I want to talk about this topic.
There seems to be a pattern about my students for relationships.
I want to talk about the dynamics of it
While I don’t care for relationships, I get bored of women after sex, I don’t want to see them more than twice…
Lets go off topic…
But when students ask me for advice on Elite Access, its not always about same day lays, daygame this daygame that
When they are in relationships, they work on other areas.
I give them advice on working out, diet advice, like intermitting fasting
Sometimes they ask me about politics, trying to understand the chaos of the world…
During the next few months, it might become a recession.. so I hope their relationships are intact
Some of my students are married, engaged, procreated….
They usually drop all the PUA shit after they are in a relationship…
A LOT OF STUDENTS, WHEN THEY DO PUA STUFF, IMAGINE THEIR LIVES BEFOREHAND. WITH NO OPTIONS….
Most of my students if not always all, doesn’t cheat.
There was two cases of that happening, but its very rare…
I think talking about it, can give you a lot of wisdom…
I obviously don’t teach my students to cheat….
But why did two of them did that?
THE FIRST STORY WAS, THE CHINESE STUDENT RECENTLY… BUT WHY DID HE WANT TO CHEAT?
MOST DOESN’T DO IT, BUT IMAGINE HE WAS A GOOD LOOKING GUY.
But for some reason, he has the exact same lack of empathy as other Chinese guys
Even recently he is struggling with it
But he was using Justin Wayne’s game.
Who is Justin Wayne? Dis Negro..
He is Jamacian, but he is generation 4 PUA.
First generation, me, mystery, Ross Jefferies
Second gen, RSD, david deangelo, those mother fuckers. JT Scam, not a scam. But mystery variant… which isn’t for daygame
Third generation was simple pickup,
Forth was the Justin Wayne era which is the same day lay type of era…
Fifth is funnels, status maxing. Its common, there are like more than 50 coaches doing this kind of stuff.
A LOT OF THINGS I SAID IN THIS VIDEO, NOT EVERYONE CAN FIT INTO THE BOYFRIEND GIRLFRIEND ERA.
He didn’t get a lot of lays, if any…
He just used romance, hang around the women for months… then she fell for him
He used to have those K-Pop bangs…
Imagine how fustrated he was…
If he wanted to cheat that’s his perogative… but I didn’t know he had a girlfriend…
You have to imagine, being good looking, tall, but skinny, muscular, ectomorph
This shows during the pandemic it isn’t all looks
But he needed to get it out his system.
So he doesn’t feel hungry, what if
He eventually got really big in 2 months…
more muscles in 2 months using my workout plan than 2 years.
It doesn’t mean it is easier during the pandemic….
Omnicron, its harder
Even looks is making you below the line
Only my students are getting laid non stop..
ANOTHER VIETNAMESE GUY, A TOTAL IMPOSSIBLE CASE. DOESN’T LISTEN TO A SINGLE ONE OF MY INSTRUCTIONS.
He was better looking his girlfriend.
He eventually cheated on her with a prostitute.
I was like wth are you doing?
Then he wanted to kill himself, but she never left…
She used to mentally abuse him non stop, be paranoid he would cheat..
A lot of times, its common among their girlfriends, if they are better looking than her… or their wife. They would get a lot of unnecessary suspicion.
But afterwards he told me he won’t learn daygame, he won’t live without her or can’t
So I told him just marry her, but get out of Elite Access….
THAT’S ALL I CAN REMEMBER, BUT OTHER STUDENTS DOESN’T CHEAT…
MY OTHER STUDENTS WHO ARE IN RELATIONSHIPS, ENGAGED, MARRIED DON’T CHEAT.. WHY?
WHAT DO THEY USE ELITE ACCESS FOR IF THEY DON’T CHEAT?
its very simple, they ask me other stuff
Like about the pandemic,
What is going on in the world for trends
How to make more money for their job…
Also. how to fix their relationship problems
It all makes perfect sense to me, even if I don’t care for relationships, it does nothing for me.
All the algorithms of it makes perfect sense of it..
WHEN THE LONDON STUDENT, OR BOTH. THE BALD GUY… HE GOT MARRIED.
The last thing he cared about was PUA shit..
Their mind switches to relationship mode.
I help give them advice as if I was Elon Musk or a genius….
They like my mental filter.
I can predict the future with scary precision.
They think I am psychic.
Plus, what I tell my students now is Russia feels backed up, doing the lesser of two evils imo.
They feel if Ukraine joins Nato, even if they aren’t allowed to, they can risk if they attack Ukraine again, like they have annexed crimea in the past… they will have to fight every other country
Most people didn’t care…
Now there is a big war…. but others doesn’t want to get involved…
If it escalates, Russia imo will go to the border to Poland next
then come after Finland…
I JUST FOUND THESE ON MY TIMELINE, TURNS OUT MY PREDICTION IS COMING TRUE. THIS IS WHY PEOPLE LIKES TO ASK ME ABOUT FUTURE EVENTS. I TEND TO BE ALWAYS ABLE TO PREDICT THE NEXT 4 MONTHS. THEN WHEN IT HAPPENS, I ALWAYS SAY TO STUDENTS I TOLD YOU SO…
United states is in Poland right now, so they aren’t invading there yet…
The united states is doing join exercises with Poland…
Then it will escalate with China going after Taiwan…
China already called out Kamillia Harris on not visiting Taiwan… or it would escalate…
Everything will unfold exactly how I predicted it.
I myself am well versed military strategy, I’ve studied it for so many years.
I’m like Sun Tzu reincarnated or something… Still
Then Russia will help china at that point…
Russia and Ukraine owns 30% of all the wheat supply.
Russia also owns a lot of the fertilizer that supplys the crops.
Also, a lot of oil too
Most likely Putin is the richest man in the world, Elon Musk is number 2.
That’s what they ask me
I tell them, better work hard at your job… also, in a relationship, if the world turns more into a recession, make sure you take care of your wives, or your girlfriend.
It can be a very trying time, but you guys needs to stay with each other… really work through it.
After the storm looking back, their lives will be so much better
IF SHE IS WITH YOU AT YOUR WORST, SHE WILL BE THERE AT YOUR BEST LATER ON….
Sometimes I think in life, what seems chaotic and bad now, will later lead to a strong relationship.
I remember my old roomate, one of advice I gave him was his girlfriend and him argued a lot
but he established boundries, she started to respect him
Then the relationship was fine
If it goes downwards, on a scale, lets say green, yellow red… then lots of argument will happen.
When he re-established respect, it was fine.
They are still together today
I REMEMBER ONE INDIAN STUDENT, HE ASKED ME FOR ADVICE. HIS SISTER HAD A WEDDING.
He also asked me how to make more money, I taught him how to land a 100k job or more…
Its not always about daygame.
I’m a genius after all, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know that my mental filter can be utilized if I wanted to for any area of life.
In India they give the groom a gift for his sister
He didn’t know how to come up with the money for it
He was freaking the fuck out..
I told him not to make his wife pay at all, or too much, I don’t want financial pressure on her.
I don’t give him daygame advice ever….
you can look at my phone, its advice like this, how to maintain and improve his life, job, other areas
Daygame wasn’t even discussed anymore
He was so selfless, he cared so much about his sister, even if I didn’t.
I can’t stand his sister, she seem very stubborn, one track mind…
He helped out.
But I came up with the strategy so it can be done.
Those are the kinds of things he uses Elite Access for. It worked..
I always take care of things for him, figure things out.
Or understanding world events..
He already put all that other stuff behind him. He is married, hes changed his role. No more PUA shit….. that’s a lifetime ago.
I also said we will run into a recession soon, so that’s why I said its important to maintain your relationships, through the hard times.
8.5% food inflation,
its going towards my predictions exactly… THIS NEWS STORY BROKE TODAY. I’VE MADE THIS PREDICTION OF A RECESSION AS YOU SEEN WITH MY OTHER SCREENSHOT I MADE BEFORE..
That’s why a lot of people love to ask me about predictions, they are always turn out right…
I can almost see into the future so that’s why I don’t fear the future as much
Already making big changes to my business, pivoting, while others aren’t…
It scares a lot of people too when all my predictions comes true..
I MADE THIS SCREENSHOT QUITE A WHILE AGO…. YES THAT IS AMERICAN DOLLARS, NOT SOME FAKE CASH PROP MONEY…
People used to ask me, crypto, I would draw out the charts in front of them, always turns out to be accurate
Even at the time, they taught me how to trade, in exchange for my mental filter to pick the biggest new coins that will go up…
I didn’t care about the money tbh… but yeah
In 4 months, you will have to eat humble pie to John Elite, everything will play out, especially to those people who are dimwitted, who thinks they are right, like my Spanish student.
He would be like, damn he couldn’t percieve it 4 months ago… with his logic…
Yeah, regardless, dismisssing my advice on Elite Access is not advised…
You put enough data into my brain, it starts to make sense of it…
THE WILL SMITH RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS WIFE CAN TEACH YOU A TON ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS….
He is simping on her, but she is a total sadistic narcissist.
For him, he supplicates too much, he loves her,
But she isn’t as attractive, she is below him
But he can’t see that
sometimes women mistreats their guys, but she still procreated with him when he simps
But still, there is no respect in that relationship.
the reason he slapped Chris Rock isn’t necessarily about him or his comment
He was laughing, but saw that she was unhappy.
Then he got upset, since he is such a simp… cucked
I mean when your wife cheated on a guy that is friends with their son, then the son cheers that guy on, that’s messed up.
Then you are the butt of many internet jokes
You will snap, even as a chance to look strong, masculine, when given the opportunity
This is one extreme of the spectrum…
MY OTHER STUDENTS, WHO ARE MARRIED, ENGAGED. IF THEY ARE BETTER LOOKING THAN THEIR WIFE, FIANCE OR GIRLFRIEND THE WOMEN SUBMITS, FORGIVES NO MATTER WHAT.
I want to talk about this whole dynamic why this is the other side of the spectrum, that is toxic…
One Chinese guy the psycho, his girlfriend lets him get away with anything since he is better looking
Its like she won the lottery with him.
They both are narcissistic
She talks so loud, mentally abusing him.
He gets gaslighted, then he ignores her, she gets angry, but attracted.
The whole vicious cycle continues..
She is his 8th lay, final one after my coaching
I didn’t know they stayed together tbh, I found out last minute she was his girlfriend…
Its not a good idea if the women knows who I am, she did.
They will never understand what the guy goes through…
Even if I was changing this psycho backstabbers life for the better, even if she treated me with respect
Women will never understand the guys, or their struggles
Women can’t see your gloominess of PUAs, just see the value…
Women will call it bad, PUA stuff… bad
I don’t teach PUA, I teach social skills, social calibrations,
then the results happens as a byproduct of social skills, social calibrations…
But women imo will never understand no matter how logically it seems
Women only sees a guys survival, replication value… that’s it.
She sees the 20/35..
When the students works out for these guys
I have a half Filipino student, with a Latina fiancé.
She always yells at him, she is mentally unstable..
If the guy is better looking than her, by a lot. She will mentally abuse them, so they can’t think
He would Skype with me, not for advice, since he can’t listen…
His eyes already changed, he snapped.
He gets mentally abused everyday, brainwashed, gaslighted as she accuses him of cheating when he didn’t…
Then lower their self esteem, tell them to gain weight, dress bad so she can keep other women away from him
But criticize them in the process for gaining that weight… losing attraction, arguing
It doesn’t make sense logically, its a double standard, but that is what my students goes through.
They attract these types of women, below their looks scale, but they are co-dependent on each other
its a downward spiral…
Since they have no empathy, or care, she gets more attracted, mistaken it as alpha behavior..
If you supplicate, you become more like Will Smith, which turns her off
If you are too nonchalant, or non caring…
you create attraction if you have higher SMV but you create a lot of emotional friction where she complains
But these guys can do no wrong,
she will always forgive…
Eventually she gets you so gaslighted….
you get married with her
She will be paranoid you will cheat…
in reality they want to make sure he doesn’t…
so she will be more emotionally invested in the marriage later on.
But that kind of behavior, pushes the guys away
They don’t cheat, but it is a turn off…
It is a relationship test..
IF SHE HAS RULES IN HER BRAIN, SOME WOMEN HAS SHOULDS, MUST.
Like in a relationship, he watches porn its cheating
or if he talks to another women, hes cheating
That’s very insecure. That’s too hysterical…
While its okay for her to look at other guys? or say that kind of things?
That’s a double standard
But women has no understanding of fairness, chivery, honor…
its just purely 99% of the time she looks at a guys relative value… or survival replication value
Its no coincidence most of my 5’11 students ends up in a relationship, without even using any romance… just because they have protector status
That’s why my students dress husband material,
Most women will have about 12 boyfriends before she gets married, some less.
But its always a taller guy, for those 12
Dressing husband material puts you out of the boyfriend frame, into the husband material frame. Puts you in the front of the line ahead of those 12 guys in the boyfriend frame
Most women at some point wants to get married…
My other students outside those 2 don’t cheat.
Neither does this guy for the half Filipino
But when he is younger, he used to be super good looking…
His fiancee isn’t taking care of herself, plus putting extreme demands on him as I taught him to work out so he gets control over the relationship again
But with that, she becomes a lazy narcissist
The most important thing a women can do for her man is to make him look good for status by taking care of herself, making him look good in society
That’s all a guy wants, also to be loved, respected.
Women these days, with their men is trash behavior is forgetting about all of that
IF YOU ARE LESS ATTRACTIVE YOU HAVE TO WORK ON YOURSELF, SURVIVAL REPLICATION VALUE
I always tell my students to work out, to improve themselves…
If they don’t listen they struggle.
Some students who has girlfriends, are married, have no money.
The women doesn’t care, since the student is tall, or good looking…
The problem is for those guys, if they are better looking, sure she is kept on the line, but she even doubles down on not taking care of herself then accuses him of cheating when he never physically cheated
She needs to maintain an attractive quality, since it makes the guy feel happier, raises his status in the eyes of others…
Both should take care of themselves together, work out together, spend time to maintain the attraction which is important
MY OTHER ADVICE IS SURVIVAL VALUE. MONEY CAN ALWAYS BE A BIG ISSUE IN A RELATIONSHIP.
Since a recession is coming, I say do your best to weather the storm
I also give them advice it is important to communicate.
Sometimes they rarely talk or really openly communicate for my students.
They just bicker at each other, when the relationship goes down to the yellow category… but they never talk or openly communicate…
It almost seems like he doesn’t listen, she is trying to get his attention
If she is better looking, not a good idea
Another big issue is, don’t be so aloof where she gets angry,
but attracted or simp so hard, she is with you, even procreated with you…
but she doesn’t respect you
THE TRUTH IS, WHAT DO MEN WANT?
- THEY WANT TO BE LOVED….
- THEY WANT TO BE RESPECTED….
Respect is very important for a relationship….
DID YOU KNOW THE LONDON STUDENT WITH 10 FUCK BUDDIES, 5 SOME, 2 MODELS, ONE MODEL GIRLFRIEND, WANTED TO BE A MPUA. MASTER PICKUP ARTIST. BUT AFTER HIS RELATIONSHIP HE DROPPED ALL THAT STUFF. ITS COMMON…
HE WAS AN INCEL. MEANING HE COULDN’T GET LAID
Its unfortunete, he is white
But the truth is during Omnicron, looks isn’t going to get you over that line or race…
You need social calibrations, social skills to get over that line
Tbh, he didn’t even listen to me
He watched my content… but he was listening to 3 other white coaches.
Some from London Daygame…
Also listening to Todd V
He nearly commited suicide…
I GOT HIM LAID, WITH AN ASIAN FUCK BUDDY HE HAD…
Then he finally listened to me
He couldn’t even get a fucking date, pull nothing with other white dating coaches… nothing zero.
Women can’t even imagine that… they can never empathize with guys
Women only see the 20/35, value, nothing else… like having blinders on like a horse does looking forward…
He worked so hard to get a same day lay with a Brazilian using Elite 30…
When he skyped with me 3x, every time first he learned social skills flow drill
It was almost like he can’t get rejected
Literally no rejections, all instadates, all pulls..
It took 2 weeks to master the social skills flow drill..
He eventually got it even if I yelled at him on Elite Access doing his drills
There was no other way…
It became second nature
WHAT HAPPENED AFTER HIS MODEL GIRLFRIEND?
It was simple, when he got all these lays out of his system…. he realized he doesn’t want to be a MPUA anymore (MASTER PICKUP ARTIST)
Most of my students had a dry spell so long, when they get that lay, they feel relieved.. then drop off a bit
These are regular guys..
You can’t top his girlfriend or her sister he accidentally banged since they are both blondes models…
Instagram models doesn’t count as models, but these were real professional models for a living in London. They were both Spanish from Spain.
That’s why they have a brighter complexion…
HE JUST WANTED TO BE LOVED, RESPECTED…
She loved him very much
She stick with him through the good and the bad…
He been through a really bad time
But she is a model, she has options, but guess what, she choose him.
He just wanted to be loved, have a family he later told me
He didn’t care anymore of the PUA life anymore…
This is common for a lot of my students with too many lays, they want a family or relationship.. not more lays…
Its like a warrior during peace time switching his role to peace time, or in a relationship.
Tons of my students are in a relationship… without romance.
but know how much they struggled
If women only experienced what they experienced, they might forgive them…
I saw a story on my facebook videos, you know those kinds when it has pawn shop, or some martial art videos, you can’t stop watching
I saw a women who was bisexual.. mixed.
She talked about dating women, but the women expected her to pay, treated her bad. Then she started to understand men better, realizing they were treated like crap.
Outside of her, women can never understand your struggle, cause her struggle is your survival, replication value level…
But they can’t ever understand it since they have unlimited options online… they can’t empathize…
I HOPE THAT IS EDUCATIONAL…
Women should help their man look good to raise his status in society, not put them down.
Make him look good in front of his boss, in front of his friends, in front of his family..
Men should set boundries to create attraction, but at the same time reward good behavior, not ignore their women so much
PUA stuff is what my students wants…
But it goes beyond that
I teach them many new skills when they go from wartime to peace time… a new role.
New skills, in business, dieting, exercise, all that stuff.
INSTEAD OF LABELLING ME AS TEACHING PUA…
NOBODY TEACHES SOCIAL SKILLS, SOCIAL CALIBRATIONS.
I teach more life skills
Its up to the students want they want to do with the tools.
But most just wants a long term relationship, or to get married.
Even with all the PUA shit or red pill shit which I don’t agree with
Making marriage not a priority..
Its what the students wants.
I have no idea why they think like this, but they do, I accept it…
thats why red pill needs to be destroyed, only I can do that… since I have the most laid testimonials in the world…
If we count other testimonials which I don’t, like how many students married, engaged, procreated, girlfriends… it doesn’t end…
They broke every metric
Most just want to settle down, get the skills for it. Then get out of this PUA stuff.
Without the skills, they wouldn’t even have the opportunity…
They would live a very dark life of depression, suicidal thoughts without me
I have changed so many peoples lives for the better…
I know it sounds counter intuitive…
Don’t lump me in the same category as them for other dating coaches
I’m a sheppard, a healer, a person who teaches skills…
Sometimes I get evil students, opportunistic users, backstabber type of vulture students… its comes with the territory…
on the surface, its not even PUA, it is just the mating dance from evolutionary psychology
Heavens game. Which leads to relationships for some of the students, engaged or married.
Some people move on.