(641th) How an Asian Student Overcame His Doubts and Got Laid Twice with Redheads: A Guide to Your Own Success

Asian student got laid with a white girl on August 3rd 2024.

Hey, if you’re reading this, I know what you’re thinking. “It’s impossible for an Asian guy like me to get laid with white girls, let alone twice with redheads.” You’ve been told that you don’t have the right look, the right game, or the right social skills. But what if I told you that’s all bullshit? Today, I’m going to share a story that will make you reconsider everything you thought you knew about dating success.

One of my Asian students just got laid again on August 3rd, 2024, with a redhead white woman through daygame. This was his second success. His first lay was two years ago, after completing my Elite 30 program, also with a redhead.

You see, it’s not about your ethnicity, your looks, or some magical “rizz” that you think you need. It’s about having the right skills, the right mindset, and the right training. And that’s exactly what I’m going to show you today.


Objection #1: “I’m Not Good Enough—It’s Impossible for an Asian Guy to Get Laid with White Girls”

Overcoming Limiting Beliefs

Let’s get real. The biggest thing holding you back is your own limiting belief that you’re not good enough. Society, media, and even some so-called dating coaches have convinced you that being Asian is a disadvantage. But that’s a load of crap.

My student felt the same way. He was a victim of ABCS of Attraction, a system that didn’t work for him, like so many other Asian guys. He thought he needed to bulk up, perfect his game, and do everything these “gurus” told him. But guess what? None of that worked.

What did work was mastering social skills, social calibrations, and understanding how to maneuver in real-world situations. It wasn’t about having big muscles or a fancy pickup line—it was about genuine connection, confidence, and the ability to sexualize interactions without being awkward.

Here’s the key: You don’t need to change who you are. You need to upgrade your skills.

Action Step: Start with my $5 booklet, Elite Daygame: First Steps. It’s the investment of a lifetime, and it will teach you the fundamentals of daygame that actually work. Here’s the link: https://johnelite.com/2024/06/04/5-booklet-first-steps-for-daygame/


Objection #2: “Social Skills Don’t Matter—I Just Need Game and Muscles”

The Power of Social Skills and Calibration

Another big myth that’s floating around is that social skills don’t matter. That all you need is game tactics, confidence, and muscles. But let me ask you—where are all the daygame laid testimonials from these so-called “gurus”? Why aren’t their students getting laid left and right if their systems are so great?

My student, who had traumatic brain injury and could barely remember instructions, didn’t have a bodybuilder’s physique or some magical game tactic. What he had was the social skills and calibrations taught in my Elite 30 program, which he used to get his first lay two years ago.

The truth is: Social skills are the foundation of everything. Without them, you’re just shooting in the dark. Social skills help you navigate conversations, create connections, and most importantly, pass the vibe check.

Action Step: If you haven’t yet, get Elite 30: From Hardcase to Hero. It’s a 30-day challenge course designed to build your social skills and calibrations to a level where getting laid becomes inevitable. It doesn’t expire because social skills last for a lifetime. Here’s the link: https://johnelite.com/2014/09/01/elite-30/


Objection #3: “I Can’t Afford to Invest in Myself Right Now”

The Cost of Inaction

Let me ask you this—what’s the cost of not investing in yourself? My student wasn’t financially well-off. He had every reason to say, “I’ll do it later,” or “I can’t afford this.” But he realized something crucial: The cost of inaction is far greater than the cost of taking the leap.

He invested in Elite Daygame: First Steps, then upgraded to Elite Access, where he got one-on-one consulting with me. He didn’t spend much, but he made every dollar count. And now, he’s enjoying the rewards while others are still stuck making excuses.

Here’s the deal: The longer you wait, the more you miss out. Every day you don’t take action is another day wasted.

Action Step: If you’re serious about making a change, get Elite Access. It’s a year-long consulting program where I personally guide you through every step of your journey. This is your chance to break free from the cycle of excuses and start getting real results. Here’s the link: https://johnelite.com/john-elite-access/


Conclusion: Don’t Wait—Start Your Journey to Success Today

My student’s story isn’t unique—it’s just one example of what’s possible when you take action and invest in the right training. He’s not some anomaly; he’s proof that with the right guidance, anyone can succeed.

The question is, are you ready to take the first step? Whether it’s starting with Elite Daygame: First Steps, upgrading to Elite 30, or going all-in with Elite Access, the time to act is now.

Don’t let another day go by without taking action. The summer is almost over, and if you don’t make a move now, you’ll be stuck in the same place, still wondering what could have been.

Here’s how you can start:

  • Get Elite Daygame: First Steps for just $5 and begin your journey:

  • Upgrade your social skills with Elite 30: From Hardcase to Hero:

  • If you’re serious about getting laid and transforming your life, join Elite Access for a year of personal consulting:

Don’t wait. Take action today and start seeing the results you’ve always wanted.

Why Gen Z Struggles with Social Skills (and How to Fix It Advice Video)

Hey Gen Z, Did You Know Mastering Social Skills Is More Effective Than ‘Rizz’ or Game Tactics?

It might sound crazy, but we’ve all been bombarded with the importance of ‘rizz,’ game tactics, clout, or even muscles when it comes to dating success. But here’s the truth: those things are the least important when it comes to forming genuine connections and succeeding in daygame. I’ve even seen an autistic guy trying to use ‘rizz,’ and honestly, it was cringey as hell.

Today, I’m going to share three secrets that will completely change the way you understand social psychology, social hierarchies, and how tribes work—all things you probably didn’t get a chance to learn, especially after losing your social skills during the lockdowns.

I’m John Elite, the best daygame coach in the world. I’ve helped countless Gen Z individuals overcome their dating challenges and achieve success in daygame, consistently proving that my methods work.

So, what’s the key to transforming your dating life if you’re Gen Z? It’s all about mastering social skills, debunking the myths surrounding ‘rizz’ and game tactics, and engaging in comprehensive training with Elite 60, a program specifically designed to address these deficiencies.

Mastering Social Skills: The True Key to Success

First, let’s talk about mastering social skills. This isn’t just about saying hi or making small talk. It’s about understanding social hierarchies, knowing how to greet people, change the topic, pass the vibe check, and ultimately, how to make connections that go beyond superficial charm. And yes, all of this is transferable to daygame.

Most people, especially those with Asperger’s or similar challenges, were never given a manual on how to do this properly. If you break one social skills rule, you could end up isolated. And somehow, society expects you to know all this intuitively. But you don’t have to worry anymore; my simplified social skills flow drill will make a huge difference. The lockdowns took away your social skills, and you’re helpless without proper training—but this is where I come in.

This is important because mastering the social hierarchy and dynamics is crucial. It starts with greeting people properly, engaging in conversations the right way, and selecting the right topics at the beginning. By using my social skills flow drill—a simplified version tailored to your needs—you’ll be able to create small talk, pass the vibe check, and make more friends. The best part? These skills will significantly improve your interactions with women, too.

Debunking the Myths of ‘Rizz’ and Game Tactics

The second thing you need to understand is that relying solely on ‘rizz’ or game tactics is backward thinking, especially for Gen Z. It’s like you’re socially retarded due to the lockdowns, behaving as if you’re autistic, just like many other daygame coaches out there. If Asperger’s-style game tactics worked in 2024, where are all the other daygame coaches’ laid testimonials this year? Genuine social skills and social intelligence are what truly matter. I’ve got over 40 laid and pulled testimonials this year alone, versus their zero.

Game tactics and ‘rizz’ might seem appealing, but they only make up a tiny part of the bigger picture—2.5 points out of my entire chart of 35. Confidence and emotions alone aren’t enough, nor are game tactics. Obviously, the game category isn’t enough for 2024 if others don’t have any laid testimonials for daygame. What you need to optimize first are your social skills and social calibrations. You need 5 points for that.

The Importance of Comprehensive Training: Elite 60

The third secret is comprehensive training with Elite 60. A thorough, structured program like Elite 60 is essential for mastering social skills and achieving success in daygame, especially for Gen Z. This course offers a complete guide to improving social skills, emotional empathy, and overall social interactions.

If you can’t afford Elite Bundle 2, Elite 60 is the perfect alternative for comprehensive training tailored to Gen Z.

Now, I know what you’re thinking: Would this really work for me? The answer is yes, even though 63% of men are now single, largely due to the social skills that were lost during the lockdowns. Social skills are the most important—and missing—ingredient. The tricky part is that most people don’t realize the power of mastering social skills and having a structured training plan like Elite 60. Since there was a two-year lockdown, you have a lot of catching up to do. Elite 60 is the solution.

And so, I’ve created this Elite 60: Emotional Intelligence course that you can use to build your social skills with emotional empathy and improve your interactions significantly. The last student who joined was a 23-year-old Gen Z. In fact, quite a few of my students and potential students were exactly 23 years old. What a coincidence!

It’s the perfect course for Gen Z to build their skills with emotional empathy. This course is more lenient than Kaizen and has a strong focus on emotional intelligence. And what this is going to do is transform your emotional intelligence, making you more relatable and successful in your personal and professional life.

Why You Should Trust My Proven Methods

As the best daygame coach in the world who has created multiple successful dating programs and helped countless Gen Z students transform their personal lives, what I do is identify the key areas that need improvement and provide practical, actionable solutions that lead to real results.

So, what I’ve done is I’ve created this amazing Elite 60: Emotional Intelligence course for all of you. If you click the link in the comments and the description section, you can sign up today and start transforming your social skills and emotional intelligence immediately.

I honestly don’t know how much longer I’ll keep this Elite 60: Emotional Intelligence course available, and prices will probably go up because it’s incredibly valuable and I should charge more for it. The costs of creating and maintaining such a comprehensive program are high, and demand is growing.

Take Action Now

So click the link to get it today while it’s still available. I’m always here to help, and I can’t tell you all the amazing results I’ve gotten for Gen Z daygamers just like you, who are struggling with dating success and personal development, especially in the context of Gen Z’s unique challenges.

I also have the Elite Bundle 2, which provides comprehensive training for those looking to master daygame and social skills across multiple levels, in a more affordable way with Elite Access consultation bundled in the course—even if you can’t afford one-on-one training with me through Elite 60 yet.

But today, I’m talking about the Elite 60: Emotional Intelligence course, which is amazing.

Like I said, I also have the Elite Bundle 2 if Elite 60 is out of your budget. But today, I’m talking about the Elite 60: Emotional Intelligence course, which is amazing.

I can’t wait to see you on the inside.

Have a great day.

I just releaed Elite Daygame: First Steps. It is so good that the majority of the people who bought it approaches if they can finish it without excuses. Some people with ADHD didn’t. But those who implemented, the majority already approached. I want you all to get it, only $5, a buyer is a buyer to weed out freebie types. https://johnelite.com/2024/06/04/5-booklet-first-steps-for-daygame/

If all you can afford is Elite 30: From Hardcase To Hero, it doesn’t expire because social skills, social calibrations last for thousands of years: https://johnelite.com/2014/09/01/elite-30/

Elite 60 is the newest course which is more linient than Kaizen. With a focus on emotional intellegence. Creating an external brain for emotions. Also its more comprehensive than Kaizen.
https://johnelite.com/2023/11/07/elite-60-emotional-intellegence/

If you want to join my outer circle facebook group. You get all the lay pics from the students there first. Don’t miss out. Outer Circle Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2825576531002678

You might think my site looks ugly. But people find it very charming and enjoy reading the blog. My site: https://www.johnelite.com

You might be interested but with the inflation of 2024. Your first instincts is not to contact me because it seems salesy. But listen, I can’t help you unless we have a conversation. I want to get you laid. You have to do everything I say and be a good student. You can’t resist and try to do it your way. If you are coachable, please contact me. https://johnelite.com/contact/

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