In the first two clusters I map out the genome or the DNA code of a Pickup Artist. The first one is dark triad, second is Autism/Aspergers. What is trait 3?
You might think how does this relate to you when you can’t even focus or pay attention long enough to learn new daygame skills… It affects every area of your life
OR IS IT THIS SEQUENCE FOR YOUR CLUSTER C? I’M JUST JOKING…
IT SHOULD BE A TUMOR…
So now it is sociopath, narcissism, machevelli, Autism/Aspergers, now OCD or Adhd.
The next sequence will be depression and delusional disorders.
WHAT IS ADHD? or ADD WHY DO I THINK A LOT OF PUAS HAVE IT? IT IS EITHER ADD/ OR ADHD. WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE
Adult attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a mental health disorder that includes a combination of persistent problems, such as difficulty paying attention, hyperactivity and impulsive behavior. Adult ADHD can lead to unstable relationships, poor work or school performance, low self-esteem, and other problems.
- Be easily distracted, miss details, forget things, and frequently switch from one activity to another
- Have difficulty maintaining focus on one task
- Become bored with a task after only a few minutes, unless doing something they find enjoyable
- Have difficulty focusing attention on organizing or completing a task
- Have trouble completing or turning in homework assignments, often losing things (e.g., pencils, toys, assignments) needed to complete tasks or activities
- Appear not to be listening when spoken to
- Daydream, become easily confused, and move slowly
- Have difficulty processing information as quickly and accurately as others
- Struggle to follow instructions
- Have trouble understanding details; overlooks details
- Fidget or squirm a great deal
- Talk nonstop
- Dash around, touching or playing with anything and everything in sight
- Have trouble sitting still during dinner, school, and while doing homework
- Be constantly in motion
- Have difficulty performing quiet tasks or activities
- Be impatient
- Blurt out inappropriate comments, show their emotions without restraint, and act without regard for consequences
- Have difficulty waiting for things they want or waiting their turn in games
- Often interrupt conversations or others’ activities
ADD is a type of ADHD that doesn’t involve constant movement and fidgeting.
PUAS EITHER HAVE THE ADHD OR ADD. ONE IS MORE OF A GUY WHO FIDGETS AND CAN’T STAY STILL, POWERED BY A MOTOR. THE OTHER GUY IS A DREAMER, ALWAYS UNFOCUSED, NOT IN THE MOMENT
What is the cause of ADHD, can you explain it so I understand it?
Scientists have observed that levels of dopamine are different in people with ADHD than in those without ADHD. Some researchers believe this difference is because neurons in the brain and nervous systems of people with unmedicated ADHD have lower concentrations of proteins called dopamine transporters.
I can get technical to a neuroscience level, but lets keep it simple.
IT IS LIKE DRIVING, BUT RUNNING OUT OF GAS. THE ENGINE STARTS TO FUME, YOU ARE ON EMPTY AND YOU CAN’T FOCUS
When I teach students, they don’t listen. One student didn’t listen like 50x in a row
Then you repeat your mistakes, even if I am trying to teach you skills
You do your flawed version, then trying to readjust it back to mine
Then you repeat it again, I would think you have a swiss cheese brain, in one ear, out the other
Most PUAs can’t even sit still for very long, they have to go and approach.
Or you are the opposite, you can hyperfocus too much…
You just run on empty, your brain just has zero focus, can’t get task done, nothing gets done
That’s great John, but what does this all mean? How does it relate to the students or pickup artist for comorbidity??
It robs you of all your potential skills you could of get
IF THERE ARE 4 STEPS TO GAINING SKILLS, BUT YOU CAN’T EVEN PAY ATTENTION, HOW ARE YOU GOING TO GET THERE?
Then you will say ah fuck it, then spam approaching SMVing it instead since it is too hard to focus to develop your skills.
In business, you need structure or you can’t get shit done. Like nothing
With PUAS they have a nutritional deficiency for autism. Which they need a lot more of you guessed it… Omega 3. But they need a higher dose of Vitamin D.
Impossible cases, the slow learns, you have to repeat yourself like 20x and they still won’t get it.
They take notes, they still won’t get it, their notes are not even what you said
THEN YOU HAVE TO FIGHT THE AUTISM, OR SOCIOPATHY, WHICH IS PURE DELUSIONAL THINKING.
YOU WILL ALWAYS THINK YOU ARE RIGHT, YOU ARE THE EXPERT, HOW CAN YOU BE WRONG. YOU WILL HAVE A STRONG FEELING YOU ARE DESTINED FOR GREATNESS
You will just keep mentally masturbating until you get down the skills
Then too much mental masturbation and pumping your state with ego, you start to dress shittier and lowering your self esteem
It almost seems the odds are completely against you and I would have to agree with that if you have Adhd and sociopathy, narcissism.
Its impossible to listen.
IT IS LIKE AN OSMOSIS WATER FILTRATION DEVICE. (SOCIOPATHS CAN’T UNDERSTAND METAPHORS. THEIR BRAIN IS ONLY LIKE HOW TO MANIPULATE, WHAT IS IT IN IT FOR ME)
But I will try my best to explain it with a metaphor anyways
The first thing you are filtering when I am teaching you is your sociopathy. You think you are right.
Then your narcissism, you are always righg
Then autism, lack of ability to listen, not bright.
Lastly, ADD, you can’t even pay attention…
In order to achieve anything great, you need laser focus. But you can’t get there without focus.
So a lot of comorbidity multiple mental illnesses PUAs just try to take every shortcuts. They often have this lazy kind of behavior
They think they are being efficient.
But for my Indian Elite 60 student, he found he was actually making things harder in the long run. It piles up.
He found being smart about it and tackling the work effectively, efficiently, works better.
For example (oh shit another metaphor, John the comorbidity PUAs who are sociopaths won’t get it, they aren’t bright, they are a tumor…)
I get it, but i’ll try to explain anyways
If you can speed read using your finger on the page moving it left to right instead of just eyeing it. Since eyeing it, your eyes wanders up and down
it is much faster using the finger, you get the info faster and you finish faster
If you read slow, you think you are getting more of it. You are only frustrating yourself and making it harder for you.
Sometimes the opposite is true, the faster way helps a lot more
Or doing it the opposite, in this case a lot faster.
MOST DAYGAMERS WITH HIGHER SMV WILL JUST SAY FUCK IT, I CAN’T FOCUS, JUST SPAM APPROACH AND SMV IT
They will get bored and eventually approach for the dopamine release in their brain.
For women these days, the more instagram likes the more dopamine hit happens in their brain.
It almost can be addictive as cocaine for the brain
A lot of Entrepreneurs do have some form of ADHD. I know i’m generalizing, but a normal job, the sheeps has intense focus. So they get trapped into the employee mindset.
They are too scared to have a side hustle.
There was probably some kind of genetic advantages in the old days, but it doesn’t fit well with a modern society except entrepreneurs.
What can I do about it?
I’m making all my students take this. In my field testing, the results are positive so far. It works. Otherwise there are no focus.
For the impossible cases or autistic, ADHD type of students who can’t focus and follow instructions. This has been a game changer.
We can spend all day into the compound of it, long story short, it is a fatty acid.
The brain is also made out of fatty acids
DRINKING GREEN TEA HELPS TOO FOR MORE DOPAMINE IN YOUR BRAIN, JUST A BIT.
EVEN IF A PICKUP ARTIST IS FOCUSED, IF THEY ARE DARK TETRAD, SO PROUD OF THEMSELVES, NARCISSISTIC, DELUSIONAL, OPINIONS AS FACTS, WIN AT ALL COST.
THIS WON’T RELIEVE THOSE EVIL SELFISH SYMPTOMS.
THE ONLY SOLUTION IS PRISON FOR THOSE TYPES
But this gives focus to follow instructions at the very least
WHAT IS OCD, WHICH SUBTYPES ARE PICK UP ARTIST?
While not all pickup artist have OCD, a lot of them have it. There is the hand washing type and ritualistic OCD which is way more common. Or those with obsessive thoughts, preppers, bad things will happen. Or the perfectionist type. Some people like to horde shit, or collect dumb shit they need later one. Or check things over and over again
Long story short, lets cut though the B.S, it starts with anxiety disorder which morphs into something else.
The fear from the anxiety, is what causes the obsessive traits.
The compulsive part is the behaviors that tries to reduce the anxiety. In my case, excessive hand washing
THIS TYPE IS EXTREMELY RARE, BUT YOU CAN SEE WITH PANDEMICS, EVERYONE IS FORCED TO WASH THEIR HANDS LIKE ME.
There might of been a genetic advantage of survival, where caveman will wash their hands while their peers dies from diseases.
FOR ME I NEVER REALLY GOT OVER IT, YOU CAN DO A PROGRESSIVE DESENSITIZATION MEANING, TOUCH MORE AND MORE DIRT.
BUT THE COMPULSION, TO KEEP YOUR HANDS CLEAN, I MYSELF HAVEN’T GOT OVER IT.
So on the bootcamps, the students knows i’m super clean, frequent hand washer, I wouldn’t touch door knobs as weird as that sounds
You will never see an Indian guy wash their hands. Since that requires empathy for other people or a sense of guilt. They all pretend to wash their hands. They have like an immune system that is stronger than most. But they are capable of getting sick too.
THE PERFECTIONIST TYPE OF OCD
The perfectionist comes from a type of OCD, I myself have this. The standards are extremely high for the students.
Its not just some type of controlling narcissism, but this is like a perfectionist.
Its like a perfectionist to a point of affecting what you put out there.
I don’t release a lot of products, due to extreme perfectionism.
Unless everything is perfect, it gets the John Elite approval, then it gets released.
I don’t have theories, i’m not a sociopath opinions as facts that SMV it, then saying here is my opinion as facts, then gets 3 testimonials like most dating coaches.
It is about as field tested and split tested even more than vaccines which even takes a long time to release one.
Its a crazy obsession most of the general population can’t relate to.
This isn’t that common either among PUAS.
BUT THIS IS MORE COMMON AMONG ENTREPRENEURS. SO THE TERM PROGRESS OVER PERFECTION HELPS A LOT
SO JOHN WHAT ARE THE MOST COMMON TYPES OF OCD, FOR COMORBIDITY? FOR YOUR STUDENTS?
The biggest one by far is the ritualistic OCD
They usually have this weird fucking ritual, on top of all the lack of focus, the opinions as facts as a sociopath. They have to do it their way.
They have a weird ritual before cooking, or doing anything.
Everything has to be in order
They like to take it leisurely, meaning they will waste a lot of unnecessary time setting things up their way or they can’t mentally function
Some people needs everything at a certain place exactly like that.
Or super tidy
This is why for the student in Elite 60, the Indian guy, this can waste hours of time very quickly with these rituals.
But I have observed this kind of behavior is common among PUAS.
Does this affect your game that much? Nope, but it affects many other areas of your life making things more chaotic.
I’m not focused on a cure for this for my students. I myself don’t have ritualistic OCD, but it does hurt their minds when things aren’t done their way.
Hope you learned something. Or a lot more than you would of imagined. To a point where most of the PUAs comorbidity or genome is mapped out in such detail.
No dating coach every talked about this kind of stuff
Still updating my new site, not sure if I am doing it correctly or not.
THERE IS ALSO THE EXCESSIVE WORRY TYPE. SOME ARE EVEN HORDERS AND PREPPERS.
I myself have horde meat toilet paper, knowledge, other shit, even to survive a zombie apocalypses
This type is less common, but the preperation paid off tremendously.
I even know how to use whey protein and supplementation to survive.