The thing between her liking you and not liking you is many things. Of course you can optimize your fashion, work out, be tall, white or black, joking.
You figure out which of the 6 frames you can be a part of.
You also can flirt, have a good inner game shit like that.
Body language is important too. Stand 45 degrees. If boyface her, it becomes a numbers game.
You can tell stories during the instadate to DHV her liking you to the particular 6 frames.
- player/fuckboi/same day lay
- friendzoned/oribitor/social circle
- husband material
- daddy to daughter frame
- high status/ celebrity status
You will lose her trust not being interested in her. If you aren’t curious. This happens with all narcissistic students.
When I am teaching my bootcamp student, when you try to Simple Pickup and try to get cocky funny, that is a recipe for disaster. I bet most of their numbers flakes.
For white people, their rate of getting women out is 11%. Mine now is like almost every single number on the first try.
I really don’t understand why you guys are doing such stupid shit.
I honestly think all the dating coaches are clueless about game. clueless. Just lazy and SMVing it.
But I found for my student, if he isn’t chilled or building social comfort, she won’t even go to an instadate.
Playing it safe by being natural without flirting is a disaster other dating coaches keeps doing.
They think being natural equals talking like James Bond.
But they don’t even flirt like James Bond. They just build attraction, build attraction, build attraction.
If you hear some tall white dating coach say build attraction, it means he is just a scammer. He needs to stfu.
He already has attraction by SMVing it. So he just needs a bit more cocky funny bullshit to get over the like.
HONESTLY MY STUDENTS CAN’T BUILD ANY SOCIAL COMFORT IF YOU ACT COCKY FUNNY AS AN ASIAN. THAT BUILDS SOCIAL DISCOMFORT
That is why naturals are so chilled.
Just because you try to be chilled, doesn’t make you a natural, if you don’t flirt.
IF YOU DON’T FLIRT, YOU DON’T FVCK.
Then again, no one knows what I am talking about because they will say is teasing flirting? or cocky funny flirting? Then they get confused. Then I slap my forehead so hard, I get a concussion.
RANDOM FUNNY STORY
Its funny on the bootcamp, someone tried to bump into me, I walked back to him and I knocked him again. He pushed me. He postured up, I was ready to fight he backed off.
Most men are pussies. You can smell fear in their eyes.
I told him he has low self esteem. He needs to be at his higher self. I TOLD HIM HE WAS BETTER THAN THIS, HE CAN ACHIEVE SO MUCH MORE, WITH HIS HIGHER SELF.
I fist bumped him.
Another homeless person once again touched my blazer, the blue one. This was the second time. I told him to fvck off. I was going to kick him in the stomach, postured up.
I thought to myself, he just touched me, but he didn’t attack me.
I could of broke his ribs easily. He kept asking for our credit card.
But that is the mindset you need to get rid of fear.
Fear the amadala part of the brain in fight, flight or freeze.
Imagine it is a car with 3 gears. One you go forward, but if you push the gas too long, you wear yourself out. Same as cortisol. You always have to turn it off.
YOU CAN LITERALLY GET OVER ANY FEAR OF APPROACHING WOMEN THIS WAY. tTaking 15 mins to go in the forward gear, it will bypass the anti lock breaks of your mind.
The problem is most of you run away and you never make it past that. Most of you can’t even fight. You don’t know how to defend yourself like I do. So you have a super fear no matter how much traditional martial arts you do.
3. WILLING TO BE PULLED BY YOU
Tell her she has your phone number, if you do anything she doesn’t like, she can call the cops. They usually trust you after that.
Its better than some pepper spray story.
Other ways is to say, here is my ID, if you don’t trust me hold onto it. Give it back to me after I leave.
This builds ultimate trust.
WHEN YOU GET LAID BY THIS IDEA ALONE, GIVE ME CREDIT BECAUSE I’M WAY SMARTER THAN YOU AT GAME.
STILL HAVE A HARD TIME BELIEVING I AM A NATURAL
Student saw me in action, almost the girl was going to fvck in an alley but they have to leave 8pm in the morning. Otherwise they might of.
The student was like wtf? How? You are so expressive, natural, the emotions were so good. You adapt so fast in real time.
I’m starting to think you must earn your rights to have upwards spirals in your social skills, your game, objections dealing, flirting and emotions, social calibrations of ultimate congruency before you can unlock it.
I really hate my parents because they are so mentally abusive, I had game harder in the beginning of my journey.
Like Kaizen my 3mp students, one of the black guy needs to get with the fucking program and stop being a fucking pussy. Freeze up.
But the other guy is turning his life into an upward spiral.
The more I embrace I am a natural and the reason why I can come up with these conepts. Its hard because I thought I came up with all of this though trail and error, I have.
But there is a part of me when I teach the game, it is so easy.
No dating coach has this gift. Like other naturals told me I don’t know where this comes from, it just happens.
But I decoded it, their body language affects their stats, then their state affects their emotions or feelings. Then the right words comes out.
Yes the right words comes out.
If you tried to be unnatural and use stupid scripts and lines due to a lack of social skills you are so fvcked if your SMV is low.
The right words came out of my mouth. She said she has a boyfriend. I said, that’s perfect. She was confused, I told her he doesn’t have to know. I kept flirting like crazy and I whispered in her ear very sexual things, touched her hand. Stood closer to her and vibed very sexually.
Fuck this sensual or romantic shit. Wtf is shit?
The idea or tactic is to keep her on her feminine.
Women will submit faster this way, when you are masculine and flirting.
Extreme comfort, switched to extreme sexual, there is no sensual or romantic. That only works if she sees you as a potential boyfriend material if you have a race advantage of look white, black and Latino. I said look, you will have the same :SMV.
The faster you can say perfect, the faster you throw her off. The faster you can talk about how he doesn’t have to know and sexualize and flirt hard, keep her on her feminine the harder you set the frame. Usually this happens on the later half of the conversation of daygame. That’s before you get the number.
Text game is keeping her on the line, the fishing line.
Who is to say you can’t deal with objections though texting? At some point you have to, you don’t have to seed the pull in real life. You can convert thought text.
Or get very sexual though text too.
Last day for the bootcamp later today for the student and I can write more blog post. I don’t schedule them. I just write them.