How do I notice if a girl is interested in me during daygame?

Most guys think she’s into them, but she’s just being polite.


Here’s how you spot real signs of interest: indicators of compliance, not indicators of interest.


Mystery Method has no idea what they’re talking about because they’re Asperger’s—socially impaired.


After 666 laid and pulled testimonials for daygame, I can tell you within five seconds if she’s faking it. Can you?


Because if she’s not compliant, she’s not interested. Period.


And here’s what 99% of guys get wrong.

So let’s dive into how to notice if a girl is genuinely interested in you during daygame.

I’ll break it down step by step so you can learn to spot the signs accurately and avoid falling for fake reactions.

By the time you watching reading this, you’ll know how to read indicators of compliance. Instead of being misled by superficial responses Like Indicators of interest.

I know this because I have 666 laid and pulled testimonials for daygame.

Nobody would teach you this kind of stuff. Even if you know it, I brought it to your awareness.

Without training you can’t see it with your low self esteem and delusions.

I’m here to expand your perspective and make you see the world diferently for daygame.

Everything you learned before was all wrong from Indicators of interest.

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Step 1: Pay Attention to Her Voice

The first thing to focus on is her voice. The tone, pace, and energy in her voice can reveal a lot about her level of interest.

If her tone is warm, enthusiastic, or mirrors your own tone, that’s a strong indicator that she’s engaged and open to the interaction.

On the flip side, if her tone is bitchy, dismissive, or cutting you off mid-sentence, it’s a clear sign she’s not interested.

Pay attention to verbal cues like interruptions or rushed responses.

If she’s already preparing to say, “I have a boyfriend” or “I need to leave,” it’s a sign that she’s mentally checked out.

These vocal patterns are her way of signaling that she’s not compliant and ready to exit the conversation.

Step 2: Observe Her Body Language

Body language never lies, and it’s one of the most reliable indicators of whether she’s interested or disengaged.

  • Positive Signs:
    If she’s facing you directly, this is a great sign. It shows she’s present, engaged, and giving you her full attention. Similarly, if she crosses her legs while facing you, this can indicate a submissive posture, which is often a sign of comfort and attraction.

  • Negative Signs:
    If her body is turned sideways, or if one of her feet is pointed away from you, she’s mentally preparing to leave. These subtle cues often go unnoticed, but they’re critical to understanding her mindset.

  • If she’s crossing her arms, it’s a defensive posture.
  • If she’s looking around, she’s distracted and likely uninterested.
  • If she’s rolling her eyes, this is a clear sign of annoyance or disengagement.

The key is to stay aware of these shifts in her body language without overanalyzing. If you notice multiple negative signals stacking up, it’s time to adjust your approach or gracefully exit the interaction.

Step 3: Check Her Energy and Proximity

Energy and proximity are two of the most important factors in daygame.

  • Positive Energy:
    Is she leaning in slightly when you’re talking? Is she maintaining consistent eye contact? These are strong indicators that she’s compliant and actively engaged in the conversation.
  • Negative Energy:
    If she’s stepping back, crossing her arms, or her body is angled away from you, it’s a sign she’s not comfortable or losing interest.

Proximity also matters. If she’s staying close to you, it shows she’s comfortable in your presence. But if she’s inching away or creating physical distance, it’s a sign she’s disengaging.

Step 4: Gauge Her Level of Investment

Her level of investment in the conversation is a critical indicator of compliance.

If she’s asking you questions about yourself… like where you fit into the six frames (boyfriend, husband, lover, etc.) that’s a strong sign of interest. She’s trying to figure out your role in her life, which means she’s mentally engaging with the interaction.

Is she laughing at your jokes? Is she giving thoughtful, detailed answers? These are all signs she’s invested.

On the other hand, if her responses are short, dismissive, or if she’s not asking anything back, it’s a sign she’s not putting in any effort. At that point, it’s best to tease her lightly to bring her back into the interaction or move on if she’s completely disengaged.

Step 5: Don’t Over-Rely on Micro-Expressions

While it’s tempting to read into micro-expressions, they can often be misleading.

A quick smile, a flick of her hair, or a slight tilt of her head might seem like positive signs, but they don’t necessarily mean she’s compliant. These small gestures can be habitual and don’t always reflect her true feelings.

Instead of focusing on micro-expressions, pay attention to her overall behavior. Is she staying in the conversation? Is she moving things forward? If not, her reactions are irrelevant.

The Critical Distinction: Compliance vs. Interest

Here’s the most important takeaway: Interest alone doesn’t mean anything without compliance.

Just because she’s giving you positive reactions doesn’t mean she’s willing to take action. Compliance is what truly matters.

For example:

  • If she’s not agreeing to an instadate or coming with you, her reactions are meaningless.
  • If she’s not following your lead or engaging fully, she’s not compliant.

This is where most guys get stuck. They confuse interest with compliance and waste time chasing fake signals.

What to Do If She’s Not Compliant

If she’s showing signs of disinterest, don’t force the interaction. Instead, use light teasing to bring her back “on the line.” For example, if she’s facing sideways or giving short answers, tease her playfully to reset the dynamic.

Once she’s back on the line, continue the interaction with confidence. The goal isn’t to play a numbers game… it’s to keep her engaged and compliant.

Mastering Daygame Compliance

Just knowing these steps isn’t enough… you need to train and drill these skills until they become second nature.

  • Social Skills Flow Drill: Learn how to navigate conversations smoothly and keep her engaged.
  • Elite Tonality Mastery: Master emotional control and use your voice to project confidence and authority.
  • Body Language Training: Practice maintaining a 45-degree angle in your interactions to create a comfortable dynamic.

These are skills, not concepts you can memorize. They require consistent practice, exercises, and feedback to perfect.

Final Thoughts: The Arrow of Science

Daygame isn’t about luck or playing a numbers game… it’s about precision.

When you focus on compliance, you can maneuver the interaction, sexualize it to the maximum, and handle objections effectively. This isn’t guesswork… it’s a science.

If you’re serious about mastering daygame, check out my Elite Bundle Resurrections program. It’s a step-by-step system designed to help you build the skills you need to succeed, from social skills to tonality to body language.

Remember, every interaction is an opportunity to improve. Keep pushing forward, focus on compliance, and you’ll see results. You’ve got this.

-John Elite

How to Get Laid in 2025: The Daygame Blueprint

Introduction to the 20/35 Concept


What is the 20/35 concept…

Let’s break down what the 20/35 system really is and why it keeps getting my students laid over and over…


Looks is out of 10…

Money is out of 5…

Status for hierarchy is out of 10…

Social skills is 2.5 points…

Social calibrations is 2.5 points…

Emotional control is 2.5 points…

Game is 2.5 points…


If you reach 20 out of 35, I get another video testimonial from a student…

It’s not just about game…

That’s why I discovered it’s not just looks, money, status, plus game…

Game is just a value delivery system…

Social skills, social calibrations, emotional control, and game—along with looks, money, and status… are all necessary…


The Role of Social Skills and Calibrations


It wasn’t until I created Elite 30: From Hard Case to Hero and focused only on social calibrations and social skills…

an extra five points…

that people kept getting laid…

I thought to myself, wait a minute, this isn’t a game course…

This is just a hard case course to improve your social skills and social calibrations…

Why are they getting laid so much…

I started thinking, I already got like 10 video testimonials out of nowhere…

They just kept popping up…

It’s clearly not just all game or “you are enough” plus game, or whatever…

I started to think there might be something wrong with the old way of thinking…


Just selling bootcamps and saying “learn more game” as the solution isn’t reality…

They’re not getting their students laid…

This was the beginning of getting more video testimonials…

In the beginning, I got a lot of students laid with just game alone, but when social skills and social calibrations were added, it was a clean sweep…

So there’s more to it and more categories…

20 out of 35 is called the line of fuckability…


Night Game vs. Day Game


You automatically get laid for daygame if you reach 20/35, but it’s different for night game…

For night game, it’s not 20 out of 35…

Night game is 15 out of 35…

So you might ask, what do you mean by 15 out of 35, John…

That’s because other Asian dating coaches can get students laid for night game, but not for daygame…

During inflation and tariffs, they can’t do it…

Only ABCs of Low Self-Esteem got one student laid in Mexico or Peru, but that was 2024…

They couldn’t get them laid in the United States, and they don’t have any other laid testimonials since the pandemic days, way back…

So they can get students laid for night game, no big deal…


Challenges with Night Game


It’s 15/35 for night game because there are no social skills in the nightclub…

It’s too loud to have a real conversation…

When you start talking, you’re yelling in her ear, and she’s like, “What did you say…” or “What…”

That’s not social skills…

With the loud music, alcohol, and everything else, how could you possibly have emotional control…

You cannot have emotional control if the nightclub is super loud, and that becomes a big problem…

There’s no social skills, social calibrations, or emotional control…

just some text game and being white for 10 out of 10 status…


So you’ve got these tall, self-proclaimed coaches bragging about Tinder testimonials…

Who cares…

It doesn’t mean anything at all…

Anyone could get Tinder testimonials…

You just have to be white, have good pictures, and just a little bit of text game…

You’re going to bang a woman that’s a three or four out of ten, really fat and unattractive, easily…


The Influence of Status and Location


Or status maxing in Latin countries if you’re Asian…

That’s what they love to do, especially the Asian passport bros and the Asian masculinity movement…

These guys are insufferable…

They believe that by going to Latin countries, they can raise their status…

High-status job because they’re all engineers…

That’s how they can afford the bootcamps…

And also because of that, not only can they afford the bootcamps, they can also have a third-world money status advantage on their Instagram, showing off that they travel to all these countries…

That gives you two extra points…

Maybe you could show a lifestyle and get three points…

You can also show an exotic advantage if they’re all Latinas in Colombia…

That place is crazy…

Lots of people get social circle mean…

So, who wants results in 2025…

Or do you want to keep waiting…

Exactly…

You guys should invest in yourself…


Reinforcing the 20/35 System


You guys should invest in yourself, but for daygame, the benchmark is 20 out of 35…

It’s the only system I cannot debunk…

I can’t change anything because I keep getting students laid at 20 out of 35…

Looks out of 10…

Money out of 5…

Status out of 10…

Social skills, 2.5…

Social calibrations, 2.5…

Emotional control, 2.5…

Game, 2.5…

I cannot change it…

I tried to change it…

I tried to debunk myself, but it explains everything…


Debunking Other Theories


It explains black pill…

It explains red pill…

It explains everything…

It explains tall, self-proclaimed coaches going to Latin countries and just having more status, making it easier…

It explains everything because even if you’re a black pill, if your looks are like eight out of ten, and your race is 10, that’s 18 points…

You’re like, “Oh, it’s not 20/35…”

No, that’s 18/35…

And they have no social skills, no social calibrations, because they’re angry and have really bad emotional control…

They’re game deniers…

So technically, 18 points becomes 15.5 because the emotions category can be minus 2.5…

That’s the only category that can go downwards…
Social skills cannot be minus…

Social calibrations cannot be minus…

If it’s bad, it’s zero, but your emotions can be minus 2.5…

And this is not just counting inflation or tariffs…

Of course, people’s emotions are minus 2.5…

Because of that, they’re stuck…

That’s why when women hear you, they get turned off…


So if they’re 15.5 out of 35, they’re not going to get over the line of fuckability…

Even if they got surgery, they’d just be 16.5 points…

It’s the same thing with red pill…

You focus all your points on lifestyle…

third-world money, status advantage, exotic advantage, lifestyle, whatever…

Just four points…

You’re white, 10 points, you’re six in looks, that’s 20 points…

They have no social skills, really bad body language, and they’re game deniers, and then they’re minus 2.5, so that becomes 17.5 points…


So basically, this system cannot be debunked…

It explains everyone’s testimonials or the lack of them, especially when other bootcamps start teaching direct game and it doesn’t work…

So this is a perfect system…

If this system is perfect, you guys should calibrate to the 20 out of 35…


Conclusion: The Importance of Emotional Control


The most important category this year is emotional control…

I’ll figure out how to end this category later on, tired..

Here is a link to my course.

-John Elite

P.S I still need to update my testimonial page, too many things to do.