That is the first day I started daygame 18 years ago
When I first walked into class, I was taking 2D animation at the time at university. Everyone was looking sad or down.
They were like didn’t you hear the news? I was like no, I just got here.
They told me about Sept 11th and how things well to hell with the towers.
I’m in the game longer than some of the women I have banged… Lol.
Fast forward 18 years here I am teaching daygame
Its not like I schedule these post or anything. I just write them whenever I feel like it. But time flies and I remember field testing an indirect NLP system.
Start with an indirect opener, then banter a bit, then you use NLP patterning as they call it and get the number close.
I did this on the bus. I also drew a lot of hot women on the bus. Mostly white women. No K-Pop so no positive stereotypes.
Same shit, women are like I like what you are saying, but i’m not into Asian men.
NOT THAT THERE WAS ANY ASIAN MEN AND WHITE WOMEN AT THE TIME OUTSIDE OF BRUCE LEE
What pissed me off the most, you…
Follow the fucking script, exactly, stop doing it your way or half assing it
I’ve tried every combination of game. I learned from a lot of people, every product, even naturals. But why are you guys trying to redo my process of going to learn every system?
Why not start with mine?
I mean you are going down the same path and game will become harder and harder in the future.
Easier for the taller high valued guys since women are funneled to them now.
BUT WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO REDO EVERYTHING AND TRYING TO FIGURE IT OUT FOR YOURSELF? IMAGINE THE FIRST 10 YEARS?
Especially when Elite 30: From Hardcase To Hero… digital product here
Some people are so mentally weak and they are like oh fvck, I have to spend 30 days? That’s a long time…
Ummm, 30 days is better than the years you will spend since most of you will quit early.
I stayed in the game because I wanted to solve it for even the most negative stereotypes in the world. Including Asian men. Now most have so much inner game issues, they are always sucking off night game.
Do you have a night game course? Do you have a night game course? ummmm…
Get some fucking balls for a change, stop being a timid fuck and learn some social skills and dress better, wtf…
SOME OF YOU ARE COMING HERE FOR HELP WHEN YOU ALREADY GOT FVCKED UP THE ASS BY 6=7 DAYGAME SYSTEMS. YOU TOOK THEIR BOOTCAMPS AND GOT NO RESULTS. YOU GET LAID HERE AND TURN INTO NARCISSISTIC MONSTERS. I OFTEN EMPOWER SHITTY PEOPLE
FOR THOSE 6-7 SYSTEMS, RSD IS ALWAYS ONE, ALWAYS BIG NAME COMPANIES. WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO RECREATE MY SYSTEM? AFTER 18 YEARS YOU WILL FORM THE SAME CONCLUSIONS TRYING EVERY COMBINATION. ARE YOU THAT NARCISSISTIC? INSTEAD YOU SHOULD OF TRAINED UNDER ME FIRST?
YOU THINK THAT SHIT WAS FUN? MOST NORMAL PEOPLE WOULD OF HAD A MENTAL BREAKDOWN AFTER THAT MANY YEARS BY NOW OR BE COMPLETELY COLD AND HEARTLESS. ACTUALLY THEN AGAIN SOME QUITS IN 3 WEEKS.
THE INDUSTRY IS FULL OF WOLVES IN SHEEPS CLOTHIHG
YOU KEEP TALKING ABOUT THE SAME BULLSHIT MISCONCEPTIONS
The kind of shit I say on my first year of daygame
Its all a numbers game Its all game, looks don’t matter, race doesn’t matter (RSD faggotry) Its all about getting that phone number, or number closes You have to take massive action (Umm massive calibrated action idiots) Its all about the vibe, confidence or some other stuff (social skills matters too)
When you are the billionaire of teaching game. A billionaire will think different from a guy with 100 million to 50 million to 10 or 5 or 1 or half a million or less. They all have similar ideas but slight micro adjustments to it.
I’m telling people in 2019 in North America get elevator shoes. Work on your social skills, fashion matters, vibe matters and even on top of that personality pick the right one to break your negative stereotype.
Elite 30 is something all PUAS needs. You look at the industry most people sound autistic. Just self amuse all day and cocky funny. SMVing it.
The biggest realization to game
When I am taught by the naturals, they are all high valued. They were all taller than 5’9 of course. But they had extreme socials skills. A great vibe or energy. They also behaved in such a way that it was okay for the women to have sex without anyone knowing. Almost like an adventure. They could all do amazing things or each have a super power.
I realized that game is suppose to be easy but we as PUAs makes it hard.
PUAs doesn’t have any social skills.
NUMBER CLOSE VIDEOS DOESN’T MEAN SHIT, OR POSITIVE REACTIONS. IMAGINE IN SALES, THE SALESMAN YOU FLAKE ON SO YOU DON’T HURT HIS FEELINGS YOU ALSO GIVE INDICATORS OF INTEREST, BUT NOT COMPLIANCE… THINK ABOUT IT
If you deleted all the number close infields and advice videos and see the student results or the instadates to same day lays. Now you know the real game.
Not all the naturals were good looking, they had a good vibe. Use this example.
- The outside of the cake is the physical appearance. Most were tall and good looking to women at one point
- The dry part of the cake is social skills, they all had social skills maxed out
- Their emotional intelligence or the taste of the cake is beyond that of PUAs.
- The frosting or tactics, they might have less of it. But they make up for it with the other categories. Their tactics are hardly from RSD. RSD focus on frosting self amusement like clowns.
My point is game should be easy for most, but somehow people screws it up because of their sociopathic traits, low SMV stubbornness, low self esteem and socially retarded traits, lack of emotions.
It is like a bunch of water pipes though your house. Some of it is clogged. I teach you how to remove those and the students pulls like crazy almost automatically.
If you put A.I though a simulation, or you go though 18 years of game, you will form the exact same conclusions as me
The advantage of me not being a sociopath where you think your opinions are right. I’m not in love with my own work. I’m willing to adapt anything like that elevator shoes no more heel lifts. Using cologne with pheromones in a specific ratio. I’ll adapt anything.
Changing parts of the game when it gets harder like removing DHV stories altogether as negative stereotypes until you get to the instadate stage.
Now A.I can do copywriting and sales letters all that stuff. Its scary, how they can be better at it than humans.
But if you tried to do the same thing or and A.I tried every combination, they will have the same conclusions as me.
THE PROBLEM WITH LEARNING FROM THE INDUSTRY OR THEIR BULLSHIT PRODUCTS AND SERVICES DESIGNED FOR TALLER POSITIVE STEROTYPES IS IT MAKES YOU THINK IN THE BOX, NOT OUTSIDE OF IT.
EASY CASE 3 DAYS LAID, NORMAL CASE 3 WEEKS, HARDCASE 6 MONTHS, IMPOSSIBLE CASE YEARS
Most dating coaches is the opposite. It takes years or many months so they don’t have testimonials. It is like a numbers game.
I have a perfect system or close to it as close as I can get that gets students laid non stop. I remember certain months when you guys were approaching, I got testimonials almost every day or second day or third.
Most of you cunts who loves comfort from other dating coaches who are SMVing it. It takes longer.
The whole easy case, normal, hardcase and impossible case timing is purely dependent on you if I have the perfect daygame system. Stop being a cunt. learn some fucking social skills and it makes conversational skills and outer game easier.
The weird thing is impossible cases can’t go faster nor the hardcases. They resist the perfect daygame system. They just have to fucking resist for no good reason and half ass the steps because their cabbage brain operates like that.
Positive stereotypes doesn’t have a transferable game
Positive stereotypes, no matter what they teach can only get other positive stereotypes laid.
I really think the concept of levelling exist. No matter what they do, negative stereotypes will get screwed.
The higher the dating coaches SMV the lower amount of student results.
You can almost figure out the ratio, of SMV to game based on the student results.
They might think in their mind this is 100% what you should do. Do it this way or that way.
No matter how much you try and think that works, it simple doesn’t. Women doesn’t always respond to the guys the same way. The game is always adapted to that dating coaches body. If the coach was tall and strong, then its adapted to others like it.
But if the game was taught to negative stereotypes, then it is taught that way. It works.
For me I am like take out the hand holding. Or no romance, or no direct. That doesn’t work for negative stereotypes unless she sees you as a boyfriend material. There are ideas which sounds good on paper, but doesn’t mean it gets 400+ laid and pull testimonials.
I raise the students SMV a bit too.
Positive stereotypes are more into emotions and vibbing it. They just need a bit to get over that line. So their students suffers.
My students at the time wasn’t so much focused on emotions, but more focused on social skills and a very structured game. But a loose structure.
I made a video on YouTube Live yesterday about height. Maybe that was hitting to close to home for some people. It was too brutally honest to the point where it is like John please don’t say that because maybe dating coaches who are tall, strong never needed as much game. Any style would of worked combined with a little bit of vibe and social skills because of auto compliance.
That’s not game.
MOST OF THE INDUSTRY ONLY IS ABOUT MONEY
If the Vancouver inner circle taught. Maybe I should work with them who knows as other instructors. I’m not hiring other instructors, I get a lot of request.
The truth is no one can replicate my student results. Even if you copy my students fashion. There is only one John Elite.
I can teach you how to teach, but you don’t have my mental filter.
Regardless they don’t even think you can make a living being a dating coach for some of the naturals.
If they taught, what will they teach? Social skills, vibe, reading her better, objections dealing, lifestyle.
IT SURE AS HELL WOULDN’T BE THE SAME SHIT WE SEE BECAUSE WHEN MONEY IS INVOLVED AND YOU HAVE REALLY SCREWED UP PUAS DRESSED LIKE SHIT WITH NO SOCIAL SKILLS OR FASHION DUE TO LOW SELF ESTEEM, YOU GET THIS
Naturals can get away with dressing like shit or not being the best looking. But most of the population aren’t naturals.
Most of the dating coaches are after number closes and aims low. If you don’t pull or get laid on my bootcamp, i’m disappointed. Its actually not something that happens. I mean i’m tough as hell and you have to do what I say. Its about student results.
ONE OF THE BIGGEST MISCONCEPTIONS I EVER HEARD IS, IF THE COACH GETS RESULTS YOU GET RESULTS, FALSE
Who would you get better results from? A tall positive stereotype genetically advantage guy? Or someone shorter, less muscles and has purely skills? You decide. You know the answer to this question
Remember if a women is already into you before you approach on your passive value, height, fashion, muscles, race. Even in the first 10 seconds, that isn’t game.
But not everyone has the same height, or race or any of those advantages.
So why do you think you will get the same results?
In 18 years of game Asian men worships white dating coaches and every marketer even tall strong Asian dating coaches.
I think they subconsciously know they won’t get the same results but the more unrelatable you are, the better you do. Like Dan Bilzerian. They just want that bit of an edge when I studied neuroscience.
This is why people like me who looks like the negative stereotypes mind fucks them.
This becomes a revolving door industry. More people come in, they quit, more tries multiple coaches.
But in the end if you didn’t quit, you will probably train with me at some point. I’ll get you laid, you turn evil, when you feel empowered. This happens to half my students. When you get narcissistic people power, they try to turn on you. When they need you again they turn to you.
Its a vicious cycle.
REGARDLESS THAT IS WHY I ALWAYS SAID 17 YEARS IN THE GAME, WELL NOW ITS 18 BECAUSE 18 YEARS AGO I WENT TO UNIVERSITY IN ART SCHOOL AND I STARTED MY PUA JOURNEY.
I’M IN THE GAME BEFORE MYSTERY SHOWED UP OR ROSS JEFFERIES, TO PUT IT INTO PERSPECTIVE. I WENT WITH MORE OF THE ROSS LIKE SYSTEM AT FIRST. I made something 10x better with NLP anchoring. Top secret game stuff I won’t talk about.
That’s where the number came from.
Someone showed up my mothers friend who worked in that university. I showed them my drawings and he said, hey, have you ever thought about taking commercial animation?
I was like, was it like comic books? Oh right I do like cartoons.
I hated animation, I was the worst at it, but I am the best as a daygame coach in the world.
All this time you always hear no matter how good you are at something, someone is always better. Taller, stronger, etc.
But no one has out did 400+ testimonials. Its 398 right now, but I have so many testimonials I didn’t post yet, its way past 400 actually. I am too lazy to video edit right now. Sometimes I hate the video editing part of my job.
ONE THING I WISH I TOLD MYSELF BEFORE IN THIS JOURNEY GET SOME FUCKING ELEVATOR SHOES… HEIGHT MATTERS. 18 YEARS AGO I NEVER WOULD OF DREAMED OF BEING A DATING COACH.
BUT NOW THAT I AM ONE, I ACTUALLY TURNED OUT TO THE BEST ONE FOR DAYGAME FOR STUDENT RESULTS. NO ONE CAN EVEN BEAT THE 400+ NUMBER. LETS SEE THEM EVEN GET PAST 20. THEY CAN’T. HELL SOME CAN’T EVEN PAST 5 DURING THE TRAINING PERIOD.
YET THE TRUTH OF THE GAME FALLS OF DEAF EARS. SO I BLOG ONCE IN A WHILE AND TELL THE REAL GOSEPEL OF THE GAME.
I’m not in it for the money. If money is the byproduct great, but i’m here to solve super problems in the game no one else can solve. I’m good at what I do. Maybe a bit too good. There will never be someone like me with this mental filter that can get this much results. If I had a clone, it wouldn’t happen. They don’t have my mind.
But are you willing to pay the price for the game filter I have? It took 18 years of field testing. I simply don’t have opinions as facts. I press a blue button something happens or doesn’t happen.
I don’t operate A + B = C, then try to argue a point.
I press a blue button, something happens, I make my students do the same, it works the same I let the world know. Hey get elevator shoes, heel lifts, widen shoulders, get a rolex watch.
Anyone who tells you anything differently than I have taught, is most likely trying to sell you on something to make money.
Do the opposite of everything RSD taught you will be in the top 1% they are in it for money. The rest of the coaches who are selling you on something, it isn’t what they say, it is what they don’t say too that is important. Out of sight, out of mind.
Nobody wants me to have this many testimonials. Nobody, I can assure you that the entire industry because it shows the hypocrisy of the entire industry, their SMVing it and it shows how little game they have. Just SMV and emotions, vibbing it.
As there is less than half an hour before this day is over, i’m still typing. I have a lot of emotions and memories regarding being in the game this long.