HYPOTHETICALLY IF SOMEONE WAS POINTING A GUN AT YOUR LOVED ONES FAMILY HEAD… METAPHORICALLY SPEAKING, YOU HAD ONE MINUTE TO ADAPT… COULD YOU DO IT?
LETS USE A DIFFERENT SCENARIO… IF YOU HAD TO CROSS TWO BUILDINGS OVER A PLANK TO SAVE YOUR FAMILY WOULD YOU DO IT? NO
IF YOU HAD TO WALK OVER THERE OR SOMETHING WILL BLOW THEIR BRAINS OUT, YOU WILL WALK ACROSS THERE SUCCESSFULLY DUE TO MOTIVATION
You would definingly walk over the building to the other one if you had to cross a plank
PAIN IS A GREATER MOTIVATOR THAN COMFORT…
People either want to gain pleasure or reduce pain… That’s how human psychology is like in a nutshell…
MY STUDENT WAS ABLE TO DO IT. EVEN IF UNCHANGABLE…
THE EXERCISE WAS I WAS PLAYING AN AUDIO OF A GUN RACKING, BEFORE IT GOING OFF THEN I PAUSED IT. I SAID IF SOMEONE WAS GOING TO SHOOT YOUR BROTHERS HEAD OFF IF YOU DIDN’T GET THIS EXERCISE RIGHT…
He was sweating, so that is great… realistic..
LIKE MOST OF MY VIETNAMESE STUDENTS, THEY LOVE TO TALK FAST, BUNCH THE WORDS TOGETHER SINCE THAT WAS HOW THEIR FIRST LANGUAGE SOUNDED LIKE, EVEN IF YOU WERE BORN HERE…. SO IT WAS HABIT
He didn’t have a bad accent like my other Vietnamese student who was unteachable.. who was the laziest narcissistic student.
Both had low self esteem..
SURPRISE, SURPRISE, HE WAS ABLE TO DO IT… HE NEEDED THE RIGHT MOTIVATION. METAPHORICALLY SPEAKING HE SAVED HIS BROTHERS LIFE… YOU JUST NEED THE RIGHT MOTIVATION…
20 seconds left to spare… read on
YOU JUST NEED TO DO THE TECHNIQUE CORRECTLY ONCE, LIKE LEARNING A NEW PUNCH OR NEW KICK, OR IF YOU WERE HYPOTHETICALLY IN THE MILITARY LEARNING HOW TO SHOOT CORRECTLY
THEY CAN ADJUST YOU IN THE MILITARY, GRAB THE GUN, REPOSITION IT, SAY DO THIS TO YOUR SHOULDERS, OR THAT, THEN LOOK HERE.
Its the same with martial arts, if you were to learn a roundhouse kick
its easier if the instructor can physically correct you so you do it correctly
So rather than trying to do it with mistakes after mistakes, why not do it right the first time
THIS SPEEDS UP THE PROCESS OF GETTING IT RIGHT, WHEN YOU FOCUS ON GETTING IT RIGHT ONCE BEING AS ADAPTABLE AS HUMANLY POSSIBLE..
DRILL IT DOWN ONLY WHEN YOU GET IT RIGHT… NOT DRILL IT DOWN HOPING TO GET IT RIGHT LIKE AN IMPOSSIBLE CASE…
YOU DON’T DRILL IT, TRY TO GET IT RIGHT LIKE MY AUTISTIC STUDENTS. YOU TRY TO GET IT RIGHT FIRST THEN DRILL IT SO YOU CAN GET FROM CONCIOUS INCOMPETENCE TO CONCIOUS COMPETENCE…. UNTIL IT IS AUTOMATIC..
BAKING A CAKE VS COOKING OR BURING STEAKS TRYING TO IMPROVE. IMAGINE EVERY STEAK COST $30 USD, YOU BURNT IT, JUST TO SLIGHTLY IMPROVE.. WHICH CREATES MORE BAD HABITS
That is the wrong idea, since you are trying to throw your neuropathways or mistakes at a problem…
You are literally trying to burn a steak and get slightly better
You never even bothered to try to get the technique right first… since you only make 1% improvements cause you are an autistic dumb emotional fuck with low self esteem..
ITS MORE LIKE BAKING, GETTING IT RIGHT THE FIRST TIME. YOU NEED TO FOLLOW THE RECIPIE, NOT DO IT YOUR WAY
They can’t do it, since their low self esteem brain is telling them that they are the experts. Even if they know that message is fucking crazy as shit.. but their brain really does that
RSD takes advantage of you when this happens..
ITS LIKE THEY ARE SHOOTING DOWN A RANGE, THEN WHEN I TAUGHT THEM A NEW STANCE.. THEN THEY GO BACK TO THEIR OLD HABITS. I CALL IT THROWING THEIR NEUROPATHWAYS AT ME THEN TRYING TO TURN THAT OLD STANCE INTO THE NEW ONE 1% AT A TIME
If it was 1% improvement a day, then their way will take at least 99 days which I don’t have…
I want the student results faster..
I tried for a month to see what happens if I don’t yell at the students.. just to reconfirm it for myself..
Well they are like dogs who doesn’t learn new tricks.. no matter if you yell at them or not..
Most of the time dating coaches will take their money, then say whatever, you don’t want to listen, fuck you
No me though..
Most of the time nobody is going to take on impossible case students like that
I can, but I lose a lot of hair over it last year..
I had to reinvent the fucking wheel just to figure out how to teach them…. It wasn’t like anyone taught me to do it.
I was a dating coach since 2012, online 2014 when I started to blog.
THE AUTISTIC MINDSET CAN’T PERCIEVE THIS, IF IT HAS 3 STEPS
THE CORPSUM CALLUM IS THE PART THAT CONNECTS THE LEFT BRAIN AND THE RIGHT BRAIN. IF THAT IS WEAKEND, MOST AUTISTIC STUDENTS CAN’T DO 3 STEPS, JUST 2.
THE KNIGHT CONCEPT IS WHEN THEY PICKUP THE SWORD, THEY DROP THE SHIELD, PICK UP THE SHEIELD, DROP THE ARMOR, PICKUP THE ARMOR, DROP THE SWORD.. UNTEACHBALBE…
Seriously nothing sticks in their neuropathways… tried all sorts of supplements, everything.
They simply are burning in hell in real life…
They might be good at one thing, total aspie, narrow focus, but good at nothing else…
PEOPLE WILL RATHER AVOID PAIN THAN TO GAIN PLEASURE. SOUNDS FUCKED UP RIGHT, BUT THAT IS HOW ALL EVOLUTIONARY PSYCHOLOGY WORKS FOR OUR BELIEF SYSTEM. THAT’S WHY YOU CAME TO ME…
SOME OF YOU CAME HERE TO AVOID PAIN… GET LAID
SOME OF YOU CAME HERE TO LEARN TO GET LAID FAST, TO GAIN PLEASURE… EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT….
RESULTS OF THE SCIENCE. ONE STUDENT WAS ABLE TO ADAPT WITHIN A MINUTE. THE OTHER STUDENT KEPT SMILING DOING HIS OWN SHIT THROWING MISTAKES AT ME, REPEATING THEM. THEN BOOM. OFF WITH THEIR HEAD, METAPHORICALLY SPEAKING…
He found it funny, kackling, even if I told him his mistakes, he has another chance to fix it, for tonality.. same fucking shit again
I told him to fuck off till tomorrow.
I think there needs to be iron disclipline again…
This is the navy seals of daygame… what the fuck are you guys doing, you could barely get over one part of the obstacle course…
Stop being so unteachable…
you think whether or not a person does this because of the television, I tell you, some people does not do that on purpose…
Some people like us demands a high performance, a high result, a high standards.
As we both believe, once the standards drop, it is game over… not under my watch
What’s even worst is when you have a 5’3 student who doesn’t want to wear heel lifts, making it 10x harder during a pandemic… these guys are so delusional, low self esteem… its like running a circus or a mental hospital here…
fuck my life…
I always say that, even 2020… then I adapted my coaching methods.
Every two weeks that goes by people has less money, more depressed.
Drown more in their mental bullshit…
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people are like that is not high vibrational bullshit, even RSD tyler who doesn’t disclipline you takes your money for 6-8 years in a fucking hamster wheel of no results
Seriously just give me some normal cases for once.
You have no idea how this feels…
You think hardcases, you never taught an impossible case, or unteachable case of delusional low self esteem students how finally can hear their mistakes after self esteem subliminal message programming for a week 5 years a day…
which for the first time ever they saw their mistakes, but now can’t even change it
You think disclipline is bad… oh you can’t do that
I DON’T SEE ANY OTHER WAY,
CLASS WILL BE TWICE AS TOUGH FROM NOW ON, THIS EXPERIMENT OF HIGH VIBRATIONAL ENERGY IS OVER…
back to the old way.
Instead of getting washed out like the Navy Seals, you don’t get washed out, but you get up and you finish the fucking obstacle course, with enough yelling to get you past the finish line…
UPDATE, TRIED THIS GUN TO THE HEAD EXERCISE (METAPHORICALLY SPEAKING) WITH ANOTHER CHINESE STUDENT. HE STILL NEEDS TO LOSE HIS VIRGINITY
- Long story short, cortisol. I told him to take a specific amount of ashwaghanda, he didn’t listen, its too low
- I taught him about autism reduction, too much harshness, bitchiness in his voice
- While it can be a looks issue, but this is adding to it. Sometimes less is more
- women are afraid of those traits, evolutionary psychology often weeds out autism.
- These days taller PUAs can get away with it, they can use that over emotional sensory perception to vibe their value. But if you have less SMV, you have no business doing that. It will cockblock you.
- Obviously he failed the exercise…
- There seems to be less of an adaptability or chanagbility with autistic students, a mindset issue.
- Speed plus skill, value equals victory. But they are going too slow lately, the standards needs to be raised dramatically to keep up with previous students.
UPDATE 2, THIS IS REALLY CUTTING EDGE STUFF. A THIRD STUDENT WANTED TO GET IN ON THIS EXERCISE. SO I CALLED HIM FOR 5 MINS.. PLAYING THAT GUY SOUND ON YOUTUBE.
LONG STORY SHORT, ALL THE STUDENTS SOUNDS PISSED AS HELL… HE PASSED
LIKE THE FIRST STUDENT, 20 SECONDS TO SPARE
THIS FORCES THEM TO GET IT RIGHT THE FIRST TIME,
NOW THEY CAN DRILL IT
This is cutting edge tech for teaching daygame
Thinking outside the box…
WOULD I RATHER SPEND 2 MONTHS FOR THEM TO GET IT, OR 2 MINUTES?
WHICH ONE IS MORE EFFICIENT? JUST SAYING….
Once again first principles everything….
They are slow hardcases or impossible cases with so much cortisol, resistant snowflakes…
They love to learn slow, do it their way with shit neuropathways or habits
Guess what, this overrides that.
Of course, they will say oh that’s unethnical
Its just a youtube audio, what’s the big deal?
New methods are being created everyday. 2020’s shit is discarded, now 2021’s new stuff is being split tested…