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Wisdom for 2017. 50 lessons I learned the hard way.

Lessons I have learned this year. 1. People who value you, will make time for you. Not as busy. If you help them, would they help you out? I have discarded a lot of other smaller PUA companies this way sucking up. They never help. Some flaky girls are the same. 2. people don’t value what they get for free. 3. if someone who wouldn’t point out you have chapped lips or an eye booger. They don’t care about you, acting cool. 4. if you saw this person in the mall, would you say hi? If you wouldn’t, I wouldn’t work with them or hang around them. 5. people who acts cooler on purpose is wearing a mask and full of deception. Especially girls. 6. charge higher prices. But not insanely high. You don’t attract cheapo clients who are hardcases. 7. Being strong, tall, preselected value isn’t game. It isn’t transferable to students. 8. Teaching and how good you aren’t doesn’t make you a good teacher. Would Mohammed Ali be able to teach others what he does? Or smaller clients? the body type is important. 9. Women are predictable. Their attraction is all based on evolutionary psychology. Replication value and survival value. These days both. They say one thing and do the opposite. 10. Natural and direct game is the biggest scam in the PUA industry. It doesn’t work for guys without protector status or preselection. Yet people are drawn to that kind of idealology. 11. Your vibe could be hurting your game. Everyone has a vibe or energy they project. Women are intuitive to it. 12. Game isn’t everything. But a big chunk of it. LMS + Game exist. Or LS + Game. The dating industry is dominated by these guys. 13. People are like sheeps and socially conditioned. They are easily manipulated by mental masturbation of false RSD ideas. They want to be motivated and empowered. To fill their head with nonsense like a cult. 14. There are truth seekers in the world. People who won’t gravitate towards these ideas. Like Neo in the Matrix. Who knows there is something wrong with the world like a splinter in their mind. Driving them mad. They can feel it. 15. Life is about an exchange of values. Most people think win lose, not win win. 16. Hardcases or impossible case students have aspergers undiagnosed. It affects every area of their game. Drags them down. 17. Women only cares if you are her lover, bf/provider or friendzone. Or you don’t fit into a category. 18. Always believe in yourself even when no one else does. Fuck the haters and the nah sayers. Don’t put a limitation on anything you do. Or it would spread in your work or life. 19. Do a ton of drills once it is corrected. Without drills, we go back to our old habits. This is the only way out of it. That is why people doesn’t change. 20. Speed of implementation. The faster you implement good knowledge, the faster you improve. It determines easy cases from hardcases. Hardcases learns slow. 21. We must be able to connection emotionally with women. They don’t think with logic, but their emotions trumps their logic. 22. This lesser PUA company just kept saying how rich he was. He made more than me early on. I said I would make more than him later on. I did. He didn’t care about anything besides money. But to make money, you have to solve the worlds super problems first. Then money isn’t an issue anymore. You will make it and a lot more. 23. Relatability is important. Material beats method. Even if you have the best method, it doesn’t translate into working well for you. Sometimes a lesser material can beat that. It is about finding something that works with your circumstances. 24. Find a job you love and you never work a day in your life. People are fucking sheeps, playing it safe. So they work in dead end jobs. If you can’t stand 4 hours of your work. Or do a 14 hour grind of work, you are in the wrong business. Tap into your passion. 25. Be aware of sociopaths or psychopaths. Sociopaths are stubborn, angry, resistant to new ideas and win at all cost. They stonewall you. They tend to have one eye smaller than the other. Frontal lobe damage. If you see that, they will backstab you in the future. They almost always do. 26. Find good mentors who can do what you want in life. You absorb their thinking. You are the sum of the 5 closes people you surround yourself with. 27. No matter how good someone is now. You will over come them in the end if you are determined and get the right information. Get corrected. You will be the best one day. Work hard and work smart. Get the best minds involved. Innovate your way out of the situation. 28. Quality over quantity is hard to achieve in dating. People rarely get girls above their looks scale. It takes massive amount of skill. It can only be achieved in structured game. 29. Just fucking do it. Down to the letter. Stop wasting time field testing it. If it works for others in your circumstances. 30. You must lead, not follow. Or be the alpha male in the tribe, not the follower. You must not let people like RSD lead. Create your own tribe. 31. Better to be a big fish in a small pond. Than a small fish in a big pond in terms of marketing. Or create a new category you can dominate yourself. 32. It isn’t what a women says, but what she does. They all lies because they don’t know what they want. 33. You have to do, knowledge isn’t enough. Take massive action. But you must sharpen the saw too. Taking too much action without refining is going to dull the saw. 34. Find your purpose in life. I never discovered it until later in life. 35. Never give up no matter what. People succeed after failing 4 times in life. Then they get it for life. 36. Learn to love yourself. No one else gives a shit about you. If you don’t love yourself, no one else would. People don’t have self esteem anymore. 37. People doesn’t give a shit about you if there is nothing to gain. That is what friendship is all about. People don’t appreciate you if they don’t do something for you first. 38. Don’t give a shit what people thinks. You don’t need their validation. A wolf doesn’t care about opinions of sheeps. In fact tell them outright you don’t care what they think. 39. Once you solve peoples problems though coaching, they don’t care about you. 40. Don’t be afraid to discard people who doesn’t help you and takes value. Puts you down and don’t reciprocrate. Drop them like a bad wingman. They don’t value you, fuck em. 41. Don’t trust anyone, unless they demonstrate it. Trust is a two way street. 42. You have to take action, not just talk, you must do. Knowledge isn’t enough. 43. Build assets, not liabilities. 44. Don’t be a vulture. Value, trust is a two way street. 45. Testimonials are everything. If they don’t have testimonials relating to daygame. But f-closing at night game enables them to keep the girl. That is really weak game. 46. People wants to think it is all their game and not LMS. Even though their LMS is the reason they need minimal game and take things for granted. 47. A dating coach who has less going for them. Are the paraeto principle. They select 20% of the things that gives their students 80% of the results. Never learn game from someone who is taller, strong and better looking than you with a higher natural advantage status. 48. If you have LMS you can get away with being natural. Your LMS vibes your value for you. However if you don’t have that, you have to adapt. You have to progressively escalate. 49. Love and accept yourself. Whatever you can change, change it. Whatever you can’t, accept it. 50. Work on one skill at a time. Do drills, not exercise every component at once. Or you because a jack of all trades, master of none.