Day 5 challenge for DAYGAME

Now, I know what you’re thinking. ‘Does this work for someone like me? Does it work for my ethnicity? Can you prove it works?’ The answer is yes, and I’m going to show you exactly how.

Let’s talk about something real—because not everyone is ready for this system. I can get normal cases laid. I can even get hard cases laid. Impossible cases? With effort, they can get laid too. But unteachable cases? They’re like zombies—too far gone, too decayed, too stubborn, too delusional. And if you’re a zombie, I can’t help you.

Not to trigger you, those who are still enlightened will understand and not crash out but i’m going to have some real talk, no cap, be based as fuck. The truth is, more than half the audience out there is acting like zombies these days. The pandemic, inflation, tariffs—they’ve left people broke, lazy, and stuck in their heads. They procrastinate, make bad decisions, and crash out before they even start. But if you’re not a zombie—if you’re someone willing to adapt, put in the effort, and follow the process—this system will work for you.

We’re going to break this down by ethnicity—white students, Asian students, Black students, Indian students, Jewish students, Middle Eastern students, and more. I’ll show you what makes a good student and what makes a bad student for each group. Once you see where you stand, you’ll know exactly how to make this system work for you.

Because here’s the truth: it doesn’t matter where you’re from or what your background is. The system works if you work it. But if you have the traits of a decaying zombie, I’m not obligated to train you. And trust me, I’ll tell you if you don’t have what it takes.

I’ve made my training stricter now. It’s broken into three stages over three months. You can only pay for one stage at a time. If you graduate, you move forward. If you don’t, you’re out. This isn’t for everyone, and I’m not here to waste time on people who won’t put in the effort.

So let’s dive in. Let’s talk about the traits of a good student and a bad student for each ethnicity. Once you see the truth, you’ll know exactly where you stand and what you need to do to succeed.”**

The Ideal Asian Student: Grit, Discipline, and Results

Let me tell you what makes an ideal Asian student for my system. These are the guys who come in with the right mindset and the willingness to follow everything I teach to the letter. They’re not here to argue, procrastinate, or make excuses—they’re here to win.

The perfect example of this type of student? Engineers. I’ve had multiple Asian students who work as engineers, and they share a few key traits that make them stand out.

First, these guys have been burned before. They’ve tried other systems, maybe even fallen for the Asian masculinity movement or followed white dating coaches who can’t transfer their skills to minorities. They’ve seen firsthand that those systems don’t work, and they’re ready for something real. They don’t fall for the halo effect—they look at my testimonials, see all the Asians I’ve gotten laid, and know this is the right place for them.

These engineers might not have much going for them at first. They’re usually average-looking, maybe 5’7, with bad fashion and no muscles. But here’s the thing: they’re gritty. They don’t need to be naturally good-looking or charismatic because they have the four traits of grit:

  1. Growth Mindset: They’re willing to learn new things and adapt.
  2. Resilience: They keep going, even when it’s tough.
  3. Instincts: They know when to push forward and when to adjust.
  4. Tenacity: They never quit, no matter how hard it gets.

These guys have been raised with discipline. They’ve had tiger parents who pushed them to be engineers or doctors, and they’re used to tough love. When I give them discipline, they don’t crash out or get triggered. They know it’s for their own good, and they embrace it. One of my students even stood in 45-degree heat for three hours straight, practicing drills. That’s the kind of dedication these guys bring to the table.

Because of their grit and discipline, these students achieve results fast. I’ve had engineers pull women home in just a week and a half and get laid within two weeks. They show up for every single training session, complete every assignment, and never procrastinate. They’re like Terminators—focused, emotionless, and relentless.

Even though they might have low emotional intelligence, that actually works in their favor. They don’t get caught up in their feelings or overthink things. They just follow the system and execute. These are the guys who go through the 30-day challenge, the 21-day challenge, and every other drill back-to-back without missing a step.

What We Don’t Want: The Wrong Type of Asian Student

Let me tell you exactly what I don’t want in a student. These guys are the complete opposite of the ideal Asian student. They’re not gritty, disciplined, or willing to adapt. Instead, they’re stuck in their delusional, toxic mindsets, and no matter how good the system is, they’ll sabotage themselves every step of the way.

These guys are almost always part of the Asian masculinity crowd. They think the solution to all their problems is to bulk up and look “tough,” but they end up looking like bulky, compounded Ninja Turtles. You know the type—big fat arms, big belly, wearing tight black shirts that make them look even bulkier. They think their size and “masculinity” will compensate for their lack of social skills, but it doesn’t. Women don’t care about how big your arms are if you’re dressed poorly, have no tonality, and can’t hold a conversation.

These guys are the most toxic PUA types, especially in PUA crews. They’re sociopathic, narcissistic, and sadistic. They love insulting each other because it makes them feel superior. But here’s the thing—these guys aren’t psychopaths like my good students who can detach emotionally and focus on results. These are triggered sociopaths with low emotional intelligence. They’re constantly stressed out, filled with cortisol, and crashing out. They talk fast, they overthink everything, and they’re always on edge.

What’s worse is their obsession with night game. These guys are always talking about nightclubs as if that’s the ultimate solution. They use night game as a crutch, a backup plan because they know deep down they can’t succeed in daygame. They tell themselves they like nightclubs, but it’s just an excuse to avoid facing their weaknesses.

These types are also incredibly narcissistic. They think I have to suck up to them, that I owe them something. They don’t listen, they don’t learn, and they march to the beat of their own drummer. They’re completely delusional, convinced that their problem is they’re not masculine enough. They think Asians are too feminine, so they double down on their “masculinity” instead of fixing their social skills, tonality, or fashion. It’s completely autistic.

And then there are the runners. These guys are cowards who are always making excuses. They’ll claim they have a medical issue, an injury, or some other problem that keeps them from doing the work. They’ll say they’re sick or too busy, but it’s all just excuses to avoid facing their fears. These guys are always running away from challenges instead of facing them head-on.

One of the most frustrating things about these students is their tendency to create zombie steps. These are steps they invent in the middle of their training—things I never taught them, things that don’t work. It’s like baking a cake and deciding to add a random ingredient that ruins the whole recipe. Every time I correct one of their zombie steps, they invent a new one. They’re constantly sabotaging themselves, and it’s exhausting to deal with.

These guys are also procrastinators. They can’t finish a 21-day challenge, let alone a 30-day challenge. They’re always saying, “I’ll do it tomorrow,” but tomorrow never comes. They take breaks, they lose momentum, and they never follow through.

The worst of the worst are the unteachable cases. These guys have gone too far. They can’t hear their own mistakes, and they repeat them a hundred times over like zombies. They have no working memory, so they forget everything I teach them and go back to their old habits. They stick to their Asian-washed fashion—black clothing and hairstyles that are so repulsive, they might as well be wearing a sign that says, “Don’t date me.” It’s so bad, I’m surprised they didn’t get beat up during COVID times.

These are the students I don’t want. They’re stuck in their ways, unwilling to change, and they waste everyone’s time—including their own. If you see yourself in this description, this system isn’t for you. But if you’re willing to let go of these toxic traits, adapt, and follow the process, there’s still hope for you.

The Ideal Indian Student: Grit, Resilience, and Results

When I think about my best Indian students, none of them were perfect. But the ones who succeeded shared certain traits that set them apart. These are the guys who embody grit—the ability to push through challenges, adapt, and stay consistent. While most Indians struggle with tenacity and procrastination, the best Indian students never procrastinate. They attack problems head-on, over and over again, until they’re solved.

One of my top Indian students was making half a million dollars a year and still found time to train with me. He didn’t make excuses. He didn’t let his busy schedule stop him. He worked on my Elite 60A high-income skills course in between his job, and he took my original three-month proficiency program seriously. He was an engineer, of course—logical, disciplined, and focused.

Another great Indian student trained with me in Australia. He did everything I told him to do, from changing his fashion to getting the right hairstyle. He didn’t resist the process. He embraced it, became whitewashed, and got laid repeatedly. Before he crashed out mentally, he was one of my most successful students.

What makes these students stand out?

  1. They Have GRIT:
    • Growth Mindset: They’re willing to learn and adapt, even when it’s uncomfortable.
    • Resilience: Even when they’re afraid, they go out and do the work. They face rejection without beating themselves up.
    • Instincts: They trust my instructions and don’t question the system.
    • Tenacity: They don’t quit. They keep showing up, doing the drills, and completing every homework assignment.
  2. They Don’t Procrastinate:
    These guys don’t let ADHD or distractions get in the way. They focus on the task at hand and get it done.
  3. They Invest in Themselves:
    They’re not afraid to spend money on training because they know it’s a strategic investment. They don’t half-ass it—they fully commit to the process.
  4. They Embrace Whitewashing:
    They understand that staying Indian-washed (low-status fashion, unappealing hairstyles) keeps them stuck at a 2/10 in the social hierarchy. By assimilating and becoming whitewashed, they elevate themselves to a 4/10, which allows them to operate effectively in daygame.
  5. They Work Within Their Limitations:
    Even though most Indians have challenges like sociopathy, narcissism, ADHD, and skinny-fat physiques, the good ones don’t let these traits hold them back. They acknowledge their weaknesses and work around them.

These students are relentless. They’ll take punches, get rejected, and keep getting back up. They don’t let fear stop them. And because of their resilience and commitment, they don’t just get one lay—they rack up multiple lays, achieving results that most people can only dream of.

The Wrong Type of Indian Student: Procrastinators, Backstabbers, and Zombies Expanded

When it comes to the wrong type of Indian student, there’s no shortage of examples. These are the guys who crash out, sabotage themselves, and waste everyone’s time. They’re the complete opposite of the ideal Indian student, and their traits make them insufferable, unteachable, and ultimately doomed to fail. Let’s break it down further and expand on what makes these students so problematic.


1. Procrastinators with No Tenacity

The worst Indian students are chronic procrastinators. They’ll say, “I’ll do it tomorrow,” but tomorrow never comes. These guys disappear for weeks at a time, especially during tough economic conditions like inflation and tariffs. They’ll vanish without a word, and when they reappear, they act as if nothing happened. Even if you explain their mistakes to them, they’ll repeat the same behavior over and over again, disappearing again as soon as the pressure builds.

Their procrastination isn’t just a bad habit—it’s a symptom of their excessive ADHD. Indians have one of the highest rates of ADHD in the world, and the bad ones let it control them completely. They can’t focus, they can’t finish a 21-day challenge, and they can’t commit to anything long enough to see results. Their lack of tenacity means they’ll quit at the first sign of difficulty, making them completely unfit for my training.


2. Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Triggered Behavior

Indians are second only to Asian PUAs when it comes to narcissism. Many of them have narcissistic parents who pressure them to succeed, get married, or follow a specific life path. This constant pressure creates a toxic mindset where they always have a Plan B. Because they always have a backup plan, they never fully commit to Plan A, which is my training. They’re always holding back, never giving 100%, and it shows in their lack of results.

These students are also easily triggered. They take everything personally, overreact to criticism, and let their emotions control them. Instead of using rejection as a learning experience, they spiral into self-doubt and self-pity. Their triggered behavior makes them impossible to coach because they’re too busy defending their ego to actually listen and learn.


3. Indian-Washed Fashion and Delusional Grooming

One of the most frustrating traits of bad Indian students is their refusal to assimilate. They cling to Indian-washed fashion—curly hair, unkempt beards, pink work shirts, tapered jeans, and white or black dress shoes. This style is universally unattractive, yet they’re convinced it makes them look masculine. Add in their body odor (which could be fixed with cologne) and their refusal to embrace whitewashed fashion, and it’s no wonder they repel women.

These guys don’t just alienate white women—they alienate everyone around them, especially in places like Toronto and London, where Indians are colonizing these cities without assimilating. Their refusal to adapt to Western norms keeps them stuck at the bottom of the social hierarchy, and no amount of training can fix that if they won’t let go of their delusions.


4. Backstabbers and Manipulators

Indians have a well-known reputation for backstabbing, and unfortunately, it’s not just a stereotype—it’s a reality. These students will smile to your face while plotting to stab you in the back. They’ll sabotage others, steal credit for work they didn’t do, and even turn on their own coaches.

For example, one Indian student from Australia got so many lays under my training that he lost his mind. Instead of being grateful, he sent another dating coach my materials, and that coach took credit for my work. This kind of betrayal is common among bad Indian students. They’ll act sneaky and manipulative, and as soon as they get some results, their true colors show.

Indians go through four stages of behavior in my training:

  1. Stage 0: Altruistic Higher Self Gear – This stage doesn’t exist for most Indians.
  2. Stage 1: Depressed Snowflake Gear – They’re nice and compliant because they’re desperate for help.
  3. Stage 2: Sneaky Lower Self Gear – Once they get some results, they start acting sneaky and manipulative.
  4. Stage 3: Backstabbing Gear – Their eyes turn red, and they stab you in the back without hesitation.

5. Skinny Fat and Obese with High Cortisol

Physically, bad Indian students are often skinny fat or outright obese. Their bodies are filled with cortisol from stress, poor diets, and lack of exercise. They may look skinny, but they have no muscle tone and carry excess fat around their midsection.

These students also tend to have Asperger’s traits, which make them socially awkward and emotionally detached. They can’t hear their own mistakes, they lack self-awareness, and they struggle to connect with others. Their cortisol levels make them talk fast, overthink, and panic in social situations, which only makes their problems worse.


6. Brainwashed by Other Coaches

Bad Indian students are sheep—completely brainwashed by white dating coaches and their own ethnicity. They worship white coaches who can’t get them results, then move on to Indian coaches who are just as ineffective. By the time they come to me, their minds are filled with bad neural pathways and propaganda from boot camps.

They’re stuck in a cycle of dread and dependency, convinced that boot camps are the only solution. These students are so brainwashed that they can’t take a single step forward without doubting themselves or reverting to their old habits.


7. Cheap and Financially Irresponsible

Bad Indian students are cheap. They want free stuff, pretend to be interested in training, and waste everyone’s time. They’re also financially irresponsible, often carrying five-figure, six-figure, or even seven-figure debt because they can’t stop buying houses they can’t afford.

Unlike my good Indian students who invest in themselves and commit to the process, these guys are always looking for shortcuts and freebies. They don’t value the training, and their lack of financial discipline reflects their overall lack of commitment.


8. Lack of Tenacity and Zombie Steps

At first, some bad Indian students show signs of progress. They’ll complete a few drills, make some approaches, and even practice the basics. But as soon as the pressure builds, they crash out. They lack the tenacity to push through challenges, and they quit near the end when it matters most.

These students also create zombie steps—random, ineffective actions that I never taught them. It’s like they’re sabotaging the system on purpose, adding unnecessary steps that ruin their progress. No matter how many times I correct them, they keep inventing new zombie steps, making it impossible to move forward.


The Bottom Line

The wrong type of Indian student is a procrastinator, a backstabber, and a zombie. They’re plagued by ADHD, narcissism, and delusion, and they refuse to adapt or take responsibility for their own success. They sabotage themselves at every turn, waste everyone’s time, and ultimately fail because they lack the grit, focus, and discipline needed to succeed.

If you’re an Indian student wondering if this system is for you, ask yourself: Are you willing to let go of these toxic traits? Are you ready to commit, adapt, and put in the work? If not, this isn’t the place for you. But if you’re ready to change, the results are waiting for you.

Good Traits of Latino Students

  1. Resilience and Mental Toughness
    Latinos are mentally tough, almost like Mexican boxers. They’re fighters who can take hit after hit and still keep going. Even when they mess up drills, resist instructions, or face setbacks, they don’t quit easily. This mental toughness is their defining trait—they’ll keep fighting until the bitter end, refusing to give up no matter how difficult things get.Their resilience allows them to bounce back from failures and keep pushing forward. They might crash out temporarily, but they always get back up and try again. This toughness makes them soldiers in the world of daygame, willing to endure the grind and fight for results.
  2. 7/10 Perceived Natural Status (Now 5/10)
    Historically, Latinos had a 7/10 perceived natural status, giving them an edge in daygame. They weren’t supermodels, but they were seen as attractive and above average in looks. However, after Donald Trump’s ICE raids and the political climate that followed, their perceived natural status dropped to 5/10. This external shift has made it harder for them to rely solely on their SMV (sexual market value), forcing them to develop more skills to succeed.Despite this, their natural charisma and decent physical appearance still give them an advantage over other ethnicities like Asians or Indians.
  3. Zero Approach Anxiety
    Many Latino students have zero approach anxiety. They’re fearless when it comes to talking to women, which gives them a massive advantage. While other ethnicities struggle with the mental block of approaching, Latinos can jump into interactions without hesitation.This lack of fear allows them to take action quickly, even if they don’t execute perfectly. For example, Marco, one of my standout Latino students, didn’t feel any emotions when approaching women. His fearlessness helped him rack up multiple girlfriends, f*ck buddies, and lays year after year.
  4. Vibing Ability
    Latinos have a natural ability to vibe. Even though they struggle with structured social skills like the three-step social skills flow drill, their charisma and energy can carry them through interactions. They can rely on their SMV to some extent, vibing their way into connections with women.While other students need to master every step of the process, Latinos can get by with their vibing ability, which acts as a shortcut to success.
  5. Stubborn Determination
    Latinos are stubborn, but this can be a strength when channeled correctly. Their determination means they won’t give up, even when they face challenges or resist instructions. This stubbornness, combined with their resilience, allows them to keep moving forward, even if they’re slow to adapt.
  6. Slow but Steady Adaptation
    While Latinos are often slow to adapt, they eventually get there. They might resist feedback, argue about instructions, and half-ass their assignments, but they keep going. Once they finally adapt to the instincts taught in the program, they’re almost guaranteed to get laid before they crash out.Their slow progress doesn’t matter as long as they stay consistent. Even if it takes them longer to fully grasp the lessons, their resilience and determination ensure that they’ll eventually see results.
  7. Results Through Resilience
    The combination of their stubborn determination, resilience, and natural vibing ability means that most Latinos will eventually get laid. Even if they half-ass their assignments or struggle with ADHD, their mental toughness and perceived natural status give them an edge.For example, Marco wasn’t perfect—he messed up drills, had poor body language, and resisted instructions—but he kept showing up and putting in the effort. His resilience paid off, and he achieved consistent results year after year.

Bad Traits of Latino Students

  1. The Five Traits of Latino F*ck Behavior
    Almost every Latino student goes through these five traits:
    • One-Track Mind: They can only focus on one thing at a time, which makes multitasking and learning complex drills difficult.
    • Wrong Path to Sociopath: Their stubbornness can lead them down the wrong path, where they resist feedback and fail to adapt.
    • Meltdown: Many Latinos have emotional meltdowns, where they cry or rage quit. Even though they always come back, these meltdowns slow down their progress.
    • Temporary Quitting: They quit training temporarily, only to return later. This cycle of quitting and restarting can waste months of progress.
    • Resetting: After quitting, they reset and start over, often repeating the same mistakes.
  2. Half-Assed Execution
    Latinos are notorious for half-assing their assignments. They can’t do things perfectly, but they’ll do them halfway—and halfway is better than nothing. Marco, for example, messed up every drill, from body language to social skills, but he still tried. While half-assing can lead to results eventually, it slows down their progress significantly.
  3. Procrastination and Laziness
    Most Latinos are lazy and procrastinate endlessly. They’ll resist doing the work, argue about instructions, and delay assignments. This lack of discipline makes it difficult for them to build momentum and achieve consistent results. Kaizen they sweat with cortisol and do the minium and don’t even approach.
  4. Generational Trauma and Epigenetic Fears
    Many Latinos carry generational trauma from their ancestors, who faced violence and instability in Latin countries. This trauma manifests as extreme approach anxiety for some students, making it nearly impossible for them to take action. While some Latinos have zero anxiety, others have 1,000% anxiety due to these inherited fears.
  5. Financial Instability and Survival Mode
    Most Latinos are broke and struggle to stabilize their finances. Being in survival mode makes it hard for them to focus on training. They need to fix their money situation first, get a stable income, and supplement their ADHD before they can fully commit to the program.
  6. Resistance to Feedback
    Latinos argue and resist feedback at every step. They’ll question instructions, refuse to adapt, and push back against changes. This resistance slows down their progress and makes them difficult to coach.
  7. Meltdowns and Emotional Outbursts
    Even though Latinos don’t feel emotions as intensely as other ethnicities, they still have meltdowns. Some will literally cry during training, while others will rage quit. These emotional outbursts are a common hurdle that needs to be managed carefully.
  8. Dependency on Supplements
    Latinos have hardware issues that make supplementation essential. Without supplements, their ADHD and low focus make training nearly impossible. While supplements can turn them into decent students, they still need to put in the work to see res

Black Students: The Good, The Bad, and The Unteachable

When it comes to black students, the results are polarizing. On one hand, confident black students dominate daygame with their high SMV and natural presence. On the other hand, unconfident or triggered black students struggle immensely, often crashing out due to their emotional instability and inability to adapt. Let’s break down the good traits and the bad traits of black students, followed by an analysis of the unteachable cases.


Good Traits of Black Students

  1. Confidence and High SMV (Perceived Natural Status)
    The best black students are confident. Confidence is their most important trait because it allows them to break stereotypes and dominate social interactions. Without confidence, even physically attractive black students fail to leverage their natural advantages.Confident black students typically have a V-shaped body, are above 6 feet tall, and maintain a whitewashed appearance. This combination gives them an 8/10 perceived natural status, especially with white women who are pre-selected for confident black men. Even if they’re skinny fat, their protector status and physical presence make them attractive.Students who adopt whitewashed fashion (faded haircuts, clean-shaven or trimmed beards, and stylish clothing) amplify their SMV further. By transitioning from “Negro fashion” (afros, long beards, and outdated styles) to a whitewashed appearance, they eliminate xenophobia and increase their chances of success.
  2. Steamrolling Through Obstacles
    Confident black students are often emotionally detached, which allows them to steamroll through challenges without overthinking. They don’t let emotions get in the way of their progress. This trait is similar to Chinese students who execute drills with precision and consistency.For example, one black student with over 100 lays attributed his success to following my system, even though he only learned 15% of it. His ability to steamroll through obstacles and focus on results made him one of my most successful students.
  3. High Believability and Depth
    When confident black students believe in themselves, they exude a sense of believability and depth that resonates with women. This confidence comes from their past successes and their ability to vibe their SMV effectively. Even if they get stuck during tough times (e.g., the pandemic or inflation), they bounce back quickly with proper guidance.
  4. Kaizen and 30-Day Challenges
    Black students excel in Kaizen (continuous improvement) and 30-day challenges, such as Elite 30. These programs allow them to focus on consistent practice, which leads to massive results. Some of my black students have racked up huge lay counts and multiple girlfriends simply by sticking to the drills and maintaining momentum.
  5. Whitewashed Black Advantage
    The whitewashed black student has a massive tactical advantage in daygame. Their confidence, combined with their physical presence and whitewashed appearance, creates a positive stereotype that women find irresistible. Even Latinos or Indians who look black can benefit from this advantage if they adopt the same traits.
  6. Resilience and Results
    Once confident black students adapt to the social calibrations and instincts taught in the program, they achieve results quickly. Even if they mess up the drills or half-ass their assignments, their resilience ensures they’ll get laid eventually.

Bad Traits of Black Students

  1. Triggering and Emotional Instability
    Some black students have high egos and low self-esteem, which makes them easily triggered. They laugh nervously, take feedback personally, and get stuck emotionally. This triggered behavior prevents them from focusing on the drills and leads to constant emotional outbursts.These students spend more time crying about their problems than solving them. Their inability to control their emotions makes them less teachable and slows down their progress.
  2. Negro Fashion and Xenophobia
    Students who stick to Negro fashion (afros, sideburns, long beards, and outdated clothing) face significant challenges. This appearance creates xenophobia and alienates white women, who are their primary target in daygame.For example, one black student in London with an afro and a beard struggled with xenophobia until he transitioned to a whitewashed look. Once he faded his hair and adopted better fashion, he got laid almost immediately.
  3. Overconfidence and Laziness
    Confident black students often stop practicing the drills after getting laid. They rely too much on their SMV and vibing ability, which leads to stagnation. While they can rack up a few more lays, they eventually get stuck and need to return to the basics of social calibrations.
  4. Fat and Cortisol Issues
    Some black students, especially African blacks, struggle with skinny fat physiques and high cortisol levels. Instead of building muscle, they accumulate fat in unusual places, creating gross proportions that repel women.African blacks, in particular, have a lower perceived natural status compared to African American blacks. Their lack of SMV, combined with their physical issues, makes it harder for them to succeed in daygame.
  5. Delusion and Lack of Responsibility
    Triggered black students often exhibit sociopathic traits, such as refusing to take responsibility for their failures. They blame others, act delusional, and believe their opinions are facts. This lack of accountability makes them unteachable and prevents them from making meaningful progress.

Unteachable Cases: The African Black Student

The worst black students fall into the unteachable case category. These students are completely delusional, triggered, and emotionally unstable.

For example, one African black student from 2022-2024 was the worst student I’ve ever had. He ran away from every homework assignment, got triggered constantly, and acted like he was possessed by demons. His decisions led him to crash out completely, turning into a full-on zombie with no humanity left.

This student’s physical proportions became gross due to high cortisol levels, and he showed no signs of improvement. His sociopathic tendencies, combined with his refusal to take responsibility, made him impossible to coach.


The Bottom Line

The good black students dominate daygame with their confidence, high SMV, and resilience. They’re like steamrollers, pushing through obstacles and achieving massive results. However, the bad black students struggle with triggering, emotional instability, and delusion, which makes them harder to teach.

The key to success for black students is confidence, a whitewashed appearance, and consistent practice. Those who embrace these traits can achieve incredible results, while those who resist change or get triggered will crash out and fail.

Middle Eastern Students: The Good Traits

Middle Eastern students bring a unique dynamic to daygame training. While they often face societal stereotypes and challenges, their high SMV (sexual market value), dominant personalities, and relentless dedication to mastering the system make them incredibly effective when trained properly. Here’s a breakdown of their good traits:


1. High SMV and Dominant Personality

Middle Eastern students naturally have high SMV, often higher than Latinos. Despite negative reputations in certain European countries, in terms of grape, their dominant personality plays a significant role in their attractiveness. Women, even white women, respond to this dominance, as it taps into the “conquering tribe” mentality.

This dominance, when paired with a whitewashed appearance, becomes a massive tactical advantage. Whitewashed Middle Eastern students—those who adopt clean haircuts, stylish dress shirts, and modern fashion—break stereotypes and project a polished, attractive image. This transformation is crucial for their success, as it eliminates xenophobia and enhances their appeal.


2. Relentless Dedication to Practice

Middle Eastern students are ruthless practitioners. They take programs like Elite 30 to an extreme level, practicing every spare moment until they reach mastery. Unlike other ethnicities, they treat the training like an instructor-level course, dedicating hours upon hours to perfecting their social calibrations.

For example, the 5’7” student from Sweden practiced Elite 30 for 10 hours a day in front of a mirror. Within five days, his results skyrocketed. Women who previously ignored him started opening up, and he achieved his first lay with a white woman in record time. This relentless dedication sets Middle Eastern students apart and accelerates their progress.


3. Better Social Skills and Social Circles

Unlike many other ethnicities, Middle Eastern students often come into the program with decent social skills and established social circles. While they may have a “gangster-ish” vibe, they know how to socialize and maintain friendships. This foundation gives them an edge, as they can build on their existing social skills rather than starting from scratch.

Their ability to vibe and connect with others makes them naturally better at the social skills flow drill and other aspects of daygame. Combined with their high SMV, this makes them highly effective in interactions with women.


4. Ability to Operate Under Pressure (Even When Triggered)

Middle Eastern students are extremely triggered, but they don’t let that stop them. They have a unique ability to operate effectively even while triggered, pushing through emotional discomfort to achieve their goals. This resilience allows them to stay focused on the training and execute drills consistently, even when faced with setbacks or challenges.

Their sociopathic tendencies, while extreme, often work in their favor. They approach the training with a laser-like focus, treating it as a mission to conquer. This mindset, combined with their ability to handle pressure, makes them highly effective in daygame.


5. Success with White Women

Middle Eastern students excel at getting white women, especially with my training. Their dominant personality, whitewashed appearance, and social skills make them highly attractive to women who might otherwise be hesitant.

For example, the taller student from Vancouver achieved over 30 lays, including multiple white women, by copying my infields and following the system to the letter. His success highlights the potential of Middle Eastern students when they fully commit to the program.


6. High Lay Counts and Girlfriends

Middle Eastern students often achieve high lay counts in a short amount of time. Their combination of SMV, dominance, and dedication to practice allows them to rack up results quickly.

While they’re not always seen as husband material due to societal stereotypes and financial limitations, they can still secure girlfriends and long-term relationships. Taller students, in particular, are more likely to fit into the boyfriend-girlfriend frame, while shorter students may face additional challenges. The shorter ones will get more lays despite thier bad reputation in Europe.


7. Breaking Stereotypes with a Happier Vibe

One of the most effective strategies for Middle Eastern students is to adopt a happier, more positive vibe. This breaks negative stereotypes and makes them more approachable. Women respond well to this energy, as it contrasts with the “crazy” or “violent” disposition often associated with their ethnicity.

By combining a happier vibe with their natural dominance and whitewashed appearance, Middle Eastern students can significantly enhance their results.


8. Quick Results with Proper Training

Middle Eastern students often achieve results quickly with proper training. Their high SMV, combined with their ability to practice relentlessly, allows them to see changes within days or weeks. For example, the Swedish student transformed his interactions with women in just five days of practicing Elite 30.

This rapid progress is a testament to their dedication and willingness to follow instructions. With the right guidance, they can overcome any challenges and achieve consistent success in daygame.

Middle Eastern Students: The Bad Traits

Middle Eastern students, while capable of achieving great results due to their high SMV and relentless dedication when they’re on track, can also be some of the most challenging and volatile students to train. Their emotional irregularity, sociopathic tendencies, and inability to listen often lead to dramatic crashes. Here’s a breakdown of the bad traits that make training Middle Eastern students a double-edged sword:


1. Emotional Irregularity and Low Self-Esteem

Many Middle Eastern students struggle with low self-esteem, which manifests as emotional instability. They are extremely triggered individuals who react poorly to feedback and often spiral into emotional chaos. For example, one student from Sweden who achieved three lays crashed out completely after his Bitcoin investments tanked, and his girlfriend left him. This emotional blow caused him to lose focus, abandon training, and obsess over making money as the solution to his problems.

This emotional irregularity often makes them unreliable. They can be highly motivated one moment and completely disengaged the next. Their inability to regulate their emotions prevents them from maintaining consistency in their training.


2. Stubbornness and Refusal to Listen

Middle Eastern students are incredibly stubborn, often refusing to follow instructions even when it’s in their best interest. They have a “know-it-all” attitude that leads them to ignore advice and make reckless decisions.

For example, the 5’7” student from Sweden ignored clear instructions not to hit on a model whose boyfriend was in jail. His reckless behavior led to him being stabbed in the chest by Somali individuals, forcing him to flee to Turkey. This type of Latino-like f*ck behavior—ignoring warnings, taking unnecessary risks, and acting impulsively—often results in catastrophic outcomes.


3. Sociopathic Tendencies

Middle Eastern students often exhibit sociopathic or psychopathic traits, such as a lack of empathy and an intense focus on personal gain. While this can be advantageous in certain contexts (e.g., making money or pushing through fear in daygame), it also makes them difficult to teach.

They don’t feel fear, which can lead to overconfidence and reckless behavior. For example, one student chose to follow a Turkish bodybuilder’s workout plan instead of my proven system. Predictably, it failed, leaving him fat and unfit. His refusal to follow instructions and his misplaced confidence in an unproven method highlight the dangers of their sociopathic tendencies.


4. Crashing Out and Cutting Ties

Middle Eastern students are prone to crashing out hard. Once they hit a roadblock or face a setback, they often abandon training altogether. This is often due to their inability to handle failure or rejection.

For instance, the Uber driver in the United States who purchased Elite Daygame First Steps and later upsold to Elite 30 completely shut down when he couldn’t keep up with the homework. Despite being treated like a brother and receiving constant support, he blocked me and disappeared. This type of behavior is not uncommon, as many Middle Eastern students struggle to maintain long-term commitment and accountability.


5. Volatility and Dangerous Behavior

Middle Eastern students can be volatile and dangerous, both to themselves and others. Their lack of emotional regulation and sociopathic tendencies often lead to risky or violent situations.

For example, several students have been stabbed by Somali or Middle Eastern individuals due to conflicts over women. One student was stabbed multiple times in Sweden but luckily escaped with only his jacket punctured. This volatility makes it crucial to exercise caution when dealing with Middle Eastern students, especially in environments where cultural tensions run high.


6. Focus on Money Over Growth

Many Middle Eastern students become obsessed with money, often to the detriment of their personal growth. They equate financial success with social value and believe that making more money will solve all their problems.

For example, the Swedish student who achieved three lays became fixated on his Bitcoin investments, believing that wealth was the key to fitting into the boyfriend-girlfriend frame. This misplaced focus often derails their progress, as they prioritize financial gain over mastering social skills and daygame.


7. Half-Assing and Following the Wrong Path

Middle Eastern students often half-ass their efforts and follow the wrong path, despite being given clear instructions. They lack the discipline to fully commit to the training and often seek shortcuts or alternative methods that ultimately fail.

For instance, the Uber driver who was offered a proven workout plan chose to follow a Turkish bodybuilder instead. This decision resulted in minimal weight loss and zero muscle gain, leaving him stuck in the same unfit state. This tendency to half-ass efforts and ignore proven methods is a recurring issue among Middle Eastern students.


8. Sociocultural Challenges and Xenophobia

Middle Eastern students often face sociocultural challenges, such as xenophobia and negative stereotypes. While their dominant personalities can help them overcome these barriers, those who fail to adopt a whitewashed appearance struggle to gain acceptance.

For example, students who refuse to change their fashion or demeanor often reinforce negative stereotypes, making it harder for them to succeed in daygame. This resistance to change further compounds their challenges and limits their potential.


The Bottom Line for Bad Traits

Middle Eastern students, while capable of achieving great results, can also be some of the most challenging individuals to train. Their emotional irregularity, stubbornness, sociopathic tendencies, and volatility often lead to dramatic crashes and setbacks.

The key to their success lies in their ability to follow instructions, regulate their emotions, and commit fully to the training. Without these qualities, they risk becoming unteachable and falling into the same patterns of failure. While their high SMV and dominant personalities give them an advantage, their bad traits often hold them back from reaching their full potential.

White Students: The Good Traits

White students, both European and American, have incredible potential in daygame due to their natural SMV, decent social skills, and ability to adapt when motivated. However, they require proper training to unlock their full potential, especially when it comes to same-day lays. Here’s an expanded breakdown of their good traits with the additional context you’ve provided:


1. Highest Potential for Same-Day Lays

White students have the highest potential for same-day lays when trained properly. While they often rely on outdated methods like the Mystery Method or phone number closes, my training—especially Elite 30—teaches them how to calibrate their social skills and execute same-day lays efficiently.

For example:

  • The 5’7” Student in the United States: This student was a prime example of how white students can dominate with proper training. Despite being 5’7” and not using lifts, he achieved multiple same-day lays with stunning, high-quality women. He pulled them effortlessly, often within less than six approaches, and even had videos of women in the bathtub afterward as proof. His success highlights the importance of social calibrations and proper execution.
  • The London Student: A European student from London achieved 10 fuck buddies, a five-some, and two model girlfriends, including a relationship with a model. His ability to calibrate his social skills and leverage his whitewashed tonality made him one of the most successful students.

When white students focus on social calibrations first, they unlock their ability to achieve same-day lays. While they already have decent social skills, they need to refine their non-verbal communication, body language, and emotional control to execute consistently.


2. High SMV and Whitewashed Tonality

White students benefit from high perceived natural status (SMV), often ranking at the top compared to other ethnicities. Their looks, height, and status give them a natural edge, especially in countries where white men are perceived as exotic or dominant.

Additionally, most white students already have a whitewashed tonality, meaning they don’t need to learn it from scratch. Their tonality is naturally calibrated to sound confident and approachable, which makes interactions smoother. This gives them a head start compared to other ethnicities who need to work on tonality adjustments.


3. Ruthless Efficiency (Europeans)

White Europeans, like the London student or the German student, bring a level of ruthless efficiency to their training. They treat daygame like a system to be mastered, following instructions with precision and consistency.

For example:

  • The German student in his 50s achieved massive success by following Elite 30 and daygame principles with ruthless focus. He pulled younger women (21-25 years old) and even a Megan Fox lookalike. His ability to execute without hesitation made him one of the most lethal students.

This efficiency, combined with their natural SMV, makes white Europeans incredibly effective when they commit to training.


4. Strategic Thinking (Americans)

While white Americans are generally lazier than Europeans, they bring strategic thinking to the table when properly motivated. For example:

  • The 5’7” multi-millionaire student in the United States not only achieved same-day lays but also provided invaluable marketing advice that helped shape my business strategies. His ability to apply both business acumen and daygame training made him highly effective.

White Americans often approach daygame with a pragmatic mindset, focusing on efficiency and results. However, they require more motivation and structure to overcome their natural laziness.


5. Ability to Status Max

White students, especially Americans, often status max by traveling to countries where their SMV is perceived as higher. For example, many white students go to Asia or Eastern Europe to capitalize on their status as foreigners. This strategy allows them to achieve results more easily, even with minimal training.

However, with proper training, they can achieve the same results in their home countries, eliminating the need to rely on status maxing abroad.


6. Quick Results with Proper Training

White students can achieve quick results with proper training, especially when they focus on social calibrations and Elite 30. For example:

  • Another American student in 2023 bought Elite 30 to speed up his lays. He was able to achieve a lay with a 19-year-old in just a few weeks. While he quit afterward, his success demonstrates how effective proper training can be for white students.

This ability to achieve fast results makes white students some of the most lethal when they commit to the process.


7. High Lay Counts and Girlfriends

When white students master same-day lays, they often achieve high lay counts and secure girlfriends or fuck buddies with ease. For example:

  • The London student had 10 fuck buddies, a five-some, and two model girlfriends.
  • The German student pulled multiple younger women, including a Megan Fox lookalike, despite being in his 50s.

These results highlight the potential of white students to dominate daygame when they combine their natural SMV with proper training.

The Bad Traits of White Students

1. Laziness and Reliance on SMV

White students are the laziest group when it comes to skill development. They rely heavily on their natural SMV, often avoiding the hard work required to master social skills and calibrations.

This laziness manifests in their preference for numbers games and direct game, which no longer work effectively, especially during inflation. They collect flaky phone numbers, give direct compliments, and hope their looks will carry them through.

2. Brainwashed by Other White Dating Coaches

White students are often brainwashed by other white dating coaches who promote outdated methods like the Mystery Method or direct game. These techniques focus on indirect attraction and long game, making same-day lays nearly impossible.

For example, many white students believe that same-day lays are rare or unattainable unless they’re super good-looking. This mindset holds them back and prevents them from embracing more effective systems like Elite 30.

3. Resistance to Skills and Emotional Growth

White students are often allergic to learning skills. They resist social skills training, tonality adjustments, and emotional growth, preferring to rely on their natural advantages.

For instance, some white students claim they can’t learn social skills because they’ve been lazy their whole lives. Others blame their inability to adapt on conditions like Asperger’s, using it as an excuse to avoid hard work.

4. Cortisol and Burnout

Many white students suffer from high cortisol levels, which negatively impact their physical appearance and emotional stability. They become skinny fat, lose their hair, and develop rapid speech patterns that make them appear anxious and unattractive.

This cortisol-induced burnout often leads to a cycle of rejection, frustration, and further emotional instability.

5. Overconfidence in Direct Game

White students are obsessed with direct game, even though it doesn’t work anymore. They believe that giving direct compliments and talking fast for three minutes will lead to success, but this approach only results in flaky numbers and wasted time.

Their refusal to abandon direct game makes them resistant to more effective strategies, limiting their potential.

6. Loss of Social Skills Post-Lockdown

The pandemic and subsequent lockdowns caused many white students, especially Gen Z, to lose their social skills. This loss of confidence and tonality has made it harder for them to connect with women, forcing them to rely on Tinder and other online platforms.

7. Emotional Fragility and Low GRIT

Some white students, particularly those with low self-esteem, lack the GRIT (growth, resilience, instincts, and tenacity) needed to succeed. They give up easily, half-ass their efforts, and crash out when faced with challenges.

For example, low-GRIT Europeans often start training by saying, “I just want to be more attractive,” instead of committing to the process of getting laid. This lack of resilience prevents them from achieving their full potential.


The Bottom Line

White students are the most capable and lethal group when properly trained, but they are also the laziest and most resistant to change. Their high SMV gives them a natural advantage, but their reliance on outdated methods and refusal to develop skills often holds them back.

The key to unlocking their potential is to break their dependence on direct game, teach them to embrace social skills and calibrations, and motivate them to overcome their laziness. When they do, they become unstoppable, achieving same-day lays and dominating daygame with ease.

Jewish Students: The Good Traits

Jewish students, including those who are half-Jewish, bring a unique set of strengths to daygame training. They have a resilient mindset, high intelligence, and a ruthless determination that sets them apart from other ethnicities. However, their strengths often come with corresponding weaknesses, making them a fascinating group to coach. Let’s break down their good traits:


1. Resilient Mindset: Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway

Jewish students have a fearless, soldier-like mentality, similar to the IDF. Even if they experience intense approach anxiety—sometimes as severe as Latinos—they push through it and take action regardless.

Their resilience is unmatched; they can get knocked down repeatedly and still get back up. This ability to charge forward despite fear or setbacks makes them highly effective in daygame, especially when combined with proper training.


2. Same-Day Lay Capability

Jewish students are extremely capable of same-day lays, even more so than white students. Whether they are full Jewish or half Jewish, their ability to execute same-day lays is one of their strongest traits.

For example:

  • Many Jewish students in my training depend solely on same-day lays, bypassing the need for phone number closes or drawn-out interactions.
  • Unlike white students, who often rely on outdated methods like the Mystery Method, Jewish students approach daygame like IDF-trained killers, focusing on immediate results.

Their whitewashed appearance often helps them pass as white, giving them a perceived advantage in social interactions. This allows them to capitalize on their same-day lay potential while avoiding some of the biases other minorities might face.


3. High Intelligence and Neural Pathways

Jewish students often have higher IQs and more developed neural pathways than other ethnicities. This intellectual advantage allows them to process and execute daygame strategies with precision.

Even those who are less academically inclined still exhibit a sharpness and ability to adapt quickly. For Jewish students with Asperger’s, their intelligence often compensates for any social skill deficits, making them effective learners and practitioners of daygame.


4. Ruthless Determination

Jewish students approach daygame with a ruthless, soldier-like focus, similar to IDF training. They execute instructions with precision and treat daygame like a mission to be completed.

This determination allows them to bypass distractions, ignore unnecessary theories (like the Mystery Method), and focus solely on what works. Their newbie mindset—coming into training without preconceived notions—makes them highly coachable and adaptable.


5. Whitewashed Appearance

Jewish students often have a whitewashed appearance, which helps them blend in and avoid negative stereotypes. While they may not always have blue eyes or blond hair, their ability to pass as white gives them a tactical advantage in daygame.

This perceived whiteness allows them to leverage their social calibrations effectively, compensating for their lack of emotions or overly moody nature.


6. Resilience Through Negative Emotions

Jewish students don’t experience a wide range of emotions—they tend to focus on negative emotions like gloominess or triggered feelings. However, this lack of emotional variety actually works in their favor.

Their ability to push through negative emotions without becoming overly emotional allows them to stay focused and execute their training. They don’t let their moodiness or gloominess stop them from taking action, which is a key factor in their success.


7. Capable of Hard Resets

Jewish students have a unique ability to perform hard resets when their ego and self-esteem become imbalanced. For example, when they achieve more lays, their ego often rises while their self-esteem drops. However, they are capable of recognizing this imbalance and resetting emotionally to regain focus.

This ability to self-correct ensures that they don’t spiral out of control, even when faced with setbacks or challenges.


8. Strong Adaptability and Execution

Jewish students, even those with minimal prior experience, adapt to training quickly. They don’t get bogged down by overanalyzing or questioning methods. Instead, they execute with a newbie mindset, trusting the system and focusing on results.

Their ability to adapt and execute makes them some of the most effective students in daygame training.


9. High Lay Potential

Jewish students are highly capable of achieving high lay counts, especially when they focus on same-day lays. Their ruthless execution, resilience, and intelligence allow them to dominate daygame and achieve consistent results.

For example:

  • A Jewish white student in my program achieved 20 lays, including 2 same-day lays, demonstrating the effectiveness of their approach when paired with proper training.

tudents, while highly capable and resilient, have distinct weaknesses that stem from their unique emotional and psychological makeup. These traits often limit their long-term potential and prevent them from fully capitalizing on their abilities. Here’s a detailed breakdown of their bad traits:


1. Lack of Emotional Variety (Gloomy and Triggered)

Jewish students often confuse feelings with emotions.

  • Feelings are immediate, reactive responses—like putting your hand on a hot stove and feeling triggered or gloomy. Jewish students experience negative feelings like depression, gloominess, and being easily triggered, but they lack the broader spectrum of emotions that include empathy, happiness, and surprise.
  • This emotional detachment makes them appear moody and disconnected. Despite their capability to execute daygame strategies effectively, their borderline personality disorder-like traits (extreme moodiness and gloom) can hinder their ability to maintain consistency or engage deeply with others.

Even after programs like the Mental Trauma Cure, Jewish students only slightly open up emotionally. Their inability to experience positive emotions keeps them stuck in a negative emotional loop, which they often mistake for empathy.


2. Giving Up After Finding a Girlfriend

Jewish students have a tendency to quit entirely once they find a significant other or achieve a certain level of success.

  • While they are capable of achieving multiple lays and even same-day lays, they often settle down prematurely. Once they find a girlfriend or someone they perceive as “the one,” they stop pursuing their full potential and abandon further training.
  • This crash-out behavior highlights their low emotional endurance and tendency to prioritize short-term comfort over long-term growth.

3. Limited Commitment to Long-Term Growth

Jewish students are willing to invest in themselves, which is a positive trait, but they rarely follow through to reach their full potential.

  • They excel in the early stages of training, achieving quick results, but they often plateau or quit entirely once they feel they’ve achieved “enough.”
  • This mindset of settling for less limits their ability to become truly lethal in daygame. Despite their capability to dominate, they rarely push beyond their comfort zone to achieve mastery.

4. Over-Reliance on Whitewashed Appearance

Jewish students often camouflage as white due to their whitewashed appearance, which helps them blend in socially.

  • While this gives them a tactical advantage, it also becomes a crutch. They rely on their appearance to compensate for their lack of emotional depth, which can limit their ability to develop more advanced social skills or emotional connections.
  • This over-reliance on their perceived whiteness prevents them from fully addressing their weaknesses or pushing themselves to improve.

5. Constant Traveling and Lack of Stability

Jewish students often have a nomadic lifestyle, frequently traveling to different places.

  • While this can be seen as adventurous, it also disrupts their ability to maintain consistent training and progress. Their lack of stability often leads to inconsistent results and prevents them from fully committing to long-term growth.

6. Lower-Self Mentality

Jewish students often operate from a lower-self mentality, focusing on immediate gratification rather than long-term potential.

  • While they are capable of achieving incredible results, they rarely think beyond their current goals. This mindset limits their ability to evolve and reach the highest levels of daygame mastery.

The Bottom Line for Bad Traits

Jewish students are highly capable individuals with immense potential, but their emotional detachment, tendency to quit early, and lack of long-term commitment often hold them back. Their strengths—like their resilience and ability to camouflage—are undermined by their weaknesses, such as gloominess, triggered feelings, and a lower-self mentality.

While they excel in the short term, their inability to fully embrace emotional growth and long-term training prevents them from becoming truly unstoppable in daygame. Their nomadic tendencies and reliance on their whitewashed appearance further contribute to their inconsistency.

Jewish students are a classic example of a double-edged sword: their strengths can propel them to great heights, but their weaknesses often cut them down before they reach their full potential. Let me know if you’d like to refine this further!

-John Elite (best daygame coach in the world)

Day 4 Daygame Challenge

What if I told you there’s a hidden scoreboard in daygame that determines whether you’ll succeed or fail before you even approach? I call it the 5 Mindsets, and after coaching for 13 years, I’ve discovered that guys who master these 5 specific mindsets consistently hit the score threshold required for guaranteed results. The first mindset alone – Belief – is so powerful that it transformed one of my Italian students from getting rejected repeatedly to consistently getting laid with women home who were objectively out of his league.” Whether you believe you can do it, or you believe you can’t… you are right.

The Five Mindsets for Daygame Success

Whether you think you can or you can’t, you’re right. The truth is, belief is the foundation of all success. Without belief, you’ll drag your feet, procrastinate, and resist change. But with belief, you’ll open the door to growth, transformation, and ultimately, success in daygame. If you don’t believe in yourself, you would turn MGTOW, men going their own way.

This is where the Five Mindsets come in. These mindsets are the key to raising your Skill Index and achieving the 20/35 score that can also predict results.


The Five Mindsets: Your Path to Transformation


1. Belief Is Everything

Belief is the foundation of all success. Without belief, you’ll procrastinate, resist change, and fail before you even begin. Women can sense your lack of belief in your vibe, tonality, body language, and words. This lack of congruence triggers their defenses, making it nearly impossible to connect with them on a meaningful level.

But when you believe in yourself, everything changes. Your vibe opens up, your tonality becomes confident and relaxed, and your body language exudes high status. Women pick up on this congruence and feel drawn to you. They see you as a man who knows his worth and isn’t afraid to go after what he wants.

Take the example of my 5’8 Italian student. Before working with me, he was stuck using outdated UMP techniques, which only got him women who were 4/10 in looks. Most men in his situation would settle for women rated 3/10 or worse, but his belief in my system—and in himself—changed everything.

Referred to me by a Chinese student, he trusted the process completely. That belief allowed him to level up his skills by practicing consistently every single week. The results? Out of eight lays, many were with stunners rated 9/10, with some at 8.5. He achieved these results in fewer than six approaches each time. Because he had been laid before, his belief in his ability to succeed made each new interaction easier and more natural.

Belief is the key to unlocking your potential. Without it, you’ll hold yourself back. But with it, you’ll open the door to consistent success with women you truly want.


2. Changeability

Changeability is the ability to adapt quickly to feedback and challenges. But here’s the truth: without belief, changeability is impossible.

When you believe in yourself, you stop dragging your feet and start embracing change as an opportunity to grow. You become willing to adapt, make adjustments, and improve with every interaction.

Unfortunately, I’ve had students who completely lacked changeability. Take, for example, a Black student who didn’t believe in himself at all. Week after week, he dragged his feet, thinking I’d tolerate his lack of effort. He resisted change at every turn, and as a result, there was no progress. Unteachable cases like this show no change whatsoever, and that’s not good.

On the other hand, look at the Gen Z Latino student I coached in New York. Initially, he struggled with grit and focus, but his resilience paid off. He committed to the process, practiced consistently, and even took supplements to improve his focus. Like a magnifying glass focusing sunlight, he directed all his energy toward improvement. His laser focus and new habits led to a same-day lay with a 7/10 woman.

This proves that even students from a generation known for lacking resilience can succeed when they commit to the process. Changeability, fueled by belief, is what separates those who thrive from those who fail.


3. Teachability

Teachability is the willingness to learn and follow instructions. Without it, you’ll never improve, no matter how good the system is.

Some people are simply not teachable. I’ve seen it time and again—students with “mental blinking.” These are the ones who, when given instructions, have their brains turn off repeatedly, like a light flickering on and off. This is especially common with students who have ADHD. They need to hear the instructions multiple times before they even begin to process them.

Mental blinking people live life like zombies, completely unaware of their own incompetence. They struggle to follow orders and often resist learning altogether. This is why most people never break out of the “peasant mindset.” They believe they know everything and refuse to open themselves up to new knowledge.

Teachability, however, is the key to success. Secret societies understand this, which is why they train their members to become teachable as they progress through various degrees of learning. The more teachable you are, the more you can achieve—whether it’s wealth, influence, or success with women.

If you want to succeed, you must humble yourself, trust the system, and commit to learning. Teachability is the gateway to transformation.


4. Skill Index

Confidence doesn’t come from faking it—it comes from competence. And competence is built through consistent practice.

Students must progress through four stages of learning:

  1. Unconscious incompetence: You don’t know what you’re doing wrong.
  2. Conscious incompetence: You become aware of your mistakes. This is where Elite Access is crucial to identifying and fixing errors.
  3. Conscious competence: You can execute skills correctly, but it takes effort.
  4. Unconscious competence: Skills become second nature, and results come effortlessly.

Even the worst cases can succeed with this system. Take one of my Latino students, for example. He was one of the hardest cases I’ve ever coached—slow to adapt and lacking natural ability. But he followed the steps, practiced consistently, and built his skills over time. While his skill index wasn’t exceptionally high, it was enough for him to get results. He eventually got married, made more money, and had a son.

This proves that anyone can succeed with my system, no matter how slow their progress might be. As long as you follow the steps, wear the right fashion, and put in the effort, you will get laid—even if you’re not a natural.


5. Manifestation Index

Thoughts and feelings equal manifestation. If your thoughts and feelings are messed up, your results will be delayed—but they will still come if you persist.

One student, a former ABCs of Low Self-Esteem client, struggled with depression and low self-esteem. His negative thoughts and feelings constantly held him back. But with my training, he managed to get laid twice with white women—both redheads. One was in her 20s, and the other was older.

This is significant because ABCs students rarely succeed with white women in daygame. His results prove that even with negative thoughts and feelings, you can still get laid if you trust the process and take action.

Manifestation isn’t just about visualization—it’s about pairing belief with consistent effort. As Dan Peña said, “Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence.” Just because you haven’t seen results yet doesn’t mean they won’t happen. Trust the process, align your thoughts and actions, and success will follow.


The 20/35 System: Your Blueprint for Getting Results

Skillset without mindset would lead to upset.

But if you believe you can do it, or you believe you can’t… you are right.

Belief: The Core of Transformation

Belief is the engine that drives everything in daygame. Without it, you’ll second-guess yourself, hesitate to take action, and drag your feet through every challenge. But with belief, you’ll unlock your potential, commit to the process, and approach every situation with confidence.


How Belief Ties to the 20/35 System

  1. Looks (10 points):
    Belief pushes you to upgrade your whitewashed fashion and grooming. Without belief, you’ll stick to outdated styles, convincing yourself it doesn’t matter. But when you believe in yourself, you’ll see fashion as a tool to elevate your perceived status, making you more attractive to women.
  2. Money (5 points):
    Belief motivates you to project financial stability through husband-material fashion. If you don’t believe in your ability to succeed, you’ll resist these changes, thinking they’re unnecessary. But with belief, you’ll embrace these upgrades, knowing they’ll raise your value.
  3. Status (10 points):
    Belief is what allows you to adapt to high-status environments. Without it, you’ll feel out of place and avoid these circles altogether. But when you believe in yourself, you’ll see yourself as someone who belongs, which naturally elevates your status.
  4. Social Skills (2.5 points):
    Belief gives you the confidence to practice the Social Skills Flow Drill consistently. Without belief, you’ll avoid social interactions out of fear of rejection. But with belief, you’ll embrace every opportunity to refine your communication skills.
  5. Social Calibrations (2.5 points):
    Belief helps you stay calm and composed, which is critical for nonverbal communication. Without it, your body language will betray your nerves, turning women off. But when you believe in yourself, your confidence will shine through in your posture, eye contact, and movements.
  6. Emotional Control (2.5 points):
    Belief is the key to mastering tonality and staying calm under pressure. Without belief, your tonality will sound rushed and stressed, making you come across as low status. But with belief, you’ll project calm, confident tonality that attracts women effortlessly.
  7. Game (2.5 points):
    Belief is what allows you to execute the A-R-R-O-W system with precision. Without it, you’ll hesitate, overthink, and fail to escalate. But with belief, you’ll approach every interaction with confidence, knowing the system works.

Belief and the Mindsets

  1. Belief Fuels Everything:
    Without belief, none of the other mindsets—changeability, teachability, or emotional control—will work. Belief is what gives you the courage to embrace change, follow instructions, and stay consistent.
  2. Changeability:
    If you don’t believe in yourself, you’ll resist change and stick to old habits. But belief allows you to see change as an opportunity to grow, making you adaptable and resilient.
  3. Teachability:
    Belief makes you open to learning and following instructions. Without it, you’ll shut down and reject feedback, sabotaging your progress. But with belief, you’ll trust the system and commit to improving.
  4. Emotional Control:
    Belief is what keeps you calm and composed in high-pressure situations. Without it, your emotions will spiral out of control, affecting your tonality and vibe. But with belief, you’ll stay grounded and project confidence.

Belief and Long-Term Consistency

Belief is what drives long-term consistency, which is far more important than short-term intensity. The 30-day challenge and 21-day challenge are designed to build habits, but they only work if you believe in yourself enough to stick with them.

Think of it like planting a seed. Without belief, you’ll stop watering the seed, and it will never grow. But with belief, you’ll nurture it every day, allowing it to grow into something powerful and automatic.


Mindset Is the Iceberg Beneath the Surface

The 20/35 system is just the tip of the iceberg. The visible part is your looks, money, status, and skills. But beneath the surface lies the mindset—the belief, teachability, and resilience that make everything work. Without the iceberg’s foundation, the visible part collapses.

During tough times like inflation or economic stress, belief becomes even more critical. It’s what allows you to keep leveling up, even when external circumstances are challenging.


Why Other Coaches Fail You

Why Other Dating Coaches Fail You (Even If You Believe in Their Stuff)

Belief in yourself is essential, but belief in the wrong system will always lead to failure. Worshipping other dating coaches won’t get you results because most of them rely on optics, not real skills or proven systems. They dazzle you with staged photos, fake confidence, and crutches like alcohol or mass numbers game, but these are not transferable skills that lead to consistent results.


The Problem with Optics

Optics are designed to manipulate you into trusting these coaches. Here’s how they fool you:

  • Recycled Testimonials: Testimonials that don’t reflect real, consistent results. Often, these are Tinder-based or staged interactions.
  • Alcohol Crutches: Many coaches rely on alcohol to loosen up their students or women, which doesn’t teach you how to succeed sober.
  • Mass Numbers Game: Instead of focusing on skill-building, they encourage you to spam approaches until something works.
  • Staged Photos: Pictures with women that are often taken in controlled environments, like elevators, parties, or even through lead-generation platforms like Seeking Arrangements.

These optics create the illusion of success, but they don’t teach you how to go from opening to sex in a real, repeatable way.


The Halo Effect: Why You’re Fooled

The halo effect is when you see one positive trait—like a coach being tall, white, or confident—and assume they’re credible in every other area. This is a cognitive bias that many socially impaired individuals fall for.

If you lack social skills or awareness, you’re more likely to:

  • Overlook red flags like fake testimonials or reliance on crutches.
  • Assume credibility based on superficial traits like looks, height, or clout.
  • Ignore the lack of proof showing real, consistent results from cold approach daygame.

This is why so many engineers or Asperger’s students are drawn to boot camps—they assume the coaches’ optics mean their system works, but they’re being misled.


Why Their Systems Don’t Work

These coaches don’t teach transferable skills. Even if they get results themselves (which is rare), they don’t know how to teach others to replicate those results.

Think of it like worshipping a basketball player. Just because someone can play doesn’t mean they can teach you how to play. Many of these coaches:

  • Don’t approach anymore: They rely on staged photos or outdated stories.
  • Use gimmicks: Like Muay Thai in Asian countries or lead generation tactics to create the illusion of success.
  • Focus on marketing, not coaching: Their goal is to sell you boot camps, not to help you achieve long-term success.

The RSD Playbook: Good Marketing, Bad Coaching

RSD and similar groups are experts in public speaking and marketing. They know how to write speeches, run free tours, and manipulate you into thinking their boot camps are the solution. But their advice is designed to keep you stuck so you keep coming back for more.

They don’t teach you how to:

Succeed in real-world, sober daygame interactions.

Build long-term, repeatable skills.

Go from opening to sex without crutches.

Why My System Works (And Why You’re Ignoring 660 Laid and Pulled Testimonials)

Let’s be real here. My students got laid through daygame. Not through Tinder, not by relying on alcohol, not by spamming hundreds of approaches. They got laid through cold approach daygame, going from opening to sex. That’s the reality, and it’s backed by 660 laid and pulled testimonials.

Here’s the issue: I’ve been posting these testimonials, showing you the proof, and yet, many of you still choose to ignore them. I’ve recently shared over 56 laid and pulled testimonials, complete with lay pics and censored voice recordings, but that’s just scratching the surface. There are hundreds more that I haven’t even posted yet. So why are you still ignoring the proof?

Maybe it’s not about money. Maybe it’s something deeper. Maybe it’s mental blocks holding you back. There’s a good chance you’ve fallen into the MGTOW mindset—men going their own way—where you’ve given up on yourself and decided that daygame doesn’t work for you. Or maybe it’s low self-esteem. That’s what keeps you stuck. You start deluding yourself, half-assing your efforts, following the wrong advice, and eventually quitting altogether. These mental blocks are what stop you from taking action, even when the proof is right in front of you.

Another reason you might be ignoring the evidence is because of the halo effect. You see these other dating coaches who are tall, white, or good-looking, and you assume they must know what they’re doing. You think, “If they look the part, they must be credible.” But that’s just an illusion. Optics don’t matter if their students aren’t getting laid. And the truth is, their students aren’t. They’re not showing real daygame lay testimonials. They’re not proving that their systems work. They’re relying on Tinder screenshots, staged photos, and fake confidence to sell you a dream that doesn’t exist.

Let’s talk about these so-called coaches for a moment. Many of them are nothing more than global game platform scammers. They rely on optics to create the illusion of authority. They’ll post photos with women in elevators, at parties, or in controlled environments, but none of it translates to real daygame success. They’ll distract you with Tinder testimonials or positive YouTube comments, but they never show anything from opening to sex. That’s because they don’t have the skills to teach it. They rely on gimmicks, like alcohol or mass numbers game, to create the appearance of success, but it’s all smoke and mirrors.

Now let’s compare that to my system. My students show real lay pics after they get laid. These aren’t actors, AI-generated images, or paid testimonials. They’re real students who succeeded in daygame. No other coach in the industry has this level of proof because their students aren’t getting laid through daygame. My system is built on real skills that anyone can replicate, not on optics or gimmicks. Elite 30, for example, teaches students how to fix their body language, social skills, and emotional control—critical factors for daygame success. Elite Bundle resurrections combines my best courses, including Elite Tonality Mastery, which helped students get laid even during tough times like inflation. These programs are designed to work for everyone, from complete beginners to advanced students, and the proof is in the testimonials.

You’ve seen the evidence. My Jewish white student, for instance, went to a white dating coach and got zero lays. After switching to my system, he achieved twenty lays through daygame. That’s the difference between my system and theirs. My students don’t just improve or feel better about themselves—they get laid. That’s the only metric that matters.

But it’s not just about the skills. Skills without mindset won’t work. My students succeed because they believe in themselves, adapt to feedback, and stay consistent. That’s why the 30-day challenge and 21-day challenge are so effective. They build long-term habits that lead to consistent improvement and more lays.

The reality is, other coaches are failing you because they focus on optics over substance. They don’t teach transferable skills, and they don’t have real daygame lay testimonials to back up their claims. They rely on the halo effect to manipulate you into thinking they’re credible, but assumptions don’t lead to success. Daygame lay testimonials are the only proof that matters.

If you’re still worshipping these coaches, you’re acting like a sheep. You’re falling for the same traps that keep most men stuck. Tinder matches don’t count as lays. Alcohol doesn’t teach you daygame. Staged photos don’t prove anything. You need to stop assuming these coaches know what they’re doing just because they look good on camera. The only thing that matters is whether their students got laid for daygame.

The daygame industry is full of delusional, low self-esteem individuals who fall for optics instead of focusing on real skills. Society has become more narcissistic and woke, with people virtue-signaling instead of taking responsibility for their growth. Logic has gone out the window, and people are more focused on appearances than substance.

That’s why my system is so effective. It cuts through the noise, focusing on real skills and real results. My students don’t just learn—they get laid through daygame. That’s the bottom line.


Elite 30 + Elite Tonality Mastery: The New Opportunity

Elite 30 and Elite Tonality Mastery together are the ultimate opportunity for 2025, forming the foundation of Elite Bundle Resurrections. This isn’t just a claim—it’s already proven to work, and you don’t need to question whether it will work for you because it has consistently delivered results for students from all walks of life. Some of my best students have used these programs together and achieved incredible transformations.

Take, for example, the student with 15 lays, 5 bottles, 5 white girls, and 2 actresses. Not only did he achieve these results, but he also married one of the actresses. His success came from learning Elite Tonality Mastery through Elite Access and applying the principles consistently. Similarly, his friend, the 5’8 Italian student, followed the same system. While his results weren’t as extensive, he still achieved significant success and ended up with a fuck buddy he genuinely values and doesn’t want to replace. These stories prove that when you follow the system and put in the effort, you will see results.

Next, I’ll be sharing the story of a Jewish white student who achieved 20 lays during the inflation period and continued to succeed this year. These aren’t just isolated success stories; they’re proof that the combination of Elite 30 and Elite Tonality Mastery works across different types of students, regardless of their starting point. The key is consistency and compression. You must practice over and over again without taking more than two days off. You don’t need to believe in yourself at first; you just need to trust the system. The system is proven to work, and the results speak for themselves.

The difference between top students and bad students is simple: top students compress their learning. They practice consistently, often eight or nine times a week, tracking their progress like a punch card. Even students who practice only five times a week still get laid, but the bad students? They stop practicing entirely the moment they see a little progress. They run away from the process instead of leaning into it. Running away is the behavior of losers. Procrastinators are losers. People with outdated “Pentium 1” brains who refuse to adapt are losers. Unteachable cases are losers. But this system is a proven formula that works for everyone who puts in the effort.

In today’s climate, with inflation and economic pressure, it’s easy to get confused, brainwashed, or stuck in survival mode. The winner-loser effect is real. Winners keep moving forward, while losers spiral downward. If you want to avoid being affected by these external pressures, you need to follow the exact system laid out for you. It’s not a massive commitment—30 days for Elite 30, followed by 21 days for Elite Tonality Mastery. That’s just 51 days total, and it will go by faster than you think. Compare that to mass approaching for 51 days in a row and reinforcing bad habits. Instead, you can spend just 10 minutes a day on drills, compressing your learning and building lasting skills.

This is why you don’t need to worry about whether the system will work for you. It already works. The only thing you need to do is follow it. If you can’t believe in yourself yet, believe in the testimonials. They’re all real. There are students just like you, with the same problems, who have succeeded. There are shorter students than you. There are more Asian students, more Indian students, and more students who started off with worse odds than you. What’s your excuse?

Even if you’re a bad student, as long as you dress well, fix your hairstyle, and follow the system, you’ll likely end up with a lay anyway. Just look at the student who took three years to succeed. He still got married, procreated, and turned his life around. The system worked for him, and it will work for you too. The only way it won’t work is if you refuse to change. If you insist on sticking to outdated Asian-washed or Indian-washed fashion that turns women off, you’re sabotaging yourself. If you cling to negative stereotypes or worship other dating coaches, you’re setting yourself up for failure.

These other coaches don’t care about your success. Their strategies and training methods are designed to sell bootcamps, not to help you get laid. The more bootcamps they sell, the more money they make. Some of them are making six figures a month by clout gaming, standing next to women for optics, and stacking bootcamps to maximize profits. But optics don’t teach you how to get laid. They’re selling you a fantasy, not a proven system.

The Elite Bundle Resurrections, with Elite 30 and Elite Tonality Mastery, is different. It’s a proven, step-by-step roadmap that takes you from zombie to human to superhuman. You don’t need to worry about whether it will work. It already does. You just need to stop running away, stop procrastinating, and commit to the process. If you do, you’ll see the transformation for yourself.


Final Thoughts

Bruce Lee once said, “Not failure, but low aim is the crime. In great attempts, it is glorious even to fail.” And while that’s an inspiring sentiment, here’s the thing: with the right system, failure isn’t even on the table. When you follow a proven process, believe in yourself, and stay consistent, you won’t just attempt greatness—you’ll achieve it.

The truth is, everyone will eventually get laid if they stick to the system. It doesn’t matter if you’re Gen Z, Latino, Asian, Indian, or from any other background. The system doesn’t discriminate. It’s built to work for anyone who’s willing to put in the effort and follow the steps. This isn’t about luck or chance—it’s about a formula that’s been tested and proven time and time again.

But here’s what holds most people back: doubt. People doubt themselves, doubt the process, and let their insecurities or overthinking sabotage their progress. They procrastinate, they hesitate, and they convince themselves that they’re the exception—the one person who can’t succeed. But that’s a lie. The only thing standing between you and success is your mindset. If you start believing in your potential and trusting the system, you’ll see just how capable you are.

There’s a famous saying: “Whether you think you can or you can’t, you’re right.” That’s the power of belief. If you think you can succeed, you’ll take action, stay consistent, and push through challenges. If you think you can’t, you’ll give up before you even start. The choice is yours.

Think about it: how many times have you doubted yourself in the past? How many opportunities have you let slip away because you didn’t believe you were ready, or good enough, or capable? Now imagine if you had just taken action. Imagine if you had trusted the process and given yourself the chance to succeed. Where would you be today?

This is your chance to stop doubting and start doing. Stop holding yourself back with excuses and what-ifs. The system works. It’s been proven by 660 laid and pulled testimonials from students just like you. These aren’t people who had it easy. Many of them started with the same doubts, fears, and challenges you’re facing right now. But they followed the system, and they got laid.

The best part? You don’t need to reinvent the wheel. You don’t need to figure it all out on your own. The roadmap is already laid out for you. Elite 30 will give you the foundational skills you need to succeed in daygame. Elite Tonality Mastery will teach you how to control your tonality, project high status, and stay emotionally grounded. Together, they form the ultimate system—one that’s already helped students from all over the world achieve their goals.

This isn’t just about getting laid. It’s about transforming your mindset, breaking free from your limitations, and proving to yourself that you’re capable of more than you ever thought possible. It’s about taking control of your life and creating the future you want.

So here’s the question: are you ready to stop doubting and start believing? Are you ready to commit to the process and see what you’re truly capable of? Because if you are, this is your golden opportunity. The system is proven. The testimonials speak for themselves. All you have to do is take the first step.

Whether you think you can or you can’t, you’re right. So make the choice to believe in yourself. Make the choice to follow the system. Because with the right system, you don’t just attempt greatness—you achieve it. And when you do, you’ll look back and wonder why you ever doubted yourself in the first place.

Let’s get started. Elite Bundle Resurrections is waiting for you. This is your chance to transform your life. Don’t let it pass you by.

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-John Elite