The Harsh Truth: Why Most White Daygamers Fail in 2025 (And How to Fix It)

Why White Daygamers Need to Stop Worshipping White Dating Coaches—And Start Training Here for Real Results

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Right now, I John Elite am getting so many minorities laid, including a half-white, half-Jewish student this year…

Last year, I got so many students laid, including a 55-year-old bald German student who gets women way above anyone’s looks level…

He had sex with a Megan Fox-looking woman, as you can see in this picture…

That was her 15 years ago when she was younger…

Right now, she’s 40 years old, but she’s still very attractive…

Before that, he banged a 21-year-old, a 25-year-old, and another 21-year-old in one approach for daygame with my coaching…

Who the fuck can get a 55 year old student results like this? Nothing but stunners? One 10/10 Megan Fox looking german blonde. 3… 21 year old, 25 and 21. Recently he just banged another 24 year old, but its some party social gathering thing, but I won’t count that.

That is the worst-case scenario—an ugly, bald German guy with the lowest SMV ever, outside of being white, which gives him a 10 out of 10 perceived natural status…

But outside of Germany or outside of London, where I get most of my students from Europe, I don’t get students from this region, which is very surprising…

I think what’s happening is that it makes no sense worshipping white dating coaches…

In the last two years, last year was really hard because of inflation, right? 2024, the Joe Biden inflation…

Right now, people are saying he’s not even the president because he’s not cognitively there, and the whole economy was ruined because of his advisors…

So who was running the country?…

But the thing is that it spiked people’s cortisol because of the winner and loser effect…

The more you win, the more testosterone you get, which is very rare…

The more you lose, the more cortisol you get, which happened to so many people…

These guys are losers if they’re broke because they’re always in survival mode…

So their tonality is affected…

They start talking fast…

They start sounding stressed out, and women can hear it because there’s a bunch of pauses in their speech…

But all these other white dating coaches are platform scammers…

Last year, because they became more delusional, because they lost more with the four traits of low self-esteem…

Number one, delusion…

Number two, half-assing it…

Number three, the wrong path to sociopath, and it blows up in your face in four months…

During that time period, over and over, you kept worshipping white dating coaches…

And number four, you quit. You turned MGTOW…

That’s what’s been happening…

However, this is another year, and right now we’re nearly at the end of May…

You had enough time to see the other dating coaches, and you realize they’re all scammers because other white dating coaches are not even getting students laid…

There’s a scammer called TD, right? That’s his initials, and he’s from Vancouver, and he was running a school, SKOOL.

So he’s running a school, and then he gave away free stuff, right?…

But then he has another thing with 50 people or something, paying $50 a month…

He got nobody laid this year…

The only person that he got laid was somebody from Tinder, teaching them how to date, whatever that means…

That’s really how pathetic they are…

Last year, he got one white guy laid many times. That’s about it…

All the other Asians and Indians, they did not get laid. They just got dates…

These are scammers, and it’s not just them…

They’re not popular for having white plausibility…

You look at the other global game platform scammers. You see all these people…

They talk such a good game, and they were given false authority…

Last year, everybody ignored my 56+ laid and pull testimonials…

Look what happened…

When you ignore me, John Elite, the best daygame coach in the world…

and none of the people can get you laid, good riddance…

Now you see them for what they are because most of you can see that I’m the only option…

That’s the problem…

You may not like me, but this is the only game in town that’s still working…

Everybody else has been completely ruined by the inflation because it changes your voice…

It changes your tonality, and it makes women all reject you…

It’s not just your body language or your social skills or even your game tactics, which do not work anymore…

Playing a huge numbers game by giving direct compliments just doesn’t work anymore…

If you want real results, you need to stop worshipping outdated white dating coaches and start training with someone who consistently gets students laid—even in the toughest times…

WHEN I TALK TO WHITE PEOPLE WITH PRECONCIEVED NOTIONS OF GAME OR NO AWARENESS LIKE A ZOMBIE… ITS A RED FLAG

Whenever I talk to white people who are interested in coaching, I notice a pattern…

Whenever they have preconceived notions, it’s a huge red flag…

That usually means they’ve been brainwashed by tall, self-proclaimed high lay count white dating coaches…

Or they’ve been brainwashed by other white dating coaches who push direct game as the only way…

These are lazy people…

White people are lazy—they have no skills whatsoever…

They’re just SMVing it, which is shocking…

They’re not like minorities, who have to skill max just to compete…

Not that other dating coaches even know how to teach real skills—they don’t…

But whenever I spot a preconceived notion, I know exactly what’s going to happen…

They’re not going to get any results, and they’re not going to last very long…

The more they lack a growth mindset and the more brainwashed they are, the less likely they’ll even last a week in my training…

It’s just something I want to put in here…

I know this post is already long, but it’s important…

I’m going to milk these laid testimonials for everything it is worth. Here is an Asian student who got laid with a stripper this month. Did anyone join me? they inquired but so far I get more indifference. I would shove these in your face. The minorities are kicking your ass.

The Death of the Number Close in 2025—Trump Tariffs, Biden Inflation, and Why Same-Day Lays Are Now the Standard (Even for White Guys)

That’s right…

Now you realize that number closes do not work…

Your idea is that if you make a thousand approaches—or maybe ten thousand approaches secretly—then you’ll get laid no matter what…

In the past, white people before the pandemic era, some could still get laid and get testimonials…

But not anymore during the 2024–2025 inflation and tariffs…

Even for white people, because white people were extremely lazy…

They like to play a huge numbers game and give direct compliments…

They like to try to F-close women that are 4 out of 10 in looks…

Maybe if they’re lucky, they might get a 5 out of 10…

And they keep doing that over and over again…

That is their big secret…

They believe that is how game works…

In reality, you’re just blackpilling it…

It’s almost like Pokémon Go, right?…

It’s like two Pokémon—one with stronger stats is going to win the battle…

If you’re automatically going to win because you’re white and tall, going direct, and you have a 10 out of 10 perceived natural status, that was the old way…

But here’s the problem…

The reason why this doesn’t work anymore is because of inflation and the tariffs…

You have a big threat of a tariff, so you don’t know if there’s going to be a recession or not…

I John Elite don’t think there’s going to be a recession, but it’s putting you into a bad state of mind…

Your voice sounds very depressed…

You have a lot of problems with your tonality…

You’re not realizing it…

You’re actually leeching away minus 2.5 points…

Now you realize that the Mystery Method does not work…

All these tactics from tall self-proclaimed high lay-count coaches—or these tall self-proclaimed white tall coaches—if they ever do get a student laid, it’s only because the student attended a very expensive boot camp…

It happens in a very lucky kind of way…

You have to spend all that money, but none of their courses even work…

They only got a few students laid anyways—hardly anything…

For all that popularity, it’s such a small percentage of student success for daygame…

You can’t even get anything besides Tinder testimonials or any positive comments…

Tinder is not a lay count—it’s a body count…

But a lot of white people are struggling…

I just talked to somebody on text from Europe…

He told me that other dating coaches are not actually getting people laid, and I’m the only one—and that’s a fact…

He realized that I am the only one that can get him a girlfriend, but he cannot afford the training…

Unfortunately, I’ll talk more about that later…

That means if you don’t like me, tough luck, because what are you going to do?…

Some more romantic flirts or some shit?…

Are you going to use more clout?…

You can’t even afford a lifestyle to put on Instagram…

Come on now…

What are you going to do—play a huge numbers game and say, “Can I meet you real quick?” and then use DHV stories and sexualize it, which doesn’t even work?…

What are you going to do?…

You have no chance…

This is the only place that has the secret sauce—which is Elite Tonality Mastery, which comes with the Elite Bundle Resurrections…

Of course, $1,000 for this course is not cheap…

If it’s $1,000, it goes into the high ticket category, although it’s not very high ticket…

If it’s like $900, then it’s not high ticket…

When other Asian dating coaches are charging $10,000 for their Latin tours or $50,000…

But we’ll talk more about them later…

But this is the case with white people…

They realize they have no other place to go…

But last year, they were so brainwashed by other white dating coaches…

Most of them already quit because of these famous platform scammers…

What vicious people, because they were given so much false authority and they have earned nothing…

What does Mystery know about daygame? Or Ross Jeffries?…

What the fuck do they possibly know?…

I haven’t seen anyone get laid from Ross Jeffries when he promised three lays in like three months or something like that…

I don’t know what his promise is, but nobody’s getting laid…

That’s basically scamming people…

And you’re saying, well, he’s one of the OGs—he’s “original gangster.”…

Listen guys, I started in 2001…

I’m the original gangster…

I started two years before Ross Jeffries…

He was around 2003…

I started with the Lay Guide—it was the forum group on the Internet, the very first one for pickup artists where people wrote field reports…

I’m the original gangster…

But then people don’t believe it because I look like I’m 25 years old…

I get it…

But if you don’t like me, there’s not many other options out there…

There are no other options out there…

And the inflation and the tariffs have exposed all these other daygame systems as frauds and as being just nothing but optics…

They just stand next to women now…

They just take a nice DSLR crispy photo shoot every single time…

They just stand next to women—perfect lighting, perfect camera…

And that’s all they do…

They just have to stand next to women, especially these Facebook coaches…

And everybody loses their minds…

And then they just fall for it…

Because if they could get a four out of ten before, then the coach—if they’re standing next to women—you assume that these must be women that they closed…

But in reality, these are just women off Craigslist or some modeling thing…

Or maybe it’s just a bunch of women they met on Tinder and they have a party and social circle gathering…

And you’re falling for this shit because you don’t see it from open to sex…

But you can’t stop worshipping like a sheep…

Look where that got you in 2024…

They brainwashed you…

But 2025, you have wisened up…

You got wiser and you realize that they’re frauds…

Bootcamps cost averagely from $5000, to $10,000.

The more popular the higher they charge.

If they are white, they can lower the price because they have so many people to scam and they don’t even get students laid.

These guys are not naturals, look at their eyes, they are zombie sociopaths.

They have that death stare.

Plus they are autistic or if logical for their game… aspergers.

That shit works better for night game with less value and skills necessary in a drunk loud night club with dtf women…

It doesn’t work for daygame, which is 20/35.

Here is another London Indian student getting a white girlfriend last month. Of course I would repost it. Milk it for everything it is worth until you pay attention to it.

I did release his video testimonial actually. I got a white student. I guess i have to release another video testimonial of a European white student to get another European then.

How Laziness and MGTOW Mindsets Are Destroying White Daygamers—And Why Social Calibration and Elite Tonality Mastery Are the Only Way Out

Whoops passed out, let me continue writing… Just woke up.

Because white people in the past used to have more SMV, they’re very lazy…

They always SMV it…

Unlike minorities—at least for my students—who have to skill max just to compete…

I can’t speak for other students from other dating coaches, because they suck…

But for my students, minorities have to drill things down, skill by skill…

Whenever you have a bunch of zombies that are like, “Huh? I don’t get it. Skills? Drilling it down? But aren’t you supposed to mass approach?”—those guys are stuck…

These are the guys who used to get laid from Tinder before…

Guys who used to have lays from night game before…

But when they try daygame, they get completely demolished…

Now, white people are the new minorities—especially this year…

With Donald Trump threatening a 50% tariff, which I’ll talk about soon…

White people have become MGTOW…

They’ve actually quit daygame…

The only reason they sometimes keep going is because they got laid before—usually with women that are 4 out of 10…

But here’s the big sad truth: minorities, because they’re more focused on skill-maxing with my system, are going to beat out white people…

If the economy doesn’t get better, white people are going to feel like they’re fighting with one hand behind their back…

Meanwhile, minorities are fighting with two hands—more skills, more grit…

There’s a real skill deficit now…

Imagine the privilege you had when you could “mystery method” your way through…

You didn’t even have to go for same-day lays…

You just went for number closes, with huge volume…

What kind of privilege is that?…

Minorities never had that—they’d get demolished out there without my skills…

Now, you need more points—including body language for social calibrations…

You also need emotional control, which comes from Elite Tonality Mastery…

There’s no way around it unless you get the Elite Bundle Resurrections…

That’s the solution for white people…

But most white people are scared to come here…

They have preconceived notions and they’re still doubling down on delusions, worshipping other white dating coaches…

They don’t realize there’s a solution here that doesn’t rely on white plausibility…

This is the truth nobody wants to talk about…

Armageddon is finally here…

Judgment Day is here for white people…

If the Trump tariffs and inflation continue beyond this year—let’s say it lasts a year and a half—it’ll be hell without my coaching…

It’s like you want it, but you don’t want it badly enough to actually change…

Minorities are looking at you like you’re crazy—like, you’ve got so much SMV…

And you’re looking at minorities like they’re crazy—how the fuck are they doing it?…

This is what’s happening…

So you turn MGTOW, and think you can just wait it out…

That’s a dumb idea…

Social skills and social calibrations are your only way out…

There’s no other way…

The social skills flow drill will help…

But even if you learn that, without Elite Tonality Mastery, you’ll still be leaking points in the emotional category…

It could be minus 2.5 points…

That will leech away from your race—for ethnicity, that’s 10 out of 10…

Or it’s going to leech away from your looks…

It’s going to leech away a lot of points—even from your game…

Wherever it’s leeching points away, you’re not getting over 20 out of 35…

Looks out of 10, money out of 5, status out of 10 for race, social skills 2.5, social calibrations 2.5, emotional control 2.5, and game 2.5…

20 out of 35 points equals automatic lay…

Which is not going to happen with you…

Of course I would repost this and will post his full video testimonial soon. For the latino student who is beating you out. Not only did he beat all latinos this year, he also beat all white people with street game, daygame even if its outside at night. As long as he didn’t step into a night club. Its still daygame.

Breaking the Barrier: Why White Europeans and Americans Succeed With Me—The Asian Dating Coach Who Gets Results (Not Other Asian Coaches Or Minority Coaches)

I have a lot to say about Europeans…

Because I finally got contacted by a European that’s outside of Germany or London…

These are the places where I get most of my students from in Europe…

But I don’t get students from all the other regions…

I’m starting to realize that a lot of them are most likely broke…

Every time Donald Trump tweets something on his social media, people begin to panic and lose their minds…

What I mean by that is, they’re worried about the threat of a recession while they’re broke…

This is affecting their daygame abilities and their ability to pay for coaching—especially Europeans…

Europeans have preconceived notions too…

The word “preconceived notion” is just another word I use for brainwashing…

Europeans believe that bootcamps are the only option…

That you need to end up in an expensive bootcamp that’s like $5,000 to $10,000…

In latin shit hole countries world tours. Or latin tours…

Maybe even $8,600…

And that’s the only option…

You have to be physically there…

But that is wrong thinking…

Because I have students that are not even where I’m living, not attending a live bootcamp, and all these guys are getting laid all around the world…

Because I have fewer students from Europe, I have less European laid testimonials…

That place is easier than the United States, obviously…

And I have the most students laid in the United States too, for daygame…

I got the most Asians laid for daygame…

I have every metric beaten for daygame…

Even the highest quality for student results for daygame…

But I need more European students to get more Europeans laid, so I can have more laid testimonials…

Do you see the dilemma here?…

And I mean regions outside of London or Germany…

I don’t know why you guys can’t afford any sort of coaching, or even if you use a financing plan…

But I think in London, for example, they only have a 10% tariff…

The rest of the EU, I get it—it’s going to be 50% tariffs if they don’t respond right after the zombies to Donald Trump…

I get that…

So I think you should invest in yourself here…

If you’ve got enough money, you need to get rid of your preconceived notions that bootcamps are the only option or that you’re broke…

Literally, this blog reaches out to a lot of Eastern Europeans…

Believe it or not, there are so many Eastern Europeans here, it’s ridiculous…

We’re not talking about Western countries, right?…

But we’re talking about Eastern European all over…

You guys have a place here because you guys are the new minorities…

Not because there’s less of you, but because it’s harder for you guys…

Other dating coaches are not getting you laid anymore…

The ones that are even popular in Europe…

They’re just taking your money and they can’t even produce a student laid testimonial…

Or it’s very far and very few in between…

They’re posting stuff from the pandemic era, recutting it over and over…

It’s kind of like taking one piece of clothing from back then that was popular…

Although they might even use alcohol in the bedroom and they don’t tell you in the bootcamps…

On a sales call, they’ll ask you, do you want to celebrate with alcohol afterwards?…

And then when you have her in the bedroom, because you pulled her with romantic flirts, you cannot close her because she’s giving resistance…

So getting her drunk to deal with the resistance is really bad…

You can see what happens when the Canadian hockey team members start pulling women that are drunk—they’re getting in trouble with it…

So you never do that, even for daygame…

Night game is okay, but daygame is absolutely not okay…

Night game, it’s expected to be a little bit drunk, not like pissed drunk…

But for daygame, to deal with the objections, and that’s how you sexualize it—that is the wrong way, with heavy beta masculation…

That’s the only solution in Europe…

Or you’re going to do a bunch of mass approaching and that’s it…

They collect the money…

So is this all a scam for white dating coaches or other dating coaches?…

I would say it’s some kind of scam…

Because in the past, during the pandemic, it was very easy for them to close their students that way because women were not affected by money or survival value…

But once the survival value has been affected, there is no more laid testimonials…

And I believe everybody knows that…

You’ve been brainwashed…

You’ve been deceived as they recut their videos over and over to deceive you…

They don’t have what I have, which is new laid testimonials…

And forget about bootcamps…

Learn it this way…

Save up…

Pay for the deposit…

Get started…

Even with Elite 30 for $333…

Pay for one third of it and just get started…

Time is money…

And the longer you wait, the more you fail, the more you MGTOW…

The more you get depressed…

The more double chin you get…

Due to cortisol stress…

Have you noticed last year how Asian dating coaches suddenly got so much popularity?…

People just kept giving them money because of how good looking they are, how tall they are, or how strong they look…

But now you realize the truth—these guys are actually like Asperger’s or autistic…

They have no real qualifications…

Their lay testimonials for daygame are all written, not video…

They take those written testimonials down because they don’t actually have any real results…

They’ve written them themselves because they don’t have a single video testimonial proving a student got laid for daygame…

The only person who ever got one was ABCs in 2024, in Mexico or Peru—a third world shithole Latin country…

That’s it…

There’s no proof…

And just because I’m Asian, with small eyes and dark brown or black hair—mostly white now, but still—it doesn’t mean we’re in the same category…

They don’t have anything…

They actually have even fewer lay testimonials than the white dating coaches for daygame…

It’s all Tinder stuff…

That doesn’t even count…

They haven’t earned the right or any merit…

They’re just platformed scammers given false authority and the halo effect because of good looks and height…

You take one quality about them and think it means everything is good…

But there’s no real lay testimonials, except written ones—and if those are taken away, there’s nothing left…

If they have to readjust it year after year because they wrote it themselves, that’s a huge red flag…

Fuck these people…

This was a student from london. Who got 10 fuck buddies, 2 models, one became his girlfriend in London. Yes one fo the region of students I get. The women are attractive and not what typical white PUAs would get.

Can’t Afford Success? “I Can’t Afford It” Is the Wrong Question—Start Asking, “How Can I Afford It?”

Can’t afford success?…

“I can’t afford it” is the wrong question…

Start asking, “How can I afford it?”…

Most people use money as an excuse to stay stuck…

But the truth is, if you really want to change your life, you’ll find a way…

Every single student who got laid with my training had to make sacrifices…

Some skipped eating out…

Some cut their food costs, drank Soylent in Canada and Huel in the USA, or stopped buying useless stuff…

They made investing in themselves the top priority…

Look at the Gen Z student who invested in a new shirt, pants and Elite Tonality Mastery.

If you keep saying, “I can’t afford it,” you’ll always stay exactly where you are…

You’ll keep scrolling, keep watching free content, and keep getting zero results…

Meanwhile, the guys who ask, “How can I afford it?”—they get creative…

They budget smarter, they cut out what doesn’t matter, and they invest in what will actually change their lives…

Waiting will cost you more in the long run…

Prices go up, opportunities pass, and you waste another year making excuses…

You don’t need $10,000 like some of these scammer coaches charge…

You don’t need to fly to a bootcamp or pay for some overpriced “lifestyle” nonsense…

You need a real system that actually gets students laid—and you need to commit to it…

Elite Bundle Resurrections is $1,000…

If you can’t pay it all at once, there’s a financing plan…

You can get started for less than you think…

The real winners always find a way…

So stop asking, “Can I afford it?”…

Start asking, “How can I afford it?”…

That’s the mindset shift that separates the guys who get results from the ones who keep making excuses…

Even if you wait for the 5 day challenge again, really how much are you really saving?

A bit of money?

Time is more important than money.

Time to get laid.

-John Elite (Best daygame coach in the world)

P.S more students, Europe of elsewhere, white or minorities, means more laid testimonials for me. The solution is here, Elite 30 and Elite Tonality Mastery together = automatic lay. Now I just have to fill the seats for the John Elite Army. You can’t lose, but gain more lays. Besides this is the only game in town that actually still works, continously.

My 3rd Worst Daygame Students 2025 Were Asian (advice video)

Get me 60 views, you would have a new video.

Sorry for the late post, I John Elite was too tired to write one.

Watch this video, I am calling out the Asians now.

Nobody gets a free pass from me, everyone gets treated the same.

If you act like a zombie, you would be treated like a zombie.

Let’s get real for a second. Milking it for everything it is worth for the recent laid testimonials for daygame in the USA…

Asian student got laid with a 21 year old stripper. Now he moved in and they are living togetehr banging each other. Due to Elite Tonality Mastery from Elite Bundle Resurrections.

Let’s get real for a second.

Obviously I John Elite am going to milk this video testimonials or lay with a stripper like i’m milking a cow…

Until you fucking pay attention…

This is my student—an Asian guy—who just got laid on May 17th. And you better believe I’m going to milk this for everything it’s worth.

Because here’s my worst fear:

Every time I post another lay testimonial, every time I show you proof that my system works—especially for minorities, for Asians, for the so-called “hard cases”—people just get numb. Indifferent. Maybe even resentful.

I see it all the time.

The more lay testimonials I post, the more some guys tune out.

They start thinking, “Well, that’s great for him, but it’ll never work for me.”

Or worse, they get defeated.

They see others winning and, instead of getting inspired, they just feel left behind.

That’s not fair.

But it’s reality.

And let’s be honest—most dating coaches can’t do what I do.

They’re out here running the same tired Mystery Method routines, or pushing RSD-style “mass approach” nonsense.

They’re selling bootcamps, collecting people’s money, and delivering nothing but hype and hope.

But actual results?

Lay testimonials—especially from Asian students, daygame, in 2025?

That’s a unicorn.

And you know what?

Asians themselves are partly to blame.

Too many are still buying into these old systems, following the wrong coaches, or thinking they can shortcut the process with spammy approaches or “just be confident” advice.

So yeah, I’m going to keep posting every single lay testimonial I get.

Because every time an Asian student wins, it proves—again—that the right system works, no matter what the industry tells you.

And if that makes people uncomfortable, or if it wakes up a few guys who are ready to stop making excuses and start getting real results, then I’m doing my job.

Asian masculinity movement destroyed Asian daygame with platformed scammers and the halo effect in 2024 and 2025.

The Asian masculinity movement has absolutely wrecked Asian daygame.

It’s not just the platforms and the scamming dating coaches—

It’s the entire culture of idolizing “good-looking” or jacked Asian coaches who, in reality, are just selling a fantasy.

These guys—whether it’s the platform scammers, the tall, muscle-maxed “influencers,” or the ones who just got lean off Ozempic or whatever—are brainwashing the rest of the Asian community.

Why?

Because most Asians are so desperate for validation that they’ll trust anyone who looks the part.

Big muscles, tall height, a certain “halo effect”—and suddenly, everyone’s lining up to hand over their money.

But let’s get real:

These so-called “coaches” don’t actually get Asian guys laid through daygame.

Just look at their testimonials page.

It’s all Tinder lays, night game, or just a bunch of words with no proof—no actual daygame results.

And the worst part?

They all use the same playbook:

Parade around a single “token Asian” who lucked out, milk that testimonial for all it’s worth, and pretend it’s the norm.

It’s not.

It’s the exception.

Meanwhile, I John Elite have posted nonstop Asian lay testimonials—one after another, especially in 2024.

Actual daygame, actual proof, actual results.

And what happened?

People just stopped caring.

Some guys even got discouraged, as if seeing more success stories made them feel more defeated.

But the root of the problem is deeper.

It’s narcissism.

It’s the four traits of low self-esteem that keep sabotaging Asians from the inside out:

Delusional thinking.

You buy into the hype, thinking looks and muscles are everything, and ignore the real skills.

Half-assing it.

You put in minimal effort, thinking you can shortcut your way with black shirts, Tinder, and “muscle maxing” in nightclubs.

Wrong path to sociopath.

You follow these platform scammers, and in four months, it all blows up in your face.

You realize you’ve wasted time and money, but by then, you’re even more lost.

Quitting.

When it all falls apart, you give up instead of facing reality and fixing your mental filters.

This isn’t just a theory—it’s what I’ve seen year after year, especially with Chinese and Vietnamese students.

The higher the ego, the lower the self-esteem.

And when you’re running on ego, you’re always looking for shortcuts, always chasing the next “magic bullet,” and always falling for the same scams.

That’s why the Asian masculinity movement is so toxic.

It’s all about ego, not self-esteem.

And as long as that’s the case, Asian daygame will keep failing—unless you break the cycle.

If you want real results, you need to lower the ego, raise the self-esteem, and follow a system that actually works for minorities…

The John Elite system.

Not just another “token Asian” story, but real, repeatable results.

You wanted an Asian laid testimonial for daygame and I delivered on it, but you are still indifferent. Heres why.

There are two types of Asian students in daygame:

Enlightened and not enlightened.

The enlightened ones?

They’re the ones who train under me, John Elite.

They follow the system, do the drills, and actually get results.

But here’s where it gets funny—

This student I’m talking about?

He was a former student.

He got laid right away.

Meanwhile, all these other zombies I’ve been coaching this year—

The ones who used to be die-hard fans of ABCs of low self-esteem Asian dating—

They’re stuck.

Frozen.

Not sure if it’s the Asian masculinity mindset, too much cortisol, or just some bad Vietnamese genes,

But it’s honestly pathetic.

These guys talk super fast,

Their emotions are all over the place,

And they can’t follow instructions to save their lives.

They’re basically unteachable.

Yet here comes this one guy—

In less than a week, he pulls a stripper home (from another student, no less),

I tell him exactly what to do next,

He follows it,

Closes the stripper,

And now he’s living with her.

It just goes to show—

Most Asians in daygame right now are zombies.

That’s why I John Elite have created the 6-40 concept.

Here’s what it means:

They have to go through the material six times in a row.

Then, they have to watch a video they made for themselves,

Pointing out their own mistakes,

And listen to it forty times.

But honestly?

Forty isn’t enough for the full zombies.

It’s like a spectrum—

During inflation, you see guys go from human,

To half-human, half-zombie,

To total zombie—root rotting, full of cortisol, stressed out and checked out.

These students are the worst.

No memory, no grit, no progress.

But sometimes, someone who should be root rotting isn’t.

He’s only half-zombie, and he gets laid.

Why?

Because he has just enough memory and willingness to follow the system.

But let’s be honest—

The blame isn’t just on the coaches or the economy.

It’s on the zombies themselves.

Narcissistic personality disorder, delusions,

Total Asperger’s or autism—

No social intelligence, no empathy, no self-awareness.

In their minds, daygame is “impossible” during inflation.

Women give more objections,

And they have zero social skills to handle it.

Instead of working on their skills,

They tap out.

They think, “Well, I can’t do it. I’m just going to looksmax, or move to Latin countries.”

That’s black pill thinking.

That’s red pill escapism.

And that’s exactly what all these other Asian companies are selling you.

You’re brainwashed.

Completely.

It’s wild—

I have tons of YouTube shorts.

You type “Asian dating coach,”

You see me everywhere.

You’d think more Asians would be interested—

That they’d see all the lay testimonials for daygame and want in.

But no.

They double down on Asian masculinity.

It’s a mind virus.

A cancer.

And the ones who aren’t into Asian masculinity?

They’re emotionally blind—alexithymia.

No empathy.

Acting like zombies.

No working memory.

Just losers.

It’s really pathetic.

But here’s the thing—

My students are going to win.

Even if the pool is getting smaller,

Even if the average student is getting shittier,

The ones who stick with it,

Who actually follow the system,

Are still going to win.

Asians are like if it doesn’t work without any effort like Tinder or red pill Latin country maxing, they won’t even bother to transform to social skills, social calibrations, emotional control…

They would think it would be too hard.

When they do try that, they are already root rotting without any memory or ability to imprint the skills down.

They stare at you like zombies without a single memory.

With their teary eyed looks, their incongruent smile and opposite emotions to what they should be feeling.

The only people who are more narcissistic than Asians are Indians. But I got one laid and has a white girlfriend now from daygame. Of course I would milk these for all it is worth.

My opinion about Asians from Asian countries. A lack of social skills, and emotional intellegence…

I John Elite get a ton of site visitors from Asia.

Same with Europe—especially countries you wouldn’t expect.

But here’s the thing: I don’t always get students from those places. Not anymore.

Take this Asian guy, for example.

The one with 15 lays, five models, five white girls, two actresses.

He’s from Asia, but I won’t say which country.

Point is, there’s a pattern I keep seeing with Chinese people in particular, and it’s worth talking about.

When I’m on my phone, using Brave browser (no ads, obviously), I see all this Chinese content popping up.

The stuff they talk about?

Leftover women, insane dowries, bride prices that are sky-high.

It’s nuts.

Here’s what stands out:

Chinese women, in particular, are some of the most narcissistic, socially inept people you’ll ever see.

They act like total psychopaths—only caring about money, status, and what they can get out of you.

As they get older, they start bragging about their “accomplishments,” but it’s all empty.

If a woman is more accomplished than the man, the man gets weeded out instantly.

But these “leftover” women don’t get married, and they don’t even realize it’s because of their own narcissistic personality disorder.

They suffer from the same four traits of low self-esteem I see everywhere:

Delusional as hell.

Just like modern women in the West, they think they’ll always have options, even when reality says otherwise.

Half-assing everything.

They don’t try in dating, they just expect someone will show up. No effort.

Wrong path to sociopath.

Their lives blow up in their faces—too picky, too entitled, and then they wonder why they’re alone.

Quitting altogether.

When it doesn’t work, they double down on the snobbiness and just give up on dating.

China is falling apart because of this.

But it’s not just China—other Asian countries are just as weird.

South Korea?

There’s this obsession with voyeurism, plastic surgery everywhere.

People look completely different after surgery.

And the men?

They beat their foreign wives—Russian, Ukrainian, doesn’t matter—even if they’re mothers now.

Mentally unstable, obsessed with K-pop, but honestly, K-pop isn’t even that popular in their own country.

It’s all just a show.

Japan?

Forget about it.

Nobody approaches.

Guys have become hikikomori—shut-ins who play video games all day, barely survive, and have given up on life.

Here’s the thing:

Asians, as a group, have almost zero social skills.

They’re the canary in the coal mine.

They’re the first to show you how bad things are getting in society.

Chinese people, especially, have the least social intelligence.

They’re like aliens—psychopathic aliens.

In business, they’re ruthless, parasitic, always stealing intellectual property, always trying to undermine everyone else.

It’s all about getting ahead, no matter who they have to step on.

And now, with tariffs and the economy tanking, it’s biting them back.

They try to invest, but the more they do, the more they lose.

Their property market is collapsing.

Their hybrid cars and tech are falling apart.

It’s all slave labor, and it’s all just… weird.

I see all these visitors from Asia looking at my site, but the truth is,

the culture itself makes real social skills almost impossible.

They’re interested, but very few actually take action.

It’s like they’re watching from a distance,

but never really stepping up.

That’s the reality.

It’s not just about dating.

It’s about a whole mindset and cultural problem that’s playing out right now—and Asians are the first to show you where society is heading.

The New Russian–Asian Marriage Trend?

Here’s something interesting I John Elite have noticed lately—

It seems like there’s a growing number of Russian women, who are now more open to marrying Asian or specifically Chinese men.

I keep seeing this pop up on my Brave browser (which, by the way, keeps the algorithm honest and ad-free).

Russian women are moving to China, getting married without any of the usual dowry or bride price demands.

It’s the opposite of what you see with Chinese women, who are notorious for sky-high expectations and narcissism.

But is this real?

Or is it just propaganda?

Are these real women, or just actors in some kind of online marriage marketing push?

Honestly, I don’t know for sure.

But it does make sense if you look at what’s happening in Russia and Ukraine right now.

The war has left a lot of Russian women unable to get married locally.

The men are either broke, drunk, or just not desirable anymore.

So these women are looking elsewhere—for someone stable, with a decent personality, who will actually take care of them.

And from what I see, a lot of these Russian women are surprisingly independent.

They’re not complaining, they’re not making crazy demands.

They just want a partner who’s going to be there and help build a life together.

When you look at these marriage events in China, it’s almost surreal—

There’s no price tag, no negotiation.

It’s just about finding someone to procreate with, to build a family.

Again, I can’t say for sure if all of this is authentic or if it’s just another internet trend or propaganda campaign.

But it’s definitely something I’m seeing more and more—and it’s a stark contrast to the leftover women and narcissistic culture you see in China itself.

It’s weird, but it’s worth paying attention to.

If this is real, it might be a sign of a bigger shift in how people are choosing partners—

Less about money, more about stability and personality, especially in places where the old system has collapsed.

Most Asians are addicted to boot camps for daygame.

They honestly can’t figure out how my students are getting laid without dropping ten, twenty, even fifty grand on some overpriced, overhyped program.

Let’s be real—

You do NOT need a boot camp.

Most Asian boot camps are a complete scam, charging $10,000 to $50,000 for a “Latin world tour” with queefing canceled Casanova.

That’s how dumb they think you are.

They push this Asian masculinity, bulky Ninja Turtle look—compound lifts, muscles, black shirts—like it’s the answer.

But here’s the truth:

A ton of Asians, especially engineers or guys with logical jobs (thanks to Asperger’s), can afford these boot camps.

But that’s the wrong approach.

There’s an alternative.

You can train online and still get all the benefits—

But with actual results.

That’s the difference:

My John Elite students actually get laid.

I have the most Asian lay testimonials in the world for daygame.

All these other Asperger coaches?

They can’t even figure it out.

But a lot of you still think it’s boot camp or nothing.

That’s the wrong mindset—especially now, with tariffs, inflation, and high interest rates.

Not everyone can afford to fly to some random Latin country for a boot camp that turns into nothing but Tinder, red pill, and muscle maxing.

None of that matters.

People keep asking how I’m still getting students laid.

Here’s the reality:

I hold the keys, and they’ll never figure it out.

Other dating coaches?

Sociopathic, narcissistic megalomaniacs.

They love the smell of their own farts, give themselves a pat on the back, but can’t post anything new.

It’s all old stuff from the pandemic era, recycled and repackaged.

They try to reverse engineer my results—

But it’s not hard to see why they fail.

They’re obsessed with “game” and stuck in the Mystery Method.

But game alone isn’t enough.

If all you have is looks, money, status, and game crutches—like alcohol, status maxing, or using the coach’s own status—

You’re just learning tricks, not real skills.

After paying all that money, all you get is a bunch of useless crutches.

Here?

The only crutch is skill.

My students mask their cortisol stress, even during inflation and the tariffs.

Other coaches have no solutions—just talk about “emotions” and “vibing it.”

But how can you feel emotions if you don’t actually have any?

Most pickup artists are even more numb the more triggered they get.

Unless you’re a dark tetrad manipulator, you’re not going to fake empathy.

Tonality is the only thing that matters.

But which tonalities?

Unless you know exactly what’s in my Elite Tonality Mastery course, you’ll never figure it out.

That’s why I John Elite keep it a secret.

You only get access if you buy Elite Bundle Resurrections or upgrade.

It’s not a standalone for a reason.

This is the solution.

The system works.

Now, I just need the right students—

Not zombies, not root-rotting cases,

But at least half-zombie, half-human—

Those are the ones who get laid automatically.

If you’re completely root-rotting, you won’t get laid.

It’s that simple.

You guys make it hard on yourselves because you act like zombies.

When you’re broke, it’s a sign of ADHD and depression.

In debt?

That’s maximum ADHD, low self-esteem, and total delusion.

My system forces students to develop a photographic memory—

They go over everything six times,

Then listen to themselves call out their mistakes forty times.

No other coach can get students to do this—

Their students would just quit.

And even if they tried, their students don’t have the social skills, calibration, or emotional control to make it work.

Elite Tonality Mastery is the big secret.

It’s the new opportunity, and it’s proven to work.

Now there’s one less excuse for Asian students.

Other coaches can’t reverse engineer it, no matter how hard they try.

They’re too sociopathic, too delusional, and too stuck in their own egos.

The solution is here.

It’s just a matter of how many students are ready to actually take it.

LASTLY, LOOKING FOR THE RIGHT STUDENTS FOR MY JOHN ELITE DAYGAME ARMY.

Let me make this clear:

I John Elite am looking for soldiers—not zombies.

What’s the difference?

Soldiers are resilient. They’re focused. They put in the work, and they don’t disappear when things get hard.

Zombies? They’re full of cortisol, full of excuses, and always ready to blame something or someone else for their failures.

Zombies forget everything, have no working memory, and can’t learn new things because they’re too stressed out, too checked out, and too busy making excuses.

But now that everything is recalibrated—now that the system is proven and the laid testimonials keep coming in—it’s time for a new standard.

I want people who can win.

People who aren’t full zombies, but at least half human—enough to get it, enough to focus, enough to actually change.

Here’s what I’ve noticed:

The students who can focus for long periods of time, who are resilient, who feel enough pain to want to change, and who put this as their first priority—those are the ones who always get laid.

It’s not about being the smartest, the tallest, or the best looking.

It’s about grit. It’s about showing up. It’s about doing the drills, following the system, and refusing to give up.

The worst students? They shoot down my ideas.

They argue about supplements, about fashion, about every little thing—because they’re delusional and stuck in their own heads.

They’ll never get laid.

The broke students, the ones living paycheck to paycheck, always making excuses about money—those are losers.

They’ve lost so much in life because of ADHD, lack of focus, and a refusal to change.

If you’re one of those people, don’t bother.

You’re not welcome here.

If you can’t take instruction, if you can’t let go of your preconceived notions, if you can’t even grasp why you need to do drills—go somewhere else.

But if you’re a soldier, if you’re willing to do what it takes, if you’re ready to stop making excuses and start making progress—then you belong here.

Because on a long enough timeline, with everything set up properly, calibrated, and with the right training—Elite Tonality Mastery and Elite 30—this is the formula.

Just like when I first launched Elite 30, it was laid testimonial after laid testimonial.

It’s the same thing now.

So I’m looking for winners for my John Elite army.

Not people who lead with, “I don’t have money.”

The better question is, “How can I afford it?”

Winners find a way. Losers find an excuse.

If you’re a soldier, not a zombie, contact me.

Train with me.

Don’t wait for the next challenge, don’t waste another summer, don’t let cortisol and excuses pile up until you quit for good.

Time is money.

The longer you wait, the more you lose—and the more depressed you’ll get.

Summer is here. Don’t waste it.

You want to win?

Act like it.

-John Elite (Best Daygame Coach In The world)

P.S that also means you have to be the best student you can be. It maybe the perfect system, but you have to be the perfect student too. You have to tranform and not be a poor cheap zombie root rotting, without a working memory full of cortisol. Times ticking, summer would be over before you know it as the price will go up after August. You had your chance. Talk to me about putting down the first payment, or 1/3 of it. You can’t do this by yourself, invest in yourself. Time is more important than money and the economy will turn out good next year for the USA. Not sure about other places…