I just had this Indian student who, believe it or not, on the same day he landed in Australia, ended up hooking up with a really attractive white woman. It’s wild, right?
This brings us to a discussion about something called SMV, or sexual market value.
But before we dive into that, let me mention he had also been with a Brazilian woman before this encounter.
Now, you might wonder why Indian men seem to have varying levels of SMV. Well, it boils down to something as straightforward as skin color.
You see, a white person typically has that bright, fair skin.
On the other hand, Asians often have this yellowish tint that can come across in their complexion.
Then you’ve got Latinos with their distinct looks and Persians with theirs.
But Indian men? They’re a bit of a mixed bag when it comes to skin tones.
They can be anything from very fair to quite dark.
This variety is what causes their SMV to fluctuate.
So, if we look at a chart that lays out different races—there’s white, black, Latino, Middle Eastern, and yes, even Pakistanis. And let me tell you, Pakistanis do quite well in the dating scene.
Now, I’ve got to be honest here: the term “curry Indian”—it’s not meant to offend.
It’s just a reflection of how stereotypes can impact perceptions. If someone fits a negative stereotype, it can be tough to be seen differently, regardless of your actual characteristics.
On the flip side, if you happen to look more black and you’re Indian—like some Sri Lankans or darker-skinned Indians—you could score really high on the SMV scale.
Take my old roommate as an example. He’s not Latino but has this incredibly fair skin that makes him look almost glowing for an Indian guy. Honestly, you wouldn’t even guess he was Indian at first glance. Because of that, I’d rate his SMV around a 7 out of 10.
Now, if he looked more black, he might even hit an 8.
And if he had a Latino appearance? Then 7/10.
And guess what? His girlfriend is Latina, which goes to show it really doesn’t matter about your background or accent.
Now, for those who might identify as “Curry Indians,” you might find yourselves rated lower on the scale—maybe a 2 out of 10.
But here’s the thing: you don’t have to be Indian to learn from these observations.
Women tend to categorize people, and if you come off as fitting a negative stereotype, well, that’s how you’ll likely be treated.
Let’s think about this for a moment. When you see Indian guys who are successful with women—those who marry white women—do they look like conventional Indians?
Often, they’ve adjusted their style to fit a more “whitewashed” image, perhaps adopting a male model look. They might be taller, have less of an accent, and generally have assimilated.
Now, some might argue that being Indian is a disadvantage, but honestly, that’s just not true. “Brown is the new black,” as they say. And if you look at Pakistanis, who generally have a slightly darker complexion, they often come across as more alpha, which can be appealing to women.
So, what’s the takeaway here? If you’re an Indian man, especially a curry Indian, it’s best to distance yourself from negative stereotypes.
The reality is, if you resemble a negative stereotype and speak like one, that’s how people will perceive you—there’s no escaping that.
To improve your situation, focus on your personal style. It doesn’t mean you have to mimic me, but its better to be white washed with my coaching.
Some of my students don’t even wear blazers, and that’s perfectly fine. The key is to avoid anything that might link you to a negative stereotype.
If you’re an Indian who looks more black, you might score a 8 out of 10, but if you lean towards negative stereotypes, then expect a lower rating.
And let’s be real: if you insist on clinging to an Indian accent while dressing a certain way, you might face rejection. being Indian washed.
Women, especially in places like Europe, often can’t tell your race at a glance.
I’ve seen my bootcamp students transform when they start adopting a more “whitewashed” look—suddenly, they’re getting questions about their ethnicity.
I remember one guy saying, “Oh my God, John! This is the happiest day of my life!”
and I was like, “Wait, what? Why?”
He replied that the girl he was talking to had no clue what his ethnicity was. It’s funny how breaking free from stereotypes can change perceptions!
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Alright, let’s talk about something really important if you’re an Indian guy – breaking those pesky negative stereotypes.
Seriously, have you ever thought about what folks usually think when they hear “Indian man”?
Well, it’s always the same old stereotypes. Like, number one, the beard.
People say women love it. You hear that a lot, right?
But honestly, does it really look that masculine?
I’m just saying, sometimes it doesn’t. It might even remind someone of a completely different culture!
Then there’s the whole Punjabi stereotype.
I mean, you see those guys with their turbans and big beards everywhere.
It’s tied to religious beliefs, sure, but you might not want to be linked to that kind of image.
A five o’clock shadow light beard might be a better choice, right?
And let’s talk about that unibrow thing. It’s like there’s always a little something going on in the middle because, let’s face it, some of us are just more hairy than others.
And hey, speaking of grooming, I know a lot of you love your coconut oil. I get it, Moroccan oil and all that too.
Maybe its called organ oil.
But when you throw that coconut oil in your hair, you might just be reinforcing that stereotype of greasy hair and bad haircuts.
You can’t deny it; just Google “Indian men” and see what pops up. It’s like that Bollywood vibe that sticks to you.
I’ve seen it with guys who’ve been in the States for years.
They’ll say, “I’m not Indian wash, man, I’ve been here for over a decade!”
But, buddy, sometimes you can still see it. Your background influences how you see yourself.
Now, wanting to be “whitewashed” is a whole different challenge.
You might be thinking, “What do I even wear?”
You know that pink work shirt I’m talking about, right? The one they call the work shirt back in India?
And let’s not even get started on the caste system.
It’s not just about class; there’s this crazy skin color hierarchy too. People with darker skin?
Yeah, they often get the short end of the stick. It sounds messed up, but it’s the reality over there.
And then there’s the accent, which can come with its own baggage.
I’ve seen students trying to change how they present themselves, almost like they’re trying to become someone else. It’s frustrating, isn’t it?
So, what can you do about this? Well, first off, you’ve got to recognize that there’s a serious issue here.
Acknowledging it is the first step to changing the narrative.
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Second thing… it’s important to recognize that your social market value (SMV) can shift based on your skin color and the race you present.
Now, here’s the deal: you really don’t want to come off as Indian. Honestly, there’s just no upside to it.
If you do, you might as well be fighting an uphill battle.
Instead, aim for that “whitewashed Indian” vibe. You know, those Indian guys who hardly have an accent, take care of their appearance, and have a solid sense of style?
They often wear well-fitted shirts and dress smartly.
They can sometimes look even more “white” than some of us.
Think about your friends who’ve tied the knot with white women.
They’re not sporting huge beards or loud, flashy pink shirts.
They’re usually tall and blend in well, without that strong accent.
You know what I mean. Among your mates, some of them can be a bit cold, giving off that infamous “sociopath death stare” that some Indians have.
And yes, they can be backstabbers, too. It’s a harsh reality.
But here’s the twist: those guys who’ve played the game well, adapted their behavior, and embraced a more whitewashed persona?
They end up attracting white women.
It’s a misconception to think that white women aren’t interested in brown skin.
They might not be into those who look like a low-tier version of an Indian, but they definitely notice the well-groomed ones.
Even if you have darker skin, women often see beyond just the accent. They don’t just box you into a category based on your race.
Take my old roommate, for example. He was a good-looking guy with fair skin. Did anyone think he was Indian? Not a chance.
They’d guess he was Persian or maybe Latino. Makes you think, huh?
He has lighter skin, and when he was in Mexico, all the Latina women thought he was one of them when he was in Mexico.
So if you’re a darker-skinned Indian, consider changing up your look.
You could shave your hair, hit the gym, and work on your physique.
Trust me, people often don’t connect accents with looks the way you think they do.
They look at height, build, and skin tone.
If you can pull off a strong, fit image, you’re more likely to be seen as attractive, even if it sounds a little messed up.
What I’m saying is, you’ve got to do everything you can to change your appearance to fit a different race or at least a more mainstream, acceptable version of Indian.
That’s just the starting point. If your skin is darker, you might even come off as Pakistani, which bumps you up a notch.
Some folks tend to cling to their cultural roots, like using coconut oil in their hair or not trimming it neatly.
It’s all about the details. So, what else can you fit into? Even if you’re not a fan of Pakistanis, they often have a different social standing.
I’ve had my fair share of betrayals from Indians, but never from a Pakistani. Just saying.
Maybe recently, when one of them rather eat lunch at a temple than even investing in my daygame courses when visiting New York.
He wasn’t the typical Muslim pakistani who are nicer.
But the Hindu temple backstabber types by their religion.
I’ve learned a lot from my mentor, a Pakistani guy who’s thriving in the dating scene.
He was born in Canada so that is different.
He’s pulling in more women than he knows what to do with, and he does it effortlessly. His confidence and polish have taken him far.
The women were 9/10 at the time mostly.
It’s not just about the accent; it’s about how you present yourself.
If you look good and carry yourself well, people won’t even think about where you’re from. We have a tendency to categorize people based on looks, and that’s how it works.
So, what’s the takeaway?
Change your fashion, look, and overall aesthetics. If you can present yourself as more whitewashed or even as a different ethnicity, you’ll find more success in the dating world.
There are plenty of Indian men who are tall and have a strong build. Leverage that.
Working out can make a big difference, but if you’re not tall, aim for that polished look.
The first step is to change how you present yourself, so your accent doesn’t dictate your identity.
When someone sees you, they won’t automatically think of your race. They’ll just see a guy. It’s all about the shades of brown, not just black and white.
You have to realize that some women are looking beyond their own race. They’re interested in diversity. So, play to your strengths.
Now, there are two types of Indians: the ones who are stuck in their ways and those who are open to change. The ones who are delusional
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