PERSONALITY VS CHARACTER. WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER LOOK AT PERSONALITY

PERSONALITY CAN BE A MASK. IT IS THE SIDE YOU SHOW THE WORLD

MORE IMPORTANTLY, LOOK AT THE PERSON’S CHARACTER

What have they done for their world…

Personality is short term… Character is long term

Long term I helped so many Asian men

Long term I got so many bootcamp students laid…

Long term most of my online programs got student laid testimonials

Long term, I created something that helps hardcases…

I HAVE DONE A LOT OF GOOD FOR THE WORLD, SO DON’T JUDGE ME BY MY PERSONALITY…. JUDGE ME BY MY CHARACTER

I do have a mission I want to give Asian men equal opportunities in dating.

THIS MONTH I WAS GETTING OVER 100 RUMORS OR FALSE ACCUSATIONS’

I SHOULD MAKE A FACT FOR FICTION PAGE FOR MONTLY ACCUSATONS SINCE THEY ARE ALWAYS NEW…

FOR EXAMPLE MY FRIEND SHOWED ME THIS… HE SAID HE TOOK MY BOOTCAMP… IN REALITY I NEVER HEARD OF AN ERIC WRITGHT… THAT IS INSANE…

Also, I heard a new one, where someone claims my laycount is less than 100? not true

Sometimes I get shocked or dumbfounded, amused…

THERE WAS SOME OTHER GUY WHO CLAIMED HE TOOK MY BOOTCAMP, DID A TON OF APPROACHES…

IN REALITY, I ASK WHERE IS THE RECIEPTS THAT HE TOOK MY BOOTCAMP?

DID HE EVEN PAY ME? ANY DOCUMENTATION?

THEY WOULDN’T EVEN BE ABLE TO PROVE IT.

It was just that simple to make that claim…where are the reciepts?…

Outragous…

Also, when you have to defend yourself, people are like uhhh huhh or some shit.

That’s the cancel culture we live in today, who needs proof anymore…

(The 3 students that didn’t get laid or pull are one short black students, 2 Chinese students)

You mean most of them pulled or got laid John?

Since I was John Wayne before.. ummm yeah….

Isn’t that suppose to happen?

They all wear the same clothes, same haircut, they all work on drills, on their weaknesses, builds social skills, body language first before game

What did you expect?

I got the reciepts to prove it on my bootcamp page…

They would of been at least on this page.. but no..

Yet I have to defend myself.. then people are like oh… then the go on about their day picking their nose…

While they don’t mind taking a big dump on my rep again.

I swear I got cancelled more for no reason at all with b.s. Like I said the 100 false accusations this month.. I say cut the crap…

IF YOU ARE NOT FEATURED ON MY BOOTCAMP PAGE HERE BELOW THEN WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU AGAIN?

My theory is when I first posted my student with 10 fuck buddies, 5 some, 2 models, one model girlfriend… people accused it of being fake…

After I posted that, I posted the audio, people are like wtf

One guy told me he was so jealous,

I was surprised? Like why jealous?

He wanted the 5 some, he wanted that model girlfriend.

THE PROBLEM IS ONCE YOU DEFEND AN ACCUSATION OR SPECULATION… RUMOR… People just say oh….

Then they go about their own day

They don’t realize the damage it caused when I was gaslighted…

Even I have speculated myself of others when there isn’t enough information…

Its human nature to have conspiracy theories or fictional truths about your truths…

I’ve heard stupid rumors like oh Elite 30 is like acting lessons, or minimilistic game..

IF IT WERE TRUE, THEN ANY NEWBIE FROM BLUE PILL WILL KILL IT IN DAYGAME FROM BEING MINIMIALISTIC, SINCE THEY HAVEN”T LEARNED ANY RSD BAD HABITS…

The other one was like your ex GF was this age and she is blonde…

YET THAT BLONDE GIRL ON MY VIDEO WASN’T MY EX GF, SHE WASN’T EVEN BLONDE WHICH IS SO SHOCKING…

I felt dumbfounded….

IF ALL THE RUMORS GETS DEBUNKED MONTH AFTER MONTH, THEN YOU SAY OH….

Then there will be new rumors… so maybe I need a list of rumors each month then reference to it.

WE LIVE IN A WORLD WHERE THINGS CAN BE TAKEN OUT OF CONTEXT…

Without the lower self esteem of Covid 19, this is our new reality, which shocks me how far things have fallen…

They would of cancelled Jesus if he was alive today..

DURING COVID IT IS AN EMOTIONAL TIME. LOTS OF PEOPLE HAVE LOWER SELF ESTEEM MORE EMOTIONAL….

NOW WE HAVE THIS STUPID CANCEL CULTURE… LIKE THE WORLD HAS GONE BACKWARDS..

This is from irrationality and low self esteem.

Which makes you more delulsional…

The longer society becomes lock down the more delusions is in place.

This might be fueling a lot of the cancelling of others.

A lot of people are in survival mode, its hard to think

Luckily I did pretty well last year during Covid 19

I do have a small channel, very few subs, but still a huge conversion rate since I always get so many students

I never had to be in a place of over emotionality or irraationality.

But I can imagine it must be hell for others.

I believe people are feeling some form of mild PTSD…

A lot of what is causing this stress is the extreme level of cortisol we face every single day we look at the news as more businesses are failing…

We also see that more people are dying

We also see more people are barely hanging on

Among my John Elite students, I noticed a lot of them are having the 4 traits of low self esteem.

1. Delusional (know it all)
2. Busyiness is a form of laziness, or skilless spam approaching
3. They choose the wrong path, it blows up in their face. It keeps happening over and over
4. They become more and more cowards

Sometimes it seems like the end of the world…

EVERY WEEK PEOPLE ARE LOCKED DOWN, THEY ARE TWICE AS FUCKED UP.. THEY ARE TURNING INTO LOW SELF ESTEEM ZOMBIES..

FROM NOW ON I DECIDED I AM NOT GOING TO RUSH TO JUDGEMENT FOR ANYONE. EVEN IF SOMEONE GETS ROASTED, OR SOMEONE GETS ACCUSED…

I just got a middle eastern student laid in daygame. He banged a blonde.

He didn’t rush to judgement, he heard all the rumors.

He didn’t care, he liked how brutally honest I was

Look at the persons actions

HE JUST WANTED RESULTS

OVER THE LONG TERM YOU WILL SEE HOW THE PERSON IS LIKE, WHETHER OR NOT THEIR MASK WILL SLIP

I have not changed…

I have a unique style of talking when I am on Youtube, there is no filter

Its just raw..

Not everyone likes that, but some loves it.

Even Jesus was falsely accused

He was being cancelled an old fashion way

HE WOULD BE CANCELLED EVEN WORST TODAY

Where is the testimonial John? OF THE MIDDLE EASTERN STUDENT…

Its was just censored, assembled..

I’ll post it soon.

Since he is getting a blow job in the pics, I have to figure out how to censor it.

That’s why I posted a lot of stuff with my students with their lay pics, lay videos… I didn’t want people to have room to speculate

REGARDLESS HE DIDN’T GET RESULTS FROM PRODUCTS FOR 5-6 YEARS.

ELITE 30 HE GOT IT RIGHT AWAY

THE PROBLEM WITH ME POSTING ABOUT IT WITHOUT SHOWING IT, ACTUALLY I DID ALREADY… BUT NOT AS A VIDEO TESTIMONIAL…THERE IS ALWAYS ROOM FOR SPECULATION IF I DIDN’T POST IT

The point of this blog isn’t just a bunch of student lay pics and pull testimoinals…

That was one of the strangest false accusations I ever got…

Which was the pics were just phraising me, or some weird accusation.

YET IN REALITY THEY ARE ALL LAYS OR PULL PICTURES…

Sometimes the accusation doesn’t even make any sense, it sounds like the other person is losing their shit.. like steam is literally flowing out of their ears…

Its very strange how they are able to even think that. They come up with weird debunks that sounds like Charles Manson came up with it

WHAT IS DRAWING ALL THIS ATTENTION? MY STUDENT RESULTS? JEALOUSY? MORE DRAMA?

Whatever it is, I think these false accusations needs to stop.

I should make a segment called dumb misconceptions and make new series on Youtube.

STOP WITH THE FICTIONAL NONSENSE OF SPECULATION…

SPEAKING OF YOUTUBE, ALL IS WELL. YOU CAN SEE I DELETED A LOT OF VIDEOS. EVEN ON THE FRONT PAGE I CLEANED UP THE BLOG

OVERALL I WILL GET ALONG BETTER WITH TWO DATING COACHES.. I’LL APPOLOGIZE.

It would be the last time I talk about these two. When I say the beef is squashed, it is squashed forever…

Even if I didn’t get an appology… its okay.

The point is the beef is squashed… which never should of happened or escalated like it did…

Ill find their post and delete it, its fair.

Like it almost never happened, but the damage for all three of us is felt…

Sometimes when you finally get to talk to the person, you see the character behind the personality.

Then you find out, how much more alike, how much more you have in common than you realized.

MOST OF MY STUDENTS ARE SHOCKED I AM A CARING PERSON WHO WANTS THE STUDENTS TO SUCCEED.

They assume the worst, but when they train under me, they are shocked how nice I am or normal…

But why is my personality like Gordon Ramsay on Youtube?

Tbh, I have no idea why it automatically talks like that.

It is kind of funny.

Sometimes it gets the point across.

Sometimes you need to swear a bit…

Sometimes you need to say the world cunt a bit

Sometimes you got to trigger a bit or you don’t have their attention.

ANOTHER MISCONCEPTION PEOPLE HEARS ABOUT ME IS, THAT I AM WAY TOO TOUGH AS A COACH. LIKE GORDON RAMSAY. LIKE SOME STOCKHOLME SYNDROME

I TELL MY STUDENTS THE ONLY REASON I YELLED IS YOU ARE OFF THE LINE. IT DOESN’T HAPPEN WHEN YOU ARE DOING WELL

It is a source of strength since RSD for example will try to comfort you. Not disclipline you

You never get better.

This led to a lot of student results

In bootcamps since I was John Wayne, I only ever had like 3 students that didn’t get results

3, put that in perspective, this is very much like a military style lite bootcamp

It works, tough love works

I tell the students no way am I doing this for some sadistic gratification…

Rather it is because I care…

WHY EVEN BE THAT DISCLIPILNE? IMAGINE THERE ARE 4 STAGES.

This is a new concept for this year…

1. PLANTING THE SEED
2. GERMINATING THEE SEED
3. SPROUTING THE SEED
4. SEED GROWING OUT OF THE GROUND

Where is the disclipline mostly applied?

It is stage 2… germinating the seed.

Once you know what to do, it gets drilled down.

This isn’t some acting lessons or whatever…

SOMETIMES I GET DUMBFOUNDED AGAIN, LIKE SERIOUSLY? THAT’S THE BEST YOU CAN COME UP WITH? WTF….

This is like a martial art

Keeping the body calibrated like that is hard

ITS OUTSIDE IN

NOT INSIDE OUT.

Even if it is mindsets, it still needs to change the outer body to match it.

That requires some training..

Once you got the outside in, since the body can manifest, so the body language is like an antenna…

Then you need to go inside out, after you go outside in…

MY OFFER THIS MONTH FOR ELITE 30 IS, IT COMES WITH AN HOUR SKYPE VS JUST 30 MINS. JUST FOR THIS MONTH AND NEXT..

HE INVESTED IN THIS COURSE. HE HAD 2 LAYS COVID 19 THIS YEAR. 3 MORE LAYS IN DAYGAME IN INDIA

HERE IS WHAT I GOT, A NON VERBAL COMMUNICATIONS AND SOCIAL SKILLS COURSE THAT NOBODY ELSE TEACHES..

Here is what I want you to do…

I want you to get it.. even rehearse at home then going out there to approach when you get it down

Remember in life, sometimes when you stop listening to all the noise, you listen to the student results…

LET THEIR RESULTS SPEAK FOR THEMSELVES EVEN IF YOU DON’T LISTEN TO A WORD I SAY.

Think for yourself.

Part of you knows that this is the solution. It speaks to your soul.

Plus you get to skype with me so you can get laid much faster as my other Filpino student just got laid, who invested in two Skypes

You might think this is an expense..

To other people this is an investment..

Investment gets you results… much faster

investments takes self esteem to train with me.

-John (Jesus) Elite