Cold Approach Flakes… Why My Students Do Not Get Flaked On

Lets dive into this guide on daygame.

I am John Elite.

I am going to explain why dates flake.

And how to stop it.

There is a lot of advice out there.

Most of it is wrong.

I John Elite am a daygame coach.

So I see the real pattern.

Forget the myths.

It is not just a numbers game.

Understanding flakes, it is not a numbers game

Most guys think daygame is simple.

Approach as many women as possible.

Eventually one says yes.

That sounds logical.

But it is misleading.

Numbers alone does not fix flakes.

What fixes flakes is communication.

Real communication.

Nonverbal communication is 55 percent.

Tonality is 38 percent.

Words are 7 percent.

So if you obsess over text game or lines, you are stuck in the 7 percent.

I John Elite focus on the 93 percent.

That is why my students flake less.

The DVD concept

Here is the analogy.

Every time you interact with a woman, you burn a score onto a DVD.

That score is what she feels from you.

Looks.

Money from your fashion

Status from your ethnicity.

Body language.

Social calibrations.

Tonality as in emotional control.

Game…

Basically everything.

If the score is high enough, she shows up.

If the score is low, she flakes.

This is why the DVD concept matters.

It makes daygame simple.

Raise the score.

Stop guessing.

And it works no matter who you are.

Once you understand this, you are already ahead.

Now lets get into how to reduce flakes.

Secret 1.: Burning the DVD Concept. Why Women Flakes On You

Master nonverbal communication.

Understand this.

Flakes are not happening because you lack game.

Nonverbal communication is the real reason you get flaked on.

This is the 93 percent.

Body language is 55 percent.

Tonality is 38 percent.

Words are 7 percent.

Most guys get hypnotized by the 7 percent.

Lines.

Scripts.

Routines.

Text game.

That is the trap.

Routines do not raise your score.

Scripts do not raise your score.

Rehearsed delivery feels low value in daygame.

Here is the DVD concept.

Every interaction is like burning a DVD.

Every single second she is seeing your score.

Words are not the main thing.

The score is the main thing.

I John Elite call this your 20 out of 35.

Your relative SMV.

Looks.

Money.

Status.

Social skills.

Social calibrations.

Emotional control.

Game.

She scans it all.

Second by second.

Emotional reasoning runs the whole time.

One question stays in her head.

Do I feel safe with this guy.

Do I feel excited with this guy.

That is why tonality matters.

Stress in your voice creates resistance.

Rush in your voice creates distrust.

Depression in your voice kills attraction.

Body language does the same thing.

Stiff posture reads as anxiety.

Needy energy reads as weakness.

Try hard behavior reads as fake.

Over smiling reads as approval seeking.

Over talking reads as nervous.

Over explaining reads as selling.

The outcome is predictable.

Fake number.

Fake smile.

Fake yes.

Flake later.

The DVD score was not high enough.

This is why I John Elite teach drills, not scripts.

Scripts only touch the 7 percent.

Drills change the 93 percent.

Body language drills make you look grounded.

Calm energy makes you look like you belong.

Presence makes you look higher value.

Tonality drills hide cortisol.

Slower speech makes you sound certain.

Cleaner delivery makes you sound masculine.

That is what makes you memorable.

Also, that is what makes her curious after you leave.

Since is what makes her show up.

She is not remembering your line.

She is remembering how you made her feel.

A good feeling brings her back.

A weird feeling makes her disappear.

More approaches will not fix this.

Also, more routines will not fix this.

More clever words will not fix this.

Raise your 20 out of 35.

Raise your nonverbal score.

Also, raise your tonality.

Flakes drop.

Daygame starts working the way it is supposed to.

Secret 2: Step Beyond Traditional Game Tactics

Alright, lets get real for a moment.

Mystery Method looks shiny at first.

RSD looks like it can work with a huge numbers game.

Real daygame exposes both fast.

Ghosting increases when tactics replace skill during a tariff that started in August 2025.

It will carry over to this year.

Flaking increases when performance replaces presence.

Results drop when you chase scripts.

A better plan is required now.

Drop old school methods that do not cut it.

Choose skill over tactics.

Build maneuver instead of memorizing lines.

Learn relocation so the interaction moves forward.

Use location switches to change the vibe.

Add flirtation that matches the moment.

Keep flirtation simple and natural.

At some point you have to sexualize it to the maxium.

Practice objection handling like a real skill.

Handle resistance without getting emotional.

Stay calm when she tests you.

Stay playful when she pushes back.

Loop objections instead of arguing.

Pivot topics instead of forcing.

Create momentum instead of waiting.

Make logistics easy instead of complicated.

Turn a number into a real meetup.

Turn a meetup into a real outcome.

Calibrations decide how hard to push.

Awareness decides when to pull back.

Timing decides when to move locations.

Energy decides whether she feels safe.

Tonality decides whether she feels excited.

Body language decides whether you look grounded.

Words only polish the surface.

Scripts only touch the 7 percent.

Skill controls the 93 percent.

I John Elite see the same failure pattern weekly.

Guys copy Mystery Method and sound rehearsed.

Guys copy RSD and sound try hard.

Women sense that and disengage.

Numbers happen and still lead nowhere.

A number is not proof of attraction.

Also, a number is not proof she will show.

Lastly, a number is just a maybe.

Maneuver turns maybe into yes.

Sexualizations turns yes into results.

Daygame rewards the man who can move things forward dealing with objections.

John Elite system is built around that reality.

Secret number three is about using your economic and social standing to your advantage.

When the economy takes a hit, people perceive you differently.

That shift is not always obvious.

Still, the vibe changes when money worries creep in.

Caution goes up.

Sensitivity goes up.

During shaky times, stability stands out.

Social status matters more when things feel uncertain.

A steady life matters more when things feel uncertain.

Boosting your social status can help your daygame.

Keeping your life steady helps too.

A clean confident tone comes from steadiness.

Better body language comes from lower stress.

Stress has a sneaky way of showing up.

Voice is one place it leaks.

Posture is another place it leaks.

Facial tension is another place it leaks.

Women pick up on those signals fast.

I John Elite always say emotional control is key.

Emotional control is the foundation.

When emotions are in check, your vibe stays strong.

Clear intent matters.

Stability shows in your tone.

Stability shows in how you carry yourself.

That makes your approach more effective.

Fewer mixed signals means fewer misunderstandings.

Less confusion means fewer people flaking out on you.

A solid vibe feels calm.

A reliable vibe feels consistent.

Consistency makes daygame smoother.

Harness Economic and Social Status

Tailoring your strategy to different backgrounds.

Sexual market value metrics change based on ethnicity.

That matters in daygame.

This insight helps guys from all backgrounds adjust.

Grooming helps.

Stylish clothes help.

Overall vibe helps.

Those upgrades counteract social bias.

I John Elite tell students to own uniqueness.

Uniqueness is leverage in daygame.

Training is the secret to consistency.

Daygame is not a quick dash.

Daygame is a long distance run.

Steady practice is required.

Strategic practice is required.

I John Elite emphasize drills.

Specific drills build habits.

Habits create consistency.

Consistency beats trends.

Consistency beats whatever new tactic is popular.

Focused training prepares you for lasting success.

Conclusion.

Why the John Elite system works.

Student success is not luck.

Results come from well rounded daygame skill.

Those skills work even when the economy is rough.

My approach gives tools.

My approach reduces flaky encounters.

My approach boosts interactions.

If you want to master daygame, the John Elite system is the way.

Elite Bundle Resurrections is for students ready to level up.

You should check it out if its for you.

Beginners can use it.

Advanced guys can use it.

Real skill is the goal.

Not more game.

You should check out the last past on Reddit, me roasting it. It relates to this one because they get flaked on non stop because they are incomptent and won’t survive the tariff with more stress and cortisol in their voice.

CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT MORE.

-John Elite

P.S I hope these topics don’t turn people off lately about cluster B and cluster C. I don’t mind cluster B. But if you mix it with cluster C avoidant personality, you will fail my coaching and run away. I don’t want those types here. Adhd losers.

SHOCKING – Worlds Best Daygame Coach Calls Reddit 2025 daygame advice worst in the world

Last video of the year, don’t miss this video.

Reddit Daygame Advice In 2025 Produced Zero Receipts For Daygame

This video is for educational and observational purposes only.

I am not diagnosing anyone.

No real names or identities are shown.

Any resemblance to real people is purely coincidental.

Reddit rewards cluster B narcissists with zero receipts.

They sound confident.

But nobody got laid for daygame in 2025 over there.

Stop listening to armchair experts.

John Elite is saying this for your own good.

Reddit worships Mystery Method tactics and RSD mass approaches like a religion.

But in 2025, tariff stress and economic pressure changed peoples emotions.

More cortisol.

Worse vibe.

Worse tonality.

And their daygame numbers game collapsed.

Still no receipts for daygame.

Still the worst daygame advice in the world.

Because the loudest cluster B people there have the least credibility.

And the most ego.

I John Elite know it sounds crazy.

Because we are so used to seeing free advice from Reddit.

These people want to desperately be daygame coaches.

Or teach themselves without paying money for daygame coaching.

They want daygame results without daygame accountability.

They mass approach with tactics.

They chase a numbers game.

And they call it daygame.

And while you think that is important, I John Elite am going to share three exposed secrets with you today.

This will revolutionize the way you decide who to listen to in daygame.

This will also show you why the John Elite system keeps working in 2025.

So what is the real reason Reddit free advice keeps you stuck and sexless in daygame for 2025 and soon to be 2026.

It is three exposed secrets about Reddit.

And their daygame advice that produced zero receipts for daygame in 2025.

Exposed Secret 1 Reddit Armchair Experts And No Daygame Receipts

The big idea here is Reddit rewards confidence, not competence.

So the loudest guy in the thread becomes the leader.

Even if he has zero daygame results.

They give advice in every single thread like they are experts.

But when you look for proof, there is nothing.

And in 2025, the whole thing got exposed.

Because nobody could show real laid or pulled results for daygame.

This is important because if you take advice from a guy with no verifiable receipts, you copy his failures.

You waste months.

You waste years.

Doing the same broken RSD and Mystery Method strategy.

While thinking you are improving at daygame.

That is what armchair experts do.

They have no transferable skills.

They only have opinions.

John Elite calls this fake daygame leadership.

Exposed Secret 2 A Numbers Game Delusion In 2025 For Direct Game Daygame

The main thing to understand here is Reddit treats daygame like ads.

Push enough volume.

Someone will convert.

But it did not work in 2025 for daygame on Reddit seduction forums.

They worship Mystery Method tactics.

They worship RSD style direct mass approaching.

Like it is a religion.

But in 2025, tariff stress and economic pressure flipped the winner and loser effect on them.

They started losing more.

Cortisol went up.

Testosterone went down.

And the advice got even more delusional.

Because the numbers game only works when you already have enough SMV.

And enough emotional control to not sound depressed in daygame.

In 2025 most guys sounded stressed.

Rushed.

Emotionally wrecked.

So women rejected them harder.

Then they doubled down.

More tactics.

More volume.

More Aspergers style rules.

Still no receipts.

And the funniest part is they cannot explain why nobody is getting laid for daygame on Reddit.

Because their whole identity is built on the idea that mass approaching is the fail safe.

It is not.

Not for daygame in 2025.

This means if you keep listening to Reddit numbers game advice, you grind yourself into cortisol.

You lose confidence.

You beat yourself up.

You still do not get results.

Because you are training the wrong system for daygame.

I John Elite call this the direct game collapse.

Exposed Secret 3 Toxicity And Smear Campaigns Against Daygame Coaches

Reddit attracts a high concentration of toxic behavior.

Narcissism.

Sociopath energy.

Borderline mood swings.

Histrionic show offs.

And when those guys fail in daygame, they do not self correct.

They attack outward.

In their own minds they can do no wrong.

They smear coaches.

They hate on anyone with student receipts.

They turn daygame into a debate club.

These guys give advice all day.

Yet they cannot get a single person laid in 2025.

Does that not debunk a numbers game.

Too much cortisol stress.

Voice sounds depressed.

Women are more resistant.

This also debunks direct game.

Other daygame coaches did not get anyone laid in 2025 except John Elite.

Never mind the Reddit losers.

They also love smear campaigning dating coaches.

There are lots of these types that attack daygame coaches on Reddit.

They do not take accountability.

They do not take responsibility.

They worship RSD and Mystery Method as false idols.

There are derivatives too.

Todd V is an RSD derivative.

He has about three daygame laid testimonials.

The zombies have no critical thinking there.

They listen to over complicated Aspergers style advice from former engineers.

No social intelligence.

And the pattern is always the same.

The loudest guys on Reddit have the least accountability.

The more they lose, the more cortisol they get.

The more toxic they become due to the winner and loser effect.

Then they start hurting other men by giving advice that keeps them stuck in daygame too.

They call everything a scam.

They want refunds.

They want zero responsibility.

They want results without being coachable.

Absolutely crazy.

And I John Elite have seen other daygame coaches names get dragged through the mud there too.

This is key because if you stay in that Reddit environment, it will poison your mindset.

It will make you more avoidant.

It will make you hate the very training that would actually fix your daygame.

It will make you reject the John Elite system before you even try it.

Why World Events Change Daygame Results For Ethnic Men

World events can impact your sexual market value.

Outside events can impact ethnicities.

Remember when Covid happened and people blamed Chinese people.

That lowered their social standing.

Then later people forgave Chinese people in the West.

If ICE raids become a major public topic again, that can shift perception too.

This is why old daygame stories from years ago do not always translate to 2025 daygame.

John Elite teaches daygame based on current reality.

Not old forum myths.

The Gatekeeper Problem I John Elite Sees Everywhere

I John Elite see this gatekeeper pattern constantly.

Opinions as facts.

Not facts as opinions.

One half Latino from New York barely approached.

He made one approach total.

Then he tried to gate keep the truth.

He did not want to change his haircut.

He complained my workout routine was wrong.

Meanwhile my John Elite students are twice as big as him muscle wise doing a fraction of the work.

He says he is busy as an excuse for not approaching.

He has cluster C avoidance.

And cluster B delusion stacked on top.

He saw so many of my students get laid.

He never denied it.

He said the John Elite system works.

But in reality he has the worst approach anxiety out of all my students.

Then he bought medication from the dark web to fix it.

Absolutely insane.

He cites that he got a girlfriend before from daygame.

So he thinks he knows what he is talking about.

But does he have the same natural status as before.

In 2025, with economic stress, his voice is full of cortisol.

He sounds depressed.

Women get turned off.

With alexithymia, emotional blindness, he cannot hear it in his voice.

He will say you are gaslighting him.

But I John Elite can clearly hear it.

And so can women.

He can only hear how long the infield is.

Or if the notes go up or down.

It is like the emotions are disconnected.

That is why daygame fails.

John Elite Reddit Student Results And The Real Point

I John Elite have over a dozen people laid from Reddit.

Some up to 100 lays.

Some up to 30 lays.

Some married.

One guy pulled a virgin and fingered her.

Only a few did not get results.

The loudest ones.

The gate keepers.

The rage quitters.

The ones who failed every homework assignment.

The ones who did not even approach.

My success rate for Reddit students is extremely high.

Over 85 percent.

A few loud cluster B and cluster C people should not speak for the rest who got laid.

Red pill.

Black pill.

MGTOW.

Asian masculinity.

Same hardware.

Different operating systems.

Same toxic behaviors.

That is why they love forum groups.

They reinforce delusions with other like minded people.

If Reddit Is Trash Who Do You Listen To Instead For Daygame

Now I know what you are thinking.

If Reddit is trash, who do I listen to instead for daygame.

Well the tricky thing is free advice is not free.

You pay with time.

And Reddit advice is mostly written by guys who are losing.

So their cortisol is high.

Their mindset is distorted.

And they are not even aware they are spreading failure patterns like a mind virus.

Even right now in the community section someone is preaching to me that I need to modernize and focus on text game.

They have strong opinions as facts.

But how many people did they get laid for daygame.

Opinions are like assholes.

Everyone has one.

I John Elite am the only daygame coach who got people laid this year consistently.

Last year I got 55.

Everyone is an expert these days.

With no student proof of results for daygame.

The John Elite System And Elite Bundle Resurrections

And so I built Elite Bundle Resurrections.

It is my full daygame coaching system.

You can train the drills.

Fix your emotional control.

And start getting laid and pulls in daygame again.

I am John Elite.

Worlds best daygame coach.

I have the most laid and pulled testimonials for daygame, even in 2025.

I have been teaching since 2012.

What I John Elite do is spot the real patterns that get men laid in daygame.

Cut out delusional forum Reddit advice.

And turn everything into drills that force results.

So you do not have to listen to complainers.

Triggered losers.

And unteachable case zombies.

Or armchair experts preaching to you in my community section.

So what I John Elite have done is packaged the full system into Elite Bundle Resurrections.

When you click the link in the description, in case you could not find me on Google, you can still get started immediately.

You can see the daygame training courses.

You can see what is included.

And you can decide if it is for you.

I also have Elite 30, if Elite Bundle Resurrections is too expensive.

Start your 30 day challenge for the first part of Elite Bundle Resurrections.

Its extremely cost effective.

Another Indian student is getting many instadates from it so far.

He just started.

-John Elite (Best Daygame Coach In The World)



P.S, i’m glad I was able to make the cluster B and cluster C video for unteachable cases. Everyone knows that. But now they can connect it to Cluster B personality for redditors. Why do they keep acting like borderline depressed. Or sociopathic and narcisisstic showoffs. Now you know. Now you know…

Also, if you want to learn the 3 most common crutches daygame coaches tries to teach in thier bootcamps. Or bhenchodecamps as I call it. The conversion mechanism, because you would fail with their daygame products… check it out over here.