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HOW DO THEY SUCKER YOU INTO THEIR BHENCHODCAMPS?

Forget a numbers game.

Forget romantic flirts.

Forget status maxing.

Those are all crutches for daygame.

In 2025, tariff stress and economic pressure exposed a lot of fake systems.

Only real skill survives.

Did you know most daygame coaches are only getting results because they are using crutches.

And once you take the crutch away, the student has nothing.

Just a numbers game.

I know it sounds crazy.

Because we are so used to hearing about a numbers game.

Mass approaching.

Direct game tactics.

And while you think that is important, I am going to share three crutches with you today.

This will revolutionize the way you understand why you are stuck in daygame.

Especially in 2025.

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So what is the real reason most guys stay stuck in daygame in 2025.

And soon to be 2026.

Even after doing hundreds or thousands of approaches.

It is surprising that other daygame coaches do not even have a single new daygame laid testimonial in 2025.

But they still teach bootcamps.

Or bhenchodecamps.

It is the three crutches other coaches rely on.

Crutch 1, the numbers game crutch

Mass approaching with direct game.

The big idea here is guys treat daygame like ads.

They think if they push enough volume through direct game, eventually a woman will say yes.

So they mass approach like zombies.

Using RSD direct mixed with Mystery Method tactics.

Before 2025, this looked like a fail safe for average guys.

They even had their little math.

Average height is about 5 foot 9.

So if you are 5 foot 8, you just do 200 extra approaches.

If you are 5 foot 7, you do 400 extra.

If you are 5 foot 6, you do 600 extra.

That is what they called the fail safe.

Assuming you have enough SMV to close.

But in 2025, women are more stressed.

Guys sound more depressed.

And if your SMV is not high enough, you can do ten thousand approaches and still get nothing.

That is why the numbers game turns into a delusion.

And the only way it still works is settling for women below your looks level and calling that a win.

This is important because in 2025, the numbers game stopped being a fail safe.

If your SMV is not high enough, you can do thousands of approaches and still get nothing.

And the funniest part is the coaches selling this still did not get anyone laid in 2025.

They are scamming you with bootcamps.

Crutch 2, the romantic flirts crutch

Forcing the boyfriend girlfriend frame.

Most guys in North America do not have the value for that frame.

Especially if you are short.

Especially if you are ethnic.

So you get stuck.

You get resistance.

Then the coach quietly adds the real crutch.

Alcohol.

Heavy bedroom escalation.

On the sales call they ask if you want to celebrate with alcohol after the bootcamp.

That is not romance.

That is logistics.

Because romantic flirts without the husband material frame.

Without fashion.

Without Arrow Science.

Maneuver.

Sexualize.

Objections looping.

It does not create the point of no return.

So they need alcohol to reduce resistance.

That is unethical.

And it collapses the second you try to do it sober.

This means romantic flirts do not work for most people without alcohol.

You do not fit the boyfriend girlfriend frame with low SMV.

And when the coach needs alcohol to close, it becomes an unethical bootcamp crutch.

Then it collapses the second you try to do it sober.

So you never build real skills at home.

Crutch 3, the status maxing crutch

Borrowing the coaches status and Instagram lifestyle.

Status maxing is borrowing the coaches lifestyle.

His parties.

His nightclub logistics.

His pre selection.

His Instagram.

So you get results because you are standing next to his status.

Not because you have skills.

Then the second you go home, the status disappears.

The pre selection disappears.

The results disappear.

Because it was never daygame.

It was a setup.

And even if you take your own nightclub photos later, you still do not have the same status as the coach.

So you cannot replicate it in real life without him.

This is key because status maxing is not daygame skill.

It is a setup.

It trains you to depend on external validation.

Pre selection.

Nightlife logistics.

Instead of learning how to create attraction in the real world.

Using real social skills.

Without crutches.

Now I know what you are thinking.

If these crutches are so common, what do I do instead.

How do I get results without being high status.

Without relying on alcohol.

Here is the truth.

A lot of guys got contaminated by bad bootcamp training.

And 2025 economic stress made women more stressed too.

So weak tactics and weak frames get rejected harder than ever.

And in 2025, no other daygame coach got students laid except me.

So I improved Elite Bundle Resurrections.

You can train the full John Elite system.

Get the drills.

Stop guessing what to do next.

I am John Elite.

Worlds best daygame coach.

I have more laid and pulled testimonials than any other daygame coach.

I have been teaching since 2012.

What I do is take what works in real life.

Cut out the fake crutches.

And turn it into drills you can execute.

So you build skills fast instead of collecting more theory.

So what I have done is packaged the full system into Elite Bundle Resurrections.

And updated it with the new John Elite Flywheel.

If you click the link in the description, you can get started immediately.

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I cannot wait to see you on the inside.

Have a great day.

-John Elite

P.S I am the only one who consistently got people laid this year for daygame and nobody gives a fuck. Acting poor and helpless, with a thumb up your rear…. Being a loser. Why be a loser, when you can learn to be a winner here?

For the Asian student from Asia, you can’t just quit in less than 2 weeks and replace the worst student of the year. I didn’t yell at you, but disagreeing with me that you didn’t like to sing through it, is identical to the other worst student of the year smear campainer. Stop being a bouncer with your delusions of what is right or wrong. Another student already adapted to it and is not getting as much rejections, its almost eliminated. Its not what you want or how you feel gatekeeping. Its what women responds to.

If it sounds stupid, but it works, its called smart.

If it sounds good, but doesn’t, its called stupid RSD and Mystery Method zombie cluster B and cluster C autistic bullshit.

They don’t set the standards if they can’t get people laid for the last few years during the inflation for daygame.

If you want to understand your personality disorders called Cluster B and Cluster C, why you are narcissistic, but avoidant and can’t make sense why you are not approaching even if you wanted to. Check out this rectangular thing for more clairty.

SHOCKING – Why Some Men Are Unteachable Cases for Daygame (PART 2) CAN’T MISS THIS VIDEO – TODAY!

Borderline plus ADHD plus alexithymia plus Asperger syndrome on top of cluster B and cluster C equals unteachable cases. John Elite

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Do not join if this is you.

Did you know that there is more than just cluster B and cluster C personality disorder for unteachable cases.

And in my John Elite teaching experience, the worst students always have other overlapping issues too.

I know it sounds crazy.

Because we are so used to hearing about a numbers game.

Mass approaching.

Tactics.

And being told you are enough.

But I am going to share four issues with you today that will change how you understand why you are stuck with daygame.

Because it goes beyond cluster B and cluster C.

In case you do not remember, lets get on the same page.

Cluster B means sociopath, narcissism, borderline personality disorder, histrionic personality disorder.

Cluster C means avoidant personality disorder.

When cluster B and cluster C stack together, that is what creates an unteachable case.

Now we are on the same page.

And the people with these traits almost always have the same overlapping issues every single time.

So what is borderline personality disorder.

ADHD.

Alexithymia.

And Asperger syndrome.

Overlapping with cluster B and cluster C traits.

And branching out for the unteachable cases.

The worst unteachable cases always have extra issues stacked on top of cluster B and cluster C.

And the worse the student is, the more of these traits stack together.

Normal pickup artists are usually more cluster B, not cluster C.

So they might have some of these traits.

But they do not have all of them like the worst students of the year.

And I John Elite have been seeing this pattern again recently.

Even on Christmas.

I emailed a student on Christmas because he rage quit so fast it was ridiculous.

Success leaves clues.

But failure leaves clues too.

You can be nice to one guy and he still quits.

Then another guy calls you the devil.

And it is not because you did anything.

It is self projection.

It is the same pattern.

Borderline.

Money problems.

Ego.

Avoidance.

Gatekeeping.

And then quitting.

Issue 1 borderline personality disorder

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The big idea here is borderline personality gets you triggered fast.

So you quit right away.

Mood swings.

Meltdowns.

Rejection feels personal.

After two or three rejections, you quit daygame for good.

Then cluster B grandiose narcissism stacks on top.

So even neutral feedback feels like a personal attack.

You interpret my text and audio messages on WhatsApp for coaching as hostile, even if there is no evidence of it.

And it is all in your own borderline perception.

So you get massively butthurt.

You get moody.

And you interpret coaching as hostility.

This is important because borderline personality disorder makes you quit fast.

After three days of approaches, it feels like three strikes and you are out.

The rejection hurts so much you run away.

Then cluster C avoidance kicks in.

So you disappear instead of building reps for resilience.

And this is why some guys can never survive the early phase.

They need early victories.

If they do not get early victories, they quit because it is not fun.

My system is not fun.

My John Elite system is effective.

Issue 2 ADHD mixed with cluster C avoidant personality disorder

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The main thing to understand here is ADHD plus cluster C is a total disaster.

Homework gets skipped.

Days get skipped.

Habits need consistency.

It takes 30 days in a row to build a habit.

If you skip more than two days, your brain does not assimilate the drills.

So you show up every three or four days and you forget.

Then no habits get built.

So you fall back on mass approaching and tactics, which reinforces bad habits.

Then depression starts creeping in.

And with alexithymia, you do not even notice it.

You just walk around with a massive frown.

Then tariffs and stress add more cortisol.

So you spend money as retail therapy to reduce your depression.

Now you are broke.

Now you are in five figure debt.

Then you get more delusional and start half assing everything.

Then you start acting like the gatekeeper deciding what is the truth or not.

Like you have a mental bouncer guarding the door to a nightclub in your mind.

Treating opinions like facts.

While dismissing my advice like a stupid zombie.

This is where you see the dumbest behavior.

I told one student to go into Zara to buy clothes.

He refused to even walk inside.

His reason was there was no exact shirt and pants combination

He thought I said it needed to be a shirt and pants

Good thing he is reading this post, I can see his country.

So he did not even try.

That is not logic.

That is avoidance pretending to be logic.

Then I John Elite told him I need a specific watch.

He spent his money on something else and said it is similar.

No.

It looked nothing a like

He said it himself, 40% similar if its side by side.

That is gatekeeping.

I remember that Italian student who was in New York who got laid with my system for streetgame

He was so sure it was the pants until I said it wasn’t vertical pockets

Its too baggy that is has a crotch armor look, like a diaper.

That is opinions as facts.

That is a one track mind.

And it is always the same type of guy.

They think they are the gatekeeper of truth.

They believe whatever they believe is correct.

Just like Reddit guys believe whatever Reddit says is correct.

Just like Mystery Method and RSD guys believe tactics are reality.

They are not.

Then you get the other stupid stuff.

You say, I do not want to sing through my speech, even though it fixes your depressed tonality and shitty voice.

Then you say, I do not want a haircut, but you look like Shaggy from Scooby Doo.

And the funniest part is the guy who rage quit did not even get the haircut yet.

He quit before even doing the obvious basics.

Then you say, I do not want supplements because I am scared of side effects.

Then you melt down.

Then you smear campaign me when you never tried supplements in your entire life.

Defaming me because you are a vegetarian.

Creating a false narrative.

Then you stonewall.

Then you stop replying, even when I am trying to help.

And another pattern.

They skip the Mindset playlist.

They skip Mindset playlist part two.

Then they wonder why they cannot regulate their emotions.

Then they quit.

Then they blame.

And this is why I say failure leaves clues.

Because the clues are always there.

And it is not just the Asian student.

I have Latino students with the same memory wipe problem.

Marco is so ADHD he cannot remember what to do.

He comes back the next day and it is like nothing stuck.

That is why they cannot improve homework.

Because if memory gets wiped out, you cannot change.

You cannot refine.

You cannot stack reps.

And then money problems make it worse.

A lot of guys end up in debt.

Four figures.

Five figures.

They spend money to feel better.

Then they panic.

Then they disappear.

Then they become avoidant.

Then they become delusional.

And if Asperger syndrome is on top of that, you might be good at one narrow focused job.

Engineering.

Some logical job.

Maybe a specialized job like a magician.

But building a second skill like daygame becomes brutal because consistency is not there.

This means ADHD robs your self esteem.

It makes you delusional.

It makes you half ass the drills.

You make bad decisions.

Then you quit and stonewall.

So you never get the reps that build real daygame skills.

Then you blame me even though you ran away.

That is cluster C.

Avoidant personality disorder.

And cluster B stacks on top.

And here is the leadership piece.

I John Elite started thinking about students like A players, B players, C players, and D players.

A players get laid.

They have grit.

They listen.

They do homework.

They show up.

They do it even if it sounds stupid.

They like results.

B players do a little.

They are just a body.

They half ass everything.

C players are the bottlenecks.

They could get laid before.

Then money problems show up.

Five figure debt.

They stop showing up.

D players are quitters.

Smear campaigners.

Losers.

And the scary part is D players always think they are A players.

That is the delusion.

Issue 3 alexithymia

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Alexithymia means emotional blindness.

Unteachable cases will say they cannot hear their own mistakes in the audio homework they send me.

They sound angry.

They sound depressed.

But they think I am gaslighting them.

On top of that, their delusion stacks on top.

So you also get ego defense distortion.

That is where the unconscious mind misinterprets reality to protect the ego and maintain a positive self image.

Mix ego defense distortion with alexithymia and emotions become invisible.

Sure, a higher SMV guy with this problem might still get girlfriends from Tinder.

Maybe even some lays from night game.

But daygame will destroy you if you do not have high SMV.

Every stonewalling unteachable case student I have had has this issue.

They cannot understand womens feelings.

When they hear their daygame infields, they cannot hear any emotion.

Then they say they have been like this their whole life and everything was fine.

It was not fine for daygame.

On average, the unteachable cases have alexithymia.

This is key because if you cannot hear your own anger or depression, or your sighing at the end of your sentence, women get turned off.

And if you cannot interpret it, you will say I am gaslighting.

Then you cannot improve because you cannot perceive the problem.

And this is why stonewallers are so dangerous.

Stonewalling is not just silence.

It is a personality move.

It is a control move.

It is a shutdown move.

They cannot handle stress.

So they run away.

They stonewall.

Then they come back later and act like nothing happened.

Or they disappear forever.

And almost all stonewallers are unteachable cases.

Every single one.

Issue 4 Asperger syndrome

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A lot of the unteachable cases with Asperger syndrome have it the worst.

Asperger syndrome is high functioning autism.

It is not as severe as classic autism.

Most of these guys have a technical job.

Engineer.

Accountant.

Something specialized.

They have a narrow focus.

So all their neural pathways get built for one skill.

They can get world class at that one thing.

But it comes at the expense of everything else.

So building a second skill like daygame becomes brutal.

Now mix Asperger syndrome with ADHD.

Cortisol goes up.

Focus goes down.

Then the brain starts shutting down on step two.

Anything with multiple steps breaks them.

Step one is fine.

Step two is shaky.

Step three, they crash.

You see it in their drills.

A simple sequence still gets messed up.

Breathe in for 4 seconds.

Hold for 16 seconds.

Breathe out for 8 seconds.

Do this 10 times and it still comes back wrong.

Not because they are lazy.

Because the second and third step overloads them.

That is why Asperger syndrome becomes a curse when it stacks with cluster B and cluster C.

This is key because most unteachable cases are engineers or have specialized logical jobs.

Learning multiple skills is hard for them.

So they quit.

They stonewall.

Sometimes they smear campaign.

Even if the coaching is perfect, the student still has to be coachable.

Responsibility still matters.

And I have seen this with a student who joined recently.

He looked like one of my better students.

Almost the same face.

But he got overwhelmed.

He was diagnosed with borderline.

So he needed a break.

I moved him to Inner Circle temporarily.

Then I will move him back later.

I did not yell at him.

I did not attack him.

But training was tough because he kept failing assignments.

And when you keep failing without early wins, you quit.

That is the pattern.

Now I John Elite know what you are thinking.

You are not an unteachable case.

You just need to make more approaches.

Well, the tricky thing is inflation and tariffs are affecting your state of mind.

Pair cluster B and cluster C with these other traits and it becomes a disaster.

Quitting happens fast.

So do not join my training if this sounds like you.

Get lost.

Now that you understand the extra layers.

Borderline.

ADHD.

Alexithymia.

Asperger syndrome.

Lets connect it back to the last video.

The last video was about cluster B mixed with cluster C and why that combo creates unteachable cases.

This video is just the expansion.

The stuff that always stacks on top.

If I ever get more unteachable cases, I would send this video to them and make them watch it for reference.

This could use a few more views. It was a new unreleased one. I hope it doesn’t get ignored.

-John Elite

P.S, I know you are tired of hearing about this cluster B and cluster C topic. I wanted to make this video as the first video and be done with it. But I figured, if I didn’t peel the onion and introduced it pieces… then you will forget and you would not get it. Now I can get this information out there… I finally can. I only will make one more video on it and move on to grittier topics. A topic that doesn’t get a lot of likes. People are allergic to grit.

UPDATED THOUGHTS…

• I always have updated thoughts after I write the article. So I am going to write some more updated thoughts.
• My Indian student can’t wait to learn more and keep asking me for advice, which is great. The Asian guy takes days off and gatekeeps and quits. Now I can’t name the half latino the worst student of the year.
• I found if you treat them too nice and they fail their homework assignnment. They will feel embarssed you tried so hard because you don’t want to seem mean for your reputation. They rather quit to not burden me, than actually do it.
• Tough love, like a gang leader, or an army drill sargent or general, they don’t quit. They stay and they submit their massive ego. Every time I get smeared campaigned, I be extra nice. I am literally taking the victory out of the students hand.
• People believe you can be nice to zombies and be an encouraging coach and make it work. But like militiaries for example, they don’t fight wars by being woke and being nice.
• They wll say they don’t want to be in your John Elite Daygame army. But in reality, they aren’t here to learn.
• You never give refunds because they can walk into 10 daygame coaching and demand a refund, if they are unteachable case bad students. That is not right. At some point they have to take responsibility they are cluster B and cluster C and delusional.
• The Indian student doesn’t gatekeep, syaing this is the way to do it. They don’t feel comfortable with it, like supplements or haircut or even the way they speak. Even if they were rejected for it in 2025. These people lacks a growth mindset, which means they lack resilience for grit.
• Poor people who are in debt, I alway think are cluster B and cluster C. If you can’t manage your money you have severe ADHD. You are going to fail. Unless you are financially stable, you would be stressed out.
• The student with 20 lays got laid off, from a biotech maybe the most famous one in the wor.d I won’t say what company, maybe vacinnes related. The jewish student. He was less stressed as he gave the middle finger to life and travelled and kept getting laid country to country with my coaching. It could explain why his stress level or cortisol wasn’t as bad.
• A students are good students. B students are just there, they can get laid sometimes, other times not. C students are bottlenecks, who are good but doesn’t fit in with the culture and lazy. D students are the defective ones, unteachable cases. Who does the opposite and are cowards.
• I always said I would make a contract, maybe I should make one for unteachable cases, they can’t act weak and quit in a short time. Otherwise there will be some conquences for it . These procrastinating super busy overly occupied people with no time management severe ADHD borderline types who are delusional, experts in their own mind.
• I real.y shouldn’t call them zombies, but I can’t think of a better word. Lots of students are zombies, but some rots more than others faster.
• This system isn’t a numbers game zombie half assed mass approaching game. This is a rehearsal adapting the skills, assuming you have a memory and the cortisol didn’t shrink your hippocampus. If I was wrong, why did no other daygame coaches except me get students laid? how is that statistically posisble? because I know what i’m talking about. They took advantage of you for bootcamps utilizing the numbers game or crutches.
• How do you live with yourselves being such losers? Why is the training not attracting tough gritty men? But weak losers with money problems.