Quitters of daygame are losers

I noticed a trend recently among the hardcases. Maybe summer is over and the fall begins so they are busier. A lot of them are dropping like flies near the end of this month. But the more value you give a student, free class, free advice, free wardrobe consulting. They don’t respect your advice because it is free. It is a paradox really. You think by giving free advice they want more. But in reality, unless they emotionally invested, then they would listen. They don’t value it, until they pay for it. I have to watch out giving so much value. Some people are vampires. Hardcases are quitters. It is funny how I got everyone a date, a pull and laid. But some still act hardcase and quit. Give value, don’t take value. Think win/win.

Being a PUA is hard. But some people are so close to the edge of success. There is an initial hump. A beginners hell. Some people wash out. In fact 95% of people will wash out. 5% will stay, but 1% will be good and world-class. The 4% would suck. But they would be the creepy PUA types you hear about in lairs. It filters out a special breed of people. Such is the truth about daygame and teaching students. I know, i’m a dating coach. But universally this seems to be the ratio. It is sad. Never ever, give up. A lot of people are right at the edge of success and they quit.

Some people fears success. The succeed at getting their first date, or pull. They bow out of game. I am not sure why. They get hardcase about it too. Caught up in life. It is like weight lifting. They get pumped for it. Now they have a coach. But their arms are sore and they don’t like it. They get results, or bigger muscles. But they feel it isn’t genuine or they didn’t get it themselves. Or if they didn’t get the muscles, they quit before they were about to make big gains.

PUAs are not normal people. They do burn out of course, but they never quit. Once they made it past the 6 month mark, they are in it for life. My best advice is game is the hardest thing in the world. But the most rewarding when you improve. Get results. Do you think you can play an instrument in such a short time? Or play in a band? Nope, it takes time. Same with daygame. Yes there are those who doesn’t improve, stubborn people who doesn’t work on their body and their game, or lifestyle, fashion. My point was don’t quit no matter how much it hurts. Maybe you didn’t fail enough to learn from your mistakes. But I can help you save time from your learning curve.

Solution. Learn how to put up with game for 6 months in a row. That is the magic number. Who cares how much it hurts. The fact students are pulling on the first class and getting dates. Normally in natural and direct schools, it would take longer to succeed. Maybe 3 months to get a date, 6 months to pull or longer. Or not at all. Learn how not to let early success bother you. Learn to be not stubborn.