame becomes brutal.

Now mix Asperger syndrome with ADHD.

Cortisol goes up.

Focus goes down.

Then the brain starts shutting down on step two.

Anything with multiple steps breaks them.

Step one is fine.

Step two is shaky.

Step three, they crash.

You see it in their drills.

A simple sequence still gets messed up.

Breathe in for 4 seconds.

Hold for 16 seconds.

Breathe out for 8 seconds.

Do this 10 times and it still comes back wrong.

Not because they are lazy.

Because the second and third step overloads them.

That is why Asperger syndrome becomes a curse when it stacks with cluster B and cluster C.

This is key because most unteachable cases are engineers or have specialized logical jobs.

Learning multiple skills is hard for them.

So they quit.

They stonewall.

Sometimes they smear campaign.

Even if the coaching is perfect, the student still has to be coachable.

Responsibility still matters.

And I have seen this with a student who joined recently.

He looked like one of my better students.

Almost the same face.

But he got overwhelmed.

He was diagnosed with borderline.

So he needed a break.

I moved him to Inner Circle temporarily.

Then I will move him back later.

I did not yell at him.

I did not attack him.

But training was tough because he kept failing assignments.

And when you keep failing without early wins, you quit.

That is the pattern.

Now I John Elite know what you are thinking.

You are not an unteachable case.

You just need to make more approaches.

Well, the tricky thing is inflation and tariffs are affecting your state of mind.

Pair cluster B and cluster C with these other traits and it becomes a disaster.

Quitting happens fast.

So do not join my training if this sounds like you.

Get lost.

Now that you understand the extra layers.

Borderline.

ADHD.

Alexithymia.

Asperger syndrome.

Lets connect it back to the last video.

The last video was about cluster B mixed with cluster C and why that combo creates unteachable cases.

This video is just the expansion.

The stuff that always stacks on top.

If I ever get more unteachable cases, I would send this video to them and make them watch it for reference.

This could use a few more views. It was a new unreleased one. I hope it doesn’t get ignored.

-John Elite

P.S, I know you are tired of hearing about this cluster B and cluster C topic. I wanted to make this video as the first video and be done with it. But I figured, if I didn’t peel the onion and introduced it pieces… then you will forget and you would not get it. Now I can get this information out there… I finally can. I only will make one more video on it and move on to grittier topics. A topic that doesn’t get a lot of likes. People are allergic to grit.

UPDATED THOUGHTS…

• I always have updated thoughts after I write the article. So I am going to write some more updated thoughts.
• My Indian student can’t wait to learn more and keep asking me for advice, which is great. The Asian guy takes days off and gatekeeps and quits. Now I can’t name the half latino the worst student of the year.
• I found if you treat them too nice and they fail their homework assignnment. They will feel embarssed you tried so hard because you don’t want to seem mean for your reputation. They rather quit to not burden me, than actually do it.
• Tough love, like a gang leader, or an army drill sargent or general, they don’t quit. They stay and they submit their massive ego. Every time I get smeared campaigned, I be extra nice. I am literally taking the victory out of the students hand.
• People believe you can be nice to zombies and be an encouraging coach and make it work. But like militiaries for example, they don’t fight wars by being woke and being nice.
• They wll say they don’t want to be in your John Elite Daygame army. But in reality, they aren’t here to learn.
• You never give refunds because they can walk into 10 daygame coaching and demand a refund, if they are unteachable case bad students. That is not right. At some point they have to take responsibility they are cluster B and cluster C and delusional.
• The Indian student doesn’t gatekeep, syaing this is the way to do it. They don’t feel comfortable with it, like supplements or haircut or even the way they speak. Even if they were rejected for it in 2025. These people lacks a growth mindset, which means they lack resilience for grit.
• Poor people who are in debt, I alway think are cluster B and cluster C. If you can’t manage your money you have severe ADHD. You are going to fail. Unless you are financially stable, you would be stressed out.
• The student with 20 lays got laid off, from a biotech maybe the most famous one in the wor.d I won’t say what company, maybe vacinnes related. The jewish student. He was less stressed as he gave the middle finger to life and travelled and kept getting laid country to country with my coaching. It could explain why his stress level or cortisol wasn’t as bad.
• A students are good students. B students are just there, they can get laid sometimes, other times not. C students are bottlenecks, who are good but doesn’t fit in with the culture and lazy. D students are the defective ones, unteachable cases. Who does the opposite and are cowards.
• I always said I would make a contract, maybe I should make one for unteachable cases, they can’t act weak and quit in a short time. Otherwise there will be some conquences for it . These procrastinating super busy overly occupied people with no time management severe ADHD borderline types who are delusional, experts in their own mind.
• I real.y shouldn’t call them zombies, but I can’t think of a better word. Lots of students are zombies, but some rots more than others faster.
• This system isn’t a numbers game zombie half assed mass approaching game. This is a rehearsal adapting the skills, assuming you have a memory and the cortisol didn’t shrink your hippocampus. If I was wrong, why did no other daygame coaches except me get students laid? how is that statistically posisble? because I know what i’m talking about. They took advantage of you for bootcamps utilizing the numbers game or crutches.
• How do you live with yourselves being such losers? Why is the training not attracting tough gritty men? But weak losers with money problems.

Brand new laid testimonial, unreleased proof, if you ignore this, you’re telling on yourself. You don’t want truth, you want worship.

This is a brand new testimonial.

Not recycled.

Not reposted.

Not some old clip from 2017 that keeps getting milked like a dead cow.

This is fresh.

Unreleased.

And if you ignore it, fuck you.

Seriously.

You are the reason your life stays the same.

I John Elite am tired of watching you worship coaches with no receipts.

Every other dating coach claims they are the best.

Every other daygame coach claims they are the best.

Then you look for the proof.

And there is none.

Just recycled clips.

Recycled screenshots.

Recycled stories.

Same old romantic flirts.

Same old alcohol crutches.

Same old heavy bedroom escalation as a cheat code.

That game is expired.

It is not 2012 anymore.

Women are not the same.

The market is not the same.

Your vibe is not the same.

And you are still acting like you can hack reality.

This Jewish student is not a theory guy.

He is not an Instagram status maxer.

He is not using my status as a crutch.

He is not doing some stupid numbers game where you go direct 200 times and pray.

He is not pulling women below his looks level just to cope.

He is getting real results.

He got 17 lays last year.

He got 3 lays this year.

And he can do same day lays too.

Not every testimonial is a same day lay.

But he can do it.

That is the difference between the John Elite system and the rest of this clown world.

Here is the part that should slap you.

The guy has a traumatic brain injury.

He does not remember shit the way you think he should.

But his body remembers the drills.

He fucks up twice.

Then the third try he adapts.

That is what being coachable looks like.

That is what being changeable looks like.

Most of you cannot even do that with a normal brain.

You get one correction and you get offended.

You get one callout and you run away.

Bhenchode.

You want to be right more than you want to be laid.

And that is why you stay sexless.

He went to a white coach bootcamp before me.

No results.

Of course no results.

Because bootcamps sell vibes.

They sell hope.

They sell social proof.

They sell the feeling of learning.

I John Elite hate that phrase.

I learned a lot about myself.

Cool story.

Did you get laid.

No.

Then you did not learn shit.

You got entertained.

You got contaminated.

Then you come to me later.

With bad habits.

Bad beliefs.

Bad calibration.

And you wonder why you are stuck.

This is why I John Elite keep posting new proof.

Because you need to see what is real.

You need to see what works now.

Not what worked in some old era with alcohol and romantic flirts.

Not what worked when women were easier.

Not what worked when your voice did not sound defeated.

And yeah.

Asians.

Shame on you too.

You keep chasing looksmaxing.

You keep chasing blackpill cope mixed with redpill anger.

You want fast.

You want easy.

You want a shortcut.

So you fly to Latin countries and pretend you solved it.

Then you come back and you are still the same guy.

No social skills.

No emotional control.

No ability to adapt.

Just more excuses.

I John Elite am not here to babysit your delusion.

I am here to show you receipts.

Brand new receipts.

And if you ignore this testimonial, you are telling on yourself.

You do not want truth.

You want comfort.

You want worship.

You want a coach you can fantasize about.

Not a system that forces you to change.

Next section I am going to explain why romantic flirts and alcohol game is dead.

And why same day lay is the four minute mile.

Once you see it is real, you cannot unsee it.

Alcohol maxing, romantic flirts, mass approach… all crutches. Same day lay is the four minute mile, and only the John Elite system teaches it sober.

Most of you are still running old software.

You are trying to use romantic flirts like it is 2012.

You are trying to use alcohol like it is a cheat code.

You are trying to use heavy bedroom escalation like it is proof of skill.

It is not.

It is a crutch.

And the crutch is why you never build real game.

I John Elite call it alcohol maxing.

And no, I am not talking about night game.

I am talking about guys who cannot win sober in daygame.

So they drink before they approach.

Or they only approach in situations where alcohol is involved.

Or they need a buzz just to have a voice.

Then they pretend they have confidence.

Then they pretend they have game.

Then they try to do it sober in the daytime.

And they get destroyed.

Because they never learned how to create attraction without a chemical crutch.

Now romantic flirts.

This is the biggest trap in the global game platform network.

It sounds cute.

It sounds safe.

It sounds like Disney.

It also puts you in the boyfriend girlfriend frame.

And here is the brutal truth.

A lot of you do not have enough value for that frame.

Not in 2025.

Not in 2026.

If you are white, black, or Middle Eastern, you can sometimes get away with it.

If you are Indian and you look black and you have that confident look, you can sometimes get away with it.

But most guys cannot.

So you do romantic flirts.

You try to be sweet.

You try to be harmless.

You try to be boyfriend material.

And she gives you the boyfriend objection.

Or she gives you the polite smile.

Or she walks away.

I John Elite teach husband material image for a reason.

Husband material is not the same as boyfriend frame.

Husband material is survival value.

It is safety.

It is competence.

It is emotional control.

It is the vibe that you can lead.

Boyfriend frame is a status audition.

And most of you fail that audition.

So you get stuck.

Then you think the solution is alcohol.

Then you think the solution is heavier escalation.

Then you start looking at illegal shit.

And I will never teach that.

Ever.

If you need alcohol or coercion to win, you have no game.

You have a problem.

Now let me explain why mass approach direct game is also a trap.

I John Elite think the biggest lie is this.

Mass approach fixes everything.

It does not.

Mass approach is just cardio for your ego.

You go direct 200 times.

You collect numbers.

You set dates.

You wait.

You hope.

Then maybe months later you get one lay.

And it is usually with a girl below your looks level.

Then you call that success.

That is not success.

That is cope.

That is why those coaches cannot collect receipts.

Because the results are too slow.

Too inconsistent.

And the students disappear.

So the coach keeps recycling old clips.

Over and over.

Because new proof is rare.

Now let me explain why same day lay matters.

Same day lay is the four minute mile.

For years, people said it was impossible.

Mystery said it was a fools mate.

RSD guys implied it was unrealistic.

They told you to settle for numbers and dates.

They told you to play it safe.

They told you to wait.

I John Elite think that advice is poison.

Because once a man sees same day lay is real, his brain changes.

He stops negotiating with fear.

He stops worshipping the slow path.

He stops acting like he needs permission.

He starts seeing what is possible.

And then he starts executing.

This Jewish student can do same day lays.

Not every lay is same day.

But he can do it.

Because he is trained for it.

Because he is calibrated for it.

Because he has emotional control.

Because he follows drills.

And he adapts fast.

Even with a traumatic brain injury.

That should embarrass you.

Not him.

You.

Because most of you have a normal brain and you still refuse to drill.

You still refuse to change.

You still want a theory that makes you feel smart.

You still want a coach you can worship.

Instead of a system that forces you to become dangerous.

I John Elite do not teach alcohol crutches.

I do not teach romantic flirts.

I do not teach status maxing.

I do not teach Instagram game.

I teach daygame.

Sober.

Daytime.

Real world.

No excuses.

No environment doing the work.

Just you.

And the John Elite system.

Next section I am going to explain the real reason you get smear campaigned.

Cluster B.

Cluster C.

Unteachable personality.

And why the coachable guys win fast.

Cluster B and Cluster C personalities block wins. They argue instead of drill, philosophize instead of execute, then smear campaign when reality hits.

Don’t let cluster b and cluster C personaly take away your potential results turning you off. To shift blame away from their incompetence..

This part is not fun.

Because it is not about a better opener.

It is not about a new line.

It is not even about SMV half the time.

Personality is what blocks the win.

I John Elite have coached hard cases.

I John Elite have coached ADHD guys.

I John Elite have coached trauma guys.

A lot of them still get results.

Why.

Because they can take feedback without melting down.

Because they can change without needing to be right.

Cluster B and Cluster C is the opposite.

Ego first.

Avoidance second.

Victim story third.

Then the smear campaign when reality hits.

The pattern is obvious in week one.

A drill gets assigned.

Nothing happens.

A correction gets given.

An argument shows up.

A simple step gets repeated.

A philosophy lecture shows up.

That is not training.

That is stalling.

The John Elite system is execution.

Reps.

Adaptation.

Emotional control.

No one cares about your theories.

Now look at the contrast.

This Jewish student has a traumatic brain injury.

Memory is not his advantage.

Still, the body learns.

Two mistakes.

Third try, he adapts.

That is coachable.

That is changeable.

Most guys with a normal brain still refuse that.

Pride blocks the reps.

Comfort blocks the reps.

Fear blocks the reps.

Then the coping starts.

Romantic flirts to hide weakness.

Alcohol maxing to fake confidence.

Mass approach to feel productive.

Six months later, still no receipts.

Then the final cope shows up.

MGTOW.

Calling it peace.

Calling it freedom.

It is quitting.

Bhenchode.

Here is the callout.

Stop worshipping recycled clips.

Stop trusting coaches who cannot show student results.

Stop blaming women for your lack of skill.

Stop blaming weather for your lack of discipline.

Stop blaming tariffs for your lack of execution.

If results matter, train.

If comfort matters, keep coping.

The John Elite system only works on men who adapt.

Everyone else stays stuck and then gets loud about it.

Stop waiting for better weather, better economy, better timing, a grown man trains first, executes first, gets results first.

Here are some of his results. This could be you… without direct game….

Listen.

You are not confused.

You are comfortable.

You sit there watching.

Judging.

Consuming.

Meanwhile your life stays the same.

No lays.

No momentum.

No confidence.

Just more videos and more cope.

So let me ask you straight.

Why are you not in my coaching.

Why are you still worshipping coaches with no receipts.

Why are you still telling yourself next month.

When the weather is better.

When the economy is better.

When tariffs calm down.

That is loser talk.

A grown man moves first.

A grown man trains first.

A grown man executes first.

Real talk, the John Elite system is not magic.

It is drills.

It is adaptation.

It is emotional control.

It is doing the work when you do not feel like it.

If you want results, stop being cheap.

Stop being scared.

Stop hiding behind theory.

Stop hiding behind MGTOW in your head.

Join my coaching.

Train the drills.

Get receipts.

Or keep watching other men live the life you want.

Because no execution means no results.

And if you stay the same guy next year, do not act surprised.

That is the price of comfort.

Now pick.

Train with me.

Or accept the results you earned.

-John Elite (Best Daygame Coach In The World)

P.S every daygame coach can say they are the best with no recent student reciepts. They think you are stupid or something. Thats why you don’t trust them. You subconciously aren’t stupid.