Author: vancouverdaygame

No all of us will have every quality other daygamers have. Most of the so-called naturals. Not natural and direct wannabes. But actual naturals, or born good at being with women tends to be tall, decent looking and very confident. But we all can’t have everything, we have to learn it in a synthetic way. For a short Asian guy who is skinny. He needs to compensate by working out. The stereotypes he would face would be he is too short or skinny, or not masculine. It is really important to work out and gain a lot of mass. If he is really short, perhaps a verbal only game isn’t suitable. Rather combining it with progressive kino escalation. For a tall black guy who is intimidating. It is important he is soft-spoken and articulates when he speaks. For an East Indian guy. Although they can be tall and strong. With a harsh funny sounding accent. (No racial) It is important not to be a clown. It just reinforces the stereotype. If you are from South America and from a country that is violent. Sometimes girls might bring a friend. It is important to reassure that you are a safe guy to be around you can trust. If you were a tall white guy who has the height and muscle mass. But you dress like shit and don’t care about your hair. Then you can compensate by actually dressing better. Improving your fashion and passive value.

You have to take a few negative stereotype like me. I’m short and skinny, Asian. That is already three negative things working against me. I would need six positive things about me. I could focus on working out and getting a lot of mass. I could dress better than usual but relate to her tribe. I could have a confident but seductive personality. Demonstration of higher value from stories of dates I’ve had with pretty white or Latina girls. I could break the touch barrier and not be afraid to kino or touch in daygame. For every negative, have positives to compensate.

The average male height here is 5’9. Anything that height or taller is considered tall. Anything below it you have to compensate. If you were 5’7 and white, it doesn’t matter. You already have status. But if you were colored, it would be important to weight lift. The further you are away by every inch, the more compensation you need. I’m 5’7, so I would need a great deal of muscles to be showing. Some of the best PUAs I know are all 5’9-6’1. They will have compliance, a line of fuckability. Where race wouldn’t even matter at that height. If you can’t physically get over that line, you can use heel lifts. If that isn’t enough, you better get really wide. Trust me. Fashion opens sets so much easier. But working out and muscle mass gets you more pulls.

 

The few biggest mistakes I seen with students that seems to be universal was one, volume issues. Second issue was not talking to her like a friend. What I mean by that was uptalking, or talking too fast, or too gamey.

Volume. If you speak very quiet, it really seems sketchy. Like, whispering, “Hey, i’m whispering, let’s do something wrong that is sketchy. Here is the plan…” Also, everytime you open very weak, with a quiet voice, the girl will walk by you saying she can’t speak to you because she has a boyfriend. The funny thing was, most of my students with a quiet voice are hurting their game. You can’t really run game that well if she can’t hear you and ask you to repeat yourself over and over again. I tell them to double their volume and it still sounds too quiet. Having a lower value projects lower value. At work people wouldn’t even respect you. Imagine talking to hot girls if you can’t even vocally project. Try to think that if you were talking to a girl. That you don’t care what other people think around you. You never should in the first place. When you talk loud, everyone is like okay, that is normal, no one cares. If you are quiet, it is sketchy looking.

Not talking to her like a friend. If you can talk to her like a friend or girlfriend, it would work. You connect better. You talk to her like a human being, not something to be gamed. Besides, if you were talking to a tall Russian blonde. Most guys would be afraid because of her beauty. They would start to uptalk and talk fast. For me, I wouldn’t even be the slightest big phased because I wouldn’t talk to her like that. You would find most of your sets will hook. They would stay there and talk to you. If you were gamey, you would get a number flake or fake number.