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“So-Called “Direct Game” That Are Causing You to GET rejected more in 2024?

I know I talked about this topic before… but I can’t get it out of my mind because it is coming up a lot lately.

People that are PUA’s or pickup artist are getting curb stomped to the ground doing direct game now.

Not sure if they have enough pain to change their situation or not.

THE PROBLEM IS DIRECT GAME NO LONGER WORKS IN 2024 FOR MOST PEOPLE IN A FIRST WORLD COUNTRY. JUST A BIT THIRD WORLD COUNTRIES

They can’t adapt and change to skills

They need it long and painful and as much mental trauma as possible.

They are stubborn people without a growth mindset.

IT WAS HARD FOR HIM TO SWITCH FROM TACTICS TO SKILLS WHEN I TAUGHT HIM. WE ARGUED IF HE SHOULD USE EXISTING HIGH VALUE HARDCASE STUFF. OR HE SHOULD SCRAP EVERYTHING AND START OVER. WELL HE STARTED ALL OVER AND ADAPTED TO MY SYSTEM GETTING STUNNER AFTER STUNNER IN 2024 OTHER DAYGAME STUDENTS FROM OTHER DATING COACHES CAN’T GET, OR EVEN THE COACHES

HE WENT THROUGH SO MUCH MENTAL TRAUMA WITH DIRECT GAME AND BANGING 4/10 BEFORE. NOW HE IS BANGING 9/10.

CONTINUING THE HIGH-VALUE HARDCASE DILEMMA

You see, there’s this huge misconception out there… that just because something worked once, or maybe a few times, it’ll keep working forever.

People cling to that, right?

They hang on to their past success as if it’s a guarantee for the future.

But what they don’t understand is that the world keeps changing…

Especially in the dating world.

What worked before doesn’t always work now.

THE HARSH TRUTH ABOUT THE GAME IN 2024

I’ve been saying it over and over… we’re living in different times now.

Inflation. Elections. Stress everywhere.

Women are feeling it too.

They’re on edge, and they’re not as receptive to those old tactics from the past.

You could mass approach all day back in 2017, maybe throw a compliment here or there… and sure, some women would bite.

But now?

Now, you throw out a direct compliment and they’re immediately suspicious. They’ve seen it all before.

They’ve got more options, and they’re being more selective.

And it’s not just about looks anymore.

Guys think being tall or good-looking will save them…

But we’re seeing that those things don’t have the same power in 2024 that they once did.

Women aren’t falling for surface-level stuff as much. It’s like they’ve wised up, especially in first-world countries.

THE COST OF MASS APPROACHING

You might ask… what’s the harm in just going out there and approaching a hundred women?

What’s the problem with playing the numbers game?

Well, here’s the thing… it’s not just about the sheer number of approaches.

It’s about what happens to your brain when you keep getting rejected over and over.

Especially if you’re not doing it right.

You’re not building skills… you’re just hoping that one out of a hundred might say yes.

That’s not sustainable.

And even when you do get that “yes,” it’s usually not from the kind of woman you want.

You see, a lot of these guys who’ve racked up high lay counts through mass approaching?

They’re not proud of who they’ve been with.

They’re just chasing numbers, not quality.

And that takes a toll on your psyche.

THE MENTAL TRAUMA OF MASS APPROACHING

You ever wonder why so many of these high-value hardcases are walking around with their heads hung low?

It’s not just because they’ve been rejected… it’s because they’ve been rejected over and over, and they’re not learning from it.

They’re not adjusting.

They’re just slamming their heads against the same wall, hoping it’ll break.

But instead of the wall breaking… it’s them that ends up broken.

And that’s where the mental trauma comes in.

These guys… they’ve built their egos around their lay counts, around their past success.

But when that success dries up, when they hit a rough patch, they don’t know how to cope.

It’s devastating for them.

They’re used to getting some level of success just by showing up… just by being tall, or being white, or having some looks.

But when that doesn’t work anymore, they’re lost.

They don’t know what to do.

WHY DIRECT GAME FAILS IN TODAY’S WORLD

Here’s another truth that’s hard to swallow.

Direct game… it’s not as powerful as it once was.

Back in the day, you could just approach a girl with a compliment, make her feel special, and things would roll from there.

But now?

Women are more guarded.

They’re more cautious.

You approach them directly, and they’re immediately on high alert.

They’re wondering what your angle is… what you’re trying to get from them.

And with everything going on in the world, they’re just not as open to it anymore.

So if you’re still relying on direct game, thinking it’s your golden ticket, you’re in for a rude awakening.

THE PSYCHOLOGICAL SHIFT

Now, let me get into the psychology behind all of this.

High-value hardcases… they’ve got something that’s hard to break.

It’s their ego.

They’ve had some success before, and that success becomes part of their identity.

They think, “Well, I’ve gotten laid before, so I must be doing something right.”

But here’s the truth… that past success might’ve been a fluke.

Maybe it was luck. Maybe it was timing. Maybe it was just the fact that they were taller than most guys.

But now, when the game changes and those old tricks don’t work anymore, their ego can’t handle it.

They resist change.

They don’t want to admit that they need to learn new skills… that they need to unlearn the things that got them by in the past.

And that’s the hardest thing for them to accept.

BUILDING REAL SKILLS

So what’s the solution?

It’s not about mass approaching. It’s not about direct game. It’s not even about your looks.

It’s about building real, lasting skills.

Skills that will carry you through, no matter what.

And I’m not just talking about social skills… though that’s a big part of it.

I’m talking about emotional intelligence.

Being able to read a situation, read her body language, and adjust on the fly.

Knowing when to push and when to pull back.

Understanding the dynamics of attraction… not just spouting lines and hoping they stick.

THE FUTURE OF DAYGAME IN 2024

Here’s the thing… the game is always evolving.

And if you’re not evolving with it, you’re going to get left behind.

You can’t rely on old tactics forever.

If you want to keep succeeding, especially in this new world we’re living in, you’ve got to build real skills.

You’ve got to adapt.

And if you’re not willing to put in the work… if you’re not willing to change… then you’re going to stay stuck.

You’ll keep grinding through mass approaches, keep getting rejected, and keep wondering why things aren’t working.

THE SOLUTION IS ELITE BUNDLE 2

Look, I get it.

Change is hard.

But if you want to succeed in 2024, you’ve got to invest in yourself.

You’ve got to learn real skills.

And that’s where the Elite Bundle 2 comes in.

It’s designed to teach you everything you need to know about succeeding in today’s dating world.

From social skills to emotional intelligence to body language… it’s all there.

And if you can’t afford the Elite 60 system, this is your next best option.

So stop wasting time. Stop clinging to the past.

Start building the skills that will take you to the next level.

Because in 2024, it’s not about tactics. It’s not about height or looks.

It’s about real, genuine skills.

And if you don’t have those, you’re not going to make it.

That’s the reality.

Dating is already hard enough, but Gen Z is super depressed

Let’s discuss the dark side of Gen Z and loneliness no one talks about

I’ve been thinking a lot about this recently… Why are all my Gen Z students so damn depressed?

And the thing is, it’s not just a couple of them here and there…

it’s like every single one of them that I talk to.

I’m talking about guys from 18 to 27, right in that Gen Z age group, and they’re all telling me the same thing…

They don’t feel good about their lives, they don’t feel confident in themselves,

and worst of all… they don’t know what the hell to do about it.

Let me tell you exactly why this is happening.

DUE TO THE LOCKDOWNS, MY GEN Z STUDENTS HAVE NO SOCIAL SKILLS

This is a huge part of it.

We’re looking at a generation of guys who, thanks to the pandemic lockdowns, missed out on key years of social development.

Think about that for a second…

At a time in your life when you’re supposed to be out there meeting people, flirting, developing your social skills, making mistakes and learning from them…

these guys were stuck inside. For years.

I can’t tell you how many of them have admitted that they’re either still virgins…

or they’ve only ever had sex with women they paid for.

I’m not judging, but let’s be real. How can you develop any kind of natural confidence, any kind of social intuition, if your only sexual experiences were transactional?

You’re not learning the skills that lead to real success with women.

And now we’ve got the data to back it up.

Did you know that 63% of men are single now? That’s over half. That’s not normal. That’s not the way it’s supposed to be.

And if I had to put my finger on why it’s happening, I’d point to one big event… the lockdowns.

It’s like the whole damn generation had their social skills development put on hold.

And now they don’t know how to act.

They don’t know how to talk to women, don’t know how to flirt, don’t know how to handle rejection, don’t know how to carry themselves in a social environment.

They only know how to rizz it up, whatever the fuck that means…

So what do they do?

They sit around, they get depressed, and they keep falling deeper into this pit because they’ve never learned how to handle real social situations.

THEIR LIVES ARE A MESS, AND THE INFLATION IS MAKING IT WORSE

That’s another big piece of it.

We’re living in a time where inflation is through the roof, and people are struggling financially, mentally, and emotionally.

And it’s hitting my Gen Z students hard.

You see, this is where the concept of the “winner and loser effect” comes into play.

When you keep winning, you get more testosterone. Your body rewards you. You start feeling good about yourself.

But when you keep losing… cortisol spikes.

Now, imagine being a Gen Z guy who’s been losing ever since the lockdowns.

No job prospects, no social life, no success with women… just taking Loss after Loss

Total fucking losers

What happens? You either become rail-thin from all that stress,

or you go the other way… you get fat, unhealthy, develop a double chin, and start spiraling into self-pity.

It’s a vicious cycle. When you’re stressed, you lose.

When you lose, you get more stressed. And it just keeps going.

And when they don’t know how to regulate their emotions,

they end up spending all their money on things that give them that temporary relief…

shopping, eating, drinking, scrolling social media, playing video games.

It’s like they’re trying to self-medicate, but it’s not working.

THEY NEED A SOLUTION… AND FAST

Look, I’m not here just to point out problems.

You know me, I’m all about solutions.

I can get virgins laid

Even if some will ignore my advice completely due to low self esteem and the 4 traits of low self esteem

So what can these guys do?

THEY NEED TO FIX KEY AREAS OF THEIR LIVES

First of all, they need to address their depression head-on.

And I’m not just talking about supplements here. Yeah, supplements can help if your depression is mild, but for some of these guys? Their depression is so deep that they need real, professional help. They need actual anti-depressants.

Look, I’m all for natural remedies, but I’m not going to sit here and pretend that some over-the-counter supplement is going to solve the kind of deep-seated depression a lot of these guys are dealing with.

It’s like trying to put a Band-Aid on a gunshot wound. It’s not going to work.

They need to be on something strong enough to balance out their brain chemistry so they can start learning and functioning properly again.

ADHD AND SELF-ESTEEM: THE ROOT OF THEIR STRUGGLES

Now, let’s talk about ADHD.

It’s no coincidence that a lot of my Gen Z students are dealing with ADHD. And the thing is, ADHD isn’t just about not being able to focus.

When you have ADHD and you’re not good at anything… you feel like crap.

That’s the reality for a lot of these guys. They’ve got nothing going for them, so their self-esteem is in the gutter, and their ego is artificially inflated to protect them from that reality.

If you only have one thing you’re good at—or worse, nothing at all—how can you expect to feel good about yourself?

Self-esteem comes from competency. It comes from being good at multiple things, not just one. But these guys? They don’t have that.

THEY NEED TO DO THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT THEY’VE BEEN DOING

Let me break this down for you.

If you’re a Gen Z guy and you’re angry, you need to do the opposite.

Instead of letting that anger out and scaring women away, you need to learn how to stay calm around them. Pretend you’re not angry, even if you are. You’d be surprised how much of a difference that makes.

If you’re anxious, it’s the same thing. You need to find a way to bring that anxiety down. Whether it’s through supplements, meditation, whatever—find something that works for you.

And the way you speak… oh man, don’t even get me started on that.

A lot of these guys are so nervous that they talk too fast. They rush through their words, they don’t give the woman a chance to process what they’re saying, and it makes them come off as weird.

You need to slow down.

Calm down.

And for god’s sake, stop simping.

Stop putting women on a pedestal. Stop acting like you owe them something just for talking to you. That kind of behavior repels women. It doesn’t attract them.

DUE TO THE INFLATION, MODERN WOMEN HAVE CHANGED. WITH ENDLESS OPTIONS AND MEN LACKING SOCIAL SKILLS, NOW THEY EITHER GO WITH OLDER MEN, OR IGNORE GEN Z

Let’s talk about the real impact inflation has had, not just on Gen Z men, but on the women in today’s society too.

Inflation has changed everything. I’m not talking just about money… I’m talking about social dynamics. Relationships. Dating. And how women have shifted their preferences due to this whole mess.

A lot of modern women have become hyper-selective…

And why wouldn’t they? With endless options at their fingertips through dating apps, social media, and whatever else, they’re flooded with attention every single day.

But here’s the thing… they’re not going for Gen Z guys anymore.

No, no. These women are either going for older men who already have established careers and money…

or they’re just ignoring the younger guys altogether.

If you have no social skills, then women have endless options on Tinder, well that is a recipie for disaster

Don’t let other dating coaches make you feel down.

It isn’t because of instagram and Tinder, this was around for 10 years or more now

It was mainly the impacted social skills that affected you guys, not the Tinder or Instagram.

GEN Z HAIR PUTS THEM IN A NEGATIVE STEREOTYPE CATEGORY

Gen Z has this thing with the hair… You know what I’m talking about.

The mushroom floppy hair that’s become so common in their generation.

Now, I’m not saying looks are everything, but this kind of hairstyle doesn’t do them any favors.

It puts them into a negative stereotype right off the bat.

Think about it… What do women associate that look with? Immaturity. Lack of ambition. Maybe even laziness.

It’s like they’re sabotaging themselves without even realizing it.

The other people who dress in this poor fashion are Indians with curly hair, bhenchoding flanel shirts and stupid sneakers.

They are the Gen Z prototype, but living in Brampton, joking.

It’s no wonder they’re getting ignored in favor of older men who, on the surface, just seem more put together.

MODERN WOMEN HAVE BECOME MORE NARCISSISTIC, JUST LIKE A “DAYGAME ZOMBIE”

Another thing I’ve noticed… Modern women have become more narcissistic.

And listen, I’m not saying this to put women down. I am not red pilled on any level

I believe that this is psychology and men are missing social skills of the blue pill before.

It’s just the truth. They’ve developed identical traits to what I call a “daygame zombie.”

You know the type… low self-esteem, delusional, walking around in a bubble where they think they deserve the world but aren’t willing to work for it.

Some of you will call it Karens, which is stemmed from narcissistic personality disorder.

It’s like you see these videos online of women hitting the wall. They’re 30 or older, and their options are drying up.

But instead of self-reflection, they’re stuck in delusion.

This is not some bullshit I am making up

When narcisissm is high, self esteem is low

Both genders will have zombie traits.

What do they do?

They half-ass everything. They swipe on Tinder, thinking Prince Charming is just one more swipe away.

They take the wrong path, the sociopath path, using men for validation and ego boosts until it all falls apart in 4 months.

Also lots of women are more educated then men now

They become so picky saying they won’t want a man unless he has all of these things

University degree, six pack abs, 6’0 tall, has a good career, a house etc.

Even if they might not bring the same to the table.

Remember, red pill can make you mad so this isn’t red pill

I say the best solution is to elevate and evolve

Women has always been like this since the beginning of time

It is why we lived for so many generations.

Until now.

And after that? Once they hit 30, and they start seeing fewer matches…

they start acting like Karens.

Complaining about everything and everyone, but still doing nothing to change their situation on tik tok.

Eventually, they just quit dating altogether.

They give up and sit around, hoping someone will approach them, but here’s the problem…

men aren’t approaching anymore.

If they don’t approach on Tinder, they won’t approach in real life.

Thats why they want men to approach in real life because their matches are less.

They’ve stopped trying.

MEN TURNED TO THE MGTOW MOVEMENT

So what are men doing now?

A lot of them have turned to the MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) movement.

They’re focusing on themselves. And you know what? In some ways, I get it. They’ve been hurt, they’ve been rejected, they’re frustrated… so they decide to focus on self-improvement, making money, and going it alone. They’ve said, “Screw relationships, screw dating… I’m out.”

But here’s the thing…

This mentality will only lead to one thing… population collapse.

When men check out of the dating game altogether, when they stop pursuing women, society starts to fall apart.

There’s no one getting married, no one having kids, no one building families anymore. And without families… well, society as we know it is screwed.

This “men going their own way” trend?

It’s not sustainable in the long run.

Sure, it might feel like a solution in the short term for these guys,

but if this continues, we’re headed for societal collapse.

And women aren’t the only ones to blame.

THE SOLUTION IS ELITE 60: EMOTIONAL MASTERY SYSTEM

Now, I’m not just going to tell you all this without offering a solution.

That’s where Elite 60 comes in.

I developed the Elite 60: Emotional Mastery System specifically for guys like this, for the high-functioning hard cases.

Guys with a bit of value, but they’re just so stressed out and so messed up emotionally that they can’t handle a more intense program like Kaizen.

Elite 60 is like the army reserve of daygame training. It’s more relaxed, more empathetic, but still gives you the skills you need to succeed.

Empathy is key.

These Gen Z guys?

They’ve got feelings, sure. But they don’t have empathy.

They don’t understand the emotional landscape of the women they’re talking to, and that’s killing them.

They are too depressed to understand

And tactics? Yeah, tactics aren’t going to save you.

You can learn all the DHV stories and sexualizing tactics you want, but if you’re not in the right headspace… if you don’t have the emotional control being totally depressed, you’re not going to succeed.

You need to be able to adapt, to read the situation, to know when to move in and when to back off.

That’s what Elite 60 teaches you.

And listen, I’m not just saying this for the hell of it.

My students are proof that this works.

Even in 2023, 2024, when other daygame coaches are struggling to get their students laid, my guys are out there getting laid during the inflation

Not just some 2021 and before shit bootcamp documentaries which shows their game has expired long ago.

My students installed the habits. They’ve put in the work. They’ve learned to control their emotions.

Habits, not tactics.

All you have to do is follow the system, and you’ll see the results.