A GREAT WAY TO DEAL WITH FEAR IN EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE INCLUDING DATING

WHAT CAUSES FEAR IN THE FIRST PLACE. THE AMYGDALA. IT CONTROLS THE FIGHT, FLIGHT, FREEZE RESPONSE

The amygdala is the part of the brain that regulates fight, flight and freeze response.

It was something that protected us during a caveman days.

If there was a Saber tooth tiger, however, you can either choose to fight it, freeze

or flight, meaning running away.

However, according to mystery, even though I don’t give a fuck what he says.

He claimed that the reason why you have approached anxiety is because in the tribe, if you approach the alpha males girlfriend, you will get your head bashed in by the alpha male.

If that is true, then that could explain a little bit about approaching anxiety.

I don’t put a lot of stock into the Mystery or Misery Method for Aspie fucks with no social skills gamifying everything..

YOU MIGHT NOT HAVE APPROACH ANXIETY, BUT FOR THE RARE FEW, YOU MIGHT HAVE SOCIAL PHOBIA. AN IRRATIONAL FEAR

What is epigenetics?

Every single generation of your family tree, they’ll pass on epigenetic traits.

It’s like a light switch that either goes on or off.

My grandma is really, really good at cooking, but I never figured out I could even cook until later in my life.

It turns out I’m extremely good at it and it comes very easily to me.

If you had a fear of snakes, however, it could have been something you’ve encountered or your ancestors have encountered before and got bitten.

I myself have no fear of snakes whatsoever since I can literally put one over my back as I have done many times before

Of course those snakes from pet owners doesn’t bite

but maybe in my family tree, nobody has been bitten by a snake before.

Once this light switch has turned on, you become more and more afraid of snakes.

I do have a slight fear of heights

I fear swimming too, but I almost drown so that is mental trauma when I was younger

I slipped into the pool, was under there for a few mins trying to get up

so that is within my generation,

not the ones before…

But it can also represent somebody in your past had a problem when they were approaching and they got in trouble for.

You start to develop this excessive fear for no reason at all.

Sometimes you might even have a fear when she’s in the bedroom, your whole body just shuts down.

This could have been something given to you in your epigenetics.

So this is no longer just a fear because of mental trauma.

But it is a fear that is created from epigenetics which almost resembles a phobia, or what they call it an irrational fear.

I had a student who was so afraid to make an approach, he had this instinct that he would get hurt from approaching

in reality, he is half Latino, but acts white

could of been epigenetics from one side of the family

however, this is only a working theory so far.

I don’t have opinions as facts, but facts as opinions, so we will see.

ITS NOT WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU, ITS WHAT YOU DO ABOUT IT THAT MATTERS.

So what can you do about it?

Here are some good tips that you can start to use.

It is not what happens to you during the fear,

but what you do about it.

When the amygdala fear hits, some people have more of a fight response where they sound angrier.

Others have a freeze response.

They completely freeze up when they talk to women in general.

Other people though, that has the worst response of all is the ones who needs to run away as fast as possible.

Regardless of your responses…

They are very predictable.

Then you also have a voice telling you that this is not good and you must escape.

When you do freeze up or you want to run away, your body language starts to hunch.

Very much like Todd V, except this guy has no social skills whatsoever and hunches like crazy…

because he has no social calibrations.

By the way, you can do the opposite of hunching by sticking out your chest and standing up straight.

You can also tell your mind that everything’s gonna be OK

or is not so bad, over and over again.

Eventually you start to counter the signal to the point where you’re able to do things.

So if you find yourself being afraid in life, unable to take major risk,

perhaps you need to jam up the signal over and over.

That is not so bad.

You can remap this even at home

every steps has a new set of fears

you can even rehearse this at home until you stick out your chest, say it isn’t so bad

Eventually you will remap everything

So when you stick out your chest, you go against the signal and excuses

THE OLD WAY WORKS FOR MOST PEOPLE. WHICH IS DOING THINGS PROGRESSIVELY. LIKE WALKING PART WAY UP TO HER, PRETENDING YOU HAVE A PHONE CALL WALKING BACK.

This reduces a lot of fear

but it doesn’t remap it

you can lower it or wither it away

eventually you can do this walking past her and back until it is withered away

for one student I talked about with socio phobia, not approach anxiety

the word phobia…

this didn’t work

This works for 99% of the people, but not that 1%

the advice above this works better.

I’ve used it for 3 students with the phobia who thought it was literally life and death fear.

But progressively, eventually asking for directions, working your way up

then transitioning to oh btw, I just noticed something about you…

then change the topic.

This opener has a 100% succcess rate

just as the social phobia was able to get that last 1% but this advice progressively will work for 99% of the people

I’M NOT TODD V. GIVING RANDOM STUPID ADVICE THAT DOESN’T WORK THAT SOUNDS GOOD

That would be called idealistic thinking, not proof based thinking

This stuff is proof based thinking

it works

Also, if you jump into it without remapping or doing it progressively, the 3 second rule, you will fuck up your brain

you will talk so fast, that she will walk away

you would SMV it,

but without SMV, sure you get over your intitial fear

but at the same time you also talk fast

you go so fast into the pool you drown.

DID I GIVE YOU THE EXACT STEP BY STEP, NOT DOWN TO EVERY DETAIL. BUT I GIVEN YOU THE STRATEGY OF IT, THE TACTICS OF IT. NOT THE GROUND LEVEL

That requires training from me

But this is not some opinions as facts

this has been a scientic

I even had to do a mental trauma cure, plus approach anxiety cure, yeah that is what I will call it

two things for one student

he had the worst approach anxiety but I said it was a phobia

I took care of it like a phobia

He went to Todd V, RSD mandison, it didn’t work

it made it worst

so he is so happy for the first time in life he can finally approach.

THIS WAS THE WORST APPROACH ANXIETY, PHOBIA I EVER SEEN..

Since everything has been remapped, i’m letting him start 3MP back to day 1

sure he compensated me for the effort, the cure

he wants to start again,

thats fair.

I will..

but going through the advice other dating coaches can’t fix

its easy to dismiss what I am saying

like I never heard of this remapping idea before, sticking your chess, saying its not so bad remapping it

THAT’S WHY I CRUSH THE DAYGAME INDUSTRY

I DEPEND ON OTHER DATING COACHES DISMISSING IT.

When they do I take all the laid testimonials

I’m not a sociopath with opinions as facts..

but I have facts as opinions.

I also had a student from Mexico come here to remap it

I never wanted to reveal this technology to the world as others thinks they have the cure

I wanted hidden away like a lot of my other technologies nobody knows

but now you know it exist..

I can get you over your approach anxiety in 1 hour, without you approaching at all progressively remapping it

then when you go back out there, the fear is gone when you stick out your chess

so you don’t have to hunch which is like fight, flight, freeze response

you are creating a counter signal to the problem.

I’M MAKING UPDATES TO ELITE ACCESS. I WANT THE STUDENTS TO HAVE THE FIRST MONTH AS A SETUP MONTH..

I WANT MORE LAID TESTIMONIALS, IN THE BEGINNING A LOT OF THE ISSUES CAN EASILY BE SOLVED

But since they have 2 questions a day, I don’t want a protracted warfare, metaphorically speaking

I want results,

I know there is already 543 laid/pull testimonials…

but that is not enough. Why not 600

remember this isn’t stupid Tinder, those don’t count

its not pickup

only pickup counts

But most of my mine are daygame.

I don’t care about night game which is easier

I’m modifying the Elite Access program where you have a list of things

like a new job where you have to learn the basic skills before you train up…

Then again most of my jobs in my life has been, being a dating coach.

I don’t have much of a frame of reference for a job…

I’m always thinking, optimize, automate, optimize, efficiciency first principles, remove steps, automate, optimize, optimize.. first principles… not reason by analogy like Mystery said…

I want more laid testimonials.

543, Still 57 more…

Black student I want him to get 50 lays before the end of this year…

There is always room to optimize.

Plus people are a bit afraid and in survival mode during this inflation soon to be recession

So they would need a new set of mindsets or paradigm.

How much of this could I automate? or even have the advice ahead of time?

Maybe I could write the advice ahead of time on whatsapp, they go through that for the first month…

The old you isn’t good enough to handle my training

like the army, you need to be rebuilt.

I know I rule with an iron fist when I train people

but they get results, fast..

-John Elite

P.S my standards are so high. For them getting 3 laid testimonials is supposed to be good. I’m thinking 600 is better for me. Even 6000..

They can’t even get 6 for daygame.

For the mindset playlist when you sign up for the free same day lay training.. I have reduced the video size to make it more efficient.