Why Asians Never Stretch…Looksmaxxing, Black Pill, and the Sheep Mentality
When I John Elite first started coaching, my real mission was to help Asian men.
I John Elite built these tools for them, not the rest of the world.
But what do I see now?
Most of my students aren’t even Asian anymore.
The inner circle is every race, every background—like family under one roof.
But the Asian guys?
They just don’t get it.
They never want to stretch.
They never want to grow new neural pathways.
They’re obsessed with shortcuts.
Looksmaxxing.
Black pill bullshit.
Passport bro delusions.
I John Elite see the same pattern over and over.
Asians want the easy way out.
They fly to Latin countries, because it’s easier.
They brag about getting a thousand matches on Tinder in one day.
They think that’s “game.”
It’s not game.
It’s just geography.
It’s just math.
It’s just being in a place where women swipe yes because you’re different, not because you have skills.
Its status maxing for the high status job compared to the locals…
Or high status lifestyle they can’t afford for the local latin countries…
Or its the 3rd world money status advantage on your instagram that they can’t afford to travel.
Or its the exotic advantage…
I John Elite am tired of this mentality.
Asians refuse to learn social skills.
They ignore the social skills flow drill.
They refuse to do the work for the body language for social calibrations.
They want to bulk up, wear black shirts, and hope for the best.
Big, bulky, dirty bodies.
Shrek-looking ninja turtles.
That’s their strategy.
At the end of the night, maybe some Asian woman…
never a white woman, will go home with them.
They will say Asian women are beauuuuutttyyffullllllllll
I hate the way they say it, its annoying AF.
They will say they aren’t into white girls or they can get one at any time.
You ask for proof, there is none..
That’s it.
That’s the ceiling.
They think I’m crazy for teaching daygame.
They think it’s impossible.
The dreaded Asian masculinity movement.
But I John Elite have proof from all over the world.
I’ve got Asian students laid in Asia.
I’ve got guys who got seven white girls, five models, two actresses, and married one of them.
I’ve got students who became fathers, who broke every stereotype.
But the sheep never want to hear about it.
They just want to look for the next shortcut.
They want to copy, not create.
They want to follow, not lead.
They want instant results, zero discomfort, zero growth.
It’s always about looks, height, muscles.
That’s the easiest thing for Asians…
just lift, bulk, and hope.
Most of these Asian dating coaches are ex-engineers.
Hyper-logical.
No social skills.
They teach Mystery Method, RSD, or some other outdated shit.
They never stretch.
They never grow.
They just want the halo effect.
They want to be the tallest, strongest guy in the room and hope it’s enough.
But it’s not.
I John Elite have more laid testimonials than all of them combined.
I have more proof than every white coach in the world.
But the Asian community ignores it.
They turn their backs.
They don’t want to hear the truth.
They don’t want to stretch.
They don’t want to be uncomfortable.
They just want to keep playing the same losing game.
And that’s why they keep losing.
That’s why they keep acting like sheep.
That’s why they keep acting like women…
obsessed with SMV, emotional reasonsing and logic last.
They love the halo effect.
Its why they trust Jan Lifestyle even if he has been cancelled so many times before.
I John Elite am done pretending it’s anything else.
If you’re Asian and you want to win, you need to stretch.
You need to grow.
You need to stop being a sheep.
You need to stop chasing shortcuts.
Stop chasing the halo effect.
You need to build real skills.
That’s what the John Elite system is for.
That’s why I’m still here.
That’s why I’m still winning.
The Fake Lay Counts, Gaslighting, and the Sociopathic Asian PUA Scene
Let’s start with the “200 lays” crowd for daygame.
You see these Asian guys always talking about their lay counts.
Always bragging that they’ve slept with 200 women.
But here’s the reality.
The only time you ever actually see them is when you’re winging with them.
You’re there in person, watching.
And what happens?
They go on an instant date with a white girl.
That’s it.
You never see them pull her home.
You never see them close.
You never see them actually get laid.
They just talk about all these conquests.
But when you ask for proof?
Nothing.
They don’t show you anything.
No receipts.
No real testimonials.
Just more stories.
Just more talk.
That’s supposed to be impressive?
To me, I John Elite, it’s pathetic.
It’s smoke and mirrors.
It’s all talk, no proof.
And yet, the Asian community eats it up.
They worship these guys.
They follow them like sheep.
They repost their stories.
They quote their numbers.
But nobody ever asks for receipts.
Nobody ever asks for real proof.
That’s the problem with the Asian PUA scene.
It’s all about image.
It’s all about status.
Narcissistic personality disorder.
It’s all about pretending to be something you’re not.
I John Elite have seen this in Vancouver too.
The most toxic pickup artists on earth.
Sadistic.
Gaslighting.
Always telling you how good they are.
Always talking about their results.
But never showing anything.
Never pulling.
Never closing.
Never delivering.
It’s a club of sociopaths.
They love to instigate.
They love to manipulate.
They love to see you struggle.
They act like parasites.
They feed off your hope.
They feed off your frustration.
They want you to believe that you’re the problem.
That you’re just not good enough.
That if you just tried harder, you’d get what they have.
But what do they really have?
Nothing.
No proof.
No results.
Just stories.
Just gaslighting.
Just endless self-promotion.
I John Elite have trained more Asians than any of these guys.
I’ve seen how deep the rot goes.
It’s universal.
It’s not just one city.
It’s not just one country.
It’s everywhere.
The Asian pickup artist community is a wretched hive of scum and villainy.
Yeah, I stole that from Star Wars.
But it’s true.
Everywhere you go, it’s the same.
Sadistic, sociopathic, manipulative.
And always, always, always… no receipts.
No proof.
No real testimonials.
Just endless talk.
And if you call them out?
If you ask for proof?
They turn on you.
They start gaslighting you.
They start attacking you.
They start spreading rumors.
They start smear campaigns.
Just look at what happened to me, John Elite.
I tried to help.
I tried to build tools for Asian men.
I tried to give them the system that actually works.
But what did I get?
Backstabbing.
Disloyalty.
Ungrateful students.
People who disappear after they get laid.
People who promise to help, then ghost when you ask for results.
People who attack you on Reddit because they can’t stand someone else winning.
That’s the reality of the Asian PUA scene.
You help them.
You get them results.
You change their life.
And they turn on you.
They vanish.
They stab you in the back.
They smear your name.
All while worshipping the next fake coach with a bigger lay count and zero proof.
It’s not just annoying.
It’s evil.
It’s spiritual rot.
I John Elite have seen it for decades.
You can see it in their eyes.
You can hear it in their voice.
They’re always on edge.
Always ready to betray.
Always ready to manipulate.
It’s Cluster B to the max.
Sociopathy.
Narcissism.
Borderline.
Sadism.
It’s all there.
And if you don’t see it, you’re next.
You’ll get burned.
You’ll get betrayed.
You’ll get left behind.
This is why I John Elite don’t hang out with pickup artists.
This is why the John Elite system is different.
I don’t want to be part of their club.
I don’t want to be part of their scene.
I want results.
I want proof.
I want real, lasting change.
That’s why I built the John Elite system.
That’s why I have more laid testimonials than all of them combined.
Because I actually deliver.
Because I actually care.
Because I actually know what works.
The Asian PUA scene is a joke.
It’s a circus.
It’s a scam.
It’s a never-ending loop of fake numbers, fake stories, fake coaches.
And the sheep keep following.
The sheep keep paying.
The sheep keep losing.
I John Elite am done pretending that’s okay.
I’m done pretending these people are just “misguided.”
They’re not.
They’re toxic.
They’re dangerous.
They’re holding you back.
They’re keeping you stuck.
They’re making you believe you’re broken.
You’re not broken.
You’re just following the wrong people.
You’re just listening to the wrong voices.
You’re just stuck in the wrong scene.
If you want real results, you need to get out.
You need to walk away.
You need to find a new system.
You need to find a new tribe.
You need to find someone who actually cares about your success.
That’s what the John Elite system is for.
That’s why I’m still here.
That’s why I’m still winning.
That’s why I’m still getting students laid.
The rest are just noise.
Just hype.
Just empty promises.
Just sociopaths feeding off your pain.
I John Elite am not here to feed off your pain.
I’m here to end it.
I’m here to give you the tools, the skills, the mindset you need to win.
I’m here to show you the truth.
I’m here to break the cycle.
I’m here to build winners.
Not sheep.
Not victims.
Not zombies.
Winners.
That’s the John Elite system.
That’s the difference.
Proof, Betrayal, and Why the John Elite System Is the Only Way
I John Elite get asked all the time, where’s the proof?
Where are the real results?
Where are the receipts?
The John Elite system is built on proof.
Not stories.
Not hype.
Not fake lay counts.
Not Tinder body counts, whatever that means…
Who gives a shit about that, its not even skills, from tall self proclaimed high laycount coaches..
Or should I say body count because its not pickup, but swiping.
I got just real students, real testimonials, real results.
I John Elite have more daygame laid testimonials than any other coach on earth.
That’s not an opinion.
That’s a fact.
You want stories?
Let’s talk about the tall guy in Vancouver…
Six foot two.
Good looking.
Better looking than the other Asian dating coaches.
He’s the only one I’ve ever heard actually pull a same-day lay from daygame.
But it took him all summer.
Months of grinding.
One lay.
That’s it.
Everyone else?
Nothing.
No other Asian PUA in 2025 has proof.
Just talk.
Just instant dates.
Just empty claims.
Now, let’s talk about the chubby guy in the United States.
He was fat.
Full of cortisol.
No memory.
No social skills.
He found my youtube shorts because he was sick of the ABCs of Attraction brainwashing.
He followed my advice joining my coaching.
He wore my fashion.
He built muscle.
He used the John Elite system.
He got a Latina girlfriend.
He’s going to propose to her.
He turned his life around.
That’s real.
That’s proof.
That’s the John Elite system in action.
He was fat, chubby and had no memory and eventually stonewalled me…
To later on realized he still used some of my stuff…
And what about the guy in Asia who got seven white girls?
He was recommended by another student.
That student got 15 lays.
Five models.
Five white girls.
Two actresses.
He married one of the actresses.
He’s about to be a father of two.
That’s not luck.
That’s not hype.
That’s the John Elite system.
But here’s the ugly truth.
So many of these guys are ungrateful.
They get results.
They get laid.
They disappear.
They never send a testimonial.
They ignore me.
They stab me in the back.
It’s like clockwork.
I John Elite have always known the three traits of a backstabber.
IQ: are they delusional or pragmatic?
EQ: are they triggered, borderline, Cluster B?
Spiritual IQ: are they aligned, or are they just plain evil?
If they have all three, they’ll stab you in the back every time.
You can see it in their eyes.
You can feel it in your gut.
I John Elite have been burned enough to know.
It’s not just the students.
It’s the whole Asian PUA community.
Ungrateful.
Disloyal.
Sadistic.
They turn on you the second you ask for proof.
The second you ask for a testimonial.
The second you ask for a little gratitude.
They vanish.
They attack.
They smear.
They gaslight.
But the John Elite system keeps winning.
Because I have the proof.
I have the receipts.
I have the results.
Even the guy who got three lays and promised to help with my website…he disappeared.
We are talking about the guy in the video testimonial..
He got triggered when I asked if he’d started.
Classic Cluster B.
Classic Asian PUA behavior.
Ungrateful to the core.
I John Elite built these tools for Asian men.
I wanted to help them.
I wanted to see them win.
But most of them just want to worship the next fake coach.
They want to chase SMV.
They want to act like women.
They want to think with relative SMV, then emotion, then logic last.
They want to live in denial.
But the John Elite system is here for the ones who want to break the cycle.
For the ones who want to win.
For the ones who want to be more than sheep.
If you’re Asian, even if you’re in Asia, not just the United States, you need to join me.
My most recent student is from Asian and he likes reading my blog.
He has been through a lot of setbacks.
I know you’re reading my stuff.
I know you want results.
The John Elite system works everywhere.
If you’re whitewashed, you have all the advantages.
Caucasians have the highest natural status.
Be white washed, not your version of it.
I had this guy from Hong Kong say he is white washed and I told him he was super asian to the max…
They don’t have that mental filter.
If you copy the right things, you win.
But if you keep acting like a zombie, you lose.
You stay stuck.
You stay bitter.
You stay ungrateful.
I John Elite have seen it all.
That guy in Hong Kong who wore my fashion, got laid, and then ignored me.
Didn’t want to send a testimonial.
Total backstabber.
He literally went emotionally retarded and blocked me.
That’s the reality.
But here’s the good news.
You don’t have to be another statistic.
You don’t have to be another sheep.
You don’t have to be another zombie.
You can be elite.
You can win.
You can get real results.
The John Elite system is the only way.
Elite Bundle Resurrections is open.
If you’re tired of losing.
If you’re tired of fake coaches.
If you’re tired of being stuck.
Click the link.
Join the John Elite system.
Stop being a sheep.
Stop being a zombie.
Stop being ungrateful.
Start winning.
I John Elite am waiting.
He wasn’t ungreatful
This guy became ungreatful. Was my first online student.
After I got him laid, a girlfriend, he became ungreatful. He lost his job, then stonewalled me.
I got him married, he was ungreatful at the time, backstabbed me in worst ways than ever. I forgave him. Had a contract to split 1.6 million I helped him earn. I taught him sales, he closed 5 deals out of 6 in a row… Yes its not like i’m making up, but sociopathic people don’t respect contracts. Its all forgiven…
He became ungreatful afterwards. He was doing well he got 2 lays with 2 white girls. I told him to quit his job and find another one. Now he stonewalls me.
This guy got married and told me not to post his video testimonial. I said fuck you I will post it. I can censor your voice and face better. He was okay with that.
He wasn’t ungreatful. He is a psychopath, not a sociopath. No empathy, sadistic, thats why in the screenshot lay pics he tied her up and stuff. But he wasn’t a cluster B sociopath. Psychopaths and sociopaths are different.
But yes, you see a pattern. Asian men that are daygamers are for the most part extremely ungreatful people.
With a low emotional intellegence.
Highly triggered people aren’t emotional, they are cluster B narcissist and borderline.
It doesn’t mean they have empathy..
It means they feel no remorse.
-John Elite (Best Daygame Coach In The world)
World's BEST Daygame Coach with 672 Laid/Pull Testimonials. More Than Every Daygame Coach In The World Combined 
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