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Hey, did you know that most Indian guys doing daygame in the West think they’re getting rejected because of racism?
But what if it’s actually xenophobia?
Keep watching, and I’ll explain the difference.
Because it’s not because they’re Indian, but because of how they show up.
But here’s the big idea.
There are two different things people mix up.
One is structural racism, right?
The system stuff.
But the clothes won’t touch it.
The other is called xenophobia, which is the fear and dislike of what looks foreign, of other people’s culture.
And presentation, when you’re whitewashed, can bypass that because a woman on the streets makes her call in two seconds before you open your mouth.
You’re not here to stop Indian hate, okay?
Remember, I respect Indians and my Indian students.
You’re here to get laid.
Two different jobs, and you keep mixing them up.
That’s why you’re stuck.
Do not fight a cultural war.
Get laid through my daygame coaching.
Say it with me, okay?
Don’t fight a cultural war.
Get laid through daygame through my coaching.
You can care about the big stuff on your own time, but a woman walking past you in daylight doesn’t owe you a debate about history and Indian hate.
So what is the real foundation here?
Let’s get into it, okay?
So the first thing is that social dynamics, status, and husband material are important.
You need to read the social dynamics, and the big idea here is that status is just how strangers read you in two seconds, especially white women.
But let me give you a rough chart, and this is a coaching metaphor, okay?
It’s not some measured rank, okay?
But perceived natural status for Indian-washed is two out of 10 in the United States and Europe.
And you use it like a ninja.
This is like a ninja outfit for social stealth. You slip past the xenophobia filter, and she never even registers that you’re Indian.
Just like my Pakistani mentor.
He’s like, “Do you think I like these shoes, John?”
I was like, “White women do.”
“I hate it.”
“Do you think I like the sunglasses, John?”
“No. White women like it.”
But every Indian that married a white woman in North America assimilated.
Women are human beings too, and they like Indian guys.
They just don’t like Indian-washed guys due to xenophobia, the fear and dislike of other people’s culture.
One time, what he said to me was this.
He said, “John, the way I talk, right, that is whitewashed.”
I was like, “Yeah, I know that.”
“My secret magic trick is that if I talk like this…”
This is what he told me.
“His skin color disappears.”
Because Indians can look like different ethnicities.
You can look like Pakistanis, for example, that have a higher perceived natural status.
They’re better with women than Indian guys.
They’re more alpha.
But as I was saying, my Pakistani mentor says, like, “John, my skin color disappears when I talk whitewashed.”
Don’t you see?
At first, they have this negative stereotype, this xenophobia, but he’s dressed whitewashed, he starts talking, he’s alpha as hell, and he’s dominant, and he talks like a white man, like Kash Patel.
You can always listen to his interviews.
And then they start, like, talking to him.
They start getting attracted.
So here’s the old advice that you’ve heard thousands of times, okay?
From a bunch of different Indian dating coaches.
Stay Indian-washed, as they say.
Keep your pride.
Be yourself, and women will respect it.
That’s what they tell you.
And then what happens?
You walk up to a girl in the daylight, and she goes, “Get away from me.”
It is tough love only.
It describes guys who procrastinate, who waste time, who don’t follow instructions, who stonewall.
This is called benchoding behavior.
But husband material skips the whole fucking line.
Whitewashed husband material.
You don’t have to wait your turn.
You show up already looking like the end of the line.
You show up, you skip the entire line, it’s like a nightclub, by being whitewashed.
I’m not letting a guy walk out the door with his own ideas of style, his Indian-washed style.
That creates nothing but Indian hate.
The old advice sounded proud, but pride doesn’t get your dick wet.
You see the same boot camp clips.
It’s like the same piece of clothing that gets recut, restitched together with some new stuff, but same old shit, and just post it again like it’s new.
You just recycle, recycle, recycle.
They want to get these new people into their boot camps, and they get…
It’s like an infinite money-printing glitch.
But buy from your own kind, a guy who looks like you, but they don’t even look like you.
Is there an Indian coach in the world that looks like you?
You should look for who gets you laid.
Then they poke your insecurities.
You feel small, and they sell you the relief.
They praise, they poke, they twist the knife, and they sell.
Praise, pokes, twist the knife, sell you benchwarmer camps every single time.
This is a mint flavor, but it tastes like an onion smacking you across the mouth.
You can come back for more because the pain never gets fixed.
It just gets rented.
That means they intentionally try to get her drunk, and they bring it right into the bedroom, and that’s what you do in the boot camps.
And after she’s drunk, they use something called heavy bedroom escalation.
Keep it below the level of great, as they’ll tell you.
So if their method only works when she’s drinking, that’s not a skill.
That’s a chemical doing the job for you.
That’s called a crutch.
And use alcohol, when you use Jugaad, it turns into cheating the process.
Get her drunk, push the bedroom escalation on the woman who is barely thinking, and you’re stronger than her, and you’re just pinning her down like it’s WWE wrestling.
If she needs to have a drink, right, just to say yes to you, you did not earn the yes, right?
A skill works in daylight on the quiet streets with a woman who’s stone-cold sober and walking to her own place, right?
Errands.
That’s why my system is built the other way.
No alcohol allowed, or you’re banned from my coaching.
No romantic flirts at all.
Sober in the daylight with a woman who could say no at any second, and sometimes she does, right?
Most of them walk carrying the old advice that they’re showing up in bigger numbers with the same package, the way they’re dressed, and that already failed.
I should say, tens of millions does not make it right.
It does not make it right.
In a high-trust society, when you have izzat, which you think you’re higher status if you get somebody else to do something for you.
Like, for example, you might throw garbage somewhere.
Remember, this is not Indian hate.
I’m just saying, like, this is objectively what happens a lot.
And somebody else has to pick it up, right?
So you think you have higher izzat because somebody else has to clean up your mess.
That mentality, right, may serve you in India, but it’s turning women off in Western countries.
So you got two choices.
You keep showing up in the old package, the way you’re dressed, and you hope the numbers work for you by playing a numbers game, or you change the one thing you can control.
But as I was saying, once you’re in that box, right, that Indian-washed box, nothing else you say matters.
It’s not personal.
All right?
You barely even see my name on Google, right?
So if you wanna find me, www.johnelite.com, right?
You should bookmark it so you can go back to it.
You can’t even find it on Google, but this Indian guy over here, I’m pretty sure that he’s a very smart guy, right?
Coconut oil hair.
And you wanna root for this guy because he made a cool program that shows up on the AppSumo page, right?
You might say it’s Indian accent, Indian hate.
No, it’s not actually Indian hate or whatever.
There’s no Indian…
The word Indian accent, yes, it exists, but it’s because your vocal abilities are separate.
I wanna buy his program.
I don’t use AI tools, but I thought maybe this is the first AI tool I wanna buy, right?
But when I hear a guy speak like this, right, does it make sense?
He’s talking about his own product.
Maybe somebody else should present it, because this is like…
[Playing an audio clip of an Indian person speaking. The speech is difficult to understand in this context.]
See, you can hear, like, oh, maybe, like, 80% of it, and 20% you’re like, “Pardon me?”
So it’s not about the Indian accent, because my students that have Indian accents still get laid in Western countries because they learn how to speak properly by fixing their vocal tonality through Elite Tonality Mastery.
Don’t you get it?
It’s like once you’re in the box, the Indian-washed box, nothing you say matters if you talk like this.
It’s not personal.
For women, it’s pattern recognition.
This is important because most guys that are Indian think they’re being rejected for who they are.
They’re not rejected for that.
They’re being rejected for what the package signals, as you saw with the hairstyle, and also with the clothing and the bhenchod beard before they open their mouth.
The Indian-washed outfit, nervous tonality, no spaces in between the words, stuttering, that combo says low status, low confidence, and she doesn’t owe you a second look.
Look, I’m sure that guy’s a very good person, and his product may be something I wanna invest in.
Does that make sense?
I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt, maybe.
I’ll invest.
Don’t you get it?
It’s like once you’re in the box, the Indian-washed box, nothing you say matters if you talk like this.
It’s not personal.
For women, it’s pattern recognition.
That’s why most people, if they’re poor, they never get to see Elite Tonality Mastery.
That fixes your whitewashed tonality.
With his double chin and stuff.
But nobody can understand him.
And what I’ve done is that I said, “Okay, we’ll have… We’ll do something, right, just to see if I’m making this stuff up or not.”
I said, “Can I take your homework assignment?”
“Give me your best one.”
He said, “I’m 100% confident. I spoke very clearly.”
He has a pencil across his mouth to pronounce the words.
And my students, they either give him 0%, meaning that nobody can understand him, or 100%, meaning it’s totally clear.
He got seven 0%s from my students out of the 12.
When you’re an Indian person, you speak with absolute confidence.
And Donald Trump Indian reporter guy, right?
Accent.
So this person spoke with absolute confidence, and Donald Trump does not understand what he’s saying.
[Playing an audio clip of an Indian reporter speaking. The speech is difficult to understand in this context.]
When they speak with such confidence, and they’re in jobs that require them to speak like a reporter, again, okay?
Basically, the audio is very surprising, but the guy gets rejected, and then he takes that as proof that everybody hates him.
So he stops approaching, okay?
As I was saying, you can change the signal.
Same guy, same brain, new package, cleaner voice.
Eventually, they all have a beard, a bhenchod beard.
What else they have in common?
Work shirts, right?
What else they have in common?
Curly hair.
What else they have in common, right?
They’re like, this commonality is always like a sneaker.
Dress like a Gen Z.
Dark jeans, right?
I want you to grow a beard, a bhenchod beard, and I want you to find a work shirt that is checkered like an Indian person.
He said, “Okay, everything is done.”
“And then I want you to wear, like, tapered pants, and your sneakers have to be white or black.”
He’s like, “Okay.”
He goes out there in Australia, right?
Women actually say, “Oh my God, get away from me.”
He had like two or three women running away.
Stop taking it personal if a white woman rejects you, because you can play a prank on her by dressing Indian-washed and filming it for YouTube, and then all of a sudden you change in the changing room.
You go back out there, you approach the same woman, she’s into you, right?
And you realize something.
If she likes you afterwards, it’s because you’re in the in-tribe, you’re not part of the out-tribe.
Nothing to do with Indian hate.
It’s more like the packaging and the way you’re speaking.
It’s a system and it can be beaten, right?
Without Jugaad, right?
Without cheating.
So does assimilation help or not?
Which is a good question, because let’s get into the real answer.
We’re gonna finally give the real answer, okay?
But here’s the part they skipped, right, with their Indian pride brainwashing.
Fear and xenophobia hits the hardest in two-second street reads, right?
For women.
That’s the window.
Two seconds.
That’s the only window you can control, and that is the only one that matters when you’re standing in front of a stranger in daytime.
Does assimilation stop hate?
No, it does not stop Indian hate.
But these are two different questions, you see.
Two different answers because yes, for getting laid, no for stopping hate.
You’re not climbing a white man’s ladder when you walk up to a girl on the sidewalk, okay?
Nobody’s ranking you against the Founding Fathers.
She’s deciding if she wants to keep walking or stop and talk to you.
The first message is already sent by your body language.
55% of your communication is nonverbal.
And the real weakness is not just your looks.
Let’s talk about that.
The adaptation is the real weakness.
Other Indian coaches claim that over-adapting signals weakness, is low ease at.
But in my opinion, they got it backwards.
Real, the real weakness is knowing your presentation hurts you and doing absolutely nothing about it.
Fuck izzat.
“Oh, I’ve got low izzat if I…”
No.
Some of these other Indian dating coaches take that word and twist it into a dominance, win-at-all-costs mentality.
Don’t assimilate, so that way you have higher izzat.
That appeals to your narcissism, and here’s how it works.
It’s the wrong mindset in the West.
I guarantee you, you will not get white girls thinking that is low izzat.
In fact, what you’re doing is low izzat.
That’s not respect.
That’s performing dominance, and that’s rooted in old feudal and caste thinking, where the high people never touch the dirty work.
Even when nobody says the word caste anymore, the entitlement is still sitting there in the Indian mindset.
So apply that to your outfit.
Whitewashed.
Fix your hair, learn a new tonality, change the shirt.
Take instructions from me, the world’s best daygame coach.
She cares how you make her feel in the first two seconds by being whitewashed, talking like a white man right in front of her, like my Pakistani mentor, being husband material.
That’s the whole game.
Dominance over a server doesn’t get you laid.
Dominance over her isn’t what she wants either.
And then you have very narcissistic parents, right?
It’s like, “Beta, why are you not sending money through Remitly back at home,” right?
Like, lots of narcissism that happens in Indian culture.
If you’re not married, right, with arranged marriage, what would other people in our family and friends think about us, right?
“You’re making us look bad, beta.”
Your izzat isn’t protecting you.
Your izzat is keeping you single.
Burn it, right?
Fuck that mentality.
I say stop worshiping them.
Because they’re not protecting you.
They’re protecting the sale of their bhenchod camp for $8,600 or $20,000.
I know all this stuff.
I know all this stuff.
I know more about you than you know about yourself.
You get to a white barber and you say, “This is John Elite’s fashion.”
“I want exactly the same.”
“The same fade, the same everything.”
It’s not the same haircut that you got in high school in India.
You know how people, when they’re singing, right, like British singers?
You know them, like Elton John and other people.
Ozzy Osbourne, rest in peace.
But when they sing their song, there’s no accent.
There’s no accent at all.
But it’s the same thing for Indian people.
If they sing through the way they speak, there is no accent at all.
You see that?
When you speak confidently, like everybody understands you, and you blame Indian hate.
In reality, you need to have a speech therapist, or you can use Elite Tonality Mastery to fix your speech.
[Playing the Indian reporter audio clip again. The speech is difficult to understand in this context.]
It doesn’t move, like, sideways, like the word tree, right?
Tree.
Apple.
Upwards.
Apple.
It just, like, flops around, right, with a lazy mouth, right?
Like Russians, they…
Even Russians, they speak like this with a lazy mouth, right?
Indians, they speak the same way.
They don’t move their mouth.
There’s like…
Their face muscles are like Botox face.
No, it’s your vocal tonality.
But you fix your tonality, you fix your fashion, whitewashed fashion, husband material, then she cannot pair it with Indian.
She thinks you’re Middle Eastern or Latino or something else.
So when you slow down and you stretch your words a little bit more, and your voice gets smoother by singing it through it like a song, then the stuttering goes away.
And then it’s like you just keep plowing and talking, and then you keep stacking and stacking and then try to do more romantic flirts.
“Oh, I’m starting to fall in love with you, right?”
“Like, looking at your lips.”
Like…
So basically, when I talk like this, like stuttering, and I talk the word very quickly, and then she doesn’t understand.
She’s like, “What’d you say?”
I said that, um, “You have a creative and artistic vibe about you.”
“What?”
“You have a creative and artistic vibe about you.”
“I’m sorry, creative and what?”
“A creative and artistic vi-“
“What, did you call me artistic?”
Never mind.
You can have an Indian accent and sound clear.
See, it’s always like the first two lines are clear, and then the third one you have to say, “Pardon me, can you repeat yourself?”
Every single time.
Two clear, one pardon me, repeat yourself.
It’s not like I’m trying to be mean.
But think about it this way, if you talk like this and you call it Indian hate, it’s not Indian hate.
It’s not.
It’s because they don’t understand what you’re saying.
That’s the truth.
My Pakistani mentor assimilated.
He gets hotter women than any other Indian dating coaches.
I’ve seen them, 10 out of 10 and 9 out of 10s.
He posed like fucking 15 of them in front of me in the mansion that looks like Instagram models.
Every single one’s like 9 out of 10.
15 in a row, you’re like, “What the fuck?”
Because he does not care about this stuff.
He’s not using Jugaad.
He’s using skills, skill maxing, not Jugaad or using alcohol.
Does that make sense?
He’s not.
He’s just purely 100% skills.
If you don’t fit in there, you can use alcohol, heavy bedroom escalation, and also Stockholm syndrome, where a hostage sides with the captor.
It’s not Indian hate.
It’s tough love.
Somebody needs to say this.
UMP, right?
You don’t sexualize every single, like, five seconds.
Have to ask sexualization.
Third, you gotta handle the sexual objections and loop that until she says okay, and I’ll teach you how to do that.
Objections, right, and loop it until she says yes or okay.
You’re like, “You can really do that?”
Yes.
Without alcohol, without Jugaad, without that, without alcohol and cheating the process.
Sober.
You are not allowed to use alcohol.
Guys who can’t take a no and they don’t look like husband material, they try to…
They’ll get in trouble.
They’ll be like this Clavicular mindset of getting her drunk as a skunk. Super drunk, and then escalate her.
That’s the quickest way to get a rape charge, especially in North America.
Don’t fucking fuck with alcohol.
Assimilation will not stop Indian hate, but it will get you laid by removing xenophobia so you’re an in-tribe.
Remember, she reads all that before you say a word.
We can fix that so you don’t have this borderline personality face of this frown.
“Oh, everyone hates Indian people.”
Indian hate before you approach.
She’s gonna reject me.
Yeah, she’s rejecting you because you’re like saying, “You have a creative and artistic vibe about you.”
“Are you an artist?”
“Oh, you’re not an artist.”
“Oh, that’s bad.”
It’s always this stupid fucking face, right?
This punchable face.
“Oh, that’s bad.”
So what you do then if you’re not an artist?
“Well, that’s bad.”
Fuck that.
Shut the fuck up, right?
If you took away the Jugaad of the alcohol, and that is just pulling with romantic flirts, but if you take away the Jugaad, then you no longer get laid.
Does that make sense?
But if you’re not lazy, you have resilience, and you don’t let arranged marriages from your parents…
“Oh, beta, when are you gonna get married?”
You’re like over 30, right?
And then they take away your fucking motivation because of the arranged fucking marriages.
Fuck that.
You gotta burn the boats behind you and not go for fucking arranged marriage to raise your parents’ izzat.
You created your own double chin, your own weight gain, your own cortisol stress.
That kind of mentality, super Indian-washed, bench-holding mindset, women don’t like that.
They like what my other students have: resilience, focus, whitewashed tonality, skill set, husband material.
They don’t experience Indian hate.
They experience Indian love.
Does that make sense?
They don’t even know what the fuck Indian hate is.
Look, I’m sure this is a good product, right?
And if it works, I’ll probably recommend it, but I just can’t understand him.
It’s just a bit of a turn-off.
If he just pronounced his words, he’ll get a lot more people buying his products because it’s well featured on that website.
I don’t care if it’s an Indian accent, but you also have the…
Look at him.
The bench-holding beard, the coconut oil hair.
No, man.
No.
It’s just…
So what keyword, what URL are you getting cannibalized with?
So you can fix that.
Topic of cluster, basically cluster the whole, understand the whole brand.
[Playing an audio clip of an Indian person speaking. The speech is difficult to understand in this context.]
What’s he saying?
Whole GSC for 65 days.
Cluster all of the topic that you have in different clusters, branded, non-branded.
You can add your branded keywords and, you know, topics.
What?
Get this cluster.
Under this cluster, what are the queries you have?
How many clicks you have got based on different time?
What?
So what you’re trying to analyze.
CT analysis something.
It analyzes high-performance analysis.
What?
Zero-click queries.
You’re getting a lot of…
What?
Impressions but zero clicks.
What are the areas we can further…
What?
Optimize the meta and everything so that…
What?
You can start traffic.
Okay, now he’s just like, he’s not even pronouncing the words anymore.
In the beginning of the video, at least two of the sentences are pronounced, and the third one is just stuttering with a lazy mouth that doesn’t move, and not singing through it, creating an accent.
Now it’s just like all of it is unclear.
But anyways, there’s a financing plan available, too, if you can’t afford it.
If you’re ADHD and you have a bhenchod beard and a double chin and that’s all you can afford, get Elite 30.
You can have an accent, trust whitewash, and you still get pussy with my training.
But in reality, that’s why they’re always stuck.
But here’s the part I always say, and I mean it.
I honestly don’t know how much longer I can keep this available at this price.
It might go up.
I already raised the price back to its original price.
If a boot camp is $8,600 and you don’t get laid, but only in the past years, what’s seven times $8,600?
It’s quite a lot of money.
What, is it $48,000?
I don’t know, something like that.
So what is $8,600 times seven?
I’ll just ask Gemini.
That’s $60,200.
Remember, if you train here, you get nothing but tough love.
You get the truth.
And if you’re bench-held, right, you don’t actually do the work, it is your fault.
-John Elite
P.S the year isn’t over yet, you can still get laid before the end of the year. I can give you the capabilities. You have to have the motivation. If you don’t, due to money issues, overweight with cortisol, double chinned and losing your hair due to it. Or super short? well maybe sit this one out. For the rest, that are pickup artist types. Let me get you laid. No bhenchoding allowed.
