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The biggest reason Indian guys in the west quit daygame right when they’re about to succeed isn’t approach anxiety…
It’s having an arranged marriage waiting for them as Plan B.
Burn the boats behind you and focus only on daygame instead in the west.
Hey, did you know that some of my Indian students in the West face pressure from their parents to get married as they get older?
Even with arranged marriage being an option, this pressure can kill your motivation for daygame.
When you’re about to get laid with a stunner, you start half-assing it and cockblocking yourself.
Then you quit, even though you were just about to win.
Due to your parents’ pressure for an arranged marriage, you always have a Plan B.
But you should never have a backup plan if you genuinely want to succeed with daygame and choose your own partner.
I got many Indian students married, procreating and engaged. The women they are with are not Indian women.
I don’t teach Indian students from India, only in the west.
I know it sounds crazy because we’re so used to hearing that we should appease our parents.
You want to make your parents happy, even when they’re being controlling and aren’t doing this for what you actually want.
They want to maintain a better image in front of their friends and family.
You think it’s easier to just give up and let your parents choose your partner.
Mind you, I’m specifically talking about Indian students living in the West.
I’ve helped many Indian students get married or engaged through daygame.
I enjoy helping my Indian students succeed.
But I’m going to share three secrets with you today that are going to revolutionize the way you think about appeasing your parents.
Stick around. I promise I will go into more details about these 3 things.
- The first secret is that if you’re Indian, you should stop treating arranged marriage as your automatic backup plan and focus on daygame if choosing your own partner is what you really want.
- The second secret is that you should not care more about your controlling parents narcissistic image or social standing than your own future.
- The third secret is that my Indian students who get married often marry people from other ethnic backgrounds, including white, Black, and Latina women. Not Indian women.
You need to realize that appeasing controlling parents doesn’t necessarily create a happier future.
You can end up repeating the same patterns of control and pressure in the next generation.
I’m John Elite, and I’m the world’s best daygame coach, who still gets students laid in 2026, unlike other daygame coaches in the Game Global platform scammer network who post old shit.
I have 701 laid-and-pulled testimonials for daygame.
So what is the big update?
Cut off all arranged-marriage talk from your brain when you’re doing my daygame training.
There is no backup plan.
You burn all the boats behind you and march forward.
Even if you have bad focus, you need to commit to the process.
You should choose who you marry in the future.
Not your parents.
My students have married people from different ethnic backgrounds, including white, Black, and Latina women.
Some of my Indian students have built relationships they never thought were possible before.
If your parents are that controlling, and you’re sending money back home through services like Remitly, they shouldn’t automatically get to decide who you marry.
You need to make your own decisions.
So I’m going to share three secrets about why you should choose who you marry in the future, not your parents, and how you can cut off that backup option so that you can focus on finding a partner through daygame yourself.
If you’re lazy, like some of my Indian students, as much as I enjoy helping them get laid, you have to accept the consequences.
If you don’t follow through, and you stonewall because you can’t complete the homework, you’re going to remain stuck.
That’s the consequence of taking the easy, safe route of appeasement.
And I know what you’re probably thinking.
“It’s too hard to daygame as an Indian because of Indian hate,” or some bullshit.
But again, I’m going to show you a great way to stop worshipping Indian dating coaches as your only option and assuming that everything comes down to game.
You can get amazing results by developing the right skills and following a structured system.
The first secret is that if you’re Indian, you should stop treating arranged marriage as your automatic backup plan and focus on daygame if choosing your own partner is what you really want.
If you’re Indian, it’s time to stop relying on arranged marriage as your go-to backup plan.
Seriously, if finding your own partner is what you really want, then you need to focus on daygame.
Here’s the thing… having a Plan B is kind of like setting yourself up for failure.
You need to burn those boats behind you and ditch any backup plans that are dragging you away from your goals.
Take this example.
If you’ve been living in the West and your family keeps nagging you about getting married because, you know, time’s ticking, that kind of pressure can seriously mess with your head.
If your aim is daygame, you’ve got to understand how that weight of expectation impacts your drive.
I work with a lot of Indian students here, and honestly, I’ve seen this kind of pressure crush their motivation.
Just when they’re about to score with an amazing girl, they trip themselves up or throw in the towel.
It’s like they’re digging a tunnel… getting closer to that treasure… and then, poof!
They just quit for no good reason.
Sometimes, it’s all about the fear of disappointing their parents.
Look, I love helping my Indian students find success, but someone’s gotta say it.
Let me share a story.
There was this one student from Vancouver who actually pulled a Ukrainian woman.
He was looking pretty sharp being white washed,
and she had this Megan Fox look going on with dark hair and light blue eyes.
She was totally into him, which honestly surprised him…
especially him being Indian.
But guess what?
He ended up going back to an Indian woman instead.
He totally forgot about what he learned for the arrow science. Manuever, sexualize, objections looping and didn’t seal the deal.
She was still begging to meet with him again, but he didn’t persue it.
Just a real missed opportunity, you know?
If she became his girlfriend and he married her later one hypothetically. He would pass off better genees.
The second secret is that you should not care more about your controlling parents narcissistic image or social standing than your own future.
Alright, so here’s the deal: you really shouldn’t prioritize your controlling parents image or social status over your own future.
Seriously, they’re worried about how they look in front of friends and family.
But if you’re single and getting older, it’s time to stop putting your dreams on hold just to dodge their critiques.
If you want to dive into the dating scene, go for it!
Focus on daygame, if that’s your thing.
But let’s be clear here: I’m not saying all Indians are narcissistic.
What I’m getting at are those controlling parents I’ve seen with some of my students.
These parents often expect you to send money back home… like, they might want you to use services like Remitly.
It’s wild because, in some families, you’re not just their kid.
They see you as their ticket to retirement, expecially narcissistic Asian parents.
Yep, they expect you to take care of them later, even if it clashes with your own happiness.
I also had an Asian student who was in a tough spot because his parents wanted to move to the USA to live with him.
He wasn’t down for that at all.
And we both know how it feels to have tiger parents, right?
If you’re not a doctor, an engineer, or a lawyer, forget it… you’re a letdown.
Now, with some of my Indian students, there’s this extra layer of pressure around arranged marriages.
That’s another pitfall for those who might be influenced by traditional norms.
If you want to be happy, you can’t let your parents call all the shots.
Students who let that kind of pressure sink in often start to lose their focus and procrastinate.
Then, when the going gets tough?
They just shut down, like a fuse box tripping.
It’s a bad mindset to have.
Take, for example, one of my Indian engineer students from London.
He’s looking to get engaged to a white girl.
But he keeps putting off asking her to marry him, all because his parents are on his case about it.
He was the one who approached her, and I reminded him that their future kids could be a blend of both cultures… half white, half Indian.
He hadn’t even considered that before.
The third secret is that my Indian students who get married often marry people from other ethnic backgrounds, including white, Black, and Latina women. Not Indian women.
So, here’s something interesting: a lot of my Indian students who decide to tie the knot often choose partners from different ethnic backgrounds… you know, like white, Black, or Latina women.
It’s not typically Indian women that they’re marrying.
For instance, one of my students had a relationship with an Asian woman.
She got pregnant, but sadly, they went through a miscarriage.
But honestly, it’s pretty enriching to explore relationships with people from all sorts of backgrounds.
Think about it… your kids can grow up surrounded by diverse cultural influences and experiences.
It’s a win-win.
Plus, if you’ve come from a family background where there’s been a lot of controlling behavior, it gives you a chance to break that cycle.
You can create a family environment that’s different from what you experienced.
Now, I’m not saying that every Indian family is the same, because that’s definitely not the case.
But if controlling dynamics were part of your past, it’s worth reflecting on what you want for your own kids.
Take one of my students, for example.
He married a Latina woman, and they now have a daughter who’s half Indian and half Latina.
He actually started off with a Latina girlfriend, got her pregnant, and then they got married.
That’s just how it unfolded.
Now, I know what you’re thinking.
“You have to honor your parents’ wishes and spend another generation in their controlling environment. Otherwise, they’ll continue to hound you over and over again about getting married.”
Well, the tricky thing is that you have to stop being lazy and procrastinating.
Don’t fall into the trap of arranged marriage simply because it’s the easiest option.
You need to make your own decisions about your future.
Some of my white-washed Indian students have married white women after becoming more assimilated into Western society.
And so I’ve created Elite Bundle Resurrections, which you can get laid by financing it in three pieces.
I have 701 laid-and-pulled testimonials for daygame.
I get students laid month after month, even this year.
I’m not posting old student results like other daygame coaches you worship.
And so what this is going to do is help you get laid as an Indian man by becoming more white-washed and developing the social skills, social calibration, and emotional control you need.
Stop half-assing mass approaches and being lazy with stupid Mystery Method-like game techniques.
And I, as the world’s best daygame coach, who still gets students laid in 2026, unlike other daygame coaches in the Game Global platform scammer network who post old shit, have 701 laid-and-pulled testimonials for daygame.
What I do is give you a very transferable style of game.
As long as you invest in yourself and don’t procrastinate, you can build new habits through your neural pathways with 30-day challenges that can get you laid in weeks, just like my students this year.
So what I’ve done is create a financing plan you can afford because you cannot afford their boot camps anyway, which cost $8,000 or more for bhenchodcamps.
But you have to invest in yourself rather than being cheap and trying to do everything yourself, like a self-proclaimed expert who has no idea what the fuck he’s talking about.
Or worshipping daygame coaches of your own ethnicity as your only option while they post old stuff over and over again.
It’s like a piece of clothing that gets torn down and rebuilt, but it’s the same outfit or the same old testimonials.
And when we get together tomorrow, I’m going to give you all the details about how you can get started.
I honestly don’t know how much longer I’ll keep Elite Bundle Resurrections available.
Prices will probably go up because procrastinators and stonewallers are losers.
I won’t take on a lazy student full of cortisol stress, with a double chin and no resilience or tenacity, who quits easily just when they’re about to progress to the next level.
So make sure you click the link tomorrow to get all the details while it’s still available.
I’m always here to help, and I can’t tell you all the amazing results I’ve gotten for negative-stereotype minority daygamers just like you.
You’re struggling with controlling parents, even if you live in the West.
They’re always telling you to get married when you’re over 30.
This can kill your daygame motivation.
Sometimes, students will stonewall just when they’re about to make major progress because they still have the option of an arranged marriage.
I think it’s better to choose who you want to marry.
Don’t make that decision just to protect your parents’ image or avoid their embarrassment in front of other families.
Some parents will pressure you nonstop to get married as you get older.
But this is your life.
You need to decide what you want.
I can’t wait to see you on the inside.
Have a great day.
-John Elite
